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Reginaoyah:
100k 6yrs ago I believe was a lot of investment to last me a lifetime.

See human being brain..Tueh!

Reginaoyah:
I noticed that it's mostly the men talking about how ungrateful I am, paying a blind eye to the fact that my husband has not been a good man. How he would never ask me if I want to make my hair, not even for Christmas. How he doesn't know how much my clothes cost. How I could go and kill myself instead of him to give me the least 5k to do something. If any of you were me, you would either feel the same or worse.

Who said plumbers are broke? This man collects contract to wire an entire building. Children will come back from school and would want something from your shop, from the same 100k you were given 6yrs ago?

Madam abeg carry your entitlement away from here. You are a very bad wife and that man doesn’t deserve you. You deserve to be with your brother’s wife so she will keep using you to train her children. F00/ish woman. I always advise my brothers to avoid women like you. Unappreciative and dumb. “We will see in old age”… that man will be strong and healthy in old age.. God will give him strength of a thousands..he will never be at your mercy. Wicked woman

Reginaoyah:
1. Did you expect me to reject the proposal when it came?
2. I had reported him to his mother. His brother,and my brother who all happen to be family at different intervals.
3. He only supported the business when I opened it. This business is more than 6yrs. So you give your wife 100k to add to a small business 6yrs ago and expect her to turn it to billions with kids she feeds and same shop you collect small things like toothpaste from? You are just judgemental, no solution.

From your response so far…you are a very timid and shallow minded person.

1. Yes! You are expected to turn down marriage proposal when you haven’t done your due diligence. How can you see marriage as an escape route?
2. Stop reporting him. Stop bringing third party to your issues. It will only make things worse
3. I turned 200k I was given 2 years ago to almost 10 million naira and I kid you not. You’re just not a smart business woman! Stop taking things from your business for personal use and if you must, pay the amount of that item to your account.

You don’t know if that man is broke..which one is “but he gets contracts..don’t he get paid?” Don’t you know some workers are being owed after a job? At least, he provides food for the house cut him some slack! Some families haven’t even seen garri to drink but he provides rice and eba and you’re complaining you need varieties.
Next time when you take things from your shop for personal use payback the money for that item..that’s how smart people behave.

Anunakeeh:
Na person wey go beat you into coma you dey find because i know you won't shut your mouth until hands touch you well.

Last last you will eventually settle with one man on 30k salary. Stupid girl.

If the call men to come out..Churchrat like you go come out

geewean:
If she has why would she still call to check up on me to say hi ?

Stop taking breadcrumbs. She’s only calling to check up on you so when whatever relationship she has going on now fails..she’ll fall back to you as second or maybe third option. Trust me..you don’t want to be anyone’s second option because even if you get married..she’ll still leave if she sees someone else. One thing I’m 100% sure of, that girl doesn’t love you!

geewean:
Any thanks so much for your wisdom.I have effected the no contact rule Asap now.


Lat week Sunday I messaged her that she should Greer my father in law for me( cos she went through see her dad) and I said I won't give up unless she asks me to move on.


She replied with an 😊 and a thank you.

I was expecting her to tell me to move in if she was in a serious relationship.What do you think?

If you want that girl to value you.. you better go “no contact”
Don’t text her to greet anybody. Don’t text her “happy sunday or birthday” ghost her!
And I don’t know why you told her that you’d keep trying until she tells you to move on…she will only look at you like a simp! I’m a girl and I’m telling you the absolute truth.
That girl doesn’t rate you…the only way she will rate you is if you ghost her completely. Stop texting her friend too! Focus on improving yourself. Go to the gym. Meet new people. Hang out with the opposite sex. If you do this correctly, she’ll come begging for you and when she does, don’t act like you’ve waited for that moment all your life.. you act BUSY. Don’t reply fast. Always miss a call then pick the second or call back after 12 hours.

Anunakeeh:
Stupid brat where did i said i wouldn't provide for my family. ; ;DD

My point is i can't spend my resources on manarless and wayo wayo brats like you.

Thieves, Na it's rich men they would be looking for up and down .

Btw never in your life mention any of my parents again if you don't want thunder to strike you where you are. Stupid wayo wayo manarless brat.

You’re a fool you never see who go tell you If your parents raised you well, you’d know it’s a man’s job to provide for his FAMILY! Why did you change mouth? I came for you because you insinuated it should be 50:50. Only weaklings like you go for 50:50. Broke churchrat. If you had money you won’t be here arguing 50:50 or 100:0. Face of poverty

Anunakeeh:
Lol see wayo ; wayo entitled gender

Stupid girl. You think i'm among the numerous stupid men you dubious people usually gaslight into bidding into your demands. Who your fake love, fake respect and affection help?

You quoted the wrong person. Try one of the numerous SIMPS on this thread then you would hit a jackpot

So a Simp is a man who provides for his family? Then your father must be a very big simp
Stvpid he goat thinks him not providing makes him a redpiller. Bro you’re just a broke nincompoop. Rich men can’t be found wanting when it comes to provision. Go and make money!

geewean:
Dear Nairalanders,

My ex decided to end our relationship citing distance as excuse.I asked for some time to see how we can solve it.She agreed but on the condition that the relationship will be on a pause.I ghosted her for two weeks and she started reaching out with WhatsApp call and message checking up on me with the sentence I just wanted to say hi.


Well at some point I started having this feeling that she might be missing me .

Recently I reached out to one of her friends and her sis narrating the situation that I wanted to know if she has moved on with another person so I can face the reality.

The sis said she will try but didn't give me feedback.The friend just reach out to me after four days that She has replied her from their chat.

Anytime I put up a nice WhatsApp status post this girl will immediately post her pictures.

Could her refusal to answer her friend mean what?

I need only reasonable and matured response.

Any childish response I will totally ignore you like a pest.

God bless you all while I anticipate factual response. Cheers.

She may not want to reply her friend because she feels her friend has no right to know what’s happening with her or maybe she doesn’t want her friend involved.

If you’ll listen to me, go on a 30 day NO CONTACT.
Delete her number. Put your WhatsApp settings in a way that only your contacts from view your dp and about.
Don’t call or reply her chats even if you will…be the first to end the chat or call. “Hi, I’m busy rn..hope you’re good too? Have a nice day”
Stop accepting breadcrumbs from her! “I just called to say hi bla bla bla” please stop it!
And most importantly, focus on yourself. If she's for you..she’ll find her way back especially since she’s the one who initiated the break

Anunakeeh:
Sharaap there stupid girl.

No be una fault. Na nigeria useless fooolish apes who call themselves men give una mouth to dey talk rubbish. Very useless people.

This na the main reason why the corntree no gree move forward. Na toto and oko matter full una useless empty heads.

You’re an hediot and you don’t even know how to hide it. You want a woman to respect you and be submissive yet you’re shying away from your responsibilities. Did your father not take care of your mother? Was your mother the father of the house?
Only a weakling like you will propose for 50:50 in a marriage. Real men know it is their job to provide!

seborrhic:
Yes,he has largely fulfilled criteria,but circumstances beyond my control makes it impossible for me to keep to what I said.
I really wanted to give him something at least,but things unfortunately came up,so it's no longer possible.
Wish him all the best and my prayers are with the op.

You’re a very very big f00|

Chingyyy878:
A FINISHED MAN AND MORE !!!!

SPITS !!!!

Stfu! Y’all want submission and all that but run away from providing. Is it not the sole responsibility of the man to provide for his family? While the woman takes care of the home?
If them call man..you self go come out. SPITS

lordchiz:
No pix

I feel you should send a message if you’re interested. So the op can send you pictures

Thanks for the advice