₦airaland Forum

Precious452:
Her husband is not an object that can be snatched. He made his choices and this is not about her. Connect your brain before you type here next time.

He made a mistake and she made a choice ... her decision nailed the coffin you can't leave her out

HeadNigga:
polygamy is different from cheating. Yul cheated. He allegedly got the woman pregnant and used polygamy to "disguise"...lol

No be from cheating polygamy dey start

SAMBARRY:
over reacted by protecting her dignity? Lol una sha like messiness and she no follow una play that game na why body dey pepper una

You start off wrong , a woman dignity is tided to marriage be under man,
ko sii aponlè fun olori ti o nii ade ori (vice versa) i.e there is no regard for a queen without a crown/king

pick out any divorced celeb in Nigeria whats the public perception ?
when you hear tiwa savage, ini edo, tonto, princess what comes to mind vs

when you hear omotola, joke silva what comes to mind in honesty ??


Trust me, its her life, her loneliness, over 60% of women that filed for divorce years after wished they didnt

CHoccolaTE:
There is nothing like feminism there, polygamy is very unfair and emotionally draining to wives and children, but men in their usual selfishness pretend they don't know this and continue to promote polygamy.

is Life its sef fair ?? even inside monogamy have we not heard stories that resonate " unfair and emotionally "

Men creat polygamy but women decides the atmosphere ..
I have a friend her dad is chief imam, he has 3 wives , 16 children whenever i visited back then the family bond is so strong you can even seperate the children, about 10 of the children don pull themselves into Uk

I agree we men can be selfish But polygamy is not exit sentence ... are the women ready to live in harmony ??

Now she is sounding like cococandy... they are saying one thing and doing another

Marriage is the foundation of family did yul say family is the foundation

nonsense and Tpain

HeadNigga:
May...so may will be without a husband for the rest of her life? I don't envy her...but yul really bleeped up.

Yul fvccked up no doubt but she over reacted, these is africa and she was in raised in africa meaning she has the capacity to absorb polygamy but she allowed feminism mess up her head

MrAmbrose:
I watched that interview on fb. That woman is indeed intelligent, she speaks eloquently, she's indeed a woman of substance. God bless her.

Thats the problem, an average Nigerian would easily ascribe intelligence to eloquence and big english

just speak big big grammar in your village and the king will appoint you village head master ..

Emu4life:
As much as I'm not a Fan of Tinubu, any sensible person can see through the hypocrisy of Western media.
Just take a look at this News and it's headline. Just look at how the Pale Pig in reporting this, successfully turned Nigeria into what his fore father's did to Black slaves in the 18th Century.

If this news and it's headline is true, the Federal Government needs to ban VOA from Nigeria and block all their content. They are purveyors of Fake news

@Moron4Life what is fake about the news,
1. is the arrest
2. Minors arraign for treason or,
3. is the cost of living not excruciatingly high

The police man that told Nigerians those minors are married thats not fake news

rollywise:
You can't even get your words together. You are as confused as your sentence🤷‍♂️

half words dey say is enough 4 the wise ... someone lied

Nigerianization:
You have now contradicted yourself. Your first post emphasizes the need for him to placade the North for a possible second term support. Now you're talking about good names.

It shows you don't understand Asiwaju. He wants power, not good name. Same as Buhari. He got what he wanted and rested. People have priorities. Asiwaju 's priority is state capture when by him or his proxies. You are busy advising someone who said that power is snatched and grabbed by force.

I am not responsible for how you misquote or misconstrue my point,
Look here, no one is asking Tinubu to asslick or give out preferential treatment our demands are as clear as stadium tv and loud like mosque speaker ...Good governance that resonates the interest of Nigerians

NOT asslicking the North does not mean Tinubu govt have to sideline the North ... if all Tinubu cares about is Power over name then he is dummer than you think

if it was military era, use of power would suffice but these is a democratic dispensation, you stand a better chances with the people than against the people. Tinubu used people in 2015 not inec

Maybe you dont know there is a rate at which masses will vote against a candidate even INEC will have no choice, 2015 pre election it was obvious jonathan will cos lose sai baba rented the airspace
Among Tinubu set of 1999, he is the only one relevant till date, not by power but cos he built a name ... show me its a lie
All we need now is for opposition to unite, ..... bring a sensible candidate and Nigerians will show Tinubu he is not immortal

Nigerianization:
If you read what you wrote, you'll see that you're the senseless one. I am not in Asiwaju 's camp and certainly not an ass licker. If Jonathan was this bold, he would have finished his tenure peacefully. The same north you are afraid of will align. You hear North and think it's the people, instead of understanding that it's the political leadership. Asiwaju has them where he wants them. So relax

Maybe jonathan had a better understanding Democracy and most esp. Life ... good name beta pass gold n silver, today Jonathan stands high & celebrated ... after 8yrs where is buhari

i dont expect you to understand my point ... tenure will elapse naa Name go remain .. Tinubu doesnt know that cos he is a foolish old man


Even if Tinubu forcefully re elected himself, after 8yrs nko ... he should go ask Abacha howfar

Sharpsharp00123:
keep quiet there

In your little mind u Igbos believe u can use this against the tinubu u hate with passion

It's just mission failed for u, so now u suddenly love d north n d almajiris u have always hated

People have seen how unstable u are cos u want to play politics n score cheap points

When d boys were looting u Igbos were hailing them that they must show tinubu pepper

N now they are caught u are also blaming tinubu for taming them

2 sided unstable folks

Oga dont make these about igbos, Let Tinubu come to Lagos or south west nd go through the crowd

lets see if yorubas will praise him or rain curses he deserves on him

Cxmanluvs:
I disagree with your opinion on Fed govt releasing those boys to their state for either prosecution or otherwise.


In the first instance, these boys were protesting against the government of Asiwaju led Federal government not their state.

Secondly, they were appealing to foreign Countries to help seize government from a democratic elected Federal government.
(Let them go and convince the court for such action)


Again, they were also inviting Military to forcefully take over from a democratically elected government.


I strongly stand with the Fed government on this prosecution so as to deter future reoccurrences.
Its now left for the court to decide if the accused are guilty or not.
Regardless, next time politicians try to engage them on similar assignments, they'll think twice .

Issues like these only happen when a tryant rules the country,

these as never happened in history , no where in the world you will see govt arraign kids in court .... Tinubu is just shameless and insensitivity. he sees everytin from lens of politics

You can see the Northerners are quiet and just watching on these matter .... 2027 go cum

dustmalik:
Not a single shot at goal for Arsenal in the second half. Everytime I say that we need a clinical, better striker than Havertz, some idiots would argue.

Some of our fans don't observe that Havertz messes up 9 out of 10, but the one time he gets it right, they forget all the other times he messed up.

We will not win anything this season. It's time we let Arteta go, he has had more than enough time to turn things around.

The problem with arsenal is that we easily get clouded in a tik tak, onces a team start marking us 3 to 1 our players only think of passing the ball around .. we forget to aim at net

i expect Arteta to know these things by now, when team fluid mark you .... switch to long pass or thru pass
long passes relax your defense and gives you more option to block the midfield.

Artete will never learn

Nigerianization:
I stand with Asiwaju on this one...... during elections, they are adults but now want to be children. Tinubu understands the game and it's high time the north stop using children as pawns in their Chess game. Na so Hamas and Hezbollah dey do too

Ore pé ashiere gba gbe .... go n seek the yoruba translation

lets even assume you no get sense should Tinubu not understand you dont bite the finger that feed you

Without the North .. Tinubu stands no chance to smell aso rock .
i pray Tinubu continues to misbehave n step on the North ... 2027 is where we all are waiting for the foolish old man

descartes400:
I like this case. It's like a two edged sword.....it's a very bad optics for the government on the one hand, while on the other, it will serve as a deterrent to those who sponsored kids for protest thinking the kids will be pampared and spared.

I expect the nation's intelligence apparatus do their work to fish out the sponsors and make a public show of them with severe weighty charges.

Those sponsporing Terrorism, banditry and kidnapping are not your worries naa kids wey carry flag be your life issue

Everyday polithietificians are looting billiona that could have made life better for all ... naa kids carrying flag make we devote national security to


You are mentally sick sir...

madridguy:


Make we just dey observe. Some wicked people used the small children for their political gains while keeping their own children in schools.

The hoodlums Tinubu uses for to disrupt election for political gains are they not someone children

The unfortunate youths Tinubu used to protest against protest ... are they fall out from the sky ... did seyi tinubu join dem

danvon:
Political blackmail

This is why it's a good thing for Igbos that Peter Obi lost, just imagine the level of emotional and political blackmail the North would have unleashed on an Igbo man - a Christian Igbo man.

Tinubu is the best thing that happened to Nigeria. Exposing their madness.

Work into luth nd book a bed space, you are no okay at all

rollywise:
You so so myopic. You think flexing muscle is what makes you a man 😂. Learn this from the boss, the moment a man begins flex muscles or scream upandan "I'm the man of this house", he's already a failure. Real men don't announce their masculinity, their doings earn them the respect. From all I see here I can categorically say you are failure 😂. I smell inferiority complex everywhere like a burnt beans 😂😂😂. Grow up prodigal son. You so childish 😂

The moment a lady start using the word "Real Men" in an engagement ....

If it based on Nigerians score card ... then petrolum minister should have being among 1st two list of those to get fired.

Those Tinubu fired can Onanuga tell how petroleum minister performed pass dem

As a President Tinubu is a failure and as a petroleum minister he doubled as failure ... that is Nigerians scorecard

Afodot0022:
Thank you.. I believe they are still sensible people here and not those that think with their anus. If he is a good father, he would have advice his daughter to call me before bringing the kids down to him. He has no right over my kids and can't make decisions over them. He is just a useless grandfather. Which grandfather ask for refunds on money he spent on his grand kids. That family I married from are cursed and I regretted I married from such unfortunate family

wow ! you said these people are your Ex and you still carry so much entitlement or should i say " expectation" ... stop having high expectation from people, definitely not an EX

She owes you nothing talkless of her dad, how wil the man even know ? what if he ask and the daughter shrugs it off ?? naa adult naw


Between a father that abandoned his children cos an Ex bruised his ego and a grandfather that raised a cheating wife/mother who sounds useless beko

A man you said has no right over your kids, deserves a refund, yes naw ! e be like you are just clouded in your own reasoning you dont weigh things back n forth

i get you are upset and hurt from the cheating to the divorce, if you like heal if you like continuing venting But kindly note your Ex & her family no owe you anything asides your children's location, around people working with low expectations would better you
Oga make an arrangement and get closer to your kids. all that Me vs dem las las una go dey alright

Afodot0022:
Top of the day to my nairalanders fam.
Majority of people here have idea about my story and if you don't, you can go through my previous post to get a glimpse.

This month made it one year and seven months have been Separated and living apart from my ex wife due to infidelity and cheating from my ex wife part. Since then, my two daughter aged 8 and 7 had been living with her and I do take responsibility of them until this January 2024 when my wife took my kids to her father and step mom place because there was this course she was order to go for 6months officially outside lagos state. I was so angry because she never seek my permission or approval before taking them there and because of this, I stop sending money or paying their fees till now. I[b] saw it as a act of disrespect if I the father can't be informed of where my [/b]kids are been taking to for a long period of time. She already took them there before informing me.

She was supposed to finish her course outside the state by June and since then, she never called me to inform me she is back until yesterday when I put a call to her and she told me she got back since June. I asked about the kids and to my shock, she told me the kids are still there with her father and step mom. How can you leave the kids at your parents place while the father and mother are available, I got so upset and the discussion resulted to insult and curse on phone. She told me she had a serious issue at work and she couldn't combine the kids stress to what she is going through presently. To be honest, I was even thinking to reconcile with her cos of the kids despite she cheated but the way she behave and talks on phone shows she is not remorse or even care if the family is back together or ready for any reconciliation despite the fact she was at fault. Now my kids are my focus but I don't know how to go about this.

The information I got from her dad was that he will not release the kids to either me or her on less the money he had spent on them is refunded back to him. This is already looking like a kidnap and abduction case which I told her that if she doesn't pick those kids before weekend, I will file a case of child kidnap and abduction against her and her father. Pls I need advice on how to go about this and those that have first class experience with such should assist with advice. Thank you all

Wow ! as a father you stop caring about your kids/ your blood because of one yeye woman .. thats totally wrong naw

The woman did wrong no doubt but knowing where your children at is okay , your Ex absence could have been an adavantage if you had "Focus" but you let emotion get the best of you

I dont think your ex inlaw we deny you seein your kids base on there daughter shameful act, you could have just made arrangement to visit them and provide what you can before your children .. @least you did your part, kids of today are smart they are more swayed by what they see


Bro she is your Ex maybe she doesnt owe you even that respect ... wrong play of ego bro !

i will get upset, infact i will shepe for her on phone but i will seize that opportunity wallahi

pocohantas:
No, it didn't. His brothers here convinced him that young virgin career-minded girls would be rushing him in no time. Yet he didn't bother to ask why none of them have hooked these girls. NL RP guys always know the good women but have none...

And if they do how will you know .. aunty you are just a winch not omnipresent .. besides

You know all the things you know about men ... you no dey among chosen

olyrayy:
He recently broke record for power generated at 5000 MW. So, actually, it has gone up.

you disappointed even more than i estimated


As far back as 2012 we did generated 5000 mega watt, Maybe some of you dont know our capacity is 11,165MW and till date, we are yet to surpass half (5582) ... so where is the improvement

Under one week National grid collapsed 3 times and someone thinks we have improved

Usmanovic95:
The only time Nigerians unite is when SUPER EAGLES or any national team is playing,when it comes to politics, regionalism, tribalism, favoritism and all will play it's part. I have been a Nigerian all my life to know so much about my country people. If NIGERIANS were united for once, APC shouldn't have had 100k vote nation wide in the last presidential election. Now power is in the hand of dictator who is not a refined gentleman like Jonathan,he knows politics can never unite us, so he will capitalize on the loophole to win.I might sound like a pessimist but im just been a realist.

My point is whatever unite us as a people to defend ourselves against ghana, south africa & any other foreigners that cross us on social media, we just need to bring that same spirit into reality we can defeat anyone.
Tinubu wields power no doubt but Nigerians are more powerful but we channel our energy on rubbish most times

If we are ready we can kick out any govt. with the current rate of hardship i am very optimistic before 2027 our brains go don reset.. i cant imagine Tinubu 2nd term that man is nothing but evil

JASONjnr:
The power sector is improving... But he needs to look into the excess charges from the electrical distribution companies as they're manipulating the system to charge innocent Nigerians...

Whether you are using the estimated bill or prepaid meter. The charges will leap up without a notice.

In what way as it improved ??

Ikaeniyan0:
Adelabu is one of the best minister. It does not make any sense to sack him. Sacking Adelabu is like sacking Umahi.

On what basis or should i say weytin you see

Shadomaan7:
Adelabu should be given more time to sort things out. The power situation in Nigeria is gradually improving

If the word is "improving" i wonder how your life go be

Before Adelabu came on board what was the generated megawatt, as it gone up or surpassed

How much were Nigerians paying for darkness before vs now

For any bus stop between oshodi to toll gate dem suppose dey slap you nii

Usmanovic95:
Tinubu will only lose if the election is a credible one but let's be real with ourselves, we all know the election won't be credible. It will be the norm snatch grab and run.Tinubu can't lose an election he is conducting. Only a violent revolution can unseat him, but we are not ready for that.

The way an average Nigerians thinks is an attestation people have been conquered,

Nigerians are just like a lion intimidate by wolfs incissors ... if only the lion could look in the mirror.

we carry so much power but yet we refuse to see it ... it amuses how Nigerians united to take on ghana or south africa/foreigner when they cross us on social media


All we have to do is redirect that social media energy/madness we have to real life threats ...
Deji is right to some extent, But i dont believe even a Tinubu can not be kicked out if Nigerians are ready ... no be say jonathan no wan rigg 2015 election but the joint force against him was just too overwhelming for Inec to rigg
We can kick any president out if we are ready .... noise of sai baba in 2015 was so predominant even Inec knew the people's choice as to prevail or Nigeria would burn, only Nigerians can save Nigerians, not the opposition or anyone

Jamesclooney:
So Deji, if Tinubu and INEC had a merger in 2023, how will INEC have allowed another party win? Can’t you see they clearly position Atiku 2nd & Obi 3rd on purpose? What stops them from still declaring Tinubu 1st & United opposition 2nd by a small margin?

Anyway what can I expect from VDM’s lawyer….Delulu

You are not grasping Deji point .... with Buhari sitting body language If Atiku and obi votes were united it would have being a overwhelming force for Inec to rigg .... Buhari just need an excuse to sideline Tinubu

Buhari knew Tinubu better and knows the wickedness Tinubu was coming to inflict on Nigerians ...
definitely Tinubu must have been pushing his draconian policies and recommendations to Buhari but he declined most i guess
when Buhari said you people will miss me ... now it makes sense

pandax:
Nigeria has not recovered from Ghana Must Go till date!. You do not send people away with hate, the same mentality brought Zimbabwe to its knees as we speak

Interesting !! But how ??
Between Nigeria and Ghana who is better off today have you visited ghana at anytime is it more develop than Nigeria


Recover in what sense, between ghana and Nigeria who is in position to help who ...

People are asking for Biafra and you say we are sending them away ... did you misplace your number 6