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ConnectPhones:
Response I got after sending Happy Teachers day to my dad. Local man is not an English teacher.

you used the word "served," it looks as if he is no more playing both roles.

so I think you should use the word "serves."
Because he is still playing the role

ChineduChinedu:
Please help, I need advice, I am very confused man, I don't know what to do in this situation

There is this girl I met in Lagos she help me find a house in Lagos from there we started dating.

I Asked her to marry me and get pregnant for me. Later she got pregnant for me.
She started disturbing me about marriage rights.

On the wedding day I discovered that she has 3 children for one man.
I have asked her several times even before she got pregnant she keep saying no

A day before the wedding, one of my uncle called me and tell me that one babalawo said that the woman I want to marry has 3 kids already.

All that day I wasn't myself I woke her up at midnight and forced the truth out of her
She admitted and start begging me to forgive her, she said she has been looking for the best time to tell me. All this are happening on our wedding day, she beg me not to tell anyone that it can be secrets between me and her àlone, I insisted that I must tell my people from my state enugu to Lagos

My people discouraged me and said I should thank God for revealing this early.
That's how I cancelled the church wedding.

Court marriage 30th September
Church wedding 2nd October
But Before that wedding day, we did court marriage, I told her that I don't want to do court marriage because if she cheat on me I will divorce her and loose my half of my money she got angry, the first day we didn't talk, 2nd day same, Then 3rd day she start packing her loads, I beg her to stay that we have few days to church wedding she insisted that If I don't do the court that I should cancel the church wedding that she can't trust me without court marriage

We did the court marriage, without my parents consent cuz it didn't come from my heart, her junior brother is the one that sighn for me in the court

I don't know what to do in this situation oo

Her first son is 13 years
2nd son 8 years
3rd girl 6 years
And now she is pregnant for me aa

Am 30 years while I don't know her real age

We have lived together for 8 months before I could discover this
And during this period we have been together
She controls me alots and that make me sad
She shout at me too
If ask me to do something for her and I refuse it becomes problem

Please what do I do ?

Your MUMU no get part 2.


SHAME ON YOU

DubaiLandLord2:
Igbo land is turning to Borno

When will Abaribe rise up in the senate and ask for referendum to be included in the Nigerian constitution?

See the way the British shut the Scottish up by giving them a chance to hold a referendum, and majority of Scottish chose to still be part of the UK.

If the UK didn't give them the chance to do so, there would still be protest up and down Scotland.

After the referendum, Scottish that wanted an independent country hand fall.

Igbos that want an independent country should learn from the Scottish.

You did not talk about Catalonia...
Or you don't know about them.

Phoenixflap:
A wise man learns from the mistakes of others, must you tow the path of bloodshed?

A wise man should know that no one wants to let a person he uses as a useful tool to go from him.
So the only way a useful tool in the hands of others can gain freedom is by fighting for it.
My people says "nwata chọba nke ya ọ bụrụ ajọ nnw" (when a child begins to look after his own, he is tagged a bad child).

A saying say "those who make peaceful desolation impossible, makes bloody revolution inevitable."

Phoenixflap:
I’d advise you to look beyond your nose.

Ipob's agitation for sovereignty is unattainable via wanton destructions and bloodshed. A soft sell can get their case expedited instead of the needless bloodshed.

Come to think of it...
Mention 3 countries that got freedom or that seceded without blood shed,
When there is no referendum in their constitution.

LeeSantos:
...can't believe my eyes over 70% have got only waec result. I'm 90% certain that most of them don't know the meaning of federalism.
And here we are most youths are dying to do masters and can not even get a decent job with BSc.

Ị nụ kwa...

Please mention 4 persons amongst who do not have at least first degree.

Ok

Yerima Shetima should continue to masturbate watching IPOB as porn movie

Jackson105:
I am waiting for those lunatics from the East to come and shout South West propaganda here.


Peter Obi is as corrupt as your average politicians, nothing special.

I am sure you didn't read the so called pandora paper's indictment on Peter Obi.

Phoenixflap:
The trajectory of the IPOB is akin to a cruising ship without a captain, and the consequences is dire.
[b]
IPOB cannot achieve sovereignty on a platter of gold nor through violence, [/b]but through Soft Swell, their agitation will bear positive fruits.

Through democratic process, a lot can be achieved for IPOB, a whole lot.
It is in the interest of IPOB to participate and ensure that garner enough social and political capital.

Election is closer, Maduka and Soludo are closer to the people because “They needed the Vote”.

More than half of Nigerian labor force is unemployed or underemployed according to a Bloomberg report

The lackadaisical and clueless direction of this present administration has sunk our economic ship deeper, and regrettably no recourse is insight unless the status quo is disrupted.

Like wages, Loyalty is earned, and the latter, though earned , sometimes can be beyond costs.

Two types of loyalty exist according to my classification; induced and reciprocated loyalty.

I’ll give two glaring examples.

Reciprocated Loyalty!

Pastor Rapu aptly captures the loyalty of his admirers through his numerous life changing encounters, pastor Rapu provides lifetime benefits. This kind of loyalty though social, can be translated to political capital, and if scaled, is a deafening political roar because of the inherent multiplier effect.

Induced Loyalty!

Our democratic scenery aptly captures this category, and one character whose pendulum of existence swings on this principle of loyalty is FFK.

The consequences of obtaining this kind of loyalty has far reaching consequences and no multiplier effect.

A sizeable number of the unemployed or underemployed can be catered for through novelty, and naturally the principle of reciprocity comes in play.

This goes beyond buying bikes and tractors as palliatives or empowerment as prevalent in our polity.

To change our sordid narrative, we must collectively be able to say “NO” to politicians Trojan horses and to say “NO” a thriving economic environment must be ensured.

This is not achievable under this present government, but highly probable with the “Pastor Rapu’s Effect”.

I know how to achieve this on a larger scale.

Look at the statement in bold...

You are speaking from the two sides of your mouth.

You sat down and wrote what Jose Mourinho would call beautiful nonsense

FutureIsFemale:
Yes I will abort.

No insult intended, for you to have gotten married to an irresponsible man, is the definition of your own irresponsibility.

FutureIsFemale:
Yes I will abort.

No insult intended, for you to have gotten married to an irresponsible man, is the definition of your own irresponsibility.

FutureIsFemale:
We are not talking about wedlock here. We are talking about being responsible as a parent. Whether wedlock or not, men need to learn how to be responsible for their actions.

Inukwa!
If you were married to a man, will you in any condition that is not threatening to your life think of aborting his baby?
Nope you won't, so it is the issue of wedlock here.

Based on your earlier comment which I replied to, this your present comment doesn't add up. Because you can't know who would be a responsible father when the child is not yet born.
Because you said instead of giving birth to some certain type of a child, you would opt for abortion

FutureIsFemale:
I don't support abortion but if I find out that the man is not willing to take up the responsibility, I would abort.

Better to abort than to bring irresponsible souls to the world.

Cases of robbery, raping and other social vices done are done by children whose dad rejected their pregnancy.

No child becomes irresponsible because he or she was born outside wedlock. What makes a child irresponsible is the attitude of the parents especially the mother when he was still a cradle.
Therefore abortion for any reason is still murder. When a sperm donor accepts his responsibility on a child or not that child can grow up to make one of the most positive impact in this life if the mother trains her well.

Ị nụ kwa

Hmmmm

Ply

udele1:
Even after seeing dragon with AK47 in the video. If not that Ikonso snapped picture with Nnamdi kanu, you woule have denied him.

Bros Ikonso was celebrated when he was shot by DSS.

IPOB members took to Twitter and every social media you know and then ones you don't know to celebrate him. They made him trend on Twitter for days not as a villain but as a hero.
IPOB/ESN gave Ikonso respect that shows he is their own.

I didn't want to respond to your comments again but I have to respond to this because I want to say a prayer for you.


Prayer
May you never have anything disagreements with any security agent in Nigeria especially the police, or any of their agencies in Jesus Name.

udele1:
Yes. This same IPOB


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xZ_xU3LJYSo

What made you believe these people here are IPOB members?

Have you been arrested by the Nigerian Police before? If you have you will be careful when police parade someone or accuse someone of any crime or when the police says the person confessed to the crime.

I rest my case

Good morning

helinues:
But this same Ipob as a group have been fingered in so many killings and destruction of properties in SE. The sit at home is a testimony of their murderous activities.

For how long would some of you people continue to be living in denial? Or are you more Igbo than the Udele guy?

The guy Udele is against the chaos and confusion that Ipobs have brought to the region, shouldn't some of you people also reason in that line?

Do you know how many Easterners that have relocated their business, family permanently from SE states due to Ipob activities? How would the region grow when Ipob, good for nothing group have been scaring indigenous, local and foreign investors from SE?

Are Ipobs indeed punishing Buhari with their activities of inflicting self pain to the same people they claimed of fighting for?

The same IPOB that has in so many times tell you guys that they are not responsible for those attacks.
The same IPOB that suspended their sit at home after the first Monday.
The same IPOB is always accused of anything that had gone wrong in South East. All the accusations came long before any investigation was carried out.

Remember when the governor of Benue State was attacked, Miyati Allah said they are the one that attacked him. Their pub Secretary came on air to make it that they must get him unless he changes his stance on open grazing.
You and I were in this country when the presidency came out to say it's not the Miyati Allah that attacked governor Ottom. The presidency set up a committee to investigate a matter someone has already taken responsibility of.

Remember when a military chopper went missing, the Boko Haram took the responsibility of shooting the helicopter but the presidency came out to say no, it is accident. They exonerated Boko Haram of having any hand in it.

I can go on and on to give you instances that shows that the presidency and the security agencies are hell bent in painting IPOB/ESN bad in the eyes of their sympathizers.

One day the truth about who this unknown gun men are will float up and shame will catch many.

helinues:
So the op is Cyril Akunyili that posted the information?

Udele1 can be anybody.
Or do you know usele in person.

That's aside.

In a saner clime, the first suspect to the murder case will actually be the so called brother Mr Cyril. Because it's misleading to name a suspect open even investigation commences.
But we live in a country where security agencies do their investigation from the comfort of their bedroom. And they will alway make IPOB/ESN alibi of every attack.
And with that the real culprit will move about freely with enough space to commit another crime.

May God console the family.

Shame on you for concluding that's it's IPOB that killed him even without any investigation from any security agency

Most of the things we hear about Nigeria especially on job creation and job sustainability is not reflected anywhere outside press releases and government broadcast agencies.
To the man on the street it is only hardship and pain that are real experience for him.

Perfectbeing:
You don't get what I'm saying... Many Northern states are 100% dependent of VAT Monthly allocations. If that money is cut off all at once, the states will starve.. There wouldn't be enough time for the States to plan their future.

I'm in for each States collecting their own VATs. But doing it all at once? No. How would those states keep afloat, pay salaries and build infrastructure? They should change the sharing formula of VAT first for a few years to enable the dependent states plan ahead before totally cutting them off.

There is no state in Nigeria that does not generate IGR. You might say not generating enough.
If there is no money coming from the federal government, states will stop wasting resources.
Most of the governors have up to a thousand SAs, SSAs, PAs etc.
If states start to budget based on their IGR, I tell you, all waste will be done with and the governors will go out of their comfort to look for investors.

ahnie:
Forget I love you in marriage.marriage is hard,forget being married to your best friend, marriage is hard!hard!!and hard!!!

I think marriage should be scrapped completely coz it's an unending pit....

Marriage is hard for the person that wants it to be hard for him/her.

Marriage is so easy and sweet if both parties decide to grow and evolve in their marriage relationship.

Perfectbeing:
You're right. But what would they do before they start generating money from their mineral resources?
Or you don't expect, they'll propose, mine and start selling their resources all in one day. It will take years before the start seeing their ROI.. So how will they survive before then?

It doesn't matter how long it takes, the states will laugh at long last. There is no victory without a fight and its he who endures to the end that wins the crown.

So they should pay the price now and enjoy later.

having said that, they can work with 3 types of developmental plans; long term, medium term and short term developmental plan. Each of them have Return of Investment (RoI). They just need determination and focus

Lol

Osigni

Ị nụ kwa

They should support the move for states to collect VATs.
Then they should propose that every state should control their mineral resources.
I believe this will help each state in Nigeria to develop with amazing speed, because it will produce healthy competition.

Because then the governors who were not thinking before now will start using their brain

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