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please guys,

except for code academy, where can i learn SQL online, and for free.

Please bear in mind, that i have never done any thing related to computer programming before. never ever.

but i have a really high interest. so, something a beginner can easily use to start learning. i really need it for a career switch in the near future.

Code academy is good, but for a beginner everything still feels highly complicated.

thanks in advance for your suggestions.

Compare paedophilia (e.g a matured man raping a 9month baby) with stealing a pencil. By human standards, one is far greater. If you ask me sef, jungle justice for paedophiles .

But then By The standard of God, sin is sin.

Jetrue3oo:
Only a bad Father will praise his bad children when they returned from robbery and that Father today is Buhari who was once holy but now is corrupt.

am i the only one confused with this offkey post?

If you have a big baby, nobody would tell you before you dump ur carrier and back ur baby.

When I first tried the carrier for an outing, my shoulder and chest must have cursed me for the pain they went through. It was hell

Also there are times, when you need to do something at home and your baby also wants your attention. Backing is best. You cant put your baby in front and be washing plates for instance

Although, if you still ask me, if i had a less chubby baby, i would prefer to use carrier, for outing anyway.

Happy belated birthday to the twins. God bless them real good.. i wanted to wish you last week o but i forgot

@bloomingbud

Itzcaleb:
This is sad and terrible as my wedding is slated to hold on the 9th of March. However, I guess its God's plan and accepted in good fate

eyah it is well in Jesus name.

LadySarah:
with my first,6 mths an he took to it immediately but sometime later at 9 mths,we travelled and used diapers for pooing by the time we came back after a mth, he had grown scared of it.buying a fancier one didnt help matters.last last 2 yrs plus was when he finally came around to use it.

Second one ,6 mths too ,currently 22mths and goes straight to it when the urge comes.

6 months?! Wow that was really fast. Lucky you

comtem2011:
it will come back to the same size. I experienced it while breastfeeding my son. I I got used to breastfeeding him with my right breast @d initial stage of lactation, thereby resulting to one breast producing milk (you can imagine the view). It was so obvious that one breast was bigger than the other. Not that d other was not producing milk but very minimal. So throughout our 18 months of breastfeeding, it was only one breast all through.

To cut the long story short, both came back to same size after weaning.

Try and be massaging with hot water. It gives faster relief. All d best.

thank you very much.. this is assurance enough. And you're right about the hot water.. it gives some relief

StrongWoman333:
Have you been breastfeeding with just one breast? I'm breastfeed with just one too. And I'm also worried hoping that when I wean my baby both will become normal.

yeah i found myself breastfeeding with the left most of the time, mostly cos it was always fuller faster than the right. Hence the reason the right one is not even engorged.

Now the difference is much ehn, since weaning.. like double of the other. I have to pad the other with soft clothes before people would be looking at me wondering what is going on with my chest..

Dont worry our experienced mamas have assured us it would become normal.

LieDetector:
Simple analogy for those that will be voting.

Buhari is Morata
Atiku is higuain.

Both are strikers but one is incompetent and the other knows his onions. Higuain isn't that world class striker you might want in your team but that doesn't take away the fact he trumps morata heads and shoulders. Where morata flawed, higuain has excelled with exquisite finesse.


My fellow Nigerians. Shall we still stick with morata whilst hoping for Icardi? Get higuain in. He'd do a much more better job than morata.

Thanks you

why don't we do away with morata and higuain, and vote fela durotoye instead?

hunniesuzie:
It probably means you favoured one over the other when feeding. I think it's nothing to worry about, both will return to flat slippers normal in a few more days. For now stop expressing, use cabbage leaves for relief or di.clofenac

well the left has always been bigger naturally, but only a very slight difference thats even only noticeable by me. But since delivery, i noticed the left easily gets full than the right. So i would usually feed more on the left to get it empty while the right can keep up and get full. But that only made the left to get fuller faster. It was hard and confusing to correct it. So i guess that's why.

Giddyperson:
Mine was like that, one boob didn't give me any trouble at all while its partner was going crazy. When you express, it's just to get a little relief, it wont calm down just like that. The good news is that you'll be fine by the end of today or tomorrow.

im not fine yet oh... hopefully sha tomorrow would bring the much needed relief

Bloomingbud:
See me still thinking of how to wean my crew cos one of them is yet to walk, maybe I'll just close eye and start weaning this weekend. My regards to oyin.

i didnt even plan to wean just yet. The decision came impromptu cos of work. Fortunately, i'd been breastfeeding only at midnight/night for a while now, so it wasn't like i went cold turkey on her.

My baby too is yet to walk. Maybe taking one or two steps which is just recent. So i dont think its a problem.
We'll all be fine las las kizzez to the twins... i pray they will take the weaning easily and fine by God's grace.

katchycouture:
When I weaned I didn't press out the milk, I also didn't even take painkillers, the pain was so much but I was determined to bear it to the end and after 4 or 5 days of felt better than ever... don't worry with time both breastfeeding will become the same size ..joy of motherhood

thank you so much. That my prayer.. that the two breast would come back to the sane size or at least with a very little difference. Cos i don't understand why it is only one breast that is engorged

lady25:
I am definetly going to cry
He is my first ...I wonder what I will be doing when he is not around

you will definitely feel somehow especially on the first day but you will be fine..

This is currently my situation. As much as dh and I miss our baby, we have been talking about a million and one things we can do while she's not here. Things we couldn't do because she was here. Enjoy that period abeg. We need rest too jare. Na born we born, we no kill person.

But trust me, i miss my baby so much! I felt really awful on the first day

Please help me oo..

So I'm currently weaning, and as expected my breast is very engorged and painful. But that's not the issue. The problem is, it is only one breast (the left breast).

The other breast (the right) is just there, soft as usual and not engorged or painful either.

I last breastfed on sunday evening, and due to the pain, i pumped out about 120ml from the engorged left breast yesterday, monday, even at that it was still full and hard with milk, but i had to leave it like that and endure. But still the right breast is just there like normal. (And there's milk inside oh). I didnt pump it or anything since its still normal.

Today, the left has gotten even more harder, engorged and painful, while the right is still the same.

This morning now while dressing up, i had to pack some folded piece of cloth into my right bra, cos the difference in their size is now sooo obvious. Very obvious, unbelievable and awkward.

Is this difference normal or should i be worried and what can i do?

enque:
My hospital doesnt give cough syrup to kids below 3 yrs. They still dont give Zara at 2yrs+.

have u tried palm oil +sugar?
i think someone once mentioned ori+salt or so...I think iomoge2 or so, 'm not sure again,

I also read about putting sliced onions under ur feet and then wear socks to sleep overnight, that it works for cold, flu etc

there is another cough remedy shared on a group somewhere, using onions+garlic etc, I only tried once and she spat it out so i didnt bother, I cld share if u want t try.

thank you very much

hunniesuzie:
No abeg, 13 days is not far again not worth the risk

thanks. Some months ago, my hospital was like they don't give drugs for cough for babies below one year, so i didn't bother going to hospital. What else can i do to relieve this cough.

My baby is almost a year in 13 days, can i go ahead in giving her honey to relieve cough