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Kalulu44:
Honestly man, I can only agree to the second one which in my post I stated I quickly bent down and started apologizing, even though I know she was a serial cheater before that incident. Do you know it was reverse psychology she used on me, she turned herself into the victim while I was supposed to be the one. I just have to cut the story short there, in truth the person she went to meet was her boyfriend. I know and she knows, I just have to pretend and begged her for the slap and let everything dies, but in my mind I already have plans to get another person which is what I later did and ditched her.
As for being insecure and jealous, man I have to tell you the honest truth. I'm not and never like that till this moment I am replying you.
I give any girl I am dating freedom to do whatever pleases them. I have never for once in my life check the phones of the girls I am dating rather they do mine.
That's it that about the 2nd girl.
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As for the 1st one, did I hear you say walk away. Though I was still young then and could have handled it differently now, but someone slapped me the first time, I was still thinking about what just happened, and she's coming to attack me again, nah man. She deserves what she got then.
Ok let me ask you, what if while walking away she still rush to come and attack you, what will you do.
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Lastly, after those two incident I have never touched any woman again. I have learnt to restrain from fights even against my fellow man. Thank you for your honest opinion anyways

Kalulu44:
Yeah guys, I know it's very wrong as a man to lay your hand on a woman and beat her. It doesn't makes sense and till this day I am still baffled at men who still do so.
We know women can sometimes push us to the extreme, but restraining yourself and just walk away makes you a real man.
But I too have twice lay my hands on women, once was when I think I was still a teenager and the second one, though matured but was push to the extreme end of the wall.
I want you guys to carefully read the two scenarios and tell me if I was right or wrong on both occasion.
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1st Scenario:
Back in 1999, I was 19 and went to see Kanu and friends charity match in National stadium Surulere, Lagos.
The match ended by 6pm and as we were all going home, a heavy downpour started.
Coming from Okokomaiko area of Lagos, I can't afford to wait for the rain to subside.
So I entered the rain, there was no bus to convey one from Stadium to Orile due to the crowd and rain, so I started trekking towards Orile. At Adeniran Ogunsanya road the rain has gone down a little but was still dripping, the ground was flooded so I removed my leather sandals and hold it in my hands for easy walking and for the sandals not to get spoilt.
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The pair of sandals was in my right hand and while I was walking fast, I was swinging my both hands. Unknowingly, while swinging my hands, the sandals touched a girl in front of me at her backside. Immediately she turned to face me, I quickly clasps my two hands together and told her sorry, that it was a mistake. She said it's a lie that I did it on purpose, I tried to explain to her and the next thing I heard was a huge slap on my face from her.
One woman who was hiding from the rain at a shop was looking at us but didn't say anything, even when the girl slapped me first.
I put a hand on the cheek she slap and told her, so you slap me bcus of this little thing.
She said ehen! What will I do? I was still contemplating the next line of action, this girl shifted back, removed her scarf and tied it on her waist, then came charging at me to slap me again, that was when I lost it. I held her raised hand, and landed up to 5 heavy slaps on her both cheeks, I was careful not to use blows. While shifting back from my slaps, she fell on the flooded ground.
I still wanted to rush her on the floor but that woman hiding shouted: you wan kill her ni?
I replied her back, but you were there when she slapped me and wanted to attack me but you didn't say anything.
While I was talking to that woman, she has stood up, came to where I was and held my shirt tight crying that I must kill her today.
No power again from her to slap or beat me again.
Passers by sha came and settled us and everybody went his or her way.
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2nd Scenario:
Year 2012, me and my live in girlfriend went to the market on the Sunday Man United defeated Arsenal 8-2. We bought things to cook on that day. After preparing and eating the morning meal, we relaxed to watch some movies. By 12pm, I told her I will like her to go with me by 4pm to see the match.
She said no o, that she can't go where crowd is bla bla bla. I pleaded with her that I have seen guys bring their babes to viewing centres and it was cool, that she shouldn't worry she will enjoy the atmosphere.
She insisted she's not going but rather stay at home. I didn't force again. By 3:30pm I prepared and left for the viewing centre.
I told her to make dinner before I come back and she shook her head.
4pm, match starts and before you know it Man United has scored the first goal and then the second goal. Then my phone bleep, it was her. I picked and the first thing I heard was Up Man U from her, I am a Man United fan and she knows it so wasn't surprise with the hailing but was surprised how she knew Man United was scoring and leading. I replied her "For Life" and we hunged up.
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Match continued, she called back after the 6th goal and hail Up Man U again and said una wan kill Arsenal. I then told her this wan you're giving me update about this match, how you take know say Man United dey score and win. She said, she dey watch am nah. I was shocked. Watch am for where I asked, she said I shouldn't worry and said another Up Man U before hunging up.
I focus on the match and after the match ended, she called once again and was singing Up Man U to my ears before hanging up.
I left the viewing centre, went outside to where football enthusiast were to discuss and analyse the match.
That one took another 1hr from me and finally left for home almost to 7pm.
By then I was dead hungry from shouting and jubilating, hoping once I get home food don ready for me.
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To my greatest surprise, I got home and didn't see my babe neither did I see any prepared food. I called her, she picked but I couldn't hear her well bcus of the noise from the music where she was. I hunged up and went to prepare food by myself. After I finish cooking, I ate and went to lie down waiting for her.
I was boiling seriously inside of me, so this girl went out to watch the same match I begged her to go watch with me, and she didn't make the food she promised to.
I was on the bed pressing my phone when she came in by after 9pm.
She flunged herself to me inside the bed and was singing the Up Man U again. I gently pushed her aside.
Madam, where are you coming from and what's with the up man u you have been singing to me since I asked.
She said ah ah! She went to watch the match nah. With who I asked again, she said she received a call from her town brothers that they should hanged out at a bar, and that the house was boring that's why she went.
Which brothers? I thought you told me you have nobody in Lagos, that your parents and only brother stays in Onitsha.
And also you went and watch football match with them that I begged you to come watch with me.
Then she started shouting, henhen! Can't I go out again, or is she caged? I didn't say anything again and just kept my cool, she continue ranting and ranting. In her rant she made a statement that got me really annoyed.
That I am just feeling pain and jealous bcus she told me she went to see a match with guys, she didn't even moved back to say it.
She came to my face and was shouting while saying it, I didn't know when I slapped her and pushed her to the wall. She hit the wall and fell to the bed.
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She yelled out a cry and scream so Uche you slapped me. Immediately I bent to where she was and started begging her. Omoh, I begged from that 9pm till midnight, she no gree o.
I told her how she was the one that forced me to it. Told her how angry I was she didn't go to see that match with me but with other guys and instead of her to be remorseful, she tried to play the victim. She didn't say anything to me, but was just sobbing and telling me not to touch her.
We slept off without settling the matter.
We kept malice for three days, but she finally forgave me on the fourth day, but drew her ear that she will never ever forget cus no man has ever raised hand on her.
So there's it guys, in the two scenarios was I at fault in hitting a woman or it was justified?
Mind you, I never used blows nor items in hitting them but just slaps.
Hit the comments box and let me know where I was wrong and right, thanks.
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Wotowotoman, Sonofwar, brain54, Pootle, Aleem26, CodeTemplar, CJStarz, ruggedtimi, oz4real83

Kalulu44:
Yeah guys, I know it's very wrong as a man to lay your hand on a woman and beat her. It doesn't makes sense and till this day I am still baffled at men who still do so.
We know women can sometimes push us to the extreme, but restraining yourself and just walk away makes you a real man.
But I too have twice lay my hands on women, once was when I think I was still a teenager and the second one, though matured but was push to the extreme end of the wall.
I want you guys to carefully read the two scenarios and tell me if I was right or wrong on both occasion.
.
1st Scenario:
Back in 1999, I was 19 and went to see Kanu and friends charity match in National stadium Surulere, Lagos.
The match ended by 6pm and as we were all going home, a heavy downpour started.
Coming from Okokomaiko area of Lagos, I can't afford to wait for the rain to subside.
So I entered the rain, there was no bus to convey one from Stadium to Orile due to the crowd and rain, so I started trekking towards Orile. At Adeniran Ogunsanya road the rain has gone down a little but was still dripping, the ground was flooded so I removed my leather sandals and hold it in my hands for easy walking and for the sandals not to get spoilt.
.
The pair of sandals was in my right hand and while I was walking fast, I was swinging my both hands. Unknowingly, while swinging my hands, the sandals touched a girl in front of me at her backside. Immediately she turned to face me, I quickly clasps my two hands together and told her sorry, that it was a mistake. She said it's a lie that I did it on purpose, I tried to explain to her and the next thing I heard was a huge slap on my face from her.
One woman who was hiding from the rain at a shop was looking at us but didn't say anything, even when the girl slapped me first.
I put a hand on the cheek she slap and told her, so you slap me bcus of this little thing.
She said ehen! What will I do? I was still contemplating the next line of action, this girl shifted back, removed her scarf and tied it on her waist, then came charging at me to slap me again, that was when I lost it. I held her raised hand, and landed up to 5 heavy slaps on her both cheeks, I was careful not to use blows. While shifting back from my slaps, she fell on the flooded ground.
I still wanted to rush her on the floor but that woman hiding shouted: you wan kill her ni?
I replied her back, but you were there when she slapped me and wanted to attack me but you didn't say anything.
While I was talking to that woman, she has stood up, came to where I was and held my shirt tight crying that I must kill her today.
No power again from her to slap or beat me again.
Passers by sha came and settled us and everybody went his or her way.
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2nd Scenario:
Year 2012, me and my live in girlfriend went to the market on the Sunday Man United defeated Arsenal 8-2. We bought things to cook on that day. After preparing and eating the morning meal, we relaxed to watch some movies. By 12pm, I told her I will like her to go with me by 4pm to see the match.
She said no o, that she can't go where crowd is bla bla bla. I pleaded with her that I have seen guys bring their babes to viewing centres and it was cool, that she shouldn't worry she will enjoy the atmosphere.
She insisted she's not going but rather stay at home. I didn't force again. By 3:30pm I prepared and left for the viewing centre.
I told her to make dinner before I come back and she shook her head.
4pm, match starts and before you know it Man United has scored the first goal and then the second goal. Then my phone bleep, it was her. I picked and the first thing I heard was Up Man U from her, I am a Man United fan and she knows it so wasn't surprise with the hailing but was surprised how she knew Man United was scoring and leading. I replied her "For Life" and we hunged up.
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Match continued, she called back after the 6th goal and hail Up Man U again and said una wan kill Arsenal. I then told her this wan you're giving me update about this match, how you take know say Man United dey score and win. She said, she dey watch am nah. I was shocked. Watch am for where I asked, she said I shouldn't worry and said another Up Man U before hunging up.
I focus on the match and after the match ended, she called once again and was singing Up Man U to my ears before hanging up.
I left the viewing centre, went outside to where football enthusiast were to discuss and analyse the match.
That one took another 1hr from me and finally left for home almost to 7pm.
By then I was dead hungry from shouting and jubilating, hoping once I get home food don ready for me.
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To my greatest surprise, I got home and didn't see my babe neither did I see any prepared food. I called her, she picked but I couldn't hear her well bcus of the noise from the music where she was. I hunged up and went to prepare food by myself. After I finish cooking, I ate and went to lie down waiting for her.
I was boiling seriously inside of me, so this girl went out to watch the same match I begged her to go watch with me, and she didn't make the food she promised to.
I was on the bed pressing my phone when she came in by after 9pm.
She flunged herself to me inside the bed and was singing the Up Man U again. I gently pushed her aside.
Madam, where are you coming from and what's with the up man u you have been singing to me since I asked.
She said ah ah! She went to watch the match nah. With who I asked again, she said she received a call from her town brothers that they should hanged out at a bar, and that the house was boring that's why she went.
Which brothers? I thought you told me you have nobody in Lagos, that your parents and only brother stays in Onitsha.
And also you went and watch football match with them that I begged you to come watch with me.
Then she started shouting, henhen! Can't I go out again, or is she caged? I didn't say anything again and just kept my cool, she continue ranting and ranting. In her rant she made a statement that got me really annoyed.
That I am just feeling pain and jealous bcus she told me she went to see a match with guys, she didn't even moved back to say it.
She came to my face and was shouting while saying it, I didn't know when I slapped her and pushed her to the wall. She hit the wall and fell to the bed.
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She yelled out a cry and scream so Uche you slapped me. Immediately I bent to where she was and started begging her. Omoh, I begged from that 9pm till midnight, she no gree o.
I told her how she was the one that forced me to it. Told her how angry I was she didn't go to see that match with me but with other guys and instead of her to be remorseful, she tried to play the victim. She didn't say anything to me, but was just sobbing and telling me not to touch her.
We slept off without settling the matter.
We kept malice for three days, but she finally forgave me on the fourth day, but drew her ear that she will never ever forget cus no man has ever raised hand on her.
So there's it guys, in the two scenarios was I at fault in hitting a woman or it was justified?
Mind you, I never used blows nor items in hitting them but just slaps.
Hit the comments box and let me know where I was wrong and right, thanks.
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Wotowotoman, Sonofwar, brain54, Pootle, Aleem26, CodeTemplar, CJStarz, ruggedtimi, oz4real83

Kalulu44:
Hahahaha, me I no know anything about them again o. And you rmbr the saying, wetin man no know no fit kill am or haunt am

Kalulu44:
Lolz! I'm single at the moment o

Wotowotoman:
Why you dey ask? You wan give Kalulu44 your sister? 🤔

Kalulu44:
MORE OF MY LIFE EXPERIENCE!
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It was year 2005, back in Benin City Edo state.
I was combining school and working as a conductor during weekends. Within 6 months I have started driving.
One early Saturday morning, I loaded from our park at New Benin market to Ikpoba Hill with the last bus stop being Agbor park or Depot.
A passenger signal she wants to alight at First Upstair bus stop which is about three bus stops away before Agbor park.
I stopped and she came down, as I was about to move. A bike carrying two guys was coming from inside the street with speed, and there was a woman behind them shouting thief thief help thief thief!
As they were about to speed pass me, I deliberately hit them from behind and they fell inside a gutter and were writhing in pains and couldn't get up.
My passengers were shouting "you don kill person driver, you don kill person"
Fear immediately grip me, I didn't know what to do, whether to speed off or wait.
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My passengers, thinking it was an accident not knowing it was deliberate asked me to wait let them go assist them, then came the woman from the street shouting thief thief, saying we shouldn't help them, that they're thieves that just snatch her bag containing money she wants to take to the market.
All this things were happening within few minutes and the robbers due to pain couldn't get up to think of running away.
My passengers wanted to descend on them, but just as they were about to. Policemen from Oregbeni police station were patrolling and saw the incident, they quickly parked and asked what was going?
They were told and the woman pointed at her bag with one of them.
They went to where the guys were crying in pains inside the gutter and retrieve the woman's bag, and also saw two locally made pistol with them.
Immediately they saw those guns and retrieve it, they shot the three of them on their legs and loaded them inside their patrol van.
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They gave the woman her bag which she said contains 120k she wants to travel to Lagos with and buy goods, and they drove the three guys straight to the station. The woman was full of thanks to me, but I was afraid. Many things ran thru my mind. What if those guys have marked my bus, what if they have seen my face. But I later assured myself they didn't see nothing cus 1. It was still early morning and 2. The pains they were in couldn't have even made them have time to look at me or my bus.
My passengers boarded back and I also carried the woman to drop her at Agbor park where she can get a bus to New Benin and then to Lagos. She later gave me 1k which I refused at first but with her insistence I collect.
So guys did I do the right thing by hitting those thieves, would I have been responsible for their death if they had died?
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Lastly to my Benin peeps and those staying in that Ramat park and Agbor park axis, are this funny bus stops still in existence?
Wahala junction
First upstairs
Santana/akpu junction
Cus it's been years I last visited Benin City.
CJStarz, ruggedtimi, oz4real83, brain54, Bouncingbabyboy, Pootle, Allthingswork, Sonofwar, Aleem26, youngrichnigga, CodeTemplar, Wotowotoman.

Kalulu44:
Yeah you're right. As for marriage, I am single parent with three grown up kids. The last is 16 and the first 20. Thanks for your comment

Kalulu44:
Guys! Believe this story or not. Till date it still feels unreal to me.
It was back in September 2008, on the 10th which was my 28th birthday. 2 weeks earlier I just got myself an apartment in Okokomaiko area of Lagos where I actually grew up.
I had been staying with mumsie and my siblings in Iyana Iba of Ojo area of Lagos since 2006 when I returned back from Benin.
Bcus I am new in my new apartment and area and haven't made friends. I always go to Ojo after my close from work to see my friends there and also my family.
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So on this particular day which was my birthday, I quickly close from work. I was a bus driver and independent, I can close anytime I like. Went to friends in the afternoon to have some few drinks for my birthday. Later in the evening, I went to my family home and we celebrated together. I left them around 9pm and headed for home.
I didn't have appetite for food again but I needed to eat something, so I branch off at one Ghana woman opposite Ojo local govt sectariat selling foods. I bought one full chicken lap that was really curved like a gun.
I intend on eating it at home with one bottle of beer and just sleep off.
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So the woman wrapped the fried chicken inside a black nylon and I put inside the side pocket of the combat short knicker I was wearing and headed for home. My bus stop was Cassidy bus stop of Okokomaiko. Anybody who knows that bus stop back then, knows how dangerous it was. It's not far from PPL and Alaba Rago which are also dangerous black spots. So I got to the bus stop by 9:45pm and began walking home.
There was a lonely long stretch part that leads to Ago Hausa/Ago Tapa my area.
At the middle of the dark part, I heard a voice behind saying I should stop and not turn.
I felt something pointed at my back like the tip of a gun, iron or whatever I can't think of at that moment.
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The voice spoke in Yoruba that I should summit everything with me. I responded with shaky voice that he should calm down that I will comply.
With me was 8k at my back pocket, a Nokia 95 China phone that I just bought for 10k then at the side of one of my combat pocket and the wrap chicken inside a black nylon at the other pocket.
While the guy or robber was yelling I shouldn't waste his time, I dip my hand inside one of the pockets and it was the one the chicken lap was. I didn't know the kind of morale and belief that came into me. I just found myself brought out the chicken wrap with nylon and holding the leg side. I quickly spun around and pointed it to the guy inside darkness and said in Yoruba language "ogbeni, aja o'kin je aja. Mo'sese nbo lati ibi ise temi, ma show ara re o" meaning, ogbeni dog no dey chop dog. Me wey just dey come back from my own robbery, you wan come show yourself.
I was doing and saying this things with my heart beating heavily. If not for darkness the idiot would have seen my apprehension, I guess he thought I was holding a real gun, or he too wasn't holding a real gun or anything close to it.
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Cus the moment I did that and talked back to him, he moved backward, raised his two hands and was hailing me.
"Tuwale baba, e ba ti sope ogbologbo leyin na"
Meaning, tuwale sir. You would have told me we are one.
Immediately he said this, he turned back and ran towards where he was coming from, me too ran towards my own direction and never looked back till I got to my house panting really hard and wondering what just happened and what I did.
After I have felt relaxed and thought about the whole thing again, I just burst into a serious laugh.
The next day I told my friends in Ojo and family what happened, they too felt amused and told me I was somehow lucky. That maybe the guy isn't holding real gun that's why.
I agree with them and just laugh it off.
But my mum warn me not to try pulling such stunt again.
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Till date, that's one episode of my life that anytime I rmbr it, I just smile.

RichBoy247:
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What did they do with the man who was caught sleeping with the adulterous woman in the Bible? The man was not even mentioned while the woman was about to be stoned to death

Freshandfitpod:
While children in river state are still sitting on the floor taking classes

pipnator00:
This is F'ed up. Who anyone chose to love is no ones business as long as they are of age and not infringing on anyone right!

J0HNNY:
Funny.. beating wey fit lead to factory setting. Him must use em head.. Person go leave kpekus wey God create dey practice Adam and Steve. Dey kiss em own fellow man with hairy balls. geez!!


Issa appalling

Samantha125:
I'm sure there's a way a wife can make her husband to just stay limp when he's with other women...

immortalcrown:
God of mercy! May their souls rest in peace.

But I have a question. What kind of "Three-day birthday praise" takes place in a studio? Shouldn't the praise happen in a Church or stadium? And only the deceased were left in the studio? Where was the owner of the studio that night?

Even the police did not make mention of any possible cause of the death. What could have happened to them? Generator fumes or food poison or something else?

tonesky:
Orji Kalu cannever support electronic transmission. You know why?

DeclanR:
I'm not

DeclanR:
I'm in chaos, depressed and nobody to listen to me.
What a world we are living in.
I need to open up to someone before I exit this wicked world

Azazyel:
So now the story has changed to he confessed under duress to wetin he no fit do. Na people like una dey support the "repentant terrorists" program wey Dem dey rehabilitate terrorists into the army. The day cultists would come at you or any member of your family, you'll understand what those people in ogidi are going through.