₦airaland Forum

yrhuhfy113:
WOW....

Your wife is not under a spell, and you did NOTHING wrong.

what is happening is called LIFE. People's mind change when they see a better life or better people.... what is popularly known as THE GRASS IS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE effect.

sadly they do not know that THE GRASS IS ONLY ACTUALLY GREENER WHERE IT IS WATERED. Your wife doesn't want to SUFFER with you anymore, she is wishing she was always in lagos so that she could have married someone better.... This is common when people migrate from sub-urban areas to metropolitan cities like lagos. kindly understand that its NORMAL... it is HUMAN NATURE.

I know it hurts and its not easy BUT you need to handle this matter with wisdom. Can you send someone to check on your wife's activities to be sure she is not cheating or over religious and some randy prophet is not confusing her?

Now once you have established that NO MAN is entertaining your wife... then you need to find areas in lagos according to your budget. There are places in lagos where you can pay monthly rent of between 7-11k . And there are places in lagos as high as 230k monthly... so you need not worry yourself... you can relocate to lagos based on your budget... also you need to check yourself spiritually, what could be the cause of your downward turn in business... check and solve it.

NEXT, you need to skill up sir, your current business may tie you down in the east if you do not expand your abilities mentally. THERE IS A MAJOR OPPORTUNITY SIR IN THIS ISSUE, the good news about it is that, it gives you room to reinvent yourself and grow. So don't let your wife and her mother mess up your mind sir, detach and work on yourself.... if you can learn soft skills using a laptop, it will help. If you can change your appearance and style physically, it can also help, YOU NEED TO PACKAGE YOURSELF PROGRESSIVELY.

YOU WILL COME OUT OF THIS SITUATIONS FAR BETTER SIR, but for now, for the sake of the children, this is the little wisdom you need sir to save your home. PLS VISIT LAGOS OFTEN... it is a sacrifice you will have to pay.... TRY TO MONITOR YOUR WIFE.... you can do this by cloning her whatsapp and reading all her chats or spying on her phone, so that from the east you can read all her messages, chats, get voice record of her phone calls....IT IS NECESSARY... these days, you can not just let your spouse go without some form of tracking or remote accountability .... else they will lie to your face and hurt you, then you will feel bad. So I hope these few points will help you know where to start from and what to do

sorry for the black African race their gradually creating the future problems

Miserable people doing their thing that is why the advance citizen called this people the citizen of shithole

kingsways:
The worst Governor in the country

only if you come from the state

Hhhhmmm can you imagine how the Nigerian citizen so religious but continued to live inside crime ---- this man shouldn't go anywhere unless we want to remain the citizen of shithole because people easily forget those who die during the cash scarcity

BRIMBRAM:
Why has nobody called it a sh!thole country because of this sad event.

really but their not Cockroach unlike here where citizen know the benefits of the good but their doing the bad, kindly know that no bad citizen can build great nation

Copy and paste story just to generate traffic

The Nigerian journalist with half story

Killed the sponsorship and rest

Jennyclay:
What makes you believe that getting married to a virgin would guarantee you peace of mind

Even you, are you a virgin?? You this cheap randy man!! If truly she’s everything you wanted in a lady, you won’t even reason her past.

Oga you’re a randy man!! You just want to have your way than dump her later. We know your type!! Shior!!!

do you know what it mean to keep virgin as majority of you exchange it for food and drink 😜

BOLATINUBU01:
WHAT A WELCOME DEVELOPMENT

In other news,

MURPHY AFOLABI IS DEAD

SO SAD😭😭😭 RIP LEGEND

you cannot be influencer through the spiritual lane your days become countdown

NaijaMutant:
Youth should shun crime.


Legit hustle gives you peace of mind.

oyinbo no get respect for hustle the meaning of hustle does not concern Nigerians

SpecialAdviser:
Someone that will be fighting to save his life every 3 months in London hospital will come to fight this

Your question is very funny

the choice you make become yours

Candidlady:
The principal and the teacher should be dealth with!

iam sure it is nat only that girl the devil of a teacher is/was molesting!

just watch how some clowns would come and blame the victim(innocent poor grl)


ever since imade up my mind never to have anything to do with this gender my life changed for the BEST

why poor citizen always add poor to their sentence because this so common in Nigeria

DrAda:
Impressive and at such a young age. Well done

Na so some prefer to be official olosho

SHIVA001:
This Kain babe na to Dey nack am after food and before food

your idea your limitation😜 only you remain in the bustop

Who are the Nigerian citizen and how does this people lived their live why religion and crime become equal in Nigeria can we survive this terrible practice that would later finish the Nigerian citizen years to come

Creamypie:
Seems most big men,women are into illicit drug

77%

the bargain is just sleepers and if you become influencers through the spiritual lane your days become countdown

Who's fault

When a stupid government is elected in a democratic country, the best thing about this is that you learn the number of stupid people in that country!

Rayban25:
It's not me you'll confuse with your gibberish writeup

Try and construct good English also.

at least you see the message BRITISH COLONY SLAVE WITH CORRECT ENGLISH

mmsen:
Africans are just human beings like others.

The rest of the world through xtianity in the garbage because it is nonsense. It's time for Africans to do the same.

the Nigerian citizen have no idea

wow what a comment of the year SO NIGERIANS NEED RELIGION HOUSE MORE THAN THE ADVANCE FACTORY AND GOOD ENVIRONMENT shame on you guys YOUR RELIGION VALUE DID NOT SUPPORT FAMILY PLANNING this foolish citizen keep on saying they can breed for god SEE HOW PEOPLE ELIMINATE THEIR SELF TO LIVE LONGER WITH ENJOYMENT BECAUSE WHAT WE HAVE IS NOT ENOUGH FOR THE POPULATION agbero everywhere kidnapping every corner hungry pregnant women every corner olosho is the job of the day to survive hardship of Nigerian citizen _____ IF COMMON SENSE CANNOT DO IT NOTHING WILL EVER DO IT

Rayban25:
Nlfpmod I think you guys need to be putting restrictions on Christian threads just like you do for muslims threads

Because at this stage it seems like you guys are just licking ass and allowing any non chrsistian to say rubbish on the threads

what is the religion value and the author of the scriptures the people of this part of the world keep mute because they have no idea of what their doing _____ god give law while the smart man build religion to locked people down

Menclothing:
What is your business with your friends goals and target live your life

Target without Jesus should not be followed

you mean the British Jesus ☺️ the religion is a things of man not god -- god give law while man give religion

because the Nigerian citizen mentally poor that is why they always add poor into their sentence

YOU SUPPOSED DO THIS BEFORE DINO MELAYE

dinachi:
Coming from the Same people that said religion does not matter.

YES of course the west have nothing to do with religion but they give us the religion to take our brains from us before locked us and throw the key to the ocean

Racoon:
These are the kind of injustice ethno-religious cleansing and supremacist sentiments breed in a nation that is unjustly skewed to favour some certain clique.

This poor girl, the RCCG evangelist killed by Muslim mobs in Kubwa and another Christian killed in Suleja among many who have lost their lives to fanatics. Yet no justice because the state shield them from facing the full wrath of the law.

the poor is an English language pls stop using it in your sentence THE BRITISH NEVER REGARDS ANYONE OF HER CITIZEN BEEN POOR BUT BLACK AFRICANS SEE THEIR SELF BEEN POOR 🤣

The number one enemy of man is religion FROM man NOT our might god give law's to Adam and Eve but the man betrayed god since then the children of Adam and Eve prefer religion than law

Bad citizen CANnot make the good nation

zeuss:
Ignorance........ It is a FORMULA....... Their is a spiritual dimension to all of humanity.

wetin be the spiritual dimensions THE BLACK AFRICANS WAS CREATE BY ERROR