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BEAUTY IS VAIN!!!!!
but a woman that feareth the lord she shall be praised

Only if everybody is given the opportunity of creating themselves,mennnn i will look like Halle berry
no one will be ugly in this world
@ebila am not dissin anybody as u call it
i just see no reason flauntin urself in nairaland of all places
the guys are not nice, they will throw words with no pity

@Poster, i guess u made a mistake yabbin the guys here!

SoAmazing!:
@poster, seems you don't understand the meaning of beauty and being cute.A thorough diagnosis of your face suggests you need a nasal and lips transplant.Your nose is a big turn off, looks so odd, outta place and unappealing!

hanhan! is too much now,
But i guess without make up she will look more horrible _{i did that not say again}

geolabious:
[size=13pt]Rubbish Thread
@Poster
Am very sure u arn't the one in the pics

TO ur question

Have you check seun's profile[/size]

U dnt like the thread cos she is talkin about u

The poster is just there, to me she is not fine like that, she just kept herself clean
so wat are we talkin about, she has a point MOST OF U GUYS ARE UGLY YULK  _{i did not say that}

I tot i am the only one that tot that too
The problem is some people dnt knw the meaning of cute,handsome guy
Some guys are HORIBLE, fine they knw try and they are not helping matter they are rough as well yulk
Trully beauty is in the eyes of the beholder

Guys even if u knw fine abeg be CLEAN and NEAT
It will cover up for the wowo i guess
But come to think of it, the ugly ones are the most reliable, na wa oooo

For me, i can t marry an ugly guy cos i dnt want my children to look like their father
But am not looking for over handsome guy too, cos most of them are full of them selves
I want a very presentable guy
So to the ugly ones try and cover up, provided shrek is not more handsome than u are

wavemasta:
Please abeg, don't spoil this womans marriage. You are advising her to do this behind him? When yawa gas, you wont be there to help her.
@Poster: Theres nothing wrong in building a house. But your house should be with your hubby and family. Tell him you just want to invest in real estate or something, and that you aren't planning on getting a divorce. I have issues with the whole 'controlling your salary' thing, but each marriage is unique I guess,
Good luck!

Bros! who says i want to spoil someones marriage
Some MEN are not worth calling husband, they dnt want the success of their wives
IF she has such husband then she go by my advice, but IF he is trully understanding then let him understand and pasuade him more
there is absolutely nothing like doing things together, but with some BEAST nahhhh

This is one of the reasons why some women dont tell their husbands things like this
LAND/HOUSE is the best investment, it increase and does not depreciate
My sister, the way ur husband sounds makes me think he does not want u to have one and he will not support u
If there is a way for u to do it at his back then try and tell him thereafter (if u want to)
I knw of a woman that was in ur shoe and later on the husband was mean to her, u wnt believe that the house she had was her only support now
There is nothing wrong in having ur house, not to live there but to invest in ur childrens future
Pls be SMART

Distance has done alot of damage to relationships, been engaged is not enough
I feel you get married first, well it depends IF u are not broke to a fault
Then please discuss it with your wife to be
all the best and u knw wat there is a blessing that comes after marriage, i tell u, you will be amaze

@ poster
Are u still asking how to end this ungodly relationship
@ this hour
Please tell us u have ended it now
With due respect this thread is CLOSED before we here she is pregnant for me

[quote author=klassyguy link=topic=272014.msg3866644#msg3866644 date=1242303500

Sweetheart, nobody is beefing Dbanj here. He has worked hard, he has his money and he cann spend it as he dims fit. It's only the way some of u ladyfolk would be falling over themselves for the top position that pisses off most pple here. Even if the guy no wan do with any of the babes(which i seriously doubt anyway), i'm super-sure some of them will stoop so low and go behind camera to offer themselves to him. All because of this famed money nd a car. nd being his "cumpanion" like wavemasta said. Some ladies can be gullible.[/quote] My head is swelling, is as if nobody as call me that for a while that is sweet
To be frank, i admire the D'banj but i trully dnt understand this reality show and that is why am waiting to see wat koko mansion is all about and i hope is not immitating PLAYBOY MANSION. For the girls going i think is their choice and i knw no decent girl will want to go for any reason not even with the topic of the show KOKO MANSION

londonbwoi:
How do would you describe love and how do you know you really love someone and it is not infatuation. I'm 17 and this is something thats been on my mind for a while, as i just realised that all the times i felt i was in love it was just infatuation. And do you think it is possible to fall in love when you're a teenager. I dont think so cuz of my experiences

Then face your studies lol
This thread is common and always asked by teenagers
my advice be free and friendly with open mind LOVE will come at the right time

sleekdoc:
lol, i dont think any1 is beefing him, they'r jus wondering about the kind of girls the show will attract. This thread is about the potential contestants ( the girls) and not dbanj. Why wld any be jealous, i'm sure there are people on this forum that make 10 times what he does without having to be lousy on tv, lol. He's an entertainer so let him entertain us anyhow he's inspired to. Like i said before, its the girls we are talkin about.
You sound like a true fan, bet u have ur form already

Yeah yeah i am a big time fan
I am not TV person, i dnt go for such competition
my fingers are crossed and cant wait to knw wat the show is all about

@Poster
it is obvious u cant do it
@ topic
Yes it is sure possible only IF they dont have the mind of taking their friendship further
not even after people believe ur best friend will be the best spouse

What is all this 'beef' about D'banj
All of u are just jealous
He has the brain and he will have fun and make his money
He knws wat his doing
So PLEASE keep ya opinions to urself especially the bad ones
Fi'le dnt touch it, i mean dnt touch him

Someone said he his a sex freak, that he will soon start having babies like tuface
But u have not heard of any and u will wait forever,
He is just a normal guy like u, please drop all charges against him, abeggg!!!

Please Speak in ENGLISH!!!!!

nice to knw,

Life is a challenge
Nothing good comes that easy. i believe it is normal to face some hardship in relationship
At this point u sud knw wat u want, two diff. people coming together to be one is not a day job
If u think things are not working and u want to walk out, the same thing might repeat itself in another relationship
Try and relax, u need to understand urself and dnt let ur moms experience get to u
The only advice i will give u is to rely on God, it is well,

Do u knw wat i think?

i think u are a good narrator and u will be a good writer

But please be faithful in everything u do,

spikedcylinder:
[b]Lebanese vegetarians, [/b]those are the people to avoid. They will eat you alive.

who are those?

I used to have something against before
but i have one as a friend and he is cool and responsible
i think it depends on individual they are humans too
but i dnt think i can marry them oooo

@ spike,
why the laugh!!!!
just said my mind
the things that do take money in wedding
is the hall and food/drinks

Cos he still have to takia of the wife needs VERY IMPORTANT from head to toe wat she will wear is on him
so guys go and button up to marry no be small thing

With guest of 150 in number,
and a white wedding not just traditional
it is not possible, except,
u will use ur compound for the reception,
ur mom as the caterer,
no alcohol and no juice but more of pure water and zobo
and may be ur uncle is the owner of the rental shop

So go for a low key wedding and i guess u will be fine

I really feel your pain! I dont knw why some people are saying is not a big deal

[quote author=peyton link=topic=269341.msg3833756#msg3833756 date=1241682943][/quote]i  am scared to tell  my husband to be becos my fiance and dammys husband are from both parent ,  i cant just imagine what will happen if they get to know that same guy slept with thier wife

he will feel betrayed this this might lead to break up which i would not want to happen becos we have already done our introduction

I dont knw how long u guys dated? and wen did u get to knw that ur ex slept with ur freind
Normal he will feel betrayed, but better now than wen u guys are married
Dnt hide anything from him if u want to be happy and have happy family
that is mine own first rule DNT HIDE ANYTHING PLSS
it is obvious ur concience is killing u now, wat will now happen wen u get married

please nairaland this is so difficult for me becos my conscience is really hitting me when i remember that both of us ( me and dammy ) are getting married to the same family


Check out this senerio, having a small get together and someone invited the jide guy and the both ladies are there, they will never feel comfortable
and we are in a small world wat if one way or the other the husbands get to be friend with jide in future wat happens
It will take time b4 u look at ur friend without thinking of it
But ur friend is to be blame for all this, she introduced u guys na wa ooo
PLS TELL UR HUSBAND TO BE AND U WILL HAVE A CLEAR MIND

This is SEX with the two iyawos(wives), the same guy
it is a diff. thing if u dnt knw but u knw
if ur husband really LOVE u then he sud forgive and move on and u will have rest of mind

i really wish u well and all the best,

I was confuse with your post at first, not until i went tru it
most of us make this mistake
fiance - is used for the guy while
fiancee - is used for the lady

@poster, wat kind of wife to be do u have and wat kind of sister do u have?

seebaba:
charminme,you talk no get truth inside

i said[b] MOST[/b],
u knw why cos they believe they have  it all
and even some of them, girls come around them even if they dnt want to
so my guy it is true, most of u guys that are cute (if u are anyway, cos mine own def. of cute is really A CUTE GUY) are PLAYERS, i will say it over and over.

What a long pathetic story
I dnt knw may be this girl charm u, or may be u think u dnt deserve the girl and u want to marry her by force
Marriage is not something u just go in just like that,
It was clearly written that she is using u and u keep falling, she is not a wife material
I guess God is on ur side, he did not want u to make the BIGGEST MISTAKE of ur life
Just relax and pray to God for ur bone and flesh that which will not give u headache

Ur believe really matters! if u dnt believe in true love then it will not come to u
But first believe in the first love which is God then u will see,feel true love

Most of them are PLAYERS!

How long have u guys broken up?
wat caused the break up?
was the fault from u or hers?
is she in a relationship?

U cant foce people to fall in love with u
u are in a relationship, i will advice u to let go
but u knw wat if u guys are mearnt to be
fate will bring u back together but dnt force it,

Do i have any JULY 1ST in here,

ABUJA, u can come in for DINNER

Just be urself
Dnt make it a priority
and approach a girl cos u want her and not that u just want a girl
so be urself and dnt try to be someone else

MARIAGE! MARRIAGE!! MARRIAGE!!!

To some it is HELL and to some it is HEAVEN
Some people endure their marriage instead of enjoying their marriage
The stories we do hear about marriage do not encourage we singles to go into it sometimes
But irrespective of bad stories, there are still good ones
and i knw mine will fall under the good ones

U knw y?
Cos am going to be the best wife and mother
am going to make my husband happy always, i will love him, respect him, honour him, adore him,keep him, make him,encourage him,protect him
Wat really makes marriage interesting his when u guys are compatible,u friends,u play,u laugh,u trully in love and above all u knw God
For marrriage to work it takes the two partner
So from my side it will work, just pray to have the BEST partner

To the married ones!
show love everyday in different ways to ur spouse,dnt hurt eachothers feelings
be romantic and loving
be urself and dnt be someone else to impress
i believe marriage is sweet
there are definitely ups and downs but with God it will work out
Pls pray together it helps