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IGBO amaka.

No bi by grammar, Nigeria was a country.

I'm waiting for sb to say 'amotekun has come to stay.'

You people haven't answered the question: is Amotekun a Cheetah or a Leopard?

I bet this government will ignore this constructive criticism.

Following..

Freestainworld:
I know it happens but its wrong, no trust exist in most of those cases.

All right.

FatherBona:
You have the right to your spouse's phone.
Its up to you to exercise that right or not.
Again, in today's world, there is no way you will go through someone's phone, email or chats without finding a skeleton in a closet. If you lucky, you will find amorous messages with someone else, probably someone of the same sex . If you not, you will discover proof of shady dealings, something he or she will not be so quick to open up to you.

My opinion? What you don't know will not kill you. Leave your partner's phone alone. What you don't know will not kill you. From the moment your curiosity gets the better of you and you go through the phone and find something incriminating, say proof of an affair with someone else, the curiosity eats into you and turns you into a detective or an investigator. From this moment, it becomes a railroad that always ends two ways, the relationship crashes or either of the partner gets stabbed( just ask Bilyaminu bello).

Who's Bello?

Lamanii22:
Never will I check my man's phone... Can't give myself unnecessary heart attack....

Lol.

Freestainworld:
privacy with your life time partner, unless they are just sexual colleagues.

It happens in many homes, bro.

Some females may see this act as dishonesty. Dominque and Lalasticlala, what do you think?

Some males may see this act as dishonesty. Dominque and Lalasticlala, what do you think?

Freestainworld:
your question is like asking if it is good for a woman to allow her husband to have sex with her. what will she be hiding?

There are different. There's this stereotype that the phone is more of privacy.

For wider audience, r231, Freiburger, do the needful.

Sequel to his for males: https://www.nairaland.com/5716038/should-man-hide-lock-phone
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Is it right for a woman to hide or lock her phone against her husband?

For wider audience, r231, Freiburger, do the needful.

Sequel to his for females:
https://www.nairaland.com/5716040/should-woman-hide-lock-phone#87122118
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A man in my very neighbourhood is always complaining about any slightest inquiry from his wife of names of (female) contacts in his dail logs, and he took a lock-screen lock-phone preventive measure.
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So far this is a regular palaver in marriage. I was wondering, is it right for a man to hide or lock his phone from his wife for any reasons? Give your opinions and reasons, please.

It's nutritious. But I don't buy the idea of you putting your lips on that spoon the baby also feeds from. You'll say 'I am the father,' so what?
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Why not buy another tin for yourself and, well..children?

Most ladies try to use the gentility of men for foolery esp. when you try to please them to the core.
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That is why even if you are so crazy about a lady, you should show just 3% of such love or it will get into her head and she'll be searching for a hard-to-get man, thereby playing you her husband hard-to-get.
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Try one out of these options:
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1. Play cheating by receiving (fake) calls in odd hours of the day. Act less interested in her. Do everything so she'll start feeling you no longer notice her.
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In fact, create an Adaeze figure and discuss her to your wife how you newly met her and how she helped you bla bla. Play coming home drunk for a while (don't actually drink).
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But you could make it real. Reject her meals with the option that you are okay. Don't wear a frown or solemn face; in fact smile.
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Still provide money for the family as usual but blur the husband figure there (not the fatherly figure, if you have kids).
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The idea is to make her jealous. She'll also start feeling you are seeing sb else, and get jealous. She'll start trying to kindle the relationship, but play cheating for a longer while (say a week more) even after she retraces her wrongs. If she's back to her senses, make the curtains close.

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2. Give rules. Do remember her that on any ground of sexual immorality, there will be an unforgiveable divorce.

So what's the significance of this imbecilic act?

Following..

So this man who was governor now handles a ministerial position?

Hmm

In a relationship, everyone is selfish.

Cool for students.

Love exists but it's lying down too as though dead.

I'm following this news real bad.

If it's your imaginations saying Coronavirus, your body will adapt to such imagination. Anyways, you can quarantine yourself and call your physician.

The political world controls everything.

Oops.

Kudos.