Nawao

No

Is this supposed to be a news?

Don’t go back to him. You deserve better than this.

Excellent

eyinjuege:
Glad to know your daughter is well and doing fine
I pray you get your papers soon so she can be with you

Amen tbanks so much

jenifer007:


Congratulations dear...I am so happy for you..God Almighty will never leave you and I pray you will reap the fruit of your labour..Once again congratulations

Amen thanks so much

Gloriagee:
Oh ok. I can't imagine a sister being so harsh to her own blood. I think you've made the right call and hope your friend doesn't betray you....

Even myself sometime I ask myself if they have changed her or what, before i left nigeria she wasnt wicked like she is now , I just don't understand her new attitudes anymore. I hope so too and I pray that she will take good care of her like she promised me.

mariahAngel:


Heiii! Thank God!
May God continue to strengthen you both, until you're united and even after.

Amen thank you so much

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Gloriagee:
So how did he know you want her to stay with your friend?

I have told him I wasn't happy with them they are not helping me to progress and I wanted my daughter to go and stay with my friend

2Radii:
Nawa for ur sister ooh


Hope ur girl no lean sha??

Hope she no get scars for body??

Congrats to ur and ur girl

Thank you , she looks fine to me she is not chubby like she used to be before but she is OK ,no scars at all apart from an open wound on her forehead she said her brother caused it while they were playing.

Thank you so much everyone for your advice and support , my baby is girl is now with my friend I felt so good to see her on video call and I cry at the same time when she said she missed me so much and she want me to come and pick her up. I couldn't hold my tears I miss her so much and I pray that I get my papers very soon so I can work hard for her to join me here. I can finally sleep with my eyes closed knowing that my daughter will not suffer again in my sister house. God bless you all

Ofokajeremy:
It's actually true, some one who doesn't like you will definitely hate your daughter.i suggest you do all you can to relocate her to be with you in Germany.

I have an elder brother who is married with kids but I don't trust his wife with my child someone who doesn't liked me will never like my daughter

Thank you , me too I can never allow my daughter to go and stay with my brother because his wife may do worse than my sister

Shoodboi:


I searched for this topic today seeking an update and read everything you posted about your sister refusing to pick her calls and her husband trying to manipulate you. I suspect they're refusing you to have a video call with your daughter because the want to fatten her up, so she looks plump by the time they allow you to video call or when other relatives show up.

At this juncture, you should stick to your guns and take your daughter out. This is not about you anymore. It is about your daughter and her future. You will never find out how much they maltreated her until she's off their grip. How a sister can do this to her only other sister still amazes me. Please do your best to get your daughter out of there.

Thank you, I am trying my best to take her out of their house as soon as possible. My friend and her brother are on the way to the police station to report them , I will give update later.

faithfull18:

I hope they don't take it out on the innocent child oh. And the story of paying the school fees of their own children may not be true as it's holiday period. I know some parents pay ahead though. They just wanted more money.

I hope so too right now I am so worried about my baby girl I don't know how is she coping with my sister I just hope she will not transfer her aggression to her. They are in secondary school she said the school ask them to pay early.

Ulunne777:


And as it stands, don't even send one naira this entire September.
She's ashamed of herself cos she's aware that the wool has fallen from your eyes and that if this matter is tabled anywhere,the whole blame will be on her.

If she's buying #120k food ,it means you are literally the one feeding them,paying school fees and also clothing them cos I'm sure the parcel on the way contain clothes and all.


She and her husband overdid it seriously.

They had use me as a pawn and i will not allow them to use me again the last money I sent them was the 300k and they will not recieve anything from me again. I will not rest until my daughter leave their house and I make sure I cut her off the same way she cut our brother off for 7 years now and I will do the same thing.

meetme01:


Something is wrong somewhere. I will have to link you with a social worker in Welfare Services in Lagos State. You need to speak with your daughter even if you decide to allow her stay with them.

Can you please dm me their contact details thanks

Omobithousand:



Please do ..... I'm already scared for Ur baby girl
Or if u can take them to justice court that one will even be quicker...u can get their contact online or YouTube

Thanks for the suggestion. I watched the show on YouTube I will contact them

So painful, may the Lord comfort you

peacefulhome:


Madam just do whatever it will take to have access to your own daughter. No allow any emotional talk.

Thank you I will contact human rights tommorow

eyinjuege:


Have you guys resolved it now?

I spoke with my in law yesday he tried manipulating me so I can leave my daughter with them , he said over his dead body he will release her to my friend because he don't want the world to tagged them wicked for abandoning her with a stranger while he and my sister are alive and able to take care of her better. I disagree with him he told me his battery was low and nepa took light ,we were supposed to talk again this afternoon because i wanted to do video with my daughter he refused to pick up my calls.

Newborn27:
@ chidiester .....I just want to drop this piece of advice.... there's nothing Patience can't solve....no matter what the offense might be... always remember that she was your sister before anything else...and no one knows tomorrow.

Secondly... this is a faceless forum but not everything going on here is confidential....many bloggers are on here looking for topics to blow....many anonymous identity... scammers,.. parasites and enemy of progress are on here.... they'd lead you on and abandon you to suffer all the consequences all alone...you may go viral with this thread and this won't help your status as a person without complete papers... God no go shame us.


I can see people giving you back up.....and this is alreadily boiling you up.... please take things easy.... compare, contrast and weigh each advice and note the positive and negative impact on you, your family and residency abroad.


Yorubas will say "toba koju si o, ki o taa, toba keyin si o...ko taa...toba ku iwo nikan....ki o tun ero ara e pa"


You can use google translation.

Cheers

Thanks for your advice

Heiterkeit:



@OP Chidiesta


Don't allow this hardened criminal to scam you in the guise, directly or indirectly, of checking your daughter on your behalf as a security personnel. Be warned.

Thank you, I knew it he is a scammer because the way he was forcing me to accept his partner in crime offer was unbelievable to me.

mariahAngel:


Then since she's not ready for peace, you have every justification to involve whoever you want to involve in the matter, without remorse.
She has no right whatsoever to do what she's doing to you and your daughter.

Yes I am waiting until Friday if I don't hear back from her or her husband I will contact human right and the police

NoToPile:


SMH - blood is thicker than water indeed.

You had not even fully told them about removing your daughter before all this

Let's hope your inlaw calls by 3pm.

Stay strong.

Thank you , I feel like he will not call because ysday he asked me to call at 7pm and I called he didn't pick up until this morning. If he doesn't I will call him again

Ulunne777:


Whats the update?
Still not picking your calls?

She still hasn't pick up my calls but she is busy posting status on WhatsApp, i tried to call my in law again he pick and said my sister is not ready to speak with me because I disrespected her last time we spoke. I told him if she doesn't want to talk to me she should release my daughter he said he will call me back at 3pm I am waiting for his call

mariahAngel:


Hello dear.

If you don't mind me asking; did your sister contribute in you traveling abroad? (Not that it justifies her actions, if she did.)

I want to understand why she feels so entitled to your money(like you owe her), and why she acts like she owns you and your daughter.
It is almost as if she's holding your daughter to ransom.

Hello dear, no she didn't contribute anything concerning my travel my fiance did everything for me to be here. I don't owe her anything, I think she is just being wicked because she thinks she's doing me a big favour for looking after my daughter she also thinks in Europe we plug money from the tree I am a billionaire and I have a suitcase full of euros hence why she want to drain me financially

Spherica177:
Your sister and her husband are milking you badly. Most Nigerians are criminal minded. They can do anything for money. They believed anyone living outside the shore of Nigeria is a billionaire. Imagine your blood sister doing all these to her own sister all in the name of money. Too bad!

Btw, i live right in Lagos. If there's any assistance or anything you need to do in Lagos and it's environ feel free to notify me

Ok thank you I will let you know if I need help

meetme01:


Which State is your sister? Ministry of Women Affairs and Social Development can take up the matter. Let me know the state if it falls into my area. I'd assist.

She lives in Lagos

jenifer007:
Your sister is evil so also her husband...They are both parasite and they see your daughter as the medium for you to take care of their expenses despite the fact that they are working.

As it is now,you will need to take the bull by the horn...Your friend will need to go to the station to make a complaint on your behalf...I guess your sister thinks there's nothing you can do for her to release your daughter.

Once the police is involved she will know it is now a serious matter... Definitely you will spend because Nigerian police won't work for free...

Just know that at the end of everything your sister will not want to have anything to do with you anymore because she will see you as her enemy because you have taken your daughter from her.

Who needs such a person as a sister...She's evil and wicked

Pls act fast because your daughter is in bondage...I wonder the type of terrible words she will be yelling at your daughter...I can tell you for sure that your daughter is depressed pls don't waste time

Thank you, if I don't hear back from her until Friday I will involve human rights and the police I don't mind spending money for my daughter sake.

eyinjuege:


Please don't take my word for it o. I'm just thinking they may likely want you to be present.
Let your friend still contact them and discuss the issue with them, if your sister is still not cooperating with you.

No problem thanks