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CYBERWEAVER:
I am currently planning to get married. I’ve been with my babe for about a year now.

After several consultations, we agreed on a wedding budget of about 3 million Naira.

But I keep asking myself one very honest question: how do I commit that kind of money to someone who hasn’t really shown the same level of effort back, even in something as small as 5k, despite earning a little?


Asin, I never smell her 5k since we started dating.


At this point, it’s not even about the money anymore. It’s about intention, balance, and simple acts of kindness.

Even on my birthday, I didn’t receive a gift from her, and that stayed with me more than I expected.

I’ve never had to deliberately test her money, because genuine care and small acts of giving usually show themselves naturally over time.

To be clear, I’ve been carrying most of the financial weight in this relationship, and there’s hardly anything tangible she has ever done for herself without at least my 50% contribution since we met.

I don’t complain, but I also don’t want to ignore what I’m seeing.

As a responsible man, I’m trying to be honest with myself before I take a step I can’t easily undo.

So I want to ask people who are married or have real experience: if I go ahead and marry in a relationship where this is the current dynamic, what should I realistically expect in marriage?

I’m not trying to assume the worst, but I also believe experience speaks louder than hope.

immortalcrown:
Of all the things on earth, why was cultism what you could think of?

It is either you already know the meaning of what he posted or you have been suspecting him of being a member of courtism.

iamfraud:
Are there no Hausa, Fulani or Yoruba leaving in India?

soil4soil:
If it is a Yoruba actor that join APC there will be abuses and curses on the actor but now it's Obi tribes man now he did well.

No problem 2027 is almost here

moscobabs:
22 Years, One SIM, One Story

In 2004, as a young student at The Polytechnic, Ibadan, I bought a SIM card from a new network that had just arrived in Nigeria. That network was Glo, and little did I know that small chip would stay with me for over two decades.

Through the years, that SIM witnessed everything—late-night calls with friends, business growth, family moments, tough times, and victories. It remained constant while life kept changing.

From the days of recharge cards and “Who go dash me card?” to today’s world of fast internet and social media, my number never changed. It became more than just a line—it became part of my identity.

Today, after 22 years, I finally upgraded my SIM to 4G. Same number, same journey—just a new level.

Not everything old needs to be replaced. Some things just need an upgrade.

Cheers to growth, consistency, and evolution. 🥂

#22YearsStrong #From2004ToNow #GloNetwork #LifeJourney

Streamz:
They're wearing matching boxers 🤣
Noticed the guy's chain?

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
why should people pay back fraudulent loans? You will give someone loan of #100k with #89k interest for just 3months. A reasonable person don't suppose to pay back such fraudulent loans

brain54:
Can I apply as a male hostess hoster...?

gidgiddy:
The worrisome thing about Alex is that many Northerners were far more interested in his arrest and deportation, than they were about the arrest and prosecution of the gunmen killing the same Northerners

Why??

Lolaandy:
*344*2*1#
*121*248#
*121*3#
*121*4*1#
*121*4*3#

NwaNimo1:
Nigeria's problem is......Nigerians!

BlackViper:
Is this one not living under a curse?

Samantha125:
So you guys also have this tradition in Nigeria?🤣🤣🤣... I thought it was only in SA... We call it Sunday Kos or seven colours.

achorladey:
I don't even know what to add CJstarz. You see him hanging on to that validation as if na validation from Jehovah

Whenever MaxInDHouse is exposed as a liar and manipulator on Nairaland, he hangs on anything available to save face

MaxInDHouse:
YES!
Many have acknowledged that on this same forum.




































So if you want to discuss with people no one is holding your hands and for your information i don't insult anyone i explained my own personal conviction for whoever demands to know why i believe in the works of the Governing Body!🙂

MaxInDHouse:
YES!
Many have acknowledged that on this same forum.
And when I saw through you ,I withdrew my validation of you and your sect,and repeatedly warned you to desist from quoting me. You're so so annoying. You live a lie. You're not a true Christian. Stop mentioning me. Stay on your lane. I withdraw my earlier validation of your sect and person because breeze blew and fowl nysh was exposed.. I don't rate you anymore. U are not a practicing Christian.



































So if you want to discuss with people no one is holding your hands and for your information i don't insult anyone i explained my own personal conviction for whoever demands to know why i believe in the works of the Governing Body!🙂

MaxInDHouse:
YES!
Many have acknowledged that on this same forum.
U jus dey ment.




































So if you want to discuss with people no one is holding your hands and for your information i don't insult anyone i explained my own personal conviction for whoever demands to know why i believe in the works of the Governing Body!🙂

Typing:
Governor Aba is on his own. The people of Kano have abandoned him

turawaa:
And Aboki is not a person to be called ?

EverydayTales:
careful o.. I be last born o.. I no send like that