₦airaland Forum

franchasofficia:
Lagos is an Igbo island developed by Igbos, every Nigerian know this


More than 60% of best houses in Lagos state belongs to Igbos, so there is nothing bad if an Igbo girl desires to go to Igbo Island called Lagos to see the wonderful development of her people in Lagos

Base on which statistics, the high brows of lagos are banana island, V.i, lekki, Magodo , omole, ikeja Gra, festac ...how many of these area igbos dominate

i dont know why you guyz cant stop decieving unaselves.

maasoap:
According to Op, there was no point in time he thought he loved her, from the past till now. He even said that she used pregnancy and threat to kill herself to force him into this marriage. And the Op feelings for her haven't changed positively till this hour. What else do you people want to hear from him? And if one kills the other tomorrow, all of you will still be asking question that why couldn't they divorce before it got to that stage.
As for me not being married or not in a long term marriage, my relationships experience is rich and interesting enough to write a story book . I follow my guts, I follow my heart, I don't allow pressure from anyone to dictate my decision.

Forget that guyman jor ! you no like babe you pack 4m spend on wedding if you come love am nko ...even pocohantas wey dey shout myne upandan how much dem wan take sign her

the babe forced him to do everything but e reach her father burial, force no work think am naw, what changed 🤣

if i say Op is a narcissist give me one reason he is not ??

BlindAngel:
Still feels like yesterday when I was pleading with her endlessly that I'm not in anyway ready for marriage, still feels like yesterday when she showed me all sorts of hell to the extend I didn't realized when I bowed to pressure and agreed to marry her. I agree that I disgraced her but I won't forget the torture that I went through during the period she was pressuring me endlessly. If she has listened to me back then and stayed calm, until I'm fully ready for marriage all these won't have been happening.

Alol !! 🤣🤣🤣 this guy naa full blown narcissist i swear, why should a lady you dont like one bit stay calm, wait for what ?? dont you listen to yourself

why didnt you wait till you were ready for marriage b4 sex abi weytin bible tell us ...
you are the one holding yoursef captive not the marriage not the lady cos you are allowing your past hold you captive

A woman that can force you to get her pregnant, marry her and keep you till now .. should have it easy pissy to force you sponspor her papa burial naw, why is "her force" not working now ?? the burial bill no even reach 4m wey you don spend 😄

I am surprise you didnt blame her for times you didnt have money sef, bad leg/astura
weytin we never see for street.

olohun ma je ko pe ko toh ye é

idahme:
You are living in an ideal world in your head but the world is rather a real world and it is what it is. Most people won't even have the opportunity to be with who they want and they won't will have to do with the available just because they want to have sex not because they want the person in the long term. That is what it is.

Oga you can as well tell me i was born yesterday,i asked a very simple question how many babe you dislike wey you don nack

or you dont know what it means not to find someone physically attractive nii

idahme:
All the men sleeping with prostitutes do they love them? Some of the sex results into pregnancies. You don't need to love a woman to impregnate her but certainly he will love his child.

You dont love dem, buh no man go carry a prostitute he does not find physically attractive or sexually attractive

how many gurl wey you dislike you don sleep with

BlindAngel:
Money dey my hand that time, after everything I was left with 130k. And on the morning of the marriage I went and hurried to get extra drinks, because they drank lots of drinks I bought for reception on the day of the traditional marriage. Back to the fact, I was left work just 9k after buying the drinks. If u see frustration and regret after the marriage?? Thank God say I later bounced back.

All these talk no hold water, whatever spending you did naa you collect the "glory" shebi you like to shine... dem hail you your head swell o lor nowo tuh
if your budget is 2m nobody can force to spend extra if you dont want ... You just no like to dey take responsibility for any of your actions ... everything dem force you niii

Howfar 2nd wife ... do we have to force you abi you go do am yourself

maasoap:
You don't force people to remain in a loveless marriage, otherwise it will end in tragedy one day. He should man up and do what he wants before someone decide to murder him while sleeping or poison him.
This is why I like white people, they walk out of marriage the moment they don't feel that love anymore

i guess you are not married nor in any long term commitment, if everyone should walk out of marriage the moment they don't feel love nobody will remain in marriage, everybody go don divorce
In every marriage there will be that time the love go just collapse like national grid, naa commitment, understanding and communication go just help una scale through

When it comes to marriage i see the whites as inferior and low thinkers, a life run solely on "feelings" can never have a direction

djon78:
The guy doesn't know that a woman he's chasing away and she doesn't want to leave him loves him.


He might end up regretting this

We humans must learn how to open our heart to people that genuinely care for us


He impregnated her

And yet married her to cover her shame

It shows he actually cares for the woman

He should learn to open his heart and start treating that woman Right

He might feel he is young now
But a time will come he will see the importance of doing the right thing


Hard heart and lack of genuine Love is the biggest problem bedeviling us as humans

I personally don't tolerate nonsense/foolishness from women

But when I see a woman that makes conscious effort for her Man

I personally appreciate that because I know the kind of snakes and scorpions we have today among them

That is why i told him we dont value "what we have until we lose it" una don marry, born pikin .. we cant just advise move on

A woman that hell bent on staying definitely loves the man, she will do anything he ask of her just lead her right

So many men out there even with all the gifts and money shower woman still dey carry dem play, Op wont understand d pain to love sum1 nd that person no love you back
i wish the lady could leave him,

BigBrother54321:
Try dey understand person, no dey think everything finish with your sense. You don’t know it all, neither have you experienced it all.

You can like so one so much but once you come to the realization that you’ve been taken for a fool all along, all that like/love will turn to negative energy.

As a adult no body fit force you but manipulation is real and evil.

i never said i know it All or na me get sense pass, but wisdom no go finish for earth make we find am go heaven
Go back n read, OP case is not clearly not love gone sour, he maintained he never liked her or see her as sexually attractive
No doubts she might have use the pregnancy to tie him down but why i chose to play the devil advocate is because from Op writeup he has not given that love a chance, he park bus like mourinho ... my advise to him is give that marriage a chance 1st b4 you make conclusion, this Life never say never

BigBrother54321:
You no well. Nah today woman dey leave man abi man dey leave woman, which one be pussy and dick inside? Nah all f#ck must lead to marriage abi na all the girls wey you f#ck you marry? Hypocrite.

Person say them force am (looking at the history of so many of her sisters that are baba mamas, it’s already clear the game the girl played) and he has realized his mistake, instead of you to comfort him you dey talk bladder-dash. You better go work hard and take up your responsibility, if you think say na in-law go bury your papa for you, na lie you lie. Finished man. You go bury your papa, still bury in-law wey born pikin as na burial you come life come use your money do.

They force him to do everything except for the sex part, how many gurl wey you no find sexually attractive you don date or nack

i want to believe you are an Adult, can anyone force you to do what you dont wana do

An adage says person wey we teach evil and he do am that tendency don dey inside am.

the inlaw case naa banana stalk, make he just tell them what he can afford, at all at na im bad

BlindAngel:
My wife has been the one holding me back, she's not ready to let go. I told her that she should at least get some dignity, someone doesn't want you but you're forcing yourself on him. That most women in her shoes would have walkes away without blinking an eye, due to the constant humiliation and disrespect, but still she isn't in anyway ready to let go.

She told me that she's ready for me to return the bride price but we'd still be together, which I plainly rejected.

Bro somtimes people dont value what they have they lose it.. for your mind you feel you are so prepared to lose her ... you will even rush to church do thanksgiving nd share food ... you might be in for a shocker

For a gurl you claim not to love, no physical attraction but you admitted getting her pregnant ! how naw ?? or did she force you to do
i know what you want to hear but the truth is what you need ... i notice you didnt complain about her character/attitude/nature so basically the problem is you nd your "feelings"
Bro you feel no love for that gurl cos you wont allow anything grow,
have you tried to focus on her good sides nd lets see if you won't starting catching feelings,
i take it you dont know how lucky you are to be in a r/ship the woman loves you more and she is bent on staying ... have you heard the one you love doesnt want you,

As for her family i get the picture, buh you dont have to get physical with them, you can just say your NO without blow, nobody fit force you do weytin you no wan do, how sef
if i was in your shoes i will tell them big No as well buh for my wife sake i can decide to contribute or tell them highest i can do for them. shikena

trutharena:
With the right investment, we will get there.

even if elon musk decide these minute to give us the money, nothing will change cos some few rogues will loot it

with the right investment corruption is what will happen .... they are cursed to steal

blaise26abj:
You look at a person’s antecedents before you conclude . Read up on Dangote and all his products . Cement , sugar, flour etc . They all have endless reports of anti-competitive moves ( monopoly ) . Give him the sole refinery and watch what happens .

There is nothing to go read about Dangote that is not up in our faces.

Dangote by antecedents he is always imploring Nigeria problem to make investment decision to creat wealth ... is that a crime or sin ... what is wrong if you notice your entire area has no clean water then you implore it, creat borehole and sell water


There is no product Dangote sells that does not have a rivalry product in the market ..
i take it that most of you are very naive how the business world operate, it is all about rivalry, or what does competition mean to you team work or ten ten
What is Dstv doing between coke & pepsi are they doing team work, is mtn handing out support to glo go to alaba n see how sellers snatch each other custometrs

We have Regulatory bodies for a reason they are the ones that will come up with frame work or directives that will enforce "Fairness" and protection to infants. Dangote owes no rival big brother love

Vinnie2000:
Dangote is an EVIL Capitalist who does NOT care if Nigerians eat Sand, in his quest to become World's richest man.

The Man is a Vicious Shark and wants to DEVOUR all the Juicy Minerals this country all for his benefits.

Only IGNORAMUSES and Tinibu's Zombies support him.

SHAME on Adeboye!

YOU meant Dangote is a business Man who is out to maximize profit and protect is investment
Oga go n open your own and do opposite naw

LadyExcellency:
Dangote is working against Nigerians after using all the country's foreign reserves at the expense of all citizens. So there is nothing bad if he is paid in his coin.

If Dangote wants to work against Nigeria he will build is refinery in malta then your evil Nnpc/marketers would have preferred that and together they will continue to scam Nigerians
Dangote arrival is why Nigerians now know info like landing cost and price from Refinery

thesicilian:
Pastor Adeboye is saying the truth but he should be careful to prevent unnecessary insults from those benefiting from the corrupt system

On a contrary if his statement will drawout those benefiting from the corrupt system its a breakthrough cos we will begin to put names on the unknown

Blazetrailer:
This is sarcastic, right?

if only the opposite would work

saintopus:
My question is why is it that since Dangote Refinery started producing why is the naira keep falling even though we were told that 40% of our FX is used for importing petrol.

The more you look, the less you see

Dangote refinery might have kick started buh as whats the volume of our export to earnings, presently even our oil production as dropped amidst fall in int'l crude price

Besides some fractions are still importing fuel into the country,
when you scale these factors it weigh down our earnings that could have boost or strengthen then naira, until we scale up export consistently or we drive down dollar demand more n more

Hemanwel:
The last time I saw N5 and N10 was when I visited the museum. As for N20 and N100, that was when I visited grandma in the village.

It's become imperative that the CBN should start thinking in the direction of printing the 10k or 100k notes, because, after the natural phasing out of the aforementioned notes, N200 and N500 notes will follow.

No sir, thats a bad idea/advise as printing higher currency will further devalue the naira and kick more denominations into extinction .... you know nd you still dey opine "imperative"

temitope27:
Everyday

You drive keke napep or okada

Hemanwel:
I pray it turns out so.

The naira is now so weak that the highest denominational currency can't even buy a loaf of bread in the market.

Just like Zimbabwe which has a trillion note, the CBN should start thinking in the direction of printing 10k or 100k note, if not, to get Maggi in the market, we will need a poly-bag filled with money.

Better still, Nigerians will start ditching the naira for the USD, just as it's happening in Zimbabwe

You started with prayer and optimism then ruined it negativity and what not ... you dont have to be pessimistic to show worried

Nigeria will never get to that point of Zimbabwe cos our Politicians/leader punishing us dont have that level in my mind

AfonjaConehead:
[/quote]thunda faya your big mouth there. .....did the Igbos come together with you to foist and hoist a Buhari disaster on the nation?! The Igbos and nnamdi kanu warned against Buhari and his killer fulani herdsmen, weren't you people who attacked and attacked him everyday?! All the things he said about the killer herdsmen,did they not happen.....kanu is in jail today we see how so called fellow southerners,yorubas keep making mockery and jest and you are here opening your mouth waaaaaa talking absolute blshhhtttt
Again who even told you I am Igbo?

My mind tells me you are drunk nd wasted.... you just dey type out of point

Chidolalar:
Not all women.
Some girls or women will like u but out of ego or pride they won't want to show they like you.

i quiet agree with you ... but thats mostly from a distance, a lady that feels your vibe/flow wont hestiate to see you, reminds me 2go days


A lady might have pride, she can even feign i dont care but she will always jump at every chance to be around you and if you are a sharp guy you will sense the green light

Idiko1:
There is no single presence of Federal Government of Nigeria in Igboland. Nigerian government has used its economic policies as weapons of war against Ndigbo.

Even before Independence or Federal government, did the colonial masters have presence in igboland.

Who outside igboland is welcomed to that region ... sometimes we just have to face the ugly truth

phorget:
Imagine what a side chick is making your friend go through, sending 320k + 100k for a side chicks flight while millions are out there in need of supports. I really wish men could prioritize giving to the needy instead of wasting money on some side chicks.

lolz! very true ... that guy will have friends that will need money not up to 100k, he go tell dem country hard, business down

But if you hear amount men waste on fornication, sidechick, olosho n whatever ... i have a friend back in school i needed his help to balance my tution he say e no get naa woman i use collect the money from the idiot .. the babe send 200k u can imagine

Just pray God blesses you, dont need anybody

Veetee:
These days I have been wondering how the dating pool has gone from bad to worse.

I would make this story brief. A friend of mine though married was trying to get a side chic for himself.
He met a girl on instagram and they have been chatting for sometime. He shuttles between canada and nigeria, since his family lives abroad.
We both had a man to man discussion where he talked about getting tired of doing runs girls that you would have to pay money to nack

The girl is a student of unical. So while he was in canada they both got talking, doing video call and the rest.
Once in a while he sends her money, 250k, 100k from time to time.

Then he said he noticed something, the girl travelled to zanzibar in Tanzania on a pleasure and vacation trip. He said during that period she doesnt respond to calls and text messages. he was wondering how a student could afford such an experience trip out of the country. In my mind I was like these young yahoo boys must have sponsored such trips.

After he returned from canada to nigeria, back to his base in lagos. they got talking and he asked her to visit him in lagos from calabar

He sent her 320k for her flight ticket,. she requested for some other money which he sent 100k.

Omo after she got the money she didnt book the ticket because according to her the network was bad and she doesnt want it to het stuck.

They started going back and forth of this booking issue. my friend got frustrated along the way , that was when i got to know about the story.

sometimes he would call she wont respond, claiming she is in class. At the end my friend asked her to return the money to his travel agent
somehow she found that suggestion annoying. She angrily told him to send his own account so she can refund that she is no longer interested in seeing me.

My own conclusion in this story is if you are dating a beautiful girl in nigeria, you have a lot to do. The competition is very fierce.

These young yahoo boys at the moment have so much money to lavish on these ladies. If you are a young man doing legit hussle, my advice for you is just focus on your hustle.

Going my your story and your conclusion is not "True" cos from your narrative someone that can send "320k to babe he as not met before is rich

Money is not the problem here, even the Yahoo boiz you so much reverred naa 1st impression, they spend to get to the lady pant after dat its one story or the other, infact the babe fit turn client, borrow me 100k i wan buy log in,e.t.c is coming cash out

i think the babe no just really dey into your guy, the interest no dey naa your Guy just dey force things, i see guys do these a lot, "force". if a babe wants you she will so much express it, women dont know how to hide feelings except the one wey no dey

Bullfallo:
.. the most vital question is how much is dangote is now selling to Nigeria. And how much is NNPC selling crude to dangote in naira.

dont you read news, dangote sells at 995 ....kyari just made it clear why it is that expensive, dem say naa Lamborghini fuel

3exe3:
Bullshit all talk and speculation no real changes the naira is 1700 now but we were told once we sale crude in naira it will help the exchange rate.

only consistency can reflect that change, increase is always spontaneous but there are so many laws around " decrease"

AfonjaConehead:
But the Igbos who are fed up and want out,who want to manage things their own way,you are among those who attack them day and night.
You are among those attacking Nnamdi Kanu,ipob,ESN day and night...and you have mouth to open waaaaa and accuse Nigerians of being incapable of what the op is talking about!!!

Nigerians!

Oga shutup jare, My must una own revolt always be about you and you people alone,

In as much as the igbos keep fighting what they think will only benefit them, Nigerians owe them no attention. lets keep fighting divided

We go dey talk Nigeria matter wey concern everyone, una go dey shout Biafra something your parents just imagined

Trimjos:
After 2027 and if nigeria remains one nation, a law needs to be passed in order to bar Yoruba people from becoming president anytime again in this country. Those guys are not good economic / security managers. It is very apparent that they re not just good in it

That can never happened, the best leadership in the history of Nigeria remains the yoruba,
Google Awolowo policy contribution in western region.
As your sensible uncles about Tunde idiagbon

And as a matter of Fact Obasanjo assembled economic team remain the best we'had ... go and do your research

Every tribe have a bastard, its unfortunate we elected a man even his parent did not want. 2027 Nigerians must make it a duty call we vote out APC/Tinubu..

Any thug or hoodlum that want to chase away other tribe from voting we have yorubas youths to contend with ... Tinubu must never happen again

LegendHero:
What is undemocratic about it? Tell us abeg.

if it was democratic as in free and fairly elected why is he thanking the president,for what exactly or is it an appointment