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kola1930:
We've been married for a year now and blessed with a pretty daughter. My wife feels little or no urge to be intimate. Its been more than a month now since I had s*x. Reason being that, am angry inside of me that she is always not in the mood, so I decided to hold myself and see when she'll realize it that am angry about it and do the needful. But it seems like am just suffering my self because she seems not to realize she needs to do something fast. I am feeling like cheating on her as a way to punish her maybe she'll realize it that she needs to satisfy her husband to keep him away from other ladies outside. I urgently need advice from married nairalanders... Is the situation d same or similar in ur marriage, and how do I resolve this differences. Am really disturbed

@OP These are things you need to know during courtship not after a year. Marriage is about companionship not demand and supply. My advise to you. you are not the first to such problem and you not be the last take to your and take your marital issues away from NL. It private not a public matter.

ALL RESPONSES ABOVE SOUND OK BUT I WISH ASK WHAT IF ONE HAS BEING INTERVIEWED 3 TIMES BY THREE DIFFERENT LEVEL OF MANAGERS IN THE SAME COMPANY AND AT THE END WAS TOLD ' WE WILL GET BACK TO YOU' TILL DATE HE IS STILL WAITING. WHAT DO YOU ADVICE?

juju done start

see her hand bleaching done start make the best of this, save enough money, establish your dream business (not bread old things shall pass away) . WHEN GOD PICK YOUR CALL.

HMMMM SERIOUS MATTER THIS ONE BRING IRANU, ANYWAY YOU LABOUR TOO

irunooboo:
[size=13pt]SHORT TIME SEX AND I GOT 12K [/size]

SHORT TIME SEX AND I GOT 12K [/size][/i][/quote]HMMMM SERIOUS MATTER THIS ONE BRING SHAMELESS TALK ANYWAY YOU LABOUR TO GET PAID. IRANU

hmmmm, i m here to read comments

Yobuba political party APC PDP they are now second wife

I think Mr. David should have informed the baby mama, well he is a kid with too much money and saying she manipulated your youth was an irresponsible statement. Putting all this explanation for people to read was very childish. Princess imade is your daughter yes you are given her the best.

Take your money your ego will disappear respect people and their love will take you higher. Deal with your problem.

Another Adeleke + mumudu + sofiratu aka babymama. Washing their boxers and pata nla on social media. Irresponsible adult + 23 - 21.

Chai my half brothers from the south west I hail ooo . All the Adelekes, Adjournment next thread.

see stretch mark

VANITY

Hmmm, two wrongs can't make a right. Your Dad can't change his mindset about you. Black is black, you childhood was filled with bad choices. But it doesn't matter now. Change your mindset, think positive, pray for yourself. Take positive risk to help yourself. Respect him, dont argue with him because you will never win. Its not magic. When its time leave and chance your dream. God is love.

1. Your husband ?
2. No bride price
3. Leaved together for 13years
4. You have 5kids
5. Your are seeking for a divorce?

Reality
1. Where is your marriage certificate?
2. Which court accepts such case without documents.
3. There is no wedding, na your boyfriend.
4. Your parents deserve the bitting .

That the 4th that slept right there . Hmmm. he's sleeping right here..[/quote]

@op apply wisdom on this issue. Since u hv seize d bag ignore him for a while till he ask u if u hv seen it. Then u can talk to him and correct him with love don't get angry or u might win the case but u will loss him.

U be mumu

This is not the African Way.
The Pope is wrong. How can we respect him as a man of God if he travels amongst the common people? How can we glorify one who does not glorify himself? He is a messenger of God!! He should reflect God's power accordingly.We do not exalt those on our own level. A true pastor must SHOW he is above us in every way.

The Vatican has billions and BILLIONS in precious metals and stones but this pope does not display any of this for us to admire. If we cannot SEE and admire a man's power and wealth how can we follow him and give unto his glory?

This pope is a disgrace to Christianity. A man of God cannot be humble. He must be mighty as God is mighty.Fly your private jet, Papa Oyedepo! Wear your Rolex, Papa Adeboye. Wear your Armani suits Pastor Daniel! We cannot judge you as we judge ourselves. You are truly men of God. Our spiritual and earthly masters![/quote]

This one has lost it.
SAY AGAIN!!

This is not the African Way.
The Pope is wrong. How can we respect him as a man of God if he travels amongst the common people? How can we glorify one who does not glorify himself? He is a messenger of God!! He should reflect God's power accordingly.We do not exalt those on our own level. A true pastor must SHOW he is above us in every way.

The Vatican has billions and BILLIONS in precious metals and stones but this pope does not display any of this for us to admire. If we cannot SEE and admire a man's power and wealth how can we follow him and give unto his glory?

This pope is a disgrace to Christianity. A man of God cannot be humble. He must be mighty as God is mighty.Fly your private jet, Papa Oyedepo! Wear your Rolex, Papa Adeboye. Wear your Armani suits Pastor Daniel! We cannot judge you as we judge ourselves. You are truly men of God. Our spiritual and earthly masters![/quote]