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my brother dey there you go old.

my brothers and sisters I wonder, do you have an emergency fvck buddy too? I mean, someone you can go to virtually any time and who's willing to have sex with you, in case you need it real badly?



So we're not talking about gigolos and prostis, we're talking about ordinary friends.

kinglekan:

Nope what if other plans came up and she actually wanted to tell you she wouldn't make it?

That's why i don't read messages when am busy to avoid these kinda misunderstandings. Now all you have is assumptions.

my brother she was looking for comfort and a provider status male. Little empathy goes a long way with most women. Sounds like she was looking for a reason to flake.

Besides, all those silly interview questions can be answered in person, she was trying to extort info from me free of charge. I wouldn't have replied at all. If she texts and asks me if I am still on for tonight

kinglekan:

With the benefit of hindsight i am thinking she probably wanted to cancel the date which was why she initiated the chat. Perhaps something came up and she wanted to inform you earlier so you don't get stood up by 8 which would have been pretty much annoying.

You could have just told her where you worked and then added that you couldn't chat atm rather than ignoring her question twice while you had enough time to type a 15 words response. If a lady did same to you, trust me you wouldn't like it.

I suggest you try reaching her later to find out why rather than assume she is trying to weigh her options.

my brother that is it!
if she wanted the date to still go as planned. Her message should have been like these: "are we still on tonight?"

Lsofdk:
[color=teal]ok, IMO she should have saved the question for the date.
still you may be drawing a wrong conclusion as to why she asked that question.
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my brother trust me she was just trying to extract information to determine value.

MUVA:
You're very wrong bro. Observe.

Sayanara.

my brother me sef be mind reader........ I'm not interested now as she has shown herself to be insecure and I can't afford to be dealing with that constantly.

firstking01:
And perhaps she wanted to know the padegree of where you work so she can start imagining the size of your pocket...what has my hanging out with you got to do with where i work??...abeg bro, you did the right thing...




Women and money conciousness....truthful saying, if money were to grow on trees, a lot of girls with date monkeys

my brother I tire o.

Lsofdk:
[color=teal]if you were able to type this, you could as well answer the question. [/color]

my brother am pretty sure she was going to flake no matter what unless my job was more impressive than the other dude she was probably talking to. I think she was weighing her options. What a classless Naija b*tch.

MUVA:
You should've simply told her. She probably has her reason for asking.

She thinks you're dodging the question.

my brother not even worth it at this point. She's turned me off with this temper tantrum.

My brothers and sisters what really went wrong here?................. Set up a date on Thursday with this babe for tonight via text, haven't talked to her since we set it up.

While I'm at work today this happened:


Her: Hey
Me: Hi, what's up?
Her: How's it goin
Me: Pretty good, but pretty busy. I'll see you tonight.
Her: Where do you work
Me: See you at 8
Her: I just asked you a question
Me: I appreciate that, but can't chat right now. Ask me tonight. Looking forward to it.
Her: I have to cancel but good luck to you!


Seriously?

[quote author=emvico post=45458034][/quote]my brother no be typographic error abeg.......na slag o

my brother eiyah!



You know what?!........I think your personality is too problematic for any sane lady to endure.

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my brother nawa for you o.

my brother omg!

I wish this babe was rich enough...........I would have gone for have.

my brother kill them before they kill you.

my brother what do you mean "die natural death"?..........my friend go and murder that relationship.

Take every goddanm thing you have given her(that is takeable) without mercy.


How can you let her play a fast one on YOU!

my brother good for him.

my brother not bad.

my brother what can I say?
like mother like daughter!

my brother this man done drink im thing again.........."You don tey Madt abi"

my sister congratulations.

my brother off liberty street.

My sister nice topic. I'll take a stab. God is ineffable. Nobody can say what God is exactly, so that poses a challenge in answering questions about His/Her/Their existence. As Protestant theologian Karl Barth put it "God is wholly other." I've been in fellowship groups where the term "Great Mystery" is substituted for the word "God". So the best I can do is express my own understanding, based on my personal life experiences, powerful social conditioning, reading and thinking about the nature of reality. Kant taught us long ago that our perceptions are inescapably filtered through fallible sensory apparatus and mental categories that prevent us from full knowledge of external reality. As Saint Paul says, "we see through a glass darkly". I think we can talk about God from a functional standpoint: what belief in God does for humans even when we can't offer anything like a precise definition.


The best I can come up with as a working definition is that God is the felt presence of a Higher Power "in whom we live and move and have our being." Not particularly original. The Higher Power, of course, comes from the Twelve Step recovery groups, and denoting any power that we recognize outside ourselves as controlling or guiding our lives--be it Yahweh, Allah, or Good Orderly Direction. So God is not necessarily the Dude in the Sky. The phrase "in whom we live and move and have our being" is from Acts 17:28. The "felt presence" part is mine, reminding us that what we feel might not be real in an objective sense although it can be important to us. Belief in God is an existential decision to bet our lives on this vaguely defined felt presence.


To me, God is, among other things, a code word for Ultimate Meaning and an expression of my sense that it's a great big wondrful universe we live in--as the Protestant theologian Paul Tillich puts it "the Ground of all Being", or as John Dewey prefers "the summation of human idealism". I've been influenced by psychologist Viktor Frankl, who sees the quest for meaning as the basic human drive. Writing from his observations in a Nazi concentration camp, Frankl thinks that the prisoners who survived were those who could find meaning to their lives even in that hellacious environment. The meaning could take a variety of forms:memory of a loved one, a ray of light coming through a cell window, etc. However, Frankl thought there were some human pursuits which are blind alleys when it comes to meaningful existence: wealth, status, power, and sensual indulgence. Pursuit of such things inevitably leads to emptiness. I tend to describe this in the vocabulary of religious metaphor: idolatry. These are false gods.


Does God have objective existence? I tend to reject the concept of God as the "Dude in the Sky" watching and judging us. I've been influenced by a couple of physicists, Dyson Freeman and Paul Davies, who see more to the integrated complexity of the universe than operation blind material force--but they admit that this is metaphysics rather than physics. So objectively, God is either the author of the laws of physics or the laws themselves. I've also been influenced by a personal "moment of clarity" (religious experience, psychotic break, whatever) in which a passage in Genesis took on new meaning for me: the part about humans being created in the image and likeness of God. From then on, I can't go to Shoprite without seeing God in the aisles and checkout lines. Of course, I could give a perfectly naturalistic explanation to this psychological phenomenon, but the metaphor helped a lot to change my attitude and make me, in my opinion, a better person. Beyond that, I can't decide yet whether I'm a theist, deist, pantheist, panentheist or confused agnostic. But Jesus is my hero.

martyns303:
Dude doesn't even looks like someone who owns a property and even if he do own one, there's no way in zeus name anyone would bath in that. It looks like an abandoned place, cos even by taking her bath, water would have washed of some of the dirt.

my brother

my I feel blessed.