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goodman41:
I met her when she came for her IT at my place of work. One day I collected her number but I didn't call her till she finished her IT and went back to school.

One day I called to inform her that I will like us to go into a relationship which she accepted. I told her that l'm not looking for a girlfriend but a wife. I asked her if she has a boyfriend but she said yes but she will never marry the guy because there are some things she will consider in terms of marriage.

I called her to visit me but she was doing promise and fail. I told her that I'm not inviting her for sex that sex is nothing for me. She said okay, that I should send transport money, I tried using my phone to transfer 2k for her but it was not going, so I told her that it was not going she said I should go and use ATM but I told her that I don't have that time that she should borrow from her roommate and come or she should forget about coming until when I will be able to use my phone to do the transfer. So that evening she called that she will come the next day being Sunday that she borrowed money from her roommate.

When she came on Sunday I put movie for her and kept my self busy with my laptop, she started feeling sleepy which I told her to go and sleep on the bed which she went, after I was through with my laptop I asked her if I can join her she said yes, I now joined her in the bed before we knew it we started kissing and romancing each other and we had sex.

After the sex she said that but you told me you don't like sex I told her I like sex but I don't take it serious. She said okay I understand. I now took her out spent like 3k, the following morning I gave her 4k for her transport and she was happy.

After one week she called that I should send her airtime I told her that am not sending she said okay without being angry, when she visited for the second time she asked why did I refuse to send her card I told her that I don't like sending card to people she said okay. So am seeing her as people, i told her don't worry any time I feel like I will send to her, but she said if i send it that she will send it back to me.

I asked her about her boyfriend she said that she has ended the friendship but my mind is telling she is lying, she cleaned my house and cooked for me before going back to school that she doesn't want me to be eating outside, she asked me to give her money to do hair which I gave her 3k for both her transport and the hair, she said the money is small but she Will add her own so she collected it without any issue.

Am not the type that use to call every day but she asked me to be calling her every day to make our relationship grow stronger, she was telling me the other day that she will visit me one day without telling me to see if I have another girl.

Please is this girl really serious with this relationship or she just wants to use me?

you think marriage for jokers and sex. Op u dont knw any about this girl only sex. I blame buhari for this.

That incraese na scam

akaahs:
Na wa ooo, upon the exponential increase in the state??

They are going to work coro or no coro even DHL truck is on duty.

Bro i left for the office at 6:00am to beat traffic if you reside in Lagos u will understand better.

Vortex369:
Is half a million really money for you. I can see you are lacking in the balance sheet aspect of life

Can someone advise this frustrated human being to take her stupid comments to other post.

Vortex369:
Very immature husband.

Your wife withdraw from your account? Most of you men are very daft. You should have Business account for business, then family account and nothing more. Your wife does not need a separate account neither do you. I dont care if the account is on your wife's name or yours, it is family account and you both must budget for expense and release the funds.

Who is supposed to give your wife money for the 'flimsy' purchase she wants to make with that money?

Her Boyfriend?

You indomie husbands are just crazy.

i did not marry a house wife she has salary, allowance from me etc. She did not ask me for money that i refuse. I dont think you think straight when half a million leaves your account.

My sister you sound pained!! Is everything alright?

slimjohn2k5:
How did she do it?

She took my atm without my knowledge.

Hello NL guys. I will be brief on this issue.

Last night i withdrew cash from an ATM which was ment for home use, as at this morning i received a debit notification from my bank of an ATM transaction done at 6:15am not by me.

I dashed to the bank to complain and they the confirm my account was compromise which they have to investigate.

Leaving the bank for my office i chated my wife to inform her on what happened though we had a quarrel in the morning before i left for work.

Lo and behold she confirmed she carried out the transaction for a silly reason. Immediately i returned to the bank and asked them stand down on the investigation as the fraud unit was alarted to proceed on arrest.

I got the situation understand control.

Now I have decided not to go home for the fear of doing something bad because i am really angry.

Please what should i do.

Lala abeg epp push to FP.

God is Love. You need to find out what might be fundamentally wrong with you.

Kekereekun123:
God in his infinite wickedness created humans with evil tendencies

Pontiis pilate

MAN U ABEG NA

Old scam.

ftc

donstan18:
You didn't sanctify the sex you had with that lady.

You should have prayed before sex, we should always remember to call God in every enjoyment we do, for he is our provider.

Always pray before sex by saying.

Bless us oh Lord, and bless this our gift, which we are about to receive and enjoy, out of your bounty and goodness, through christ our lord. Amen!

you said a prayer before meal a Catholic prayer to justify an unholy act. bro be mindful of what you say.

end time hen

desreek9:
Please take time to read this, I really need your advice.

I am a working mother of four kids (2 sets of twins) been married since 2012; I and my husband communicate well, our sex life is great (we explore diff. styles) and I make sure everyone is contented and satisfied or so i thought.
How i found out he was cheating

I noticed I didn't see my period for two months which is weird, I checked if i was with child but it was negative, before then I noticed burning feeling when i pee and pains so i decided to see a doctor, that was how i received the greatest shock of my life. I was told i had STD, I was in shock, crying and shaking cos i know i got it from my husband, was told to do an HIV test.

After the longest wait of my life and vomiting due to anxiety and panic, it was negative. Three months later was still negative, I went home thinking of ways to kill my husband. Later that night i first asked him if he was cheating he blatantly denied but when i showed him the test result, he was dumbfounded and started begging, i asked him why with tears rolling down my eyes, he couldn't give any reason because he knows everything was great btw us, i told him we would never make love anymore that i can't risk my life because of sex, he was begging me saying he would change, i told him i can never trust him cos once a cheat, always a cheat.

My people, it's over a year and we've not had sex, he can't chase me away from the house because we both built it and the land is in my name, sometimes he comes home late but i really don't care since we have separate bedroom. He said he can't leave because he will have to tell his and my people but he doesn't want the embarrassment.

Apart from all these, every other aspect is great at home, so my question is this; is my decision too harsh or am i justified?

madam you lack forgiveness , a year? marriage doesn't mean anything to u. from lovers to housemate. smh

nawaooooo

hhmm fct

presentley:
Business Administration 500level?
This Broda can lie o!!

DLI (Distance Learning Institute) its a faculty in Unilag. So he is in his finals

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malware:
Is it a crime for an adult lecturer to sleep with his adult student?

it's a crime. the house of Representatives has passed a bill to put such person (s) behind bar.