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Personally, i dont believe in an online relationship
But i believe in meeting online
Dont ever make the mistake of dating someone online wen u have not seen him/her
Pictures are deceitful, see one on one and knw that he/she is ur kind of person

There is no two way, tell him the truth
i dnt believe in beating around the bush
just try and use the right words

Revenge for wat?
There is no point
well today is my ex-birthday he did me wrong but i wish him well
I guess some things are mearnt to happen
Just learn from it and move on

Naturally stingy guys disgust me, am not a demanding girl infact i love bein independent but they should knw the right thing to do at the right time

U just met him, give him time, read him
may be he is putting u into some tricky test on how u will react
but if he his STINGY my sister RUN,

chaircover:
A 37 year old man won't take you home because his mother wont approve of you & he won't spend any money on you but wants yours.

Sure he isnt married?

Pls confirm this,

forget him

SHOOLAH:
@poster,

Look for him on face book. i am sure u'will find him.

Thanks, i have tried facebook
Just pray i see him soon

what exactly is ur problem

what is ur problem

What a question

beckky45:
@ charmine tanx.  i knw is bad bt am talking abt the feelings nw,4 nw cant help out
only God.i really want this to stop b4 my wedding. bt recently everything as reduce we av nt av any date 4 this month cos i dont really want to, he nt disturbing likewise to. bt we avnt call it quit.bt talk on phone regularly.

It sounds so clear dat u are finding it hard to quit cos u are enjoying it
Pls wake up from this fantasy and face the reality
Stay away from him and avoid him in everyway

@ i laugh pls relax,
@ Poster, i quite agree with some of i laugh post
U said u are not married, dnt u knw if u cannot keep urself for ur fiance u will definitely do the same wen u get married
This issue is answered already, u cant marry him and he cant marry u, tell me wat are u doing with him
Feelings grow because we allow it, u cud avoid it from the start
The best thing to do, stay away from the guy end the ungodly relationship and ask for giviness from God and ur fiance
i wish u can do that! all the best and please let us do good cos we all knw wen we are doing something wrong.

I dnt get, U have a guy, u in love with another guy who his in a relationship
So wat do u want him to do, leave his girlfriend for u
How will u feel if u are in the girl's shoe
and again u in a relationship for three years and u dnt knw wat u want from him at late 20s
My dear, it is time u seat down and ask urself many questions

Having crush is not a big deal, it happens even to married ones
but control urself and tell God to give u urs not snatching plsss

lance_vader:
Aint a joker.am in abj.gve mi ur adres.in sum min u find mi@your door step

y me:
am already in abuja,so where you at.aint kidding

jokers@yahoo.co.uk

@lance and yme
u guys are real jokers

lance_vader:
Charmin.i dae abj na.kan u kal.mi .let mi .kum nd mit u. In ya rum.

my room!!! naaaaa

y me:
really okay am coming to make is hot and lively

U!!!!

its like it is turning to disease to be single,

from ur name jujufada sounds scary
But are u in abuja, if yes may be i can help

This Charmin, am just wondering
Abuja looks dry with boring guys around

Define your relationship
It is very important
Please dnt assume, dnt try to read his mind.

Ask him wat exactly he wants from you
In a dearing tone
You not getting younger and u dnt need a playing relationship at this time

All the best

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Not necessarily true[/color]

U rite!
That was y i said he sud watch her closely

Wise sayings are like 85% true just like "if u walk with a dog u will chop shit"
Trully they are not always correct

There is this adage that says 'show me ur friends and i will tell u who u are'

Friends have a way of influencing

Watch her closely before u make ur decisions

am out

ohhhh am sorry

u have ur cousin

romade:
eiya sorry sum1 will soon look for ur tribe


gud luck

so wat about u, may be am waiting for u

romade:
char u neva ready abi

but am not igbo so i knw qualify

where is pat?

let me help her

ok edu

Get talking with him on relationship issues
His kind of girl, if u qualify
If he is in relationship, gives u a little hope if he is not

He is a shy guy meanin there is 40% chance that he will ask u out
If he is in a relationship there is 20% chance that he will ask u out
If u are not his kind of girl there is 10% chance that he will ask u out
If u are his kind of girl and he his not in a relationship there is 75% chances that he will ask u out

But till then be extremely close to him
I knw this might be hard for u to do, looking into his eyes sometimes it speaks more than words
and sence his reactions at all times when u are together.

And ask urself these questions
How much time does he spend with u?
Is he free with u?
How often does he call or text?

And please dnt force yourself on him let it flow
all the best

na wa o

cousin-cousin

@ Sistawoman, U gifted
everybody look forward to wat u have to write
U really a matured woman and experienced not like most babies in here

Are u telling me that all this u said ur husband does
Tot u guys dnt have time,

IF U ARE PROUD OF WAT U HAVE U WILL
AND U WILL BE MORE PROUD OF WAT U HAVE WEN U ARE "IN LOVE"