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PoliticsRe: Ugwuanyi Receives Haitian Delegation In Enugu As They Trace Their Roots by Chidexthebest: 4:13am On Jan 22, 2022
This is nice
EducationRe: 19-Year-Old Virgin Graduates From Taraba State University As She Celebrates (Pix by Chidexthebest: 11:13am On Jan 17, 2022
I don't think she means she's a virgin. The post states virgin corper as in prospective corp member.
CrimeRe: Boy Narrowly Escapes Being Used For Ritual By Neighbour In Imo by Chidexthebest: 8:54am On Jan 10, 2022
Wow
RomanceRe: Men Being Rape Victims! Truth Or Fiction!!? by Chidexthebest: 6:21pm On Dec 28, 2021
Datboredberry:
You do not understand the meaning of the phrase...I didn't say masculinity is toxic... There's a huge difference...

Masculinity is good...

The definition of masculinity or the traits associated with it might be bad... Or self-sabotaging...

Masculinity can affect men negatively...

For example...

Masculinity: Men are strong...

[This is good]

Toxic masculinity: Men shouldn't cry because men ought to be strong... If they do, they are weak.

[This is a stereotype that would hurt men because it prevents them from opening up and seeking support when they feel down]

Masculinity: Men are the aggressors (regards to sex).

Toxic masculinity: If men are the aggressors, then they can't be victims of sexual abuse...

Masculinity: Men are the head because they are the providers and protectors...

Toxic masculinity: Since men are the protectors, they are the last to be evacuated during wars...etc...

And since they are the providers, they always have to struggle to pay the bills... Sometimes, with not support from their partners...

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Toxic masculinity: The many ways masculinity might not favour men... Or be toxic...

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An example of Toxic feminity:

Women are fragile...

Some women assume a subservient position so they benefit from their partners... but it backfires since they usually become victims of domestic violence...etc...

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The reason why people speak more on toxic masculinity is because men usually fight in favour of patriarchy... Which doesn't always benefit them but they do so to claim superiority over women...

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This thread for example:

Most men would not report cases if sexual abuse because they don't want to seem UNMASCULINE...

They don't want to seem UNMASCULINE because it would make them feel equal or less than women...

So they prefer to not speak out or even seek justice because of their weird definition of MASCULINITY...

If a man says, 'i have been raped'... Then he would not be able to say later that he's superior to women... Because he had been places in a position of SUBMISSION during his ASSAULT by a man... Or worse, by a woman...

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Another thing... Men always try to make it seem like they are crazy over sex... That's why the boast of their high body counts...etc...

Toxic masculinity: how can a man who brags about his 'conquests' be raped by a woman?

Get it?

The definition of masculinity means being passionate about sex... This hurts men because they can not later say that they were rape victims...
There is nothing like toxic masculinity, men exhibit masculinity and ladies exhibit femininity. What should be of concern is fragile and weak masculinity and femininity which produces people like bobrisky and his likes
PoliticsThe War Against Bokoharam by Chidexthebest(op): 10:06am On Nov 12, 2021
Since 2009, the militant Islamist group known as Boko Haram has wreaked havoc in northern Nigeria. Instilling terror through bombings, abductions, and beheadings, Boko Haram is fighting to create an Islamic state in the most populous country in Africa.

VICE News traveled to Nigeria to embed with the country's army as it ramped up its fight against Boko Haram, whose rise has caused a state of emergency. As the only journalists on the front line in northern Nigeria, we witnessed the beginning of the largest military insurgency to date.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=muz5dhnMG6E

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MlcEqAUIUY0
Mynd44

PoliticsRe: El-Zakzaky, Wife Sue AGF, DSS Over Passport Seizure, Demand N4bn In Damages by Chidexthebest: 9:28am On Oct 28, 2021
Magnoliaa:
Pardon? undecided

Please, desist from sending me any again if you have nothing to say or will not say it here.

Thank you.
Alright
PoliticsRe: El-Zakzaky, Wife Sue AGF, DSS Over Passport Seizure, Demand N4bn In Damages by Chidexthebest: 7:33am On Oct 28, 2021
Magnoliaa:
You sent mails.
Reply
PoliticsRe: El-Zakzaky, Wife Sue AGF, DSS Over Passport Seizure, Demand N4bn In Damages by Chidexthebest: 9:26pm On Oct 27, 2021
Magnoliaa:
How may I really help you, too, Mister?
what's up
PoliticsRe: El-Zakzaky, Wife Sue AGF, DSS Over Passport Seizure, Demand N4bn In Damages by Chidexthebest: 9:25pm On Oct 27, 2021
[quote author=Magnoliaa post=10[/quote]What's up
PoliticsRe: El-Zakzaky, Wife Sue AGF, DSS Over Passport Seizure, Demand N4bn In Damages by Chidexthebest: 1:10pm On Oct 18, 2021
Alright
Jobs/VacanciesRe: The Next Titan Audition: What Was The Response You Got?. by Chidexthebest: 3:38pm On Sep 27, 2021
PastorFire:
Port Harcourt and Abuja, please share the verdict passed by the judges. They had no issues with my presentation and i was done before the time. They only said.. "We will get back to you"
A staff collected my tag and said.. "Congratulations, you have qualified".
You qualified for the grant and not for the show
PoliticsRe: President Buhari Condoles With King Sunny Ade Over Death Of His Wife, Risikat by Chidexthebest: 2:51pm On Sep 22, 2021
Rip
NYSCRe: NYSC: Where Did You Do Your PPA? by Chidexthebest: 11:03pm On Aug 30, 2021
Abuja metropolitan management council
PoliticsRe: Gbajabiamila Visits Olu Of Warri, Tsola Emiko (Photos) by Chidexthebest: 1:23pm On Aug 30, 2021
garfield1:
The number one ruler in the entire delta state,the third most powerful king in the whole ss/se
who is the second?
Politics15 Things Foreigners Don't Know About Nigeria by Chidexthebest(op): 5:19pm On Aug 03, 2021
Here are 15 things foreigners and some Nigerians Don't know about Nigeria.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IN0N33KVb1Q
NYSCRe: Jemima Osunde Starts NYSC Orientation (Picture) by Chidexthebest: 9:10am On Jun 08, 2021
Ajuwaya
ComputersRe: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by Chidexthebest: 12:35pm On May 21, 2021
Where can I upgrade to Windows 10 in Abuja
ComputersRe: Post Your Laptop Problems Here And Get Solution To Fix It Yourself by Chidexthebest: 12:31pm On May 21, 2021
Where can I upgrade my windows 7 to windows 10 in Abj
PropertiesRe: . by Chidexthebest(op): 10:40pm On Apr 10, 2021
Stevyne:
what's your budget and the type of apartment
Self con
150 to 300
Properties. by Chidexthebest(op):
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CareerRe: Nigerian Real Forex Traders Experiences Thread by Chidexthebest: 12:39pm On Mar 21, 2021
ILovebigyansh:
More grease, same myself it's almost like one's chasing his tail.

Lose today, win tomorrow.

What kind of strategy do you use?
A Counter trend strategy which is the break and retest of the one hour and four 50 EMA.
They are four other strategies I also use.

I have not traded for up to two weeks though due to nysc camp
CareerRe: Nigerian Real Forex Traders Experiences Thread by Chidexthebest: 10:25am On Mar 21, 2021
ILovebigyansh:
Octa FX is a good broker, good spreads and account flexibility, as a technical trader how consistent are you?
Not too consistent with my profits, but I am getting there
CrimeRe: Insecurity: Buhari Rules Out Amnesty For Bandits, Insurgents by Chidexthebest: 9:11pm On Feb 25, 2021
tidy18:
100% sure bet. 9ja game available

Payment after winning

Msg me on WhatsApp 0 7 0 8 5 7 9 9 3 5 4
Zukwanike
RomanceRe: Do People Still Have Househelps In Nigeria? by Chidexthebest: 7:53pm On Feb 07, 2021
My aunt has two househelps
Car TalkMercedes Benz GLE 450 For Sale by Chidexthebest(op): 4:18pm On Feb 06, 2021
ercedes Benz GLE 450 for sale at 8.5 million naira.
Model: 2010
Location : Lagos

AutosMercedes Benz GLE 450 For Sale by Chidexthebest(op): 1:59pm On Feb 06, 2021
Mercedes Benz GLE 450 for sale at 8.5 million naira.
Model: 2010
Location : Lagos

PhonesRe: The Xiaomi Thread. by Chidexthebest: 11:31am On Jan 31, 2021
[quote author=Thecvbankng post=98564565]Anyone with BRAND NEW redmi note 8 for sale or knows how I can get one. Please note I said note 8 (I don't need alternatives other than note 8 ), thank you.
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Check jumia]
CareerRe: Nigerian Real Forex Traders Experiences Thread by Chidexthebest: 10:43pm On Jan 24, 2021
I am more of a technical analyst. I use price action and moving averages. I am using octa fx but I am about to switch to a better broker
BusinessRe: What Is The Best Forex Trading Strategy You Know? by Chidexthebest: 10:35pm On Jan 24, 2021
Break and retest of the 50EMA. I call it the IBO
PoliticsRe: Sanwo-Olu Commissions 252 Units Of 2-Bedroom Flats In Idale, Badagry by Chidexthebest: 7:33pm On Jan 23, 2021
Hope it's affordable
RomanceRe: Am I Considered Lazy For Doing This? [Picture] by Chidexthebest: 8:40am On Jan 23, 2021
Saturdays are for chilling and maxing

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