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Daddy freeze is saying what all christians know but have no guts to voice them. They'll say it's God's grace, but deep down they know it's the tithe and all that.

alBHAGDADI:


We hate them because God hates them as well.

We hate what God hates.

Then why did God create them?

I thought OP was making sense at first. Any person of any religion doing good because of an afterlife isn't human enough to me.

The kind of news I want to hear

Nice one! Let Uniport do same

Sir Otokx good morning, my cousin had 256 in his postutme and 233 in his jamb. He put pharmacy in his jamb any hope sir?

Last last this phone go still dey hang..

What's the price?

No wonder, who noticed the konga app wasn't working so well yesterday.

BAAD matter still dominating front page

What visa has join together,no embassy shall put asunder..HML

Just observing

Lalasticala come and see front page material

OP leme help

People often ask me where I get the ideas for some of the articles I write. The truth is, a lot of the time, you’ve got to find inspiration in the un-inspirational. People who complain or are negative can often make you say, “Hey, it really shouldn’t be that way, and I want to say something about it.”

One of these situations that really grinds my gears is when people generalize all relationships as negative. By this I mean they make unattractive blanket statements that classify being with someone as inherently ill-fated. I mean, that really fries my chicken. It seriously burns my toast.

Here are some myths being perpetuated in our society that stem from a fundamental misunderstanding of what a relationship really is. Unfortunately, people may have had these experiences more than once, and begin to generalize as well as begin to express their opinions as overall fact.

1) You think everybody cheats.

This one is pretty basic. Kind of like Why Relationships Suck 101. Men cheat, women cheat, or maybe you cheat, and you can only assume that everyone else acts the way that you do. Maybe this has even happened to you more than once.

The truth is… hear me out here… not everybody cheats. There are people out there who possess the self control to understand that a loving, healthy relationship will bring more satisfaction than a temporary physical act. Typically, we call these people “mature, respectable adults” and if you only commit yourself to one of them, you may have a more positive experience.

2) You see your friends unhappy.

Maybe you’re single but your friends are in relationships. Maybe they don’t make the best choices when it comes to partners, and they are, overall, unsatisfied. It’s only natural that this will affect your perception of what is normal for our generation, but you are not them, and their circumstances aren’t your circumstances.


If we just take the time to listen, observe, and learn from other peoples’ experiences, we can make better decisions when it comes to our own. You do not have to be a victim of circumstance, you can create your own.

3) You think you’ll be held back in life.

You do not have to choose success or a relationship, all you need is to find someone who will support and encourage you along your journey. People, in general, can be lazy and unmotivated. They fall into routines and their happiness or self-motivation dwindles and this negativity can be contagious, especially in a relationship.

It’s difficult to plan a future with someone who doesn’t have any plans for their own future. This is what makes it so important to really get to know someone as well as their hopes, dreams, and ambitions, before you commit to them.

The right person will be your support system, and never discourage you.

4) You think you’ll have to give up your friends.

Why is it that so many people feel as though if you’ve got a girlfriend or a boyfriend, you can no longer communicate with members of the opposite sex? This, to me, is a serious trust issue and is a red flag right off the bat. When it is understood that you are two individual people with two individual lives that existed before you knew each other, it makes life much easier.

When you’re happy with someone, wouldn’t you rather introduce them to everyone and become part of each others’ lives, rather than cutting everyone else out?

5) You’ve had multiple relationships with the same person.

Have you ever seen a fly that keeps flying into a glass door when there is an open window on another wall, but they never seem to notice it? They just continue to fly into that closed window and when you’re watching, it’s obvious they’ll never get through. You just want to redirect them over to the open window – this is how some people treat relationships.

If you continue to go back to the same person over and over and over again, you are the fly trying to get out of the door. It’s only natural that you’ll think that every other door or window will be closed too, but sometimes, you’ve got to stop and look around the room.

6) You’ve been fishing in the same pond.

Perhaps worse than catching the same fish only to throw them back and catch them again, is to continue catching multiple different fish of the same kind.

Many of us tend to stay in the same circles. We often go to the same places on the weekends or fall into a routine that limits how many new people we meet. Similar to the fly in the previous example, this is a situation of how we represent the world to ourselves. We find only what we choose to focus on, and much will be illuminated if we step outside of our comfort zone and surround ourselves with different types of people.

7) You think all relationships end anyway, so why bother?


There are two sides to this coin. First, yes — most relationships do end. But, not all of them. Am I saying that you’ll be one of the lucky ones who ends up in a The Notebook-esque marriage with a white picket fence, a dog, and 2.5 kids? Of course not. But, to prevent yourself from having a positive experience before it even begins will do more harm than good.

Secondly, why bother? For the same reason I’ve mentioned in previous articles. Sure, relationships end, but so do movies. So do books. So do nice dinners. But we still give our time, effort, and money to experience these things, because it’s the experiences along the way that make life beautiful.

Why bother? Because each person who enters our lives helps us grow into the person we will become.

What do all of these points have in common? The inherent negativity does not come from the fact that you were in a relationship, but from the person who you were with.

We have all had bad (learning) experiences along the way, but it’s important that we don’t let them contaminate our future.

The next person you bump into when walking around the corner has a completely different genetic makeup, experiential background, family upbringing, and outlook on life than the last person you broke up with.

The question we each have to ask ourselves when meeting someone new is: Am I going to let this person take the blame for the actions of someone they’ve never met, or am I going to explore the entire new work of experiences that they can show me?

The answer is up to you.

Black Friday dinnur epp anybody here in Nigeria ..nobody should even mention jumia here!

Two ex agbero

Rachealoduah:
me too 2018 will make it the third one,my scores respectively are 194 and 240 I'm very positive I'll have 300+ this time around thanks

That's d spirit..just work hard towards it nd by this time next year jamb will be history.

I've written jamb twice

Rachealoduah:
Chigalakinsley pls is that what you did and what did you score

338 utme and 344 post utme...had 225 utme d previous year

dannyboii1:
congrats to those admitted into mobs.....
please guys can you drop tips on how to prepare well for next jamb

how can we score 300+ in the next utme/post ume

what textbooks are best

help!!!!!

felix00
Donpre
otokx

Don't leave your pastquestions! (tonad 1978-2017)biology,chemistry,physics do from 1978-2017 twice before the exam for mostly biology, physics and chemistry then make sure you revise 1990-2017 for all the 3subjects a week or two weeks prior to the exam.
Finish the whole of your Modern biology textbook twice
The whole of your new school physics textbook twice
The whole of your new school chemistry textbook twice
Have a jotter and jot down main points in every topic in the textbook the 3 textbooks above.
Read your concords in English,noticed something in English, most people always score above 60 in it but you can still try to increase that,make sure you concentrate 100% on the other 3subjects.
Make sure you touch every single topic in biology,chem and physic let the past question be your guide... First read the whole textbook then you start answering the pastquestions so you'll know the wrong answers in it.
I know it's difficult but if you really want above 300 in your post utme and jamb then it should be worth it.
For you to achieve all this you need to start reading now!
Lastly, for the physics and chemistry make sure you keep your scientific calculator aside and use only a pocket calculator for your calculations while doing your pastquestions and answer.
If you do all this you must score above 300 in both exams,emphasis on the"must".

walcut:


mention me as soon as you see it so that I would Modify

seen u cn modify

walcut:

I wasn't able to access the link but I wanna send it through the mail so reply the pm.

drop ur contact leme add u to the group

Medicine and surgery can nw check their CAPS it has been updated...mine just changed to congratulations

If it's in Nigeria now our overzealous police officers will tell her to better vomit the condom or they'll shoot ..who has time to take her for a scan in Nigeria sef,who'll pay for the scan Nigerian police??

The tv is so close, at that distance it poses a threat to our fragile eyes..he would have at least made provision for the tv to retract downwards and upwards when we want to make use of it so we won't kick it when sleeping,but clearly he didn't do that..then those wires!!!

Iron jam iron

Santinojr:
My school FUTO haven't released their admission list but my caps admission status says congratulations u have been admitted.. Please what does this mean

same thing is happening to my sis she put UST

Waiting for somebody to call Buhari

Even UNN sef people that didn't merit medicine got admitted in their merit list while aspirants with way higher aggregates for same course didn't get admitted...is there any where that you won't find corruption in Nigeria