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HITTED:
This is not acceptable. The vaccination is to immunize the kids against diseases and viruses, not to kill them.

It's a pity some people have been brainwashed to believe the NA are nothing but monsters in uniforms.

All blames go to Anambra people and the Liepods. They're enemies of the state and must be dealt with.

Sai baba is working hard to fix the Nigeria that PDP destroyed but some elements are kicking against his efforts.

We must prevail.

God bless Buhari!

God bless Nigeria!

Sai baba!!!

una go tire

madridguy:
Someone should help me out with stage 3
What is AMALA doing there

Amala means kings men not food

I like this guy no time no

nice

What you saw was not a mistake it was simply a question of are u ready to accept this lifestyle? Why will be build your world around a her when you have just one land.

Don't try anything crazy otherwise na u go suffer.

She is simply not yours but if you want to marry her be prepaid to see more after you say i do. QED

JSS 3 Cult? this one weak me

Evaberry:
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I will say what's on my mind later.

Modified.

You can't be done with men aunty

They pay for your clothes, they feed you, they take you out, you need them for sex and you rely on them financially.

even after he demanded for sex and treated you like a dog, you still called him, probably because you wanted him to apologise and you wanted to make up with him, now you are here crying wolf.

you refused to fvck him, you wanted to leave his apartment and you were getting your uber, were you expecting him to allow you stay in his place till your 'uber' arrived.

A reasonable girl would have left his house immediately he started demanding for sex but well you are an olosho so I'm not surprised.

lol u hash ooo

Evaberry:
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I will say what's on my mind later.

Modified.

You can't be done with men aunty

They pay for your clothes, they feed you, they take you out, you need them for sex and you rely on them financially.

even after he demanded for sex and treated you like a dog, you still called him, probably because you wanted him to apologise and you wanted to make up with him, now you are here crying wolf.

you refused to fvck him, you wanted to leave his apartment and you were getting your uber, were you expecting him to allow you stay in his place till your 'uber' arrived.

A reasonable girl would have left his house immediately he started demanding for sex but well you are an olosho so I'm not surprised.

lol u hash ooo

GeneralNass:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders, some few days ago i created a thread here https://www.nairaland.com/4044625/slept-180-prostitutes-4-years concerning my strong addition with engaging with different prostitutes, i also saw same topic on yabaleft and gossip mill pages, in which i saw so many thousands of insults not replies and also i made mention of quitting totally from it in which i vowed and swore with my life to God Almighty that the last time i went will forever be my last, i swore never to engage and risks my life and sleeping with different prostitutes, and also i mentioned something like going for an hiv test the next day which is this past monday.

To cut the long story short i summoned courage and went for the text first thing that Monday morning before going to work.

When i arrived at the test center i sat and waited a little while because others were there before me, they all came to do their own different tests, then it got to my turn and my blood sample was taken, and i waited with shaky legs and a racing heart, just a few minutes and the result came in the woman in charge then handled it to me and i glanced through it and behold the unthinkable happened it came out positive (i was HIV positive +v) i just keeps staring at it like a doll, i don't know what to do or say at that moment, the woman was still standing looking at me, then she utter her first words something like it's not the end of the world that i should follow her that she wants to take me to someone for counseling, i was so filled with rage and regrets that i went out at once with so much anger and frustrations, i just went straight home and didn't bother to go to work that day, even up till today i had not gone to work, am just here lying lifeless, that same monday i logged in to nairaland and i saw many mentions urging me to update how the test result went, i don't have any intentions of opening a new topic concerning it, so i replied one of the mentions that it came out positive, since then i haven't logged in to nairaland until now, in which i logged in to read replies on the last page of my previous thread, in which i saw so many replies urging me to create a topic concerning it so that others will be able to learn from my experience.

Sincerely speaking i don't really knows how and where i wants to start in advising those engaging with prostitutes, and also those having sex without condoms. smh

If only u guys really knows how regretful and sorrowful am currently feeling , if only i could turn back the Sands of time, but it's too late to cry before the head is off, it's not worth it.

All because of 10 - 15 minutes pleasures, i used my own hand and money to destroy my life, so many thoughts on my mind right now i don't really knows what to do, am so confused, so i will start living on drugs daily for the rest of my life, me that don't knows how to take drugs also am always feeling the side effects of mostly all drugs i always took, just a little self control would have avoided all this mess i got myself into, i really feels like the ground should just open up and swallow me right now, what will my family say if they eventually finds out, the first son and father of the family, and also the most quiet and cool headed of them all has been infected with hiv virus, none will ever belive that i had ever kissed a girl before talk more of sleeping with different prostitutes, i don't really knows what to do or say anymore, i feels so weak and tired right now, am really so confused and frustrated, i really so messed up right now, i must say that everything in this life has his consequences, the icing of the cake is very sweet so it's the diabetes it could give u will be very bitter, nothing goes for nothing in this life, i must say to u guys my friends and my family that abstinence is the best, if u can't abstain at least use a condom, never u have sex using a condom when u are drunk it's too fatal, sex is sweet so it's the consequences of it is very disastrous if u inventually ran out of luck, the thought of living on drugs for the rests of my life is making me semi_mental, am so fed up with life right now, me that don't knows how to take drugs, me that am always feeling the side effects of taking any drugs all because of sexual pleasures my life has been ruined i can't actually believe that this is really happening, so am now hiv positive, so i have contracted the dreaded hiv virus.


When i was doing it jumping from one girl / prostitutes to the other, i thought i was enjoying life, i thought i was feeling and Banging a soft feminine body, i didn't knew that the feminine body is what will end me, i didn't knew that it's the same feminine body that is going to ruin my life, i didn't knew that it was not worth it, the cons smartly outweighs the pros. I really so full of anger, regrets and frustrations right now, what could easily be avoided, i allowed my stinking sexual urges to be controlling me all this while, all the sex i have had all this while what have i gained? Nothing.
What really pained me most is that all through my life since when i was born i had never and ever had sex without condom and am 100% certain i contracted this from condom breakage, just some little minutes that condom broke before i later noticed, i mentioned it earlier on my first threat that condom had busted about 5times since i started having sex, i definitely knew for sure that was how i contracted this, i have never enjoyed the feeling for once of normal skin to skin sex, i always use condom when ever am having sex, never have i had sex without using condom.

I don't think my life will ever remained as it was before again, just when i have made up my mind about quitting with different prostitutes

Am feeling so weak and tired right now, i can't type anymore, i wants to sleep now.
Goodnight and God's speed be with you all.

God is not interested in your status, He is interested in your change of heart to live the old ways. You need to forgive yourself regrets and despair might lead to self destruction.

There is a difference btw freedom(Calculated responsibility) and free-dom. Give God the chance to heal your broken heart. He (God) loves you more than you can ever imagine. DON'T PRAY FOR HEALING, PRAY FOR MERCY.

amliftedhigher:
Good morning wonderful nairalanders.

I Am having a very delicate family issues now. I am an only son of my family and 5 sisters all married, since I brought my wife to be to them they all love her with passion and they keep telling me to take good care of the girl, they keep warning me not to treat her bad.

My sister love my Wife with passion including my aged mother but my wife to be in return hates them openly to me.

She doesn't like me mention them before her or discuss any thing with them. But she adores her family so much. We have finished traditional marriage remaining church wedding which is next two weeks from today.

During our preparations my family has noticed her long mute with them in issues of our wedding arrangement, they ask me but I told them that my wife is a shy type that doesn't talk too much but I was lying.

N/B they have not done anything evil to her and they will not think about it because they all fear me but my confusion Now is why my wife hates them? One of my sister lives in the same city with my wife but she hardly visits her.

My fellow comrades please what do I do? I can't hate my sisters because they and their husbands train me in the university . I came from a poor home but seeing the love I have for education all My sisters and their husbands swear that I must attend university . My God's grace I am working in one of the best organization in the country now am comfortable. Do I chase my family away now because of a woman I am getting married to? Help am confused.

Thanks in anticipation

You are the husband, your actions determine how your will be home. Ask her this simple question WHAT IS HER PROBLEM? because this is a sign of abnormality.

[quote author=amliftedhigher post=60405677]Good morning wonderful nairalanders.

I Am having a very delicate family issues now. I am an only son of my family and 5 sisters all married, since I brought my wife to be to them they all love her with passion and they keep telling me to take good care of the girl, they keep warning me not to treat her bad.

My sister love my Wife with passion including my aged mother but my wife to be in return hates them openly to me.

She doesn't like me mention them before her or discuss any thing with them. But she adores her family so much. We have finished traditional marriage remaining church wedding which is next two weeks from today.

During our preparations my family has noticed her long mute with them in issues of our wedding arrangement, they ask me but I told them that my wife is a shy type that doesn't talk too much but I was lying.

N/B they have not done anything evil to her and they will not think about it because they all fear me but my confusion Now is why my wife hates them? One of my sister lives in the same city with my wife but she hardly visits her.

My fellow comrades please what do I do? I can't hate my sisters because they and their husbands train me in the university . I came from a poor home but seeing the love I have for education all My sisters and their husbands swear that I must attend university . My God's grace I am working in one of the best organization in the country now am comfortable. Do I chase my family away now because of a woman I am getting married to? Help am confused.

Thanks in anticipation [/quo

You are the husband, your actions determine how your will be home. Ask her this simple question WHAT IS HER PROBLEM? because this is a sign of abnormality.

davinero2:
Obviously you do not plan on leaving your husband.

I'd advise u send the lady a private message telling her to stay away from your man. Do not tell her you already have more evidence about the affair other than the fact that u saw her half naked in ya husband's place and don't also threaten her.

Do not also let your husband know you have more evidence.

Monitor them for a while and if they show no signs of ending their affair willingly, then go ahead and do what's on your mind.

The guy below me made sense

The guy above me must be using 5g. Lemme manage my glo jejely. I go still make am. Na small remain.

calm down u didn't marry an angel (angels don't marry) you married a man. forgive both them. and u will see how happy u home will be. be wise otherwise you train 3 kids all by yourself.

OK

ok ftc

k

mercytripletz:
she is right.
Do the present day women still look like the 1865 AD women?
If the husband is the breadwinner, the woman cooks, washes, do so many things in the house.
But if the wife is the breadwinner, you expect her to still do everything in the house while the husband chills abi? All in the name of 'head of the house'?
No, kolework. He go help her work naani.

so after he cooks u will come eat abi ?

Lol. Ur life, Ur biz

RIP

sir, i will remember your home in my prayer. its really difficult to stand a nagging wife. When she starts kindle ignore but dont sink your marriage. the only solution is God. talk to HIM.

nice

K

hmmmm

Hmmm, your reason to marry her in the first place is questionable "Married to save face". not love . Traditional wedding without marriage class or counselling. My brother you have no deal what you entered.

You don't need to be the lord in marriage, you are the 'Groom' groom your wife in love not anger.

A foundation that was faulty from the onset hmmm.

Be silence for now and pray, work on yourself and anger. She will come.

ok ftc

he got a lion last week now a tortoise next who knows what he might get

I want to ask a question. if the Nigeria Senate summons you to appear before them do they give the person transport? :-XI want to ask a question. if the Nigeria Senate summons you to appear before them do they give the person transport?