₦airaland Forum

Kobicove:
I refuse to believe that this is real.

This person is just looking for engagement!

isyourboy:
I’m not the begging type as I have a lot of things going on for myself. My sister joined her husband in Canada last year courtesy of her husband. Outside of the little 50k, 100k there that this man used to send to me (I don’t know how much he gives my parent — In law, by the way ), he’s never thought of establishing me in business or find a way for me to join my sister in Canada.

Even most times you have to remind him before he send the pittance he sent to me. Last week, I told him to find a way for me to join my sister in Canada, and he said he’s still paying for the debt he took for my sister to join him and he want to send her to school also. Meanwhile I didn’t know this. Okay then I can wait. After then I told him to find me a bulk sum so I can start some business. He asked how much and I said 5M naira would be enough, he cut the phone, called him back and send him msg on WhatsApp which he read and didn’t reply. I called my sister and told her what her husband did and she said she will talk to him.

You have been in Canada for a while and little things to give back to the family is difficult for you? Not his fault

NNtv:
No body is praying for such a misfortune to come upon him but life can be unfortunate sometimes.

Imagine inviting your girlfriend to spend the weekend with you, at your place and she died in her sleep. You as the boyfriend is innocent but it just happened that death came to her at that unplanned time. What is the best way to approach this–in accordance with the law?

I'm asking this question not because of yinka's fate in the image attached below but I have had an experience where the lady I invited over was rubbed while going back from my place. I use to ask myself those times "what if this girl died from this experience?" what would have happened to me?

So, after seeing this news by punch newspaper, it reminded me of my experience and I want to ask the best move to make in a case like yinka's.

Dididrumz:
Nigeria

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franchasng:
Not leaving Nigeria very early in life. I should have been talking about retiring from anything work or business if I had left Nigeria at say 23 years of age.


Not digging gold when I got married. If I had married the politician daughter they recommended and linked me to, I would have been at least a House of Reps member today. But I felt I didn't want to marry someone whose father would be influencing my marriage, that was a huge mistake. If you see such opportunity as a single young man reading this, please grab it fast, all those rubbish mentality I had then was a huge mistake jareh, their influence will not last forever, at most 10 years.


To all single guys reading, whenever you want to marry, please if you see gold dig it very well. Love is a fallacy, don't marry just because of love or physical beauty or any other nonsense reason like big nyash, sex, etc. The girl's parents and family status matters a lot, if you think you dont need it now, you will need it tomorrow. Look at Ebuka Obi, he dug his gold perfectly by going for Young Shall Grow Motor's owner daughter. Even if Ebuka likes today he can squander all his wealth, his father-in-law's wealth will still keep his children wealthy for life because Young Shall Grow will definitely will a lot of assets to his daughter, Ebuka's wife and even her kids, I will do same for my daughter and her kids.



And to the young graduates still claiming Nigeria will favor me, continue deceiving yourself, your parents said the same thing, all the wealthiest Nigerians you see today once migrated abroad or lived abroad, majority of them, so if you see any opportunity to leave Nigeria, do so fast, the earlier the better for you. Leave fast, work, save, invest back in Nigeria via real estate, hotels, nightclubs, lounges, gym centers, avoid rentage building investment.


Also look for a trusted relative or friend, there is always one or two trusted relative or friend that wont rip you off, work with him or her, leverage on the two locations you know; the developed country you live and Nigeria by buying used things there, load in a container, add some tokunbo cars and send to Nigeria to resell....over time hire or rent or build a warehouse in a good city location, so you will be known for that and you will be sending these used items with container on regular basis and you have carved out a business niche for yourself to keep you busy when you decide to retire back in Nigeria.

Juliearth:
We are truly in hard times. Sir, if you can squeeze out a budget of 1 million and buy all the dry ingredients in bulk. Thus, monthly, you would spend less than 50k on perishables.

You could buy Rice in bags, meats in bulk (half cow, full goat, etc)
Bulk shopping for 6 months saves cost.
If you have dependent in-laws they will finish it for you in one month.


Need I also say that a scale of preference needs to be drafted out and implemented. If I had a family, we would go minimal on cereals because those are actually poisonous to our bodies. That can be replaced with healthier alternatives.

pansophist:
The age gap is not the issue, its the maturity.

For example, a man of 45 years can marry a woman of 30 years old and no one with see it as abnormal.

So the difference between an 18 years old girl and a 33 years old man is her maturity, and the consent of those who loves her, such as her guardians.

This is the kind of situation where arranged marriage is very important, because the responsibilities of vetting you properly is not something the 18 years old girl is matured or experienced enough to do herself.

With such maturity gap, there is a risk that an irresponsible man will find it easy to manipulate and marry a naive girl who lack the life experience to hold him accountable on anything, especially when it comes to providing and treating her good.

So if you must marry her, make sure it includes traditional marriage, which will involves all her family members, and their participation is an evidence to the approval of your union.

So not just court marriage that involves few people which you can recruit yourself.

Kewekubosineh:
Point of correction.

Professor Victor Osodoke is Professor Soil Science at Ambrose Alli University Ekpoma, as Edo state and Not Michael Okpara University of Agriculture,Umudike,Abia state.

Whereas Ambrose Alli University Ekpoma is a state funded university, Michael Okpara University of Agriculture Umudike Abia state is a federal funded university.

Please take Note.

Anyway, congratulations on the newly elected ASUU president. One hopes his era will bring renewed hope to embattled Nigerian universities.

Houseontherock1:
Most of the money has been paid- in full

Goo0dHardDick:
The woman now looks fat older than the man. That man can get an 18years old girl if he wishes.

The point is, women age faster than men. those oloshos and hookup girls waiting to reap where they did not sow will understand what life is when they've passed their prime

ufotunang:
.. but the costs of living was low.. and people then was not desperate for money at that time due to the costs of living was low and low inflation...and people were living a simple life..not extravagant luxurious life and people then were contended and satisfied with what they have.. Nigerians at that time were not materialistic .not desperate to drive flashy cars because they were satisfied with what they have.. mobile phones did not come out at that time .. even if people did not have money to buy milk drinking tea without milk.. people were still happy with that and contended and not complaining...if it's now many people will prefer to go and steal.milk.or money inorder to buy milk for the tea..
But those days people will.not steal.money to buy milk inorder to drink tea

ufotunang:
.at that time the economy and country was good... foodstuffs and other things were cheap, costs of living was low..not now that the economy is bad , hyper inflation, high costs of living, high costs of foodstuffs..things are very expensive now..so that is why they are desperate for money inorder to survive the hard economy

InfoGuru118:
https://timesngr.com/2025/04/12/10-things-to-know-about-late-nigerian-football-coach-christian-chukwu/

ledaman:
It was Late Stephen Keshi that lifted the trophy in 1994 not Christian Chukwu.

iwaeda:
https://dailytrust.com/tinubu-hunger-coming-down-food-prices-dropping/

TimeManager:
https://leadership.ng/crash-in-food-prices-shows-economic-policies-working/

Rafelstan:
I just ported to airtel
3k for 20gb but they suck data like blood

GanagiBitrus:
👉ESPN

anonimi:
Are you unaware that basic education is free for Brits