₦airaland Forum

jadelyn007:
ok. Since you said we r discussing adv n disadv here let me share my opinion;

Disadv --- Nil

Adv ---- 1. Reduced divorce rates in the sense that no one will divorce a spouse because of adultery

2. Reduced adultery rates in the sense that if you know you will get same dose of the same medicine you give your spouse, you will more likely not commit adultery.
Again adultery seems very enticing for most people because as they say 'stolen meat is usually very sweet' considering the thrills involved.

3. If you know your husband can cheat on you without any repercussion when you start slacking in your responsibilities you will buckle up, If you know your wife can cheat on you without any repercussion when you start slacking in your responsibilities you will buckle up

4. It will save couples all the heartache that comes with infidelity considering that when you don't over-expect from anyone, you don't get disappointed


By the way, adultery has never been a crime and will never be a crime. Its all just religious restrictions.

wow... This point is correct...

jadelyn007:
the truth that 99.9% of nairaland men/boys claim all men cheat

you are funny. Who is talking about NL men. I am not of real men outside this forum. Besides it depends on the section of nl where you find these “so called“ men.
Therefore if you say 99.9% of nl men in romance & sexuality section, i will not argue u cos it is the truth. They are there actually to cheat.

jadelyn007:
for real? Do you just deliberately decide to ignore the truth or what?

lolzzz
What truth? U want to stampede me into accepting that all men cheat? No ma‘am all men doesnt cheat.
85% of men out there are not interested on any woman outside their woman.

cococandy:
That doesn't mean people can't file for divorce because of adultery. They still can.

What it means is that the person who committed the adultery unlike before won't be held punishable under the law for that.

when something is not punishable under the law, then on what bases will the court base their judgment? Court judgement is based on what the law & constitution saw.

cococandy:
really? Maybe you're new to NL because majority of guys here claim they are cheats and have no self control.

Well of course I agree they are trying to justify their actions.

lolzzz am not new in nl but i dont really have time for soft sales. I am a hardnews person.

People create quotes and make statements based on their state of mind at a particular point in time.

Qiewz11:
They have left us to our fate. It is time to do away with those clowns. We will succeed with or without their support

we have always been on our own...

All hail our gallant soldiers... Never Again will our land be taken by insugents... NEVER AGAIN...

Somebody shout NEVER AGAIN

EroticAngelina:
I never played that.

not for girls then.

I enjoyed it so much

jadelyn007:
people chant the mantra 'all men cheat'?

Better get used to it now and stop living in a the land of fairy tales

all men cheat... All men are the same... Etc are what most women & girls say. I doubt if a man will say all men cheat unless that man who is trying to justify his act.

AJOT99:
It is not a crime in men's eyes but it is God's sight.
God's standard cannot be changed.

even to human being it is evil.

In my culture it is totally condemned.

jadelyn007:
lol, so you do not condemn the adultery going on around you everyday in your immediate environment, you'd rather go condemn the act of adultery in far away korea. If that isn't hypocrisy, then what is?

i dont know how u come to this conclussion. I have never encouraged adultery and i can never encourage it both here in Nigeria or anywhere else.

I openned this tread so that we can talk about the disadvantages & advantages of legalising adultery.

ahaz:
#Never again

never again will GMB rule Nigeria.

We wish him sweet & smooth retirement to Daura. We wish him to live over 120years with his cows, wife, children, grand children, great grand children etc.

We dont want him to die of stress generated by governance.




Naira Landers Please do join the #NeverAgain team and make it to trend on twitter...

siegfried99:
All of the above

u be correct guy biko

jadelyn007:
lol, as usual, the hypocrisy of Nigerians come to play. Even chronic cheats and those who shout "all men cheat, just keep fasting and praying for him to change" will criticize the korean government. I repeat again, keep deceiving yourselves. As if adultery is not already the norm in Nigeria. Who even raises eyebrows at adulterous people these days unless they are women?

adultery is not a norm in Nigeria though some Nigerians engage in it.

Why eyebrows are being raised when a woman indulges in adultery more than men is because, a woman cant be in another man‘s house carying another man‘s baby in her womb.

When someone oppose adultery it doesnt make that person a hypocrite. Believe it or not, more than 85% of Nigerian men are not adulterous. But as always, the bad few are always seen everywhere and people tend to think that evrybody is doing it.

Our constitution is silent about adultery but our socio cultural and morality even Bible is not silent about it.

IYADARA:
Do you think is too early to start putting a break to such?
Did i mention walking naked most time is our routine?
When do babies start giving meanings to what they see?

dear i wont blame you for the past but i will blame you if continue to make love infront of your baby even if the baby is a day old.

Now hear this:- when my daughter was about 5 months. We were in the kitchen and she tried touching the the pot which was on the stove. I think the vapour attracted her. Then she felt the heat from the pot and quickly withdrew her hand. My dear sister now he is a year and 2months and uptil now she doesnt try touching anything that is on the stove whether there is fire under it or not.

When she was about 9months as someone that started walking newly, she almost fail inside gutter and since then till now, she doesnt go near any gutter.
The funiest part is that she doesnt go near that very spot where she almost fell. Though it has been covered with iron.

So my sister because of my little knowledge on child‘s psychology i try my best to not even allow anybody watch any movie on the channel when she is in the sitting room. I restricted everybody to watching TV channels like JIM JAM, CHILDSMILE or they play for her children movies that i bought for her.

When i was alone with my wife, we enjoy staying naked but as the child came i stopped going to the sitting room naked. My wife still enjoys staying naked, i dont mind because they are females anyday i have a boy. I willtell her to stop it. For now am the only man in my house am already used to all the bum shots and unclothedness but i wont expose my little son to it at a tender age.
Their minds are young and tender and can copy more than you can imagine.

siegfried99:
* * * climbs ugwu tree ***

wait o. Did u climb “ugwu (mountain)“ tree or “ugu (pumkin) tree“


Lolzzzz

EggovinMma:
I dont support adultery but as long as it's not one sided, kudos.

that means soon no one will like to tie him/herself down in the name of marriage...

jadelyn007:
Finally, korea has seen the light, waiting for Nigeria to see the light too so that we can all stop deceiving ourselves.

light keh? Lolzzz

goryorhal this is what is bad about our generation. I raised up issues and you left them and started attacking me, by calling names. Thats funny anyway.

Well i am not suffering, i am employer of labour. I have people working for me directly and i have those working for me indirectly.
My advice to you is that you go and make out something better for yourself and stop waiting for the government & your rich uncles. Even if they give you money today, you wont even know whereto invest it because you are not really creative. So friend. Get up & get going. Work hard cos it pays. Governmentwont do everything for you.

God bless you

StunningCEO:
janagoat is d president. wat did he do. u force him to be president? anyway... i am sorry dat u experience dis, ds is y jonagoat must go..

GEJ wont go because we know more than we are being told.

GEJ is our man till 2019...

isan:
What is the impact of dis growing economy on nigerians? no job , no security, many bad roads , no portable water and many more

on jobs... In my state... So many job opening in agriculture.
Now! Whatare u doing to create job or make yourself relevant to Nigeria.

On roads:- you must know that states has more roads inside their state than FG. In my states my former governor & present one has transformed our roads & federal roads is becoming sweeter.
Now what is your governor doing to make your roads better?

On security- apart from boko haram, are you expecting mr president to come keep security in your state where your governor is the Chief Security officer.
In my state my governor has done so well in security, he is doing what we elected him to do.

On portable water: why did u vote in your state governor? What is he voted in to do?

Let us not drop everything on the feet of GEJ.

StunningCEO:
not protect our pipul fm terror becos der r muslims.

did u say because they are muslims? Jesus Christ! What kind of people do we have in Nigeria?
Remember Sultan of Sokoto, Northern Elders Forum and General Buhari said that fighting BH is a fight against the North because then they were burning down churches and killing those who are not notherners & muslims.

My church was bombed down, school raised to the ground, my pastor killed in cold blood. His young wife made widow & you are talking trash.

When none muslims & none northerners ran away that was when Boko haram started killing anybody they see in sight. Because sometimes dogs bite their owners too.

GEJ till 2019... God‘s GRACE will make it happen

IbnSultaan:
"On corruption there would be no confusion where I stand. Corruption will have no place & the corrupt would not be a part of my govt."Buhari"


We will be tough on terrorism and tough on its causes":

If I am elected, we will increase intelligence gathering & border patrols to choke #BokoHaram

i still dont know how GMB will fight corruption with Amaechi, Tinubu, Atiku etc still members of his party.

Which Bokoharam is he talking about? This boko haram that will inless than 2weeks go into extintion.

Our gallant SOLDIERS will soon wipe out & close the dark era of boko haram...
GMB funny sha

psucc:
In US, some states had legalized marijuana and others.
South Korea follows with Adultery
Europe LGBT and same sex marriage.

We look forward to God Almighty to help us in this kind of situation.

soon the world will legalise sex with minor & even rape.

killerman47:
We ttend to mix up morals and law; in this part of the world we tend to mix up religious "sin" and constitutional laws; please in whose constitution in this world (except for the islamic extremist like d saudis) is adultery a crime? Who gets arrested, prosecuted and convicted with adultery or fornication as the "crime"... In as much as my morales and religion frowns at it; please we should all learn to be civil and seperate morals and religious dogmas from constitutional laws... Adultery has NEVER been a constitutional crime; it is something only frowned at by our various religious and moral persuations.... Tnk U...

adultery was a crime in South Korea until yesterday when it was legalized.

Sir I dont really understand the point you are trying to make.

Please what does constitutional laws stand to teach us? Is it not how to live morally upright by obeying those laws?

In my culture adultery is not only frowned at but it is a crime. People kill those whom they caught with their spouses. We have read, heard & seen pour acid on someone either for cheating on them or for being seing with thier spouse.

In the United States today what are most of their divorce cases based on? Cheating (infidelity). If countries like the USA legalizes adultery what it will mean is that their divorce rate will drop. Because noone can file for divorce becasue of infidelity and that will mean “free for all adultery.“

Any constitutional law that will not promote morality in the society is anti people. No matter how the people see it.

simplyOJ:
They must have weigh the pros and cons and found
it expedient to legalize adultery. Legal or no legal,
those who want to commit adultery will still do.

You may be surprise, this lift may even reduce adultery.
There is something with placing sanction on a thing; human
derives pleasure breaking it and enjoying it in the secret, but by the
time you lift the ban, man becomes passionate about it for a while,
but in no time, losses steam. Just watch.

i kind of believe in ur point

Gogetta:
£20,000 is working! Lol

primumtimes said $20000 u have turned it to £20000 lolzzz...

Which TV is showing this GMB speech in chattan house?

GreatOlu1:
Omo! And they play holy in their love films... Chai gals don suffer for Lee Min Ho's hand.

lolzzz
In movies they will promote clean moral in family value because legalisn adultery does not mean advising everyone to go into it though it will surely encourage many men & women to dare into it...

Royalroy and tgirl4real this should be moved to the front page so that many people will contribute to this topice.

There are so many homes that got broken every day in Nigeria because one of the two people involved were caught or rumoured to have committed adultery. Acid and other dangerous weapons have been used by those felt they have been cheated by thier spouse.

Right now in South Korea u cant ask for a divorce because your spouse committed adultery. I think this is endtime.

Move it to front page let guys and girls share their opinions... Thank u

South Korea has just announced that adultery is no longer a crime. What is this world turning into? Wont this give rise to infidelity?

Source NTANEWS24 (10AM NEWS)

As a Nigerians what do you think about this?

Do you think this is good for family growth and unity?

I think legalising adultery will break more homes & many hearts. It might be easier for a woman to bear the pain of adultery, I doubt if men can stand it.

Friends & follow nairalanders lets discuss the advantages and disadvantages of legalising adultery.

francizy:
I'd rather be a poor PDP supporter than a wealthy supporter of a party full of lies and deciet

tell them bro... They need to hear it

ellechrystal:
T
, E hugs..
We go hear am. Ayo Fayose wasn't wrong afterall.
Wen he was talking, ppl were raining abuses on him. Calling him all sort of names, now they r praising him for exposing d general.
Let's just watch.

we will keep watching as it unfolds...

Thank GOD for FAYOSE

Here2BustnScrew:
I will us to officially welcome a brother into the family, by the name Francizy.

francizy welcome to the house of wisdom