panmunium:
If I could cancel my wedding even after printing my wedding cards because of genotype incompatibility just to avoid crisis after marriage and giving birth to a child who will suffer because of our errors, then everyone can do same. But for your case, she needs your love and support now more than ever, the deeds have been done already, pray fervently and await for what the future will produce

Why did you wait to print card before canceling your wedding?

LilMissFavvy:
Your first child will not be a sickler, don't quit your marriage. Even if you have a sickler amongst the 4kids you plan to have in future, it wouldn't be the end of the world. I have seen two AS couples who have only AS kids, no sickler, be hopeful for the best. You are an educated person yet did not take genotype issues seriously

That's if he's lucky.. anyway only losers believe on luck

betterpikinn:

You don't seem to be an intelligent person... Sorry to say.

So, both of you couldn't think that there are solutions out there to prevent you having ss sickler children and you call yourselves graduates. Smh

You don't know about pre-natal diagnosis
Pre implantation
IVF etc?

Don't let ignorance limit your happiness ..

Assuming he knows all this will you give him 100,000$ to do them...like knowledge is enough?

busomma:
U don't hv to panic my brother. My best friend is AS & married AS as well. They have 3 children & none turned out to be SS. What u would've done is consult a doctor who can assist u & ur wife avoid having SS child. That was what my friend did. This is 21st century & medical sciences can do almost anything. I wish u best of luck.

You guys don't know what you're saying...your friend was only lucky of which not everyone will be lucky(anyway only losers depend on luck)

Secondly not everyone has 100,000K$ for bone marrow transplant...the best is to just avoid anything that will give rise to SS kid

Qwertyjoan:
My experience: I discovered that we were AS while dating,because I know she will be my wife I prayed using relevant scriptures to back it up with my whole heart ,behold when she went for youth service, she ran another test it turn out to be AA,we have three healthy kids. So pray.

Fvck u scammer... ..you're looking for novice to prey on..maybe you worship devil

Ishilove:

You may never know, your case may just be different.

Only losers live on luck

Fundamentalist:
A man should be able to stand by his words. 3 years ago I rejected a lady i wanted to marry. I discovered if I went ahead with it, I won't be be happy at all. She wanted me badly but I knew I might enter one chance. I took only a day to make a decision that it had to be called off. please note that both families knew about the relationship and were looking forward to end of 2017 for the marriage. There was pressure from my family to continue but I stood by my decision. This continued for 6 months. With my total silence on the issue everyone just left me alone. Please let's know what we want when entering a marriage. No one would bare your cross when problems start. Since you have put a lady in a family way, you have to bare the cross. If she's my sister i wont let you off. Rather call off a wedding that people would attend and even forget when it happened than live a marriage full of sadness and regret. Please take of your pregnant wife. She's your responsibility. Despite my cancelled relationship everyone is looking towards my marriage till today.

You made the right decision man....I'm about calling off a similar relationship..babe is too argumentative, and hates men , wouldn't have married if not society(according to her) and that she will share everything half between her new family and the family she's coming from...so no one needs to advice me on what to do ..even though she's superhot but when trouble starts tomorrow I will forget her banging body

akinegba1:



Your father impregnated this one

Hope you've impregnated that your little daughter
That's what you all are known for in that erosion ravaged enclave of Anambra..incest is what u all know

Fountainofyouth:



The doctor is right, I don't blame you both for the mixed feelings you're having presently, but which one is she "thinks" she was pregnant before the marriage? You that she told, can't you take her to the hospital to check if it's 100% positive or negative? Which kind yeye excuse is this? Which one is "she was in love"? Were you not in love with her too? This one you are using "was", the love don fade for una eyes right? Nawa o.

Na so e de happen naw

Obidosie onato, I love you, I love you (onye mazikwanu mgbe oga esunu)..that's flavour's song..like e de sweet when e start

Love isn't enough for marriage, that's the truth...love fades if the foundation like this one is shaky

Cyberterror:
He was a very popular business man in Aba. He was very wealthy too. I hope his children don't scatter his business in the name of sharing it as is common in Igboland. May his soul rest in peace.

Chino it doesn't concern u...stick to your poverty

Abagworo:
Where is Chino?

He's no where to be found ..who knows whether he's raping his own daughter too

God forbid her father governs Nigeria

They should just do

ceeSleek:
Ok, let me play you the concluding part of the story.

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You'll get so fascinated by this guy's wonderful personality, at a point, you wouldn't want to break up your present relationship (you'll want to eat your cake and have it), you'll start partially double dating with the new guy, he'll so much intrigue you, after he slides into your pant, you'll be so so love spelled, you'll then become bold enough to quit with your main BOO (in your mind, you've made the right choice). Your new guy's beast mode will now begin to manifest, he'll start treating you like trash, abusing you (this moment, you'll be like: where's the sweet guy i met?) .. you'll come back to your senses, and want to go back to the guy you broke up with, guess what?! He has moved on with his destined heart throb, and doesn't give a shii about you again, you go back to square one.

(You'll be like, WTF is my advice)
Here is it:
With this illustration, use your tongue to count your teeth, THIS LIFE NO BALANCE AT ALL.

Well said bro

zuby4real10:
Y r women always celebrating marriage more than men? Y is marriage a woman's greatest achievement? The answer is simply because they are looking for an innocent man to shoulder their responsibilities. They enjoy free food, shelter, health care, pocket money and many more.After all these effort from a man they will still be looking for equal rights and start dragging for a TV remote with man. Is there anything that a man can enjoy in marriage that he can not benefit from as a bachelor. Show me one woman with a good career or doing well financially that is rushing to enter into marriage, this is simply because she no need a man. Nigerian men shine ur eyes. Marriage these days is a scam from women.

spot on man...you said it all

tyup:


2017....3 bleeping years ago whilst ipob grease FP every dang months

there's a diff bud

Doesn't matter the time...in your warped mind you know that you don't make sense ..keep running around

tyup:


oga what year was that

Use Google....I was just trying to help your bigotry ministry

FlordFlorez:
I fear who no fear woman. Abeg people, if u wants to marry, try marrying ur friend/bestie. I'm currently dating a girl that was once my bestie for 3years. Its 99% sure im marrying her cos since we've been dating (for 2year), no quarrel whatsoever in our 'table of contents'.

It doesn't mean quarrel won't come up.. quarrel is part of life..how you resolve it is what matters...who knows your first quarrel with her might lead to physical harm and disability..stay woke

tyup:
Getting to marry a lady from South east or South south is just a one suicide mission and not worth the risk either

Like Mariam sandals who killed her husband in the north

Niger Delta Amaka

Binikingdowm:
This list is based on infrastructures, good health care, educational sector, tourism, security and poverty rate

Anambra: it's not called the home of millionaires for nothing, anambra is a commercial state with many cities, onistha, akwa and nnewi are the most popular.


Enugu

Imo

Abia

Ebonyi

Stupid post...this only shows you don't know the East...lmao

LedRock:
You are funny, is Nigeria a developed country?

Well, Nigeria has the population advantage
Don't think I'm not happy for BUA, I'm happy for him but I want him even maximize his profits more..I like competition in business, atleast it helps remove monopoly Dangote had...I wish eastern cement plant in Ebonyi been rebuilt by Ibeto cement comes into effect too.

LedRock:
Dude you're a novice, you call 20billion naira profit in four months small

Yeah..for a big company like BUA, allied companies like that in overseas rake in billions of dollars within such s timeframe