₦airaland Forum

It's is not by force, she should stop crying, she wants to be superwoman r u for reall No wonder people like u are still saying her husbands house anno 2009 no wonder i see pregnant women selling purewater under the hot sun. It's because of people like u women don't have a say in Nigeria. And people like u blame the governement what a joke!!!!

I can't believe some of the comments here. People on NL always shout that we need change in this now someone is doing something about it and u people are bashing her pls we all know that this it how it goes in the nigerian bank sector and we all know that is not the way it is soupose to be. We need to suport this woman and not trash her. Someone needs to start from somewhere pls nigerians dont be a coward. What the banks wants is totally wrong.

I hope u will do more then just putting it on NL. Why didn't u take pictures did u ask for the boys contacts. Why didn't u declare right then and there that u are the man's lawyer. Why did u only watch without doing anything. What will be ure next move.

I speak Dutch (my mothers tongue), Papiamento(my fathers tongue) Spanish,German a litlle, Beyang(westindies broken english,Sranang tongo, English and pigin

Me thinks this is just to spite George.

Nigerians pray even when they are in d toilet pooping.How can u explain at the end of the first half when d germans were already in their dressing room strategizing on correcting their mistakes our boy still on d pitch for about mins praying.praying 2 who i ask?at d begining of d second half the same prayer while d germans were all in their position waiting for d kick off.i hope they didnt forget to pray after d match.
Instead of nigerians to face their problems head on they keep praying and hoping on god 4 a miracle.the germans didnt pray but relied on their effort to win.dat should be something to ponder on.
U can see d whites laughing at us praying instead of working.

I dont really understand why we are cursing and vexing because to me we didnt deserved to have played 2day in d first place cos those boys were awful from onset of d tourney and if they had gone ahead to even win d tourny we woulda been rejoicing n postponing facing d problems bedeveling nig seeing dat dis is d only thing dat gives d citizenry joy.
What im trying 2 say in a nutshell is dat this is a wake up call for us to face our fears in dis country becos it is obvious dat revolution is wat we need seeing dat not even sports is succeeding in making us postpone our suffering n smiling anylonger.The time is now my ppl lets stop pretending n hoping there will always be a way out.
Thats my one kobo.

My people my people these were the same thing my family,friends and co workers were telling me when i deceided to come and life in Nigeria with my husband and the funiest part is that they know him for years sins we started our relationship in Amsterdam he was no stranger to them. I have lovely inlaws they r the best my husband doesn't have a hidden wife with kids (that's what people would say) i've never been kiddnap or all the other negative things. So please @ OP go and find out for ureself if i had listen to all the negative advice from my people back home i would have a wonderfull man and marriage past me by. I speak from my experience cause in the eyes off non Nigerians all Nigerians are bad and evil.

I would have changed my b/date if i had found any one with same day here,believe me thats how stubborn and strong-willed i am and thats why i am a capricorn.if there's however anyone who's 4th jan and wants to dare me give me a shout on 07065486368.
Loads of luv to y'all fellow cappies.

@mädchen. Thank u it seems like people 4get the role of a mother. A mother keeps the family save and sound because that's our most importand role in live. That's why we god gave us the abbilty 2 cary a pregnancy 4 nine months

This is truely a sad story and i can't believe some folks are making jokes about something so tragic. In my opion the mother is at great fault for not protecting her son from a lunatic. The dad didn't become like this overnight. The signs were on the wall long be4. But some women like 2 close there eyes for things that are going bad in the life and see the end result. My child is more importand then some marrige. If u bring a child into this world it needs ure protection and care at all time. Children before anything else. That's why ure a parent.

pyro2001:
Cigarette smoking is a sin, but anyone who is saved and born again that is a cigarette smoker will not go to hell. We will just smell like smoke,  In many instances is this topic debatable as in 1st John he says (and I am paraphrasing) that if anyone claims to be saved and resumes living in a lifestyle of sin then they most likely are not saved at all, or has not experienced a true encounter with the living God. God the creator of all that breathed life into being, entered our hearts at salvation and saved our soul from eternal damnation. To walk away from the experience of salvation without any change is as impossible as getting hit by a mac truck and escaping without damage. I don't know about you but it's extremely hard to believe that this sin will cause us to send ourselves to hell. It is a detriment to the body and our physical body is no longer ours but the Lord's and to pollute it with smoke is desecrating the vessel (our body) of the Lord because the Holy Spirit dwells within 1st Corinthians 6:19-2 "What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's." It is addictive.1st Corinthians 6:12 "All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any." Anything which one cannot stop doing makes him a slave to it. The bottom line is that it is a matter of the conscience. Are you saved by grace through faith in Christ? Is the Holy Spirit that dwells inside your body convicting you fro smoking? We are to have no addictions except to Christ. We are no longer "pro choice" we gave up that right when we got saved. Jesus says himself that we cannot be saved unless we pick up the cross daily and follow him. This means dying to our will for His. What is the Lord telling you? I am a cigarette smoker, and I can attempt to justify my actions on various levels but wont because it is plain sin. I am not in denial, it just does not make sense Biblically or Spiritually that this this sin can and will cause you to be damned to hell. That is preposterous. The fact is that through Christ "all things are possible" and me and the Lord are working on it. That's what really matters. The Bible also says that he "Searcheth the heart and knoweth all things" He is an omniscient God. Where is your heart at? So forget about the silly topic that the enemy is attempting to use to confuse your mind. The Word of God says that my soul is saved and and a whole different story. Do I have to smoke? Nope. Do I choose to? Yes. Is God changing my mind? Yes. Remember, religion will say your not saved but Christ was known as the "friend of sinners".

No u didn't!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I just dnt know what to type . Why do u people take everything to the eextreme I just dont get.

People lets be realistic here i was born and raise in the netherlands no way will they give this guy a working permit and abt the visa fat changce. My brother who has a well payed job and living there is going thru hell to get his nigerian wife and son to come over. This guy doesn't know what he is getting himself into. Do u know how many years we have to wait to get a house. And u dnt speak none of the langueses there what makes it harder for u. Pls listen to the gd advice pp are giving u here and invest the money here in nigeria. Europe is not milk and honey it's hard for us citizens what do u think it will be for u. In europe nobody has time for u don't become a burden on others. When they are tired of feeding u out u go in the cold. Pls think abt it.

Junk journalism.how does one believe this story if an editor could be blinded to the inconsistency in the amount owed by senator ararume,the amount he has paid and the outstanding balance on his total debt.

@ na2day, LOL BEST ADVICE EVER SINS U CAN'T SATISFY A NYMPH

, lol so so rib-cracking.Nigerians with their gullibility,keep praying from sunday to sunday and wait for ur god to come change ur country for good.even on a weekday while serious minded people are busy working and contributing meaningfully to the society u'll find Nigerian christians roaming the streets with some over sized bible or advertizing for one crusade or the other whilst praying to their god to cum clear d over grown grasses or clear the rubbish in their sorrounding.does it even occur to these hypocrites that this god might sometime need sometime to rest cos afterall he rested on the 7th day or that man godeh might want to hang out on a friday nite but hell no dats when nigerians disturb him all nite long.the guy sef don tire for una.the funniest part of it is the way these people call on their god without any respect like say dem give d guy s.thing hold.

Happly married with to the most handsome,carrying and wonderfull guy in the world.

U really need profesional help. First mistake u made was beating he and the second was stalking her with text messages that says alot about ure mental state. Think off it how u will react after u married her for example if she has to work late or she needs to travel often for work. I think u need to really work on yourself. Am not trying to bring u down just advising u cause i have seen this behavour to many times in my workingfield as a social worker. Goodluck

No matter the number we are on the list we shouldn't be there at all. Corruption is an abnormal state of mind. For instancf a maniac takes over people's property illegally and distributes such extravagantly. It's a mixture of grandiosity and undue generosity, he says. "Coruption is not peculiar to the leadership class alone. Corruption is in everybody. "The earlier we realise that, the better for all of us."

@topic No i don't think so. I think we have to replace all our leaders with nigerians in diaspora who are past the tribalistic thinking and have a broader vieuw. The ones with western thinking and still have the love for a better Nigeria. Cause this is a great country we need to start thinking out off the box out off our tribe. People from diverend tribes are getting married these days so if Nigerians are doing that isn't it not also time to start thinking out off the box. Just my 2 cents.

TUDOR i luv ure comments keep it up bro. To all christians if u put all this christianety into attacking ure governement NIGERIA would be a country without poverty. Think about it.