missjenna:

No, why do you ask?

Nice Comment, U spoke like one. "When it comes to the environment having an influence on the individual" otherwise called "the Nature vs Nurture Controversy"

bestestgirl:

falls from banana tree

who tot u ow 2 climb banana tree?jare u a jungle gal?

sampitts:
That is called child abuse! You never do such in front of your kid, not even in front of a two month old.

And the baby is staring but she wants to ask if it's wrong?

No it's not wrong
Put it on youtube

IYADARA:


it is not always a bed thing alone ooooo...kitchen, dinning, sitting room....you know we are still doing it like wen we were alone....pls dont mind my vulgarity

in 2face voice, do it bloody enter sky, in d kitchen n in d chair, on d floor n on d bed,... Na so e dey sweet?? Lolz

anthoniaz:
Lmao @comments.

dnt jez lauf say sumfin.

IYADARA:
thanks to those who have replied in just few minutes of post... i can imply from ur reply that is wrong...is never too late to correct this.....we are new/young couple.......thanks again we will adjust

I don't think you should be worried. I guess that most of the people that gave a contrary advise are not married. Babies at that age remember nothing about that when they grow up. Why not search online for established facts on this issue. Besides, making sure the baby is asleep and will not wake up during the act will kill all elements of spontaneity in your love life, that in turn may lead to boredom and both of you may start missing the days when you were adventurous.

cherryice:

pls stop with the mentions, answer him if you must without my moniker, thanks

AND NOW SHES .........

WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN?

Why not have the baby in his/her room, you can leave a mobile near the baby cot you'll know when the baby wakes up and check frequently

missjenna:
Op, its a surprise that you are more concerned about loosing concentration during intercourse than on the effect such practice is having on your child.

I don't think you should even have sex with your husband when your child is asleep on the same bed. Not to talk of the child being awake and seeing this time and time again
I know the child is young and might not fully be aware of his environment but you shouldn't rule out the psychological effect these images would have on the mind of the child
Its like letting your baby watch porn

One thing I never rule out is the crucial roles the environment plays in the development of a child
You may feel like the child doesn't understand anything at this stage, but just like in the case of language learning, his brain is assimilating and storing up information in a fast process.

Whenever you want to do a "quicky" with your husband, its best you make sure the kid is asleep or better still, you put him in the care of someone else, probably a maid or any other person in the house.

Thanks

wow! Well said!! Never been disappointed by any of your comments. I'm hitting the follow button right away!

vjsmiles:
AND NOW SHES .........

WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN?

been how?

Pls you derailing, bye

NovusHomo:


Raisin a hoe........





......From age 6 months,................



Damn shame!

Don't be so harsh that's someone's kid right there

cherryice:

been how?

Pls you derailing, bye

WAH EVER!
MHE GONE

U can change that now ma'm cus subconscious does lead unconscious event to become conscious

There is no evidence that a baby will be trumatised by parents having sex. They won't even remember or know what is going on. Only time you should be concerned is when they start asking questions about what's going on.

babyosisi:


Tell your husband to pull out his ojolima and get out there find a better job and move you out of a one room so the baby can have their own room or else you will be doing it soon with 5 kids watching.

Lol...

AgapeCharis:
wow! Well said!! Never been disappointed by any of your comments. I'm hitting the follow button right away!

Thanks

[b]Those who are not yet married here are just exaggerating...Let the married ones who have been there and done that speak... People like us. Now madam first of all you need to remove the thought from your mind that your kid knows what you are doing with your husband because he or she absolutely does not. At that stage in life all they know are emotions.. i.e is mummy happy or is daddy happy or sad or angry. They are reading expression and not action. if you and your husband start quarreling in his or her presence you will notice your baby will start crying and when you are happy baby will also be happy. My wife and i have been down this road so i speak authoritatively that even the smartest baby at 6 months knows not what you are doing and it does not register in their subconscious. Even at 1yr old it still does not register.

However if it still troubles your mind then you and your husband can work on your timing. By now you should know when your baby sleeps or wakes up so your sex life should revolve around that timing. When he or she is sleeping then you grab your quickie and that is if you are not comfortable leaving the baby in another room with a toy as a distraction. You are only allowing your imagination run wild when you say you loose focus because your baby is staring at you. Trust me i know what i am saying. [/b]

missjenna:
Op, its a surprise that you are more concerned about loosing concentration during intercourse than on the effect such practice is having on your child.

I don't think you should even have sex with your husband when your child is asleep on the same bed. Not to talk of the child being awake and seeing this time and time again
I know the child is young and might not fully be aware of his environment but you shouldn't rule out the psychological effect these images would have on the mind of the child
Its like letting your baby watch porn

One thing I never rule out is the crucial roles the environment plays in the development of a child
You may feel like the child doesn't understand anything at this stage, but just like in the case of language learning, his brain is assimilating and storing up information in a fast process.

Whenever you want to do a "quicky" with your husband, its best you make sure the kid is asleep or better still, you put him in the care of someone else, probably a maid or any other person in the house.

Thanks

You ve done justice to the question. God bless you

Hahaha this thread is very funny

vjsmiles:
YOU GUYS ARE PROGRAMMING HIS OS TO ..

I WOULDNT DO SUCH EVEN IF IT WAS A DOG WATCHING

Your dereeee....

[quote
author=babyosisi post=31113956]

Tell your husband to pull out his ojolima and get out there find a
better job and move you out of a one room so the baby can have their own
room or else you will be doing it soon with 5 kids watching.[/quote]
Why are you like this?
You made me laugh so loud.

AwesomelyMade:

Why are you like this?
You made me laugh so loud.

That was the main purpose
To make someone laugh

OF COURSE SOMEBODY IS WATCHING & THAT IS Y U R FEELING SO.
KEEP UR BABY VERY FAR FROM SUCH ACT

U na no go kill me for dis Nairaland......LWTMB YOU GUYS ARE PROGRAMMING HIS OS TO ..

I WOULDNT DO SUCH EVEN IF IT WAS A DOG WATCHING [/font] [/b][/quote]

Gliding:

I don't think you should be worried. I guess that most of the people that gave a contrary advise are not married. Babies at that age remember nothing about that when they grow up. Why not search online for established facts on this issue. Besides, making sure the baby is asleep and will not wake up during the act will kill all elements of spontaneity in your love life, that in turn may lead to boredom and both of you may start missing the days when you were adventurous.

I posted an article, not verified but psychologically it would affect the kid.

If the baby is young like under 5-6 months and sleeping in your room still, I don't see how it would cause any psychological damage as he or she won't know what's going on especially if they are asleep. Sex is a natural part of life, it's only been recently that people have made it out to be dirty and immoral.
It's just common sense, in some villages parents have sex in the same hut as their children of all ages and they turn out fine (all things considered). A baby won't understand what is going on if they are young enough. Honestly common sense can go a long way! Children generally don't have memories before the age of 3 anyway so under a year is no big deal!

IYADARA:

Do you think is too early to start putting a break to such?
Did i mention walking naked most time is our routine?
When do babies start giving meanings to what they see?

dear i wont blame you for the past but i will blame you if continue to make love infront of your baby even if the baby is a day old.

Now hear this:- when my daughter was about 5 months. We were in the kitchen and she tried touching the the pot which was on the stove. I think the vapour attracted her. Then she felt the heat from the pot and quickly withdrew her hand. My dear sister now he is a year and 2months and uptil now she doesnt try touching anything that is on the stove whether there is fire under it or not.

When she was about 9months as someone that started walking newly, she almost fail inside gutter and since then till now, she doesnt go near any gutter.
The funiest part is that she doesnt go near that very spot where she almost fell. Though it has been covered with iron.

So my sister because of my little knowledge on child‘s psychology i try my best to not even allow anybody watch any movie on the channel when she is in the sitting room. I restricted everybody to watching TV channels like JIM JAM, CHILDSMILE or they play for her children movies that i bought for her.

When i was alone with my wife, we enjoy staying naked but as the child came i stopped going to the sitting room naked. My wife still enjoys staying naked, i dont mind because they are females anyday i have a boy. I willtell her to stop it. For now am the only man in my house am already used to all the bum shots and unclothedness but i wont expose my little son to it at a tender age.
Their minds are young and tender and can copy more than you can imagine.

Tallesty1:
Do you believe in Reincarnation?


If yes then I think that baby is one of your grandparent.

S/he knows everything you are doing.

lol
more reasons,i love reading your posts,you're too funny.

johnjon:
If the baby is young like under 5-6 months and sleeping in your room still, I don't see how it would cause any psychological damage as he or she won't know what's going on especially if they are asleep. Sex is a natural part of life, it's only been recently that people have made it out to be dirty and immoral.
It's just common sense, in some villages parents have sex in the same hut as their children of all ages and they turn out fine (all things considered). A baby won't understand what is going on if they are young enough. Honestly common sense can go a long way! Children generally don't have memories before the age of 3 anyway so under a year is no big deal!

Read the thread biko
They said the baby is gazing at them with wonderment and watching his mama bouncing up and down with daddy howling underneath

Gliding:

I don't think you should be worried. I guess that most of the people that gave a contrary advise are not married. Babies at that age remember nothing about that when they grow up. Why not search online for established facts on this issue. Besides, making sure the baby is asleep and will not wake up during the act will kill all elements of spontaneity in your love life, that in turn may lead to boredom and both of you may start missing the days when you were adventurous.

what abt if I tell you that I still remember the day I was born.

Missmossy:
Hahaha this thread is very funny

Very funny! nairaland counsellors eh

Most of them saying gibberish will do worst when they get married.Subconcious ke?at 6mnths! When they can't remember what happened to them at 3 I jst de laff

Op if you keep the baby where he/she isn't seeing daddy or mummy,dat baby will surely cry if not sleeping.

babyosisi:


Read the thread biko
They said the baby is gazing at them with wonderment and watching his mama bouncing up and down with daddy howling underneath

The baby is just 6 months na.
But it is better they do their shoki shoki when the baby asleep.
Na one way people living with their kids in huts dey do am.