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Make him use him grandpapa name go collect US visa, ode! His grandpa was one of the architects of Nigeria's problem today

The bank that gave him the money should be investigated. They must have been trailed!

He is very right! Wizkid is not that popular, even in London. Only Africans, British Africans and few white British that mixed with Africans know him. Don't forget blacks are a minority in UK and US

Who wants to read this epistle?

Very brilliant move! If anyone wants to buy goods or services in Zimbabwe, they would have to buy Zimbabwe Dollars. I pray CBN would do the same.

Building estates with zero drainage system. Nigeria! Smh

Nonsense

One thing people don't know is that Iranians are seating on a huge crude oil deposit. Which America has been eyeing for decades. Iranian oil fields is still the world's most under explored due to US sanctions. America is slowly luring them into a trap. Check Iraq. All this things about nuclear weapons is rubbish. It's all about crude oil. Chevron, Texaco, Halliburton etc, are all waiting to pounce, once us troops step foot on Iranian soil

Very nice

Great!

She might have std. Visit your nearest hospital and get her and yourself tested

Bro, opportunity come but once. If it's me, I will propose to her the following week and start marriage plans. She's very nice! No Nigerian woman will do such!

She's young and beautiful and she has a lot to offer you. I remember when I was studying in England, I met this Romanian chick, she would disagree with me when it comes to paying the bills on dates as she wanted us to split the bills,

being an African man, I told where am from men pay the bills. She would tell me she wants to settle down with me, and couldn't wait for us to visit her parents in Romania. This was back in 2010, she was good looking, I was in my early twenties and wasn't ready to settle down as marriage freaked me out, I thought I was too young (African man mentality), and also to the thought of not marrying an ibo girl.

So my judgment got the best of me. I dumped her and moved on. I have since returned back to Nigeria. I can tell you straight! I am regretting it till this day.

A lot of Africans pay over 6,000 pounds to get arranged marriage for resident permit. I got mine on platter of gold and flipped it.

Bro, there are a lot things you would gain from her. Free world class education for your children, Italian (EU) passport to travel the world without visa, free health care for your entire family! Beautiful mixed race children and many more

Since I have been in Nigeria, I have been in few relationships, met nice beautiful but really broke ass Nigerian babes, with nothing to offer but sex.

Am currently planning my second trip. I know my wife is somewhere in Europe!

It's a shame that someone who owns a betting company is in the house reps. Nigeria.... smh

With ronaldo's trophies with 4 different clubs and country still doesn't measure up smh. And messi's list isn't complete, he won U20 world Cup with Argentina in 2005 or is that not a football career trophy??

Degenerate gambler who knows how much he has lost congrat!

Anthony Joshua na scam. Na fat plump beat am smh. No be by muscle last last. Another one bites the dust. Made everyone loose their money, punk! Get well soon bro!

Liverpool needs to score another goal to cover their first goal shame (penalty), if not, the world will have no memory of this champions league final

Football is turning into WWE. How on earth is that handball. Referee refused to see VAR replay.

Where is th lie in what she said? We are Africans and we will always be Africans. By the way, which man "collects money from his girlfriend to pay her own bride price" then demand absolute respect and submission from her.

What makes you a man if you can't provide for your family?

Only a lazy man would disagree with her statement.

obc:
Kindly, help a soul before late.

My Story:

I paid a guy 3.2million since 2017 to supply me Zinc Ore but he defaulted . I have since reported the matter to his father, village king, and town union president, yet no result. I visited his house sometime last year and after much noise, he signed an agreement before his lawyer and my own lawyer to pay effective April last year, but reneged again.

His village king as well as his lawyer have since lost interest in the matter. They advised that having exhausted all peaceful means of recovering the fund; I am at liberty to explore other options since the guy refused to oblige.

I don't want to arrest him with the police in his state of residence because I know he can easily riddle his way out. Considering our judicial system, I think going to court would prolong the case.

A friend suggested that since I live in Lagos and him at the East, the best option will be using EFCC, Special Fraud Unit or Force CID to arrest him (debtor) after obtaining approval from IG's office which seems to be expensive. I visited SFU Ikoyi and was told that the petition to IG will cost me 60,000 to 100,000 while mobilization for the officers that will go for his arrest amounts to 250,000.

The above fund put together is almost 400,000 naira or more, which I don't have at the moment. I have since put my car for sale to pursue this case.

I have lost a lot in the course of traveling for this debt. I lost my job last year because I couldn't continue servicing the loan I took from First Bank and my place of work as well.

My wife is now the pillar of the family. The situation around me is so pathetic.

Please I need suggestions and anyone that can assist me pursue this case. I have print out of all the payment made to him(debtor), signed agreement by him and other documents.

Please help a brother.

I will appreciate if the moderators can help me push this post to front page. I am totally devastated with no hope at sight.

OP, do you know anyone in the military? Take your case to a military personnel. Have them pay that guy a visit. The fear of soldiers is the beginning of wisdom. Just promise to pay them some part of the 3.2m. They will get the job done fast!

If that guy does like 20 frog jumps back to back, he will quickly run to the bank.

Something similar happened to me last year, I tracked the man down with 2 military guys, he owed me 200k and stalled me for 8months until I tracked him down with 2 military personnel. He has since paid me 150k remaining 50k. Mine was just 200k..... imagine 3.2m! Them go slap him mama, him papa, him wife, even him pet dog go chop slap!

But Nigeria is not an Islamic country. What a waste of resources. We are facing bigger problems at home. Smh

Rapist!

How I wish we knew how much this his meaningless trips cost. Am sure his not paying from his pocket. Sad!

Davido " banana fall on you" lol

Adviseasister:
Good evening Nairalanders,

I had to create a new moniker for this, but I believe my guy will know this is for him.

Sometime last year I received a PM from a nlder. After going through his posts, I was pleased and we started talking. One thing led to another and we started a relationship. I must confess he is everything a woman wants in a man, he brought out this part of me I never knew existed and he did it so easily. We started seeing a future, I was happy.

Fast forward to February this year, I noticed a decline in communication. I complained and he blamed it on work. It continued and I had to ask what the problem is, he maintained it was work.

By March, things got worse and I have not been able to concentrate at work. I send him voice-notes and he responds hours later. I send messages and he responds with one word. I must also add he doesn't pick my calls at night anymore, but his NL profile would be seen online, though he won't comment.

I do not know what to do as I can't bring myself to love someone else as I love him. It is a long distance relationship and I do not know what to do. Is it possible he is facing challenges there and doesn't want to share?

Should I wait for him to come around or move on? Has anyone been in this situation before, how did you manage it? I feel so heartbroken.

He is no longer interested in the relationship and doesn't know how to tell you. Get ready to move on

ShyWhale:
My reservations about moving to the UK

- I hate being at the mercy of others. Going to the UK on a spousal permit means losing my German residency and I'll be at her mercy. As should anything go wrong with the relationship , I'll have to leave the UK.

- Getting a professional job. It doesn't make sense to go to the UK and continue to be trapped in menial jobs. I have been there and I hardly see Nigerians in professional jobs except those with rich parents. Someone should advice me on that as it could not be a real reflection.


My Reservations about Nigeria


- High rate of startup failure
- Difficulty in getting loans to expand. I have heard they can ask for even your neck in those times. With a lack of collateral, more difficult.


For those asking about my course, Yes it's a STEM degree.

Bro, everything you said about uk and Germany is 100% correct, I studied in the UK. Blacks hardly get professional jobs in the uk, especially black Africans without red passport. But you have a choice between Germany and uk. Nigeria is not an option for now if you havent acquired a german passport. How good is you knowledge of German language (reading and writing)?

There are opportunities in Nigeria in terms of professional jobs if you come back, but then again, it's good to have an escape plan if your job search does not work in your favor.

About the UK girl, there is no need marrying her as we all know how it would end, as you don't fancy her.

If you don't have a german passport yet, I would suggest you stay put, fast and pray, God will surely answer, bless you with your dream job in germany.

Nobodyperson:
I know someone who can help you.
He stays in Lagos but he has different branches.
He can hire you as a gay stripper to work for him.
If you're serious, You can earn as much as 20k a week.
This is his number +234 813 731 5257

LMFAO!

Can I see your picture?

People who constantly travel via airplane don't know the kind of grace God gives them. It's always important to pray before and after each flight. Flights these days is like one way ticket

If only he can rule Nigeria for 4 years. I have so much respect for him

No one mentioned exercise. Jog at least 4 times a week, Eat food reach in fibre like oatmeal, vegetables. Get well soon

Discuss with your boyfriend about him being too serious. You would start seeing the unfunny side of this new guy, once he shines your congo