₦airaland Forum

emmayayodeji:
Am i dreaming?

Yes, you are dreaming.
You cannot buy dollar at less than 360 and if you are unlucky to use some
banks card, they charge up to 380/$.

Afican-American?
Probably her third child from the third baby daddy and she needs more child support.
People should stop criticising hard working women when they are looking for clients.

Lies.
Teach him a lesson because?
She broke her heart, beat her up or stole her phone?
This narrator must take us for fools.

freeze001:
Sometimes you don't need to appear 'correct' and tag some needless qualifier just to show you are not in 'full support' of a person or cause. What is the justification of attacking the person of FFK by calling him lunatic? You agree with his write up as spot on, that should do or don't you think so?

You don''t need a justification to call a spade a spade.
FFK is a raving lunatic even if he does say some obvious truth sometimes.

OP using fake news to disparage lagos state government why not convert your blog to full political site.

Pipedreams:
Please women learn to control your tongue. Not all men can take insults, manipulation, lies and disgrace. My ex wife annoyed me to the extent that i gave her a hot slap. I have never laid my hands on a woman in my whole life. I am a peaceful and perfect gentle man people admire but I didn't know what pushed me. She continued in her troublesome ways..insulting, disgracing me and demeaning me in all possible ways in front of friends and her people. I just woke up one morning and took a long walk....packed my things, just clothes and left the marriage for good. I am not a rehabilitation specialist for the mentally challenged all in the name of marriage. I deserve a good life!! Please flee from narcissistic and toxic relationships before the devil use you like this story!!

Any woman living with you is a living dead, you are not different from this murderer just that your abuse
have not led to death yet. SMH

MissRaine69:
Name 5

I cannot help you do your research. Google and Bing are your friend.

brownhawk:
she barely has value in term of brain or self worth

WhoBeThisMan:
but it's ok to marry a rich man even though you are a poor girl. Smh. Whats ur value in that case? Just to bear children and eat and have sex. That can be gotten even better from a baby mama

Don't be hypocrites. Which of you will want to marry a lady with equal brainpower?
I bet your egos will distance you from such ladies. Most of you prefer the dumb and beautiful type
but pretend otherwise.

MissRaine69:
An assumption or statistics are available?
What about the traditional marriages that end with out going to a court of law? And these happen all over the country

He is right on the northern divorce rate. There are many studies to that effect.

chigoizie7:
U are correct bro.


But I also know about women who are wealthy and with good jobs and they are married.

The thing is , not all successful and financially capable women are good people or good in marriage , some of them, their characters is nothing to write home about. Now u don't expect a man to marry someone who is not family oriented , someone who doesn't care other people, some one who is rude and full of herself simply because she is successful and financially ok?


Same thing applies to men. U see a man who has a very good job, or a successful businessman. But they are the worst husbands, they don't care about their wives and kids. Some even beat up their wives for no just cause, some are real womanizers, drinks and late night keepers. Maybe because they can afford such life styles. But that doesn't make them good men for marriage.

The only different here is that men are not entirely moved by a woman's wealth or success to marry her, what a man who is capable and mature enough to marry looks out in a woman he wants to marry is character, someone he can spend the rest of his life with , with less trouble or wahala.

Unlike women, who thinks and believes that any man who is successful can take care of her in marriage, but they forgot that being successful is different from being caring.

So, in marriage, men and women look out for two different things. But women refused to understand that being successful is different from being a wife material.

You make me laugh. Being jobless has nothing to do with good character.
You are either a good person or a bad one. If you know what some men with
full housewives go through on a daily basis, you will change your mindset.

The only time I see men raise the issue of "liability" is when they want to
mock women in general, it was never borne out of preference for working women
save for few cases. The same men having "arrived" will start looking for a dependable(always available)
wife.

Let me share this anecdote, few years after graduating, the most predictive feature for
determining which of my female class mates were married is how fast they got employed.
With the jobless dominating the married list and this has nothing to do with character
as I know some of them personally.

Daviddson:
The AID treatment business is a conspiracy just like the cancer business industry where the American medical cabal have made sure that no tentative cure is found to keep their yearly multi billion dollars chemotherapy business afloat.

You need your head examined.

Lonestar124:
Broke ladies always saying I will not marry a poor man....very funny

In this advanced age where they're so many hardworking and potential ladies out there, i dont think a successful man his wisdom will marry lady that will become commodity or liability to him

Our ladies should pls wise-up and employ themselves in something productive and stop hallucinating.

Not true. There are many men out there who don't want to marry a working lady, in fact some prefer housewives as it is the case
with most northerners. Some don't have a problem with working wives provided she is into an informal job.
From my experience, jobless ladies get married faster than working ones.

Fukafuka:
... THIS GUY GO SUCK BREAST NO BE SMALL ! TILL E GO GROW FAT

I thought you were deaf and dumb.

Jayceon:
Judge Judy is one of the best female judges in the world even though she can be irritating at times,she does her job very well and I like the fact that she doesn't have that "I deserve it all because I got a pu*sy" mentality we find in feminazis

Brainwashed mofo, who is a feminazi?
What does "I deserve all" mean?
I have never seen a woman claim she deserve anything for free, but we know how insecure
men think they deserve respect because they are men.

Nigeriadondie1:
Shehu Sani is part of that elite. He should not come here to act as if he is a saint. He has now found his voice cos 2019 is coming? Useless hypocritical senator like Ben Bruce. Don’t complain. U re in government and part of government so u too share the blame. As a lawmaker u are at a vantage position to enact laws to effect the much needed changes. Show us what u ve done with the milllions u get as constituency allowance?

You need political education, lawmaker do not enact law. A law can only be enacted by lawmakers.
Again what is the connection between condemning herdsmen killings and constituency project?

monisexy:
I wish God can speak to me too

Change your username and he will start speaking to you.

Amarabae:
Ambode, Ifeanyi ugwuanyi lost twin.
They got separated when they were running during the civil war .

You don't believe your own post going by the attached pic.

maclatunji:
And what is the result of the new UK law?

No one is disputing the result of the UK law, they are helping Nigeria enforce its tax law,
so the UK deserve praise, not the Nigerian government.

duni04:
Oga try to read before typing. VAIDS is an initiative of the Ministry of Finance to help tax defaulters regularise their income and declare income and taxes that correspond to their assets. Someone that owns a house in the UK worth 1million pounds cannot be paying income tax of 20,000 naira in Nigeria. There will be information sharing between the UK government and the Finance ministry so that anyone who declares income tax of N20,000 in Nigeria will not have the audacity to go and buy a house in the UK when he knows the Ministry of Finance in Nigeria would have told the UK authorities that you obviously have no legitimate means of livelihood, judging by your tax returns, to support that asset. The UK government can then go ahead and seize the property.

I think you need the understanding. Some people who have not been paying tax are being
forced to declare their asset by a new law created by the UK and you want to credit VAIDS.
What will happen to citizens of other countries who don't have VAIDS, will they apply for Nigerian citizenship
so that VAIDS can save them

VAIDS or no VAIDS, the UK law stands and anybody who don't want to lose their property must find
a way to prove their income. You should praise the UK government for doing the enforcement job of
Nigeria's tax agency.

duni04:
So it is a requirement of the new UK legislation that you place a phone call to the VAIDS office and your property is safe?

No it is a requirement of the UK law that you prove your source of health.

Oga pls read and understand. You cannot own property in the UK without any legal traceable source of income.

No, you can own property in the UK without traceable source of income, if you can't , the new law is unnecessary,
though it will be more difficult to keep such properties now that the law is in place.

VAIDS is a framework apart from the UK legislation that allows tax defaulters to regularise their taxes and get waivers from the FG. Since the Tax database of the FIRS is now open to the UK authorities, anyone that is not captured in our database or that understates his income in our database and then goes to buy property in the UK will risk losing it. So anyone in that situation will want to go to the VAIDS office and give his correct income statement in order to justify ownership of the UK property. This will lead to massive increase in tax revenues for the FG. VAIDS is a laudable program from the Ministry of Finance.

You don't need all this long grammar. Will anyone use VAIDS if they are not mandated to? No.

So who deserves credit, the creator of VAIDS or the one mandating some people to use it?
If there was no VAIDS will all Nigerians lose their properties in the UK? No, they will use
whatever tax option is available.

duni04:
Oga try to read before typing. VAIDS is an initiative of the Ministry of Finance to help tax defaulters regularise their income and declare income and taxes that correspond to their assets. Someone that owns a house in the UK worth 1million pounds cannot be paying income tax of 20,000 naira in Nigeria. There will be information sharing between the UK government and the Finance ministry so that anyone who declares income tax of N20,000 in Nigeria will not have the audacity to go and buy a house in the UK when he knows the Ministry of Finance in Nigeria would have told the UK authorities that you obviously have no legitimate means of livelihood, judging by your tax returns, to support that asset. The UK government can then go ahead and seize the property.

VAIDS has nothing to do with the UK law, those contacting VAIDS are doing so to satisfy the requirement
for the UK property laws. They don't give a damn about VAIDS. Citizens of other countries would also need
the help of their countries tax agency. So you should credit the UK government for helping Nigeria to enforce
its tax laws and not the other way round.

maclatunji:
Yet, some people impoverished by these thieving elite will want to remove the government that is ensuring this kind of landmark reforms thereby allowing looting to resume unabated.

It will not happen I hope. Godwilling, President Buhari will be granted the health, long life and ability to see through these fundamental reforms.

The UK government made new anti-money laundering law which is targeted at all foreigners but you had
to credit Buhari for the initiative, SMH.

Mup4life:
Absolutely wrong, most of our parents, grand parents married within the ages of 15 to 18 and their marriage lasted decades, celebrating their silver and golden jubilee together.

The major problem with marriages today is FINANCE even at age 30 many guys are not finacially strong enough to cater for themselves and a family and hence women suffer.

Never compare yourself with your parents, there are hundreds of things you do today that
your parents didn't engage in. The best way to enjoy life is by adapting to the realities of the
day and not being stuck to the past.

LordBaelish:
Reason why I used that analogy is because you don't want someone who's just "settling" for you. because if her spec comes, bye bye.

The idea of people being young and immature is just a generalisation. Maturity comes from exposure and life experiences

The bold comes with age, any lady under 25 that have had so much experience as a 30 year old
lady can also be said to be "settling" for you.

At the end of the day, everybody(male and female) "settle" for their partner.
I have friends who end up marrying ladies that didn't match their "specs" because they
life taught them a lesson that compromise is a must.

If you examine yourself and compare which lady you will choose to be in a relationship with
if the world were perfect and you can choose whichever lady you like
and the one you are dating or married to you will realise that she didn't meet all your specs.

Olalekan92:
are u 4kin telling some1 like me single not to marry early like 27 and marry like 35 and wen am celebrating 50 yrs my 1st born will be celebrating 15 and @ age d of 60 to 70 one will still be working hard to spouse other children. See thinking ehn

Reread my post and edit your post. This thread is about marriage, you don't need marriage to have kids.

LordBaelish:
When do you want to buy someone like Ronaldo?

at 25 when in prime but chased by everyone or by 33 at the twilight of the career?

Marriage is not football, if it is, Ronaldo would have gone through many divorce. If your plan is to
get married and divorce multiple times in your lifetime go ahead and marry an 18 year old lady but
if you want to build a stable home, stay away from immature girls.

wristbangle:
It looks sour but it's the bitter truth. That being said, not all ladies above 30 years of age lived a promiscuous like during their teenage or youth period.

I just pity some guys who thinks, the younger the better. Most ladies below 27 arenot fit for
marriage because they are still "exploring". They give nothing but drama.

rxmusa:
Kaduna is the best state for me! Personally

BUHARI: BUHARI:: BUHARI:::

Personally I see Buhari as the best of ALL the politicians due to his personal integrity and incorruptible character. He has achieved a lot like developing agriculture as a main source of revenue See how much TSA FIR CUSTOMS are generating as never before . The defeat of B/haram IPOB and suppression of SS militants are highly commendable despite the occasional bombins. The war on corruption has EXPOSED corruption at the level we didn’t imagine e.g. Supreme Court Judges. Money recovered from corruption may not be easily accessible due to legal procedures and Buhari is a born democrat The modest achievements in transportation and PHCN will blossom during his 2nd term . His successors may neglect the achievements as Nigerian leaders normally do. Hence the necessity for his 2nd term. Admittedly even his kitchen Cabinet members may be corrupt but its not with any tacit support of Buhari who has refused to bribe NASS

I see you have just received your BMC allowance.

Jiang:
which kind wahala be dis nau, this same fulani people pass through our farms in the north east, even if one of their cows accidentally enters your farm, they will stay & apologizes or even pay compensation. I wonder how you guys for south they always kill each other with them.

R.I.P to the dead, & I hope the people in the area will vacate before the reprisal arrive

Stop lying, Fulanis don't apologize to no man because they believe they are superior, even when
the police intervene they still refuse to pay farmer's the agreed compensation.

Sapiosexuality:
Fulani Lives matter too.

The Fulani Herdsmen have had their cattle killed, their families killed, but because they’ve gone unpunished with so many atrocities, a death of a herdsman has become good music to our soul.

We are gradually becoming the monsters we loathe. We don’t care about the stories that affect them anymore. Were they attacked? How many were killed?

What really happened that took the lives of those Fulani in Mambila ? We don’t care. That is one fruit of injustice our government allowed to grow.

http://www.mortalpoet.com/who-is-sympathetic-to-fulani-herdsmen/

Reason with your head, whatever happens to an invader is of his/her own doing.
I and other sane people don't care about whatever happen to robbers, murderers and cultists
because they are the aggressors. When last have you seen anyone who is sane protesting against
the "atrocities" being meted out to Isis or Boko haram?
Tell your Fulani brothers to keep off other people's properties and the problem is solved and also
tell them that human lives are more important than cattle's.

Ha!