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which is important dedication or baptism? either public or private dedication God loves your family. Some churches are business centres investors might pull out if criticism starts. God is love.

Annamma:
Hi fellow humans, my beloved mother is unknowingly forcing me to hate her. She has suddenly become megalomaniac.

She always want to have the final say in every issue not minding the feelings of others. She doesnt waste time to switch her allegiance and love to any of her children that has it big at the very moment..

She is in her 60s but always believe she knows the current things more than us. Immagine the torchlight Nokia phone we bought for her she cant even operate it well, but now telling us that we dont love her because we didnt buy android touchscreen phone for her to be browsing.
What is she going to browse? when she cant even communicate with english fluently.

You will teach her one thing for many months and even spend years doing serial correction for her, yet she wont get it right.

She is also very ungrateful... She lacks nothing as we timely assist her with upkeep allowances. My Dad still provide for all her daily needs too.

Nairalanders i cant even say much, infact i thought of committing suicide yesterday because of her unbearing attitude...

This megalomania is destroying the love i once had for her.
Pls what do i do as i have tried talking to her about this severally, only for the peaceful talks to snowball into a fiercing quarrell ofwhich it echo reaches the next day.

Pls what should i do?

Na your mama u de cast online ? My dear not here

Sad

What does E-Money stands for ?

zieraw2005:
Yes na!!!
But this pictures keeps bothering my heart.

Check the mirror behind the first lady and see their reflection.

OK FTC

rawpadgin:
this is what i will do

Bad advise bro two wrongs don't make a write. Find out what the problem is and if you can deal with it please do if you can let her be. QED

stexsy:
He is a fool...

Sometimes is better not to comment. You might not know or understand his reason and devotion, labeling him as a fool is inappropriate let His God to give him a name.

hmmmm

hmmmmmm just a little fire and

[quotes author=Dreamwaker post=52668295]Lucky fucker, he could have died. I'm sure he is Ibo [/quote]igbos are Nigerians if he is igbo then he is a Nigerian likewise you. Comment wisely

femi4:
Its own goal....don't mind what was reported

RIP English

ok

Ajala the traveller resume travelling.

I find that capture 'Igbo man inappropriate too much emphase, as long the employee will deliver he/she is welcome on board.

You want us to celebrate bronze with you

Some Adults has lost it.

Jjc daughter? That means the guy was formally married or babymamaed a lady now aunty funke done enter the waggon. Hml abeg make the one last for ever.

Ay04z:
try and reach pple close to him asap....get his contact and start sending apologies

Lol

IamLEGEND1:
I have never been one to allow sentiments screw with my decisions. My advice will be the same for anyone,from a total stranger to the closest relative.

In moments like this, God can come down to earth,scream in ur face & you wouldn't even know,because you're so fixated upon ur heart's desire that nothing else matters.

We all know how this story ends,you would doggedly push through with the wedding because you believe you two were meant to be....there is nothing in this world as enticing as forbidden romance- You & Yours bravely taking on the world...... with nothing but the embers of ur love to keep you warm.

I can't do anything to stop you,non of us on this forum can.....but trust me,when reality sets in.... your eyes go open.

ok

senibo1:
for me young senibo, I will never Marry any lady with same age with me


the ish of money and genotype isn't an ish for me, I wouldn't want to look out side after marriage or someone who will ask me both of us who senior each other one day.


ask your self if you really love her, if yes. then go ahead

Older ladies in my office have more respect than all this Telamondo girls. Before a woman will disrespect you guy make you same you done cast or you do something bad. Trust be told I know age is important i get your point. Thanks

IamLEGEND1:
na when you born pikin and all ur net salary for the whole year is spent on hospital bills and you still have to be jumping from one relative to another asking for help, na then you go know.

This one no be laughing matter....try to see the bigger picture here....and don't allow emotions cloud ur judgement. there is only one way out-Dump her. Chances are high your GF will probably die young too. So no even think am.

Ok. But let me ask you a question. WHAT IF THIS YOUNG GIRL IS YOUR SISTER? will advise me to dump her like you said?

Th last 6 years being wonderful and i know when its get to marriage it wouldn't be the same. But come to think of it.
WHAT IS MARRIAGE?,
WHO INSTITUTED MARRIAGE?,
WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF MARRIAGE?
WHAT DOES MARRIAGE MEANS TO YOU?


I don't all the money in the world but be rest assured i have GOD and after seeking his grace and mercy and HE tells me to go ahead my brother I WOULD NOT BE NEEDING YOUR ADVISE.

Cool23:
Dude we are bros and I dont think it is such a good idea not because of ss but because of age it ain't good to marry ur agemate and another thing working class she is earning more than u at u sure that is not an issue and ur family ain't standing before u and let's look at the good part u guys would earn a lot if ur money is combined u would have great accommodation ur children will not be ss but any choice u make is right and if the love is there go for it we will support u

Thanks bro. By the time she drop two children and we are leaving cool no body to remember all this talk rather na de go sing with me and join in thanksgiving because in every situation 'NA GOD WIN'

IamLEGEND1:
SS? this guy dey play with fire.

Lol this guy funny. My GF strong pass you she get mind fund her education without her family support. The level of trust and respect i have for her i have not had it towards any body. Yes she is SS but not chronic just normal malaria like every other person so abeg no fear.

ladydiva:
your family should understand that in as much as they love you and wish you the best you have your life to live. six years is not child's play, the both of you have been through a lot. Your uncle shouldn't have asked her how much she earns because it's non of his business. As for the genotype, that is not an issue you are AA. so that area is covered. As for the age issue, I believed she never hid her age from you. What if she lied about it will your uncle say all he is saying. As for him saying Edo prefer marrying from their place that is not true. My ex was from there and was willing to wed me but I left because of issues he couldn't address. If she has been polite and humble to you all these years what will make her change. 6 years,bia Dede GI no try at all. Most of the questions he asked her shouldn't have been asked. Except that of Where do you work. I feel for the lady so much.In the end the choice is yours

Hmmmm thank you and your comment was on point all these questions were asked when i went to his kitchen to get a drink and i was surprise he asked her. but never the less the decision is mine. Thanks for the advise

verabetsy:
Topic Title: Did I made a mistake (wrong)

Correct Title: Did I make a mistake (take note )

I de talk serious matter you de look my English any way thank you. I hear u

ladyF:
Ermmmm.....please what is a condom? I don't even understand the topic sef.

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again

Condom is a rubber device used by F male to F lady F to prevent F pregnancy.

chigoizie7:
Ur brother is right.

I won't say much, but just know it that in marriage, it is not always about love.

If its love i have a big heart but the fragments are shared. she has hers, my family has theirs, the biggest part belongs to God. Every night i ask for mercy and direction and the only reply i get 'sleep son i know you are hurting I will speak to you'.

pedrilo:
wetin concern phenotype for dis mata?
make una no dey confuse us here abeg.
as per ur story, if u love that girl, pls go ahead and marry her.
if she respects u b4 marriage, i do not see her disrespecting u after marriage

Love is blind they say but not stupid. Bros except no u no no woman when they are angry my brother kneel down beg i have done it before.

HIGHESTPOPORI:
Seun Lalasticala,help dis guy move this thread to FP

Abeg help me beg Oga Seun the matter no let me sleep

goziem1982:
Please ask questions like why?, if you're mature enough make your decision,you're the one to manage your family.

Yes i am matured enough but i am stock between the devil and the deep blue sea