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Romance › Re: My Experience With The Opposite Sex by Chidexter(op):
5naira:
then u might be a gay undecided
Nope, and i'm totally not in support of homosexuality
Romance › Re: My Experience With The Opposite Sex by Chidexter(op): 11:40pm On Jan 18, 2015
achinaboy:
for me the story was fun,because i had same experience
Cheers bro.... It was posted so peeps could learn a lesson or two, it happened to me, i just had to post it.
Romance › Re: My Experience With The Opposite Sex by Chidexter(op): 11:38pm On Jan 18, 2015
rubey:
This story seems long and boring...I didn't read it grin
plot twist: you actually read it.
Romance › Re: My Experience With The Opposite Sex by Chidexter(op): 11:38pm On Jan 18, 2015
achinaboy:
nice one,but is more coming?
Maybe, just chill
Romance › My Experience With The Opposite Sex by Chidexter(op): 10:55pm On Jan 18, 2015
I'm a bit confused,.

First, i received my first love letter when i was just 14yrs old, i was sitting outside when this young girl of about 9 came over to me and gave me a letter that had love symbols drawn on it.

I collected and was curious to read its content, then the first sentence was, chidi i'm in love with you, i've been feeling blah blah. I cant quite remember the rest.
It was a girl of about 16 that wrote the letter to me, her name was angel and i never knew she had these feelings for me. The only thing i know is that she mostly stares at me.
Due to the fact that i was naive back then and i never had anything like love feeling to the opposite sex, i cried and quickly handed the letter to my mom. immediately i gave her the letter her eyes grew wide and she qyickly reported the situation to the girls aunty and that day she was beaten severely. I felt bad but the deed had already been done.

since then the girl sometimes gets irritated whenever she sees me, and the whole love thing just evaporates, now it was hate!. Pure hatred because i broke her heart.

During that period i was in ss1, by ss2, at school i always notice a particular girl eyeing me(sorry for that word) sometimes our gaze will meet and we'll quickly look elsewhere, i know she had a thing for me and i for her, but i never summoned courage to approach her, maybe because i never wanted to in the first instance. I was a brilliant student(not trying to praise myself, i was made the head boy of the school. ), am not the most handsome boy you'll ever meet, and i have a small stature back then but sometimes some girls just have that special feeling for me, why? I cant tell. Is it cos i'm brilliant,quiet or what?.
Sometimes during break a girl in ss1 would be pestering me playfully, she doent act that way to some boys,somehow i found a way to always ignore her...

A yr later, i was now in ss3, i've never had a girlfriend and wasnt planning on having one, some boys in my school started calling me names like jew man, e.t.c.
Then came the time to write waec, some students from other schools joined us and gradually we the older students began to acquaint with them, there was this girl like that dark, a bit taller than me, obviously beautiful, she always looked great. I must confess i felt a warm feeling towards her but never attempted to let her know unbeckonest to me, she also had a feeling towards me.

Gradually time passed, and we began to chat in a friendly manner, so there was a day i was on 2go after lectures, i received a friend request, i accepted immediately i decided to check the persons profile and wooh, it was the girl i had a thing for. I was surprised how she knew my 2go name but i think she got it from my friend which she later told me.

We began to communicate frequently on 2go, she told me she liked me and would love us to be close friends which i agreed.
One discussion led to another and i decided to ask her if she had a boyfriend, she replied yes, but they broke up. Why? I asked... She said cos he was pestering her for sex and she doesnt want to until she got married.
I felt a bit proud that she was right for doing so which i told her, about two days later we met one on one for the first time, she talked confidently while i stuttered almost everytime. I later excused myself, she asked for my fone which i gave to her. 30mins later she sent her friend to give me back my fone, then i saw a message which she wrote, have you kissed a girl before? I was quite surprised and replied No. She said she'd love to kiss me and my heard grew big.

Along the line, i coyldnt muster enough courage to see her and after exams i had to travel to my state, along with my mom and brother where we would stay permanently.

This led us to only be able to communicate through calls, text message or 2go. Gradually the interest we had for ourselves died down and she later found another boy, which she didnt tell me until i found out myself through her Coded 2go statuses.

I felt heartbroken, but hey thats just how life is, i told myself.
Besides i wasnt taking the relationship quite seriously as i never wanted one in the first place.

Last month, i travelled back to Lagos, where i schooled and was shocked to know that the girl ,angel, that wrote me a love letter then, is now a mother of a child. She got impregnanted by someone, who she couldnt pinpoint probably due to the fact that she was sleeping with multiple boys, i saw her and shame was written all over her, she now looked a bit older than her age, we chatted for about 2mins through out the convo she kept staring at the floor.

I couldnt help but grin a little after she left, it could have been me who would have been responsible for that child she gave birth to. I soliloquized!.
Literature › Re: My Unfulfilled Journey To Become A Soldier(true Story) by Chidexter(op): 11:01pm On Jan 17, 2015
Id post more, latest tommorow.

Please if you feel my update is ok signify by commenting
Literature › Re: My Unfulfilled Journey To Become A Soldier(true Story) by Chidexter(op): 10:40pm On Jan 17, 2015
opalk:
living at officer's village attended command children sch and also command day seconday sch. still living at ojo barrack up to now
I was living at CVD barracks then but since i was 5 i started visiting my aunt and her husband at finiger. Though i didnt attend command cos i never loved it
Literature › Re: My Unfulfilled Journey To Become A Soldier(true Story) by Chidexter(op): 10:38pm On Jan 17, 2015
moris01:
I grew up in ojo barracks. Stayed in finiger left block 03/15 room 11
Started from naowa,command children and command day second sch. It was a wonderful experience I learnt d basics of lyfe. I'm married now with a son.
wow!. my uncle i stayed with leaves at block 13 flat 7 and 8. It feels great to know all of this
Family › Re: Can You Allow Your Wife, Sister Or Girlfriend Work In A Hotel? by Chidexter(m): 10:04pm On Jan 17, 2015
No
Literature › Re: My Unfulfilled Journey To Become A Soldier(true Story) by Chidexter(op): 9:31pm On Jan 17, 2015
opalk:
wow u came to ojo baracks that's the same place am living at but which part of the barrack are you at
I was staying at Finiger bro
Literature › My Unfulfilled Journey To Become A Soldier(true Story) by Chidexter(op): 8:39pm On Jan 17, 2015
I could feel my heart beat twice its normal rate, hot drops of sweat trickled down my head, i wasnt going to give up, never!..............

Hello everyone, i'd be sharing with you my unforgetable experience at the nigerian army recruitment exercise in Enugu state, Abakpa Barracks.

N:B: I'm not quite good at writing but i'll try my best to convey my experience in an understandable way. I'd be posting at a steady rate,but i'll try to post regularly as time goes. This might be a bit longer than you'd expect but i wish you enjoy and learn a lesson or two. Comments, Criticism and Suggestions are allowed

First i think a bit of introduction about myself would be appropriate.
I was born in the year 1996, i'm about 5ft10, dark in complexion, handsome(abi you want make i tell you say i ugly before?) a bit slim but some say i've got an athletic build, My mother is a teacher, and my Dad was a soldier (sadly he died from a motor accident in the year 2008), i am the first born in my family and i have a kid brother;

I wrote Waec in 2012, and i passed with my first sitting, due to some reasons which i cant explain i wasnt able to sit for jamb until the year 2014, which happened to be the same year the army rec. Exercise will commence. Though i passed the jamb exams i decided to forfeit it in other to join the force.


I always wanted to join the Nigerian army despite my mother's objections. What could the poor woman do, she never wanted me to partake in anything 'force' lest i remind her of the past, i thought about her objections carefully but my mind was already made up, i wanted to be independent, relieve her of the stress she's going through catering for my brother and i. All i wanted was adventure, The bokoharm menance wasnt going to stop me from my dream or so i thought.

By september 8th, i was delighted to know that the online registration for recruitment was on, i decided to travel to Lagos and stay at my uncle's place at Ojo barracks, because he was also a soldier, it would interest you all to know that his wife is also a soldier but sadly they dont have an offspring after years of marriage. Hence the reason i decided to travel to lagos first, so i can easily undergo some physical training to prepare me for the exercise.

Chidi!, Chi i heard my mom calling my name, i always love being called chi by my mom, it makes my head swell.
Ma, i answered. Wake up its already half past 5 and you're still sleeping or have you changed your mind, at the sound of her last statement i jumped up from bed, greeted her good morning and quickly rushed to brush my teeth, Took my bath, dressed up, the re- checked my bag incase i forgot anything.
Today i'll embark on my journey to Lagos, its been two years since i've been to lagos and i was anxious to know how Lagos would look like. I've been watching tv and reading news about the transformation of Lagos state

Brother chidi, brother chidi; my tiger of a brother called. I was surprised at his sudden change of tone, even though i was 5yrs older than him he never gives me enough respect. We usually have our good moments, but sometimes he could be as stubborn as a goat, i remember a certain friday he set off to his friend's house, which was a stone throw from ours. I just finished sweeping and i wanted to send him on an errand but couldnt find him, i decided to check his normal base which was his friend's house. I was lucky find him, as they were already planning to go to the market, so na here u dey? oya buy one apple for me as una dey go together, make u go come sharp sharp o, i said.
Okay brother, he replied.
That was the last time i saw him for almost 9hrs.
There was total pandemic in my neighbourhood that day, i was shocked, terrified, confused just name it. I tried my best to calm my mum down, and neighbours rounded themselves up in other to search for them,i quickly ran back to the market to look for them by then it was 6pm, and it was getting dark. suddenly, just like a movie scene i saw 2 dark figures running towards me, hey its my brother, i yelled happily. All of a sudden the joy in me evaporated, in a fit of anger i held him with my left hand, whoop! I gave him a resounding slap it happened so fast, almost like the speed of light, ha! Brother chidi, ha my back, sorry na brother sorry! He exclaimed!
The neighbours gathered and my brother and his friend were asked to narrate what happened;

Nonso: (sobbing, em em, me and okwudili) pointing to his friend) we were buying vegetable and apple, then one man came over to us and asked us to help him load about 50 yams to his pick- up, after loading him we told him to pay us 400naira that we agreed on but he told us that we should help him offload it at the junction by the road. We climbed the back of the pick up and were on our way, we passed the junction but the man did not stop so we started shouting and asking him where he was taking us to, he told us to relax that he's taking us to Obollo... Hey! The neighbours interrupted with a thundering shout, continue someone shouted.
em, after 20mins we got to the market and he told us to load extra 200 yams! We refused and he threatened us that he would leave us there and go his way, we changed our mind immediately. After loading it he took brought us back to this place and gave us 300 naira.
Thank God o, it was not kidnappers oh God thank you, it was my mother speaking, oya before i count one you must have reached house by now!.

Brother Chidi! Bro Chidi! I was brought back to reality....Ehn! What is the problem Nonso? Please, buy gala and lacasera for me before you go o, oh okay i will, i replied. Despite him being 12yrs of age, he still behaves like a 6yr old sometimes, typical of most last born.

I boarded Peace Mass Transit, the bus left by 7 a.m, i bade my mom and brother good bye fighting hard to surpress my tears. The journey was uneventful bar the time we passed the Niger Bridge i'm always left in awe to its beautiful design and the breathtaking scene, this river is definitely a great sign of nature's prowess, i solliloquized. I arrived at Lagos state by quarter past 7, if not for traffic jam, i would have arrived earlier. Lagos has truly changed, the streets were cleaner, people were much more organised.

Good evening sir,.... Yes what do you want, who are you, where are you comming from, where's your gate pass the man shouted almost at once. I was left confused on which to answer first, but i wasnt in any way afraid, me? Afraid i dey mad. I have gotten used to these questions my 18yrs as a barrack boy has taught me many things. I quickly replied, sir my name is Chidi Peter, i came all the way from lagos am here to see my uncle who is Warrant Officer(WO) Ben.
Are you with his phone number? And what is his unit?.
Yes i'm with his phone number sir(always include sir when answering a soldier its very important) and he works at MRS he is their RSM(RSM is more like a senior doctor of a hospital)

Good good, call the number your self and give me when he picks.......
Pim pim pim pim, i could hear the line ringing i was praying silently that my uncle should pick this call and not fall my hand.

Hello chidi, E rugwome(have you reached) yes sir i have, please speak with the sergeant, he asked me to call you. After they discussed for a while the sergeant let me in

My Uncle was already waiting for me, i entered his car and he zoomed off.
10mins later we reached his house, thankfully there was power supply. His wife wasnt at home then, she went for night vigil , He asked me to eat but i told him i wasnt hungry, knowing how tired i was he didnt force me. I went to the other flat which was his as well(as a warrant officer he is entitled to 2 flats, his wife just one but they decided to let another soldier live in the other flat)

I took my bath hurriedly, called my mom to tell her i've finally arrived then i slept off

The Next day, i woke up as early as 7, cleaned the room, brushed my teeth dressed up and quickly went to inform my uncle that i would be going to the cafe to process my recruitment form which he was already aware of.

I quickly went to a nearby cafe to summit it online. In the course of registration after i paid him 1,000 naira, PHCN STRUCK and the cafe operator didnt have a UPS connected to the computer, no! This wasnt happening, what kind of bad luck is this.

Cafe Operator: ha, my brother i didnt save the passcode that was sent to me after i paid the money online.

Me: but i told you to save it nah, but you told me there is no problem.

Cafe Operatorsadstuttering) ehm, what should we do now?.

Me: which kind question be dat, i should be the one asking you that question.

Cafe Operator: The only solution is to purchase another passcode, please i know its my fault but can you pay additional money like maybe 500naira please, its too much of a loss for me.

Me: Ooooh God, but i asked you o
Oya take this 500 naira, do this thing sharp sharp abeg.

Within 20mins we finished the registration, i left his cafe smiling to myself; finally i've taken a positive step forward.
Jokes Etc › News Broadcast For The Animal Kingdom by Chidexter(op): 7:24pm On Jan 14, 2015
ANIMAL KINGDOM NEWS
- -
-WE WERE SHORT OF BLOOD LAST YEAR, WE NEED TO ATTACK HUMAN BEINGS MORE THIS YEAR SAYS- GENERAL MOSQUITO

- THE ANIMAL CURRENCY ''NIMA'' HAS SEEN A 10 PERCENT INCREASE IN THE EXCHANGE MARKET.

- MONKEYS IN GHANA MIGRATE TO MALI DUE TO BANANA STRIKE.

- 4 GOATS KILL THEMSELVES BECAUSE OF A YAM.

- THE MINISTRY OF HEALTH HAS CERTIFIED SOAPS AS EATABLE FOOD FOR RATS.

- WE DON'T HAVE EBOLA LET US FLY, BATS IN TOKYO PROTEST AT THE AIRPORT AS THEIR FLIGHTS ARE CANCELLED DUE TO EBOLA SCARE.

- HIS EXCELLENCY IGWE MMUNAFASA LION CONTINUES HIS PRESIDENTIAL CAMPAIGN IN SOUTH AFRICA AS ELECTION DRAWS NEAR. DR.TORTOISE HIS FIERCE RIVAL IS ALREADY IN INDIA FOR HIS CAMPAIGN.

- A BIRD CRASH HAS BEEN REPORTED IN KENYA, SOURCES SAY THE BIRD LOST CONTROL WHILE LANDING, I'LL UPDATE YOU AS SOON AS I GET ANY LATEST DEVELOPMENT.
STAY TUNED..........
Christianity Etc › Re: Katsina Govt To Demolish 99 Year Old ECWA Church by Chidexter(m): 6:44am On Jan 11, 2015
Hmm
Christianity Etc › Re: 7 Nigerian Ministers of God You Mustn't Fail To Listen To by Chidexter(m): 6:29am On Jan 11, 2015
i only listen to my reverend fathers; the thing is the world is so corrupt its hard to know who to listen to.
Jokes Etc › Re: Photo: Did You Ever Try This? by Chidexter(m): 6:14pm On Jan 09, 2015
No, never
Education › Re: Reasons Why Young Nigerians Find It Difficult To Gain Admission In Nigeria by Chidexter(m): 6:10pm On Jan 09, 2015
Exactly what i have been thinking of.

Good job op..........

I have always advised some peeps to choose rarer courses that they at least have seventy percent interest in.
Choosing rarer courses increases your chances of gaining admission as there is lesser competition.
Politics › Re: Nigeria Launch Second Naval Ship NNS Unity by Chidexter(m):
I bet that ship would still be in use 50yrs from now. mtcheeew
Christianity Etc › Re: Celebrating An Icon - Happy Birthday To Pastor Chris Oyakhilome by Chidexter(m): 7:31am On Dec 07, 2014
Hbd Pastor......Icon in the Pastoral industry cheesy
Jokes Etc › Re: I Pass My Neighbours: Must See Photo by Chidexter(m): 11:57pm On Dec 06, 2014
iamakbar:
help me tell dem oo broda. abi dem no sabi say d brand new costs arnd #350k
exactly
Jokes Etc › Re: I Pass My Neighbours: Must See Photo by Chidexter(m): 8:23pm On Dec 06, 2014
You know how much him spend to buy that Keke.
Webmasters › Re: NF by Chidexter(m): 11:08pm On Nov 29, 2014
so, how do we go about it
Webmasters › I'm Ready To Write For You by Chidexter(op): 11:05pm On Nov 29, 2014
Who needs a writer for his or her blog, I've got experience on things like this and I can create articles based on your site criterias, I'd gladly perform a trial, if it matches your expectations, then you could talk of employing me with whatever amount you consider okay.
Gaming › Re: What Are Your Video Game Weird Habits? by Chidexter(m): 4:55am On Nov 01, 2014
my own is plenty o,

if I concede a last min goal I. blame the game for intentionally making me do so. but if I score a last min goal, the game is automatically my friend.

Another habit is that if I pulled off some moves and it doesn't go as planned or my player missed a sitter then my Pad must surely suffer the consequences
Properties › Re: Landlord Gets 3-year Jail Term For Evicting Tenant With Force. by Chidexter(m): 4:54am On Nov 01, 2014
lool the landlord funny o, he used his money to employ those who removed the sheets, or did he do it by himself. there are many lawful ways to eject a tenant other than this.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Why Is National Directorate Of Employment (NDE) Extorting Money From Graduates? by Chidexter(m): 2:39pm On Oct 26, 2014
na wa o
Celebrities › Re: I Don’t Mind Dating A Younger Man Now – Ara by Chidexter(m): 7:02pm On Oct 25, 2014
Ayoola171:
I can't laaaaaaugh oooo.
lol
Celebrities › Re: I Don’t Mind Dating A Younger Man Now – Ara by Chidexter(m): 2:18pm On Oct 25, 2014
Ayoola171:
I can't laaaaaaugh oooo.
B)
Celebrities › Re: I Don’t Mind Dating A Younger Man Now – Ara by Chidexter(m): 2:18pm On Oct 25, 2014
1miccza:
Hahahahahahahaha guy your crase no get part 2 to think that I just had a conversation like this with someone some minutes ago.....
lol abeg no curse me again o. hehehe
Politics › Re: Court Orders T.B. Joshua To Testify On Nov. 5 Over Synagogue Building Collapse by Chidexter(m): 12:45pm On Oct 25, 2014
Samsonklin:
You are a wise fellow but.... Abuse no one for abuse turn the wise ones to fools and robs the spirit of its vision. PEACE!!
ok bro noted.
Pets › Re: Are Dogs Better Companions Than Cats? by Chidexter(m): 12:45pm On Oct 25, 2014
ugwum007:
lol....cats can form too much even d local breeds
exactly
Celebrities › Re: Chita Agwu Releases Wedding Invites by Chidexter(m): 10:58am On Oct 25, 2014
Ifyjemila:
See forming.
lol

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