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Iziquiel:
I think there's more to your story. Anyways, if your story is anything to go by, I think he was wrong to have sent you on an errand in your husband's absence. It would have been okay if it was your husband that sent you to go get the call card for his friend.
I'm sorry to say this, I also think you're a disrespectful woman. I mean, you should have gone to get him what he asked for but you came up with those excuses which I don't believe just because you feel he shouldn't send you on an errand. It doesn't cost you anything to go out and buy him the recharge card.

Are you kidding me? Where exactly are you from? Looks like you guys don't know what shame and disrespect means in your tribe. I don't know how you will go to an Edo man's house to visit him and send his wife on errand to go and buy you recharge card and you will not hear the story of your life.

Chinnyrita27:
Good day nairalanders. I created this account to seek for advice as I am confused and crying as I type this. I have been happily married for 4 years with a daughter of 3 and my husband. Not about a week ago, I had issues with one of his friend in his absence in our home. He had this close friend who came visiting on a faithful evening last Monday(I was not strong enough to go to work),he came when my husband wasn't around so I had to leave whatever I was doing to keep him company while we wait for my husband, at some point I offered to get him food, he obliged and ate, it was not upto 30 minutes after eating, he asked me to go buy him card. Politely, I told him I can't as was so tired and weak to walk about 10 minutes under the sun, i suggested to recharge free for him from my bank, he insisted, frowned his face and asked if I was trying to tell him that he can't recharge from his account, I was shocked, he stood up angry and aggressively and drove out of the compound. I didn't utter a word, I was angry but kept calm.

Not until my husband came back, and when I was about to welcome him but, he angrily yield and screamed at me and asked why I had to insult his friend and call him poor. I angrily asked him why he believed his friend without trying to confirm the from me, we deeply quarrelled and he made statement threatening to end the marriage if I cannot respect his friends and his people. I have never disrespected him or any of his friends and family members before, I'm so confused, we have not be conversing and relating well since Monday. I tried to make peace with him as I wasn't comfortable keeping malice with him but he said I will have to apologise to his friend which is something I don't think I can do.

I am so confused, what should I do?

I'm sorry to say but your husband is a fool. I don't know which of my friends would be able to visit me and have the nerve to send my wife to go and buy him recharge card. What kind of nonsense is that? Who are the people raising all these stupid males sef?

I think this is perfect.

Lol. Problem dey this life o.

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Simplep:
All this twitter girls sef,don't they have parents?

Same thing I keep asking myself. Shey dem no get family members ni?

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