jon1:

Where is it written "thou shalt not lash the married"?

Mamush001:
now i see why most nigerians feel that marriage is a great feat to be achieved- a do or die affair... like" u are married and have achieved all your dreams for life so the lashing wont get to u right"? berra wake up

henryhemon:


The point is it how many times he called her or you choose the one that suits you to comment on? Who says married women don't cheat?Marriage isn't an achievement.

dikerebel:
t the DAY you go die eh, the kind of rice weh i go eat for your burial, you go deh inside casket deh hiss.

LilChamp:
I really need good advice I can act on. I would really appreciate if lalasticlala mynd44 Rocktation farano can help me move this to the right place. I am at the point of making Marital decisions.

emeijeh:
But i wonder how a guy would call a gal 40 times!
You go just kill yourself with heartbreak.
Haba!
Next time call her twice and rest

goldbim:
the stylist does not want to listen to stories..#no time# .

goldbim:
That is what happens if you call yourself a lady and you refuse to have what we call VEXMONEY..#act like a lady,think like a man# .

AgrotConsult:
@op, i was once in dz very stress-filled spot of urs, my situation became vry hectic i come home frm long energy-sucken work, she would nag me lyk hell, yes lyk about everything she feels i was doing wrong, she most times transfer her anger frm d kids to me, frm d kitchen to me, frm d empty toiletries dwn to anything. wen i talk - it irritates her frm dia we argue to eachother's fill. i work so hard to provide for my wife and 4 kids. oh s3x was out d window and i stop initiating or worrying myslf to sleep about it. she sometimes nausea me wen i initiate cuz my toddler daughter was winning in dat department alrdy. so one day, she overstep & i almost hit her on her disgustin nasty face. she wept as if i had alrdy hit her while i was lashing my way out of the hauz to clear my head perhaps, for a moment i saw d panics in my kids. i felt guilty. didnt sleep well dat night. until i came up wit a solution lyk planning my personal finance, rooting out excess expenses, adjusting n allocating to needs dat matter most.

ItsQuinn:
From the observation of your story, I don't think your wife is going to change so it's either you tolerate, have extra marital affairs or you get a divorce. Simple! The choice is yours

1bkaye:

Lol definitely, I actively try to screen out and then avoid guys with that mindset, it's only fair on both of us that there's a balance of duties i.e. if financial responsibilities are say 30/70 I expect a fair ratio balancing that out to be reflected in other things

onimcee1:

If this comment was made before the 2015 general elections, you would have insulted 15million+ people.
Right now, I think you have insulted 5million or less people.
however, either way, I am glad I am not included.