Lax75: Ladies, do you find a guy who can cook "selgzy?"
Sexy isn't just about knowing how to cook. it is much more than that. A lot of people here aren't open minded enough to see past this. A woman who can cook is a wonderful thing but there's so much to a relationship than cooking a nice meal, s.e. . . x, looking nice. These are enough to attract but will that keep a relationship? But then again everyone's got a different priority and they all differ so one man's meat is another poison.
Random strangers shouldn't tell you if you can afford to marry and keep a home Only you can do that. You know how much you spend per month so let that be a guide.
deluxecad: If this is what marriage is about, then it's better to have the terms and conditions clearly spelt out, with each spouse having every sentence succinctly explained to him or her by a lawyer. Any breach of more than the allowable limit would amount to dissolution of the contract. It will make each party respect the sanctity of marriage.
I'm sure a LOT of married men and women aren't going through what this dude is Let's not generalize here
We're still on about this guy? You still haven't accepted him as he is? You should do that woman! He isn't going to change or be a different man so the best thing you can do is to accept the things you cannot change. Earlier you do that. . . the better.
The hypocrisy on this forum is sometimes very preposterous! If a woman said her husband was slapping her around; I reckon a lot of people here will have something different to say? Physical abuse is WRONG! I reckon he hasn't tried to do anything because he's a good man + doesn't want to go to jail I'm not taking sides and I ain't saying he should leave her or stay but at least let's be realistic and honest that a man is being abused.
paris10: I wasn't convinced but she insistently and persistently demanded that I engaged her. She was so forceful.
You've come here to look for excuses and for everyone to make you feel better about your actions. Seeing as you lack common sense, I'll spell it out for you. Go and live your life offline. we really couldn't give a toss We don't care if you leave her or marry the girl in Nigeria. At the end of the day you'll only answer to your conscience
Hertsnite: so how would you feel if masses of unskilled uneducated Europeans descended on Nigeria. in Zimbabwe white people have their farms looted and burnt, even in south africa white people are now discriminated against and yet Africans here are treated fairly Africans? hypocrisy? Is a lebanese person born in Nigeria Nigerian, no he's lebanese who happens to be in Nigerian same applies for an african in the Uk.
I see your point about White Africans being tortured and brutalized in Zimbabwe as I've watched a documentary on that. It is wrong for they are as African as the next person. You cannot continue the hate if you actually want things to change for the betterment of everyone. You're simply spreading hate which won't help anything at all.
Please stop coming to the uk in droves and spreading you're criminality. Africans are hypocrites, white people are treated like crap in Zimbabwe, yet Africans are treated fairly in the UK. We do not need millions of unskilled Africans.
one or two businessmen or doctors is fine, but we do not need hordes of illegal toilet cleaners half of you probably just come here on tourist visas and stay for 10 years till you're deported, thankyou.
The same toilet cleaning you white folks refuse to do and actually NEED the illegal immigrants to fund your economy. Africans aren't the source of your problems Mister so take a hike!
Sagamite: When you read me my charge sheet and prove me guilty in the court of law, I will be a man and take my life imprison sentence as I work down the aisle to the altar to have someone nag me to my grave.
Don't be that guy over forty still trying to chase 25 year olds. It isn't cute. Besides women don't nag. we just say it like it is.
I will beat the pikin to death. Na garri without sugar be that for us na.
Joking o!
Kai! See as people dey oppress me with pikin. "My four year old . . . . ", "My son . . . .", "My daughter . . . ." . I no even get mouth say that kain thing yet.
Ol'boy, you lucky say you know your 4 year old. I am sure I have a few tens of them around UK but I no know them yet.
That said, that is the apt approach at that age for such offences, not smacking.
DEAD! You never change. A few all over UK ke. You had better go and marry. I know two oldie Nlanders that are tying the knot soon.
I don't think they actually prefer them. They just want to come over and better their lives but when they come over they're faced with the real harsh realities.