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Twice?
You still refer to this as a fling?

YES (Capital YES)

It needs publication and show off.

herzern1:
Nice qesture.


But does it really needs Publication and show-off??

This small thing follow for manhood?
Person don suffer!
This stump ?

When kidnapping session reach u go know say u np nes most of these precautions.
They are evwn dangerous ghen ghen happens!

ibangs:
On this post we are going to discuss some of the mistakes you should avoid as a passenger when boarding a taxicab. Avoiding these mistakes would safe you some troubles that could cost something valuable and in some cases life if care is not taken.

It’s true that we all need a taxicab at some point to move from one location to another as we journey and move around during the course of our activities and engagements either as foreigner in city or citizen just commuting to another location.

In other to experience seamless transit, it’s important to be cognizant of these mistakes and try avoiding them when you are in taxi for a ride.



1. Taking a Ride With Car-Windows Open

Some passengers don’t care much about open window and would jump in with both feet at any taxi available to them, so long as it takes them to destination. But in today’s modern age you deserved more than just a ride. Not only would a completely closed window gives you a pleasant purring sound as car get into motion but also do the following;

1. Shut out unpleasant air and dust from finding its way into the car which is unhealthy for you.
2. Mitigate theft and keep criminals & hoodlum from having leeway and free access to snatching your gadget or belongings away through the window especially when in heavy traffic and dangerous areas.
3. Keep desperate hawkers away from flashing and dangling their products right into your face when in traffic which could be very annoying particularly if you are not very interested in their product.
4. A completely closed window give you a slight advantage at some check point for easy pass especially if the car gleams, as officers at times believe with experience that such vehicle won’t ply the road without satisfying all requirements. This obviously safe your travel time and increases your chances of arriving destination as early as possible.

Boarding a cab with a working Air Conditioning system will give you all of these benefits as window won’t have to be wind-down for inflow of air.


2. Car Doors Un-Lock During Transit

It is very important to have all the car doors locked centrally as soon as the car gets into motion especially if you travel as a family and have your kids with you.

With burning desire and bubble curiosity of these young minds, the child may get tempted to pull the door-handle; at times intentionally and sometimes unintentionally; and before anyone could realize anything, the door is already widely open with car still in motion("Naija movie scene in action, lo"), thereby posing serious threat to everyone in there and to other road user. Tell the driver to turn it all locked centrally as soon as you get into the car in other to checkmate the likely occurrence.

Also, having your car doors all locked during transit makes it difficult for unauthorized person outside to have access into your car at traffic, check point and other stop overs; giving you little control and time cushion which maybe critical to try safe yourself in case of a desperate attack.

Inform the driver as soon as the car get moved to turn it locked centrally, and make sure you confirmed it locked by attempting a pull.


3. Sitting In Front Passenger’s Seat:

Sitting right in front of a car may give you chance to have a better view of the road, current location and landmarks especially if you are visitor. As pleasant as this may seems especially for tourist and adventurer, this position present some downside which you must consider before trading-off your rear-seat for it.
· First, it leaves you with no privacy between you and driver.
· Second, it leaves you with no much space & freedom which you might need to place your hand-held and other belongings.
· Third, it leaves you in control of only one exit door in event of emergency.
· Finally, this position open’s you up for much heavy impact in cases of collision and crash(Seat belt is crucial!).

Going into the rear-seat has a lots more upsides than down as it
. Gives you privacy to do things you consider private without having the prying eyes of your driver on you easily
. Gives you more space and freedom to place your handbags, gadgets and other belonging while keeping an eye on it
. Gives you control to two exit door either side in case of emergency
. Finally gives you a bit of pride especially if the car is unbranded.

I recommend you go behind front passenger seats position, for this gives you a good view on driver activities, good vision on upcoming vehicle and an eye on speedometer in case you want to monitor current car speed.


4. Asking The Driver How Long It Takes To Reach Destination:

Asking your driver how long it would take to reach your destination is a no! no! no! question to ask if you are a first-time visitor. Why? Because it quickly suggests to driver that it’s your first visit to the area and thereby opens you up for possible misfortune if he does not have your best interest at heart. You may only have to rely at his mercy for whatever happens to you and your belonging.

So rather than asking him that, you may want to answer that question yourself by reaching out to your smartphone and fire up your GPS App to find out the distance online. Also and more importantly monitor your radar to be sure he is heading to your destination. You certainly won’t have much privacy to do all of that without arousing his curiosity if you sit up there in front with him.

Never open yourself up to driver; remember you are dealing with a stranger, someone you are meeting for the very first time. So you’ve got to have some element of doubt in mind.

I would say you install GPS App on your smartphone so you can check online for distance/travel time between source and destination location and as well monitor progression on radar if necessary. You can strip away any nurtured ulterior motives from him by letting him know that a friend is actually waiting to receive you at your destination.


5. Stepping out of Taxicab First before Driver with Luggage in Trunk:

As a passenger, you run the risk of losing your belongings in the car trunk at night journey if you step out first at destination or stop over. A driver with ulterior motives would simple capitalize on your vulnerability and zoom off quickly as soon as you stepped out first.

Regardless of the circumstance that surrounds, always be alert. Make sure you don’t step out first before the driver especially if it’s a first time service from him and not a cab company cabby.

Here's some tricks; as soon as you arrived at destination, politely tell him to help you out with your luggage in trunk and wait for him to step out and do that first before you step out. Your luggage is literally safe at this point as soon as he has the trunk open and luggage out. It better to always safe than sorry. Be very alert especially at night!


6. Keeping Your Small Bag in Car Trunk:

Our small bags contain some of the most important stuff we carry along during our travels; laptop, document, travel passport, ticket, jewelries, money etc. Having your small bag in trunk leave you out of control, limit your access and as well put you at higher risk of forgetting it especially if you’re in a rushed mode at dropped off location.

This would spell even more doom with a driver with bad intention, as he zoomed off soon as you alight (that's if you fail to apply advice 5.), leaving you with little/no chance of recovery.

Imagine what happens if your travel passport, documents, money and every other valuable content of your small bag are all gone in a snap during the course of your travel. Don’t let this happen to you!

Always have your small bag besides you when boarding a private taxicab. This would safe you some troubles and give you some control over it. In case of emergency when time is of essence, you can quickly grab your bag and head for exit without wasting valuable time being at the mercy of the driver to have the trunk open to access your bag.

Have your small bag with you always, it doesn't have to be in the trunk. Its even "light enough" to be placed on your laps. Keep it with you.


7. Falling Asleep during Transit:

I know some might say “Oh! What is he talking about? I can’t get control of this most time; besides can't one should get fully relax at will and count on delivery after paying for a service?”

You absolutely can i'd say; but trust me you can only count on that if you are using your regular cabby or a known taxicab company otherwise it’s a No! No!! thing to consider if you are using the driver for the very first time and it’s you first time visit to destination. You wouldn't want to fall asleep only to wake up to realize the driver has driven past your desired location or to an entirely new area.

Always stay awake and alert in other to have some control and not fall victim of circumstance.


8. Becoming too Friendly with Stranger Cabby:

It’s not uncommon to see someone step into a taxicab for a ride and all of a sudden break the ice to begin a conversation with the cabby especially if he/she is a typical extrovert. It always almost happen to most of us.

We know human nature crave association and desire for communication when we found ourselves within a tiny space or domain of few individual. As natural as that might be, you have to be careful and conscious of your communication so you don’t end up dishing out much information about your personal and professional life to a total stranger; someone you don’t know much about, all because of his or your friendly nature.

Let’s face it, this is a stranger, someone you are just meeting for the first time; MY!! You've got to have some reservation in your mind. You can chat on the general stuffs if you desire to talk and of course about the ‘at the moment’ scene, action and happenings during the course of the journey and a few other stuff. No too much information. Be careful not to get caught up here!


9. Being Unprepared to Alight Prior to Destination:

Its common to see passengers not prepared to alight just before their step out destination. This put you literally in a rush mode and predisposed to leaving your wallet, phones or other personal belong which must have slipped out of pocket during the course of your journey.

Just before your destination location; try to checked yourself to be sure everything you stepped in with is with you; that you don’t leave anything behind as you step out at final destination. Doing this would put you in control and ensure that everything is with you.


10. Telling the Driver to Speed Even More :

This is one of the most horrible mistakes done by most passengers when in for a ride. Here, you see passengers asking the driver to hit the gas pedal even harder beyond normal travel speed in other to catch up with late appointment, meetings, flight schedules and so on. This single act put the two of you and every other persons in the vehicle in higher jeopardy with possible unforeseen circumstance like tire burst, brake failure and other looming doomed that surrounds every car in motion.

You should never request the driver to accelerate beyond comfortable speed level for two reasons except on special cases such as potential attack and life threatening emergency;
. Every driver has a specific speed limit they can comfortable run. Exceeding this speed endangers everyone as he runs the risk of getting out control in slightest loss of concentration.
. Most cars used for taxi do not have full grip and balance to run beyond certain speed effectively without getting a bit swayed and teetered.

The rule of thumb is, always get prepared early enough for your journey, so you don’t put yourself and driver on unnecessary pressure during transit.


11. Being Quiet when Driver Becomes Reckless:

Just as you it appear unsafe to request the driver to speed the car more than expected; being quiet on the other hand when he hit the pedal unnecessarily harder and making unsafe overtaking won't do you any good too.

Even though you are not behind the wheel, you still reserved a huge control on how you should be driven to your destination "for he who pays the piper..." . Don’t be quiet or afraid of voicing out, to have him in check if its unbecoming.

Cases like this usually happen when the cabby is thinking of dropping you off quickly at destination in other to have his car available for another cash in possible.

Its important to be careful on who you picked for your drop off. Its usually safe to choose your regular driver who understands you better or a cab company because they have a reputation to protect and always strive hard to care first for their customer before themselves.

I wish you a safe ride on all of your travels.

This marks the END of our 11 Mistakes to Avoid when Boarding a Taxicab. I hope its contain some helpful and valuable insight. Become aware of them and strive to stay safe while on transit always.

Best Regards!

Bullshit!My parents never taught me lip service.
Where will i now learn this now that my father is dead?

nelsonjj:
You Could Be Good In That Job But You Have To Step Up Your Game, Learn To Appreciate Their Dress And Smile, Words Like, You Look Nice Sir, I Like Your Shoe Etc, Its A Little Act That Avail Much. Try This On Monday And Tell This Forum How It Goes. Goodluck!

You people are dwelling too much on scripture.
Stop fucking one first.
Leave her kpomo from now on.
Let us start from there.
That is the only time i will read your post with seriousness.

Fool!See your bad english.
Reasoning has really fled you.

abbertee:
since this man spoke about this prostitute I know that mad peoples will comment on that, you know that Islam is the religion that has pillars and Muslim's has follow it's rules and regulations to be good Muslim's, I know that there are prostitute right people who their use is to oppose what Islam says about female, especially the dodgers that practice muslim/catastrophe (Christian). in Islam woman has to close her body because Islam Teaches that, unlike in catastrophe woman have to reveal her body posting nude picture, sex before marriage wearing tight dress, in Islam all this nonsense is prohibited. she is invited by a Christian terrorist to go and start selling her body her pride her Islam her parent fidelity, at some cost. as he is Muslim cleric ALLAH give him opportunity to tell her truth..... but if she convert to Christian she is free from that, she can do all that things like prostitution, revealing her body on internet like how the rest like Tonto, omotola,niki minaj, halima abubakar ,eminado, rihanna, maheeda are doing ,and even sex in film, drinking alcohol and other irritating christian behaviour.. so the reason why he call her attention on that ......she is muslimah, and in islam ALL WE ARE THE SAME LIKE BROTHER AND SISTER




waiting for your stupid comment like your irritating religion

Friends and families need to be aware of your whereabouts anytime people travel or move about.
Even with a change in plan in a jiffy, a simple call or text to your family will enable a trace in case something strange happens.
Same applies to visiting even friends or close friends.You can never tell as the days are evil.You will see me fiddle or busy with my phone.At least you won't ask me what i am doing.But i am certain a text will go yo at least 2 family members on where i am or heading to at the moment .Or better still a loud call as this will send a message to any potential threat/friend with evil intention that at least he/she mite be traced sooner or later in case of the unexpected.
I am not saying but does the family even know he is passing tru that route that day?This is still possible.
Same question goes to us all.
Do you tell your family you are going to Port Harcourt and you proceed to Abakaliki?
Or travelling to see a distant uncle/aunt for weekend and you find yourself at a party at an undisclosed location.
This is still your life anyway but still in a minute or two inform someone off your location or immediate party/friends that you are at present location.
You can never tell as this might help.
I am not making this sermon because of this post.
Can this be the case here?
RIP to the dead !

Omo, see as the exercise shrink en prick.

soberdrunk:
The addiction to attention and fame these days is "worrisome"! You have a 'near death' experience and the first thing you do is to arrange for your pictures to be taken very close to the scene and still in harms way.................

Some people sef.

How can he be snapping pix if this is a near- death experience.

Poster, i see this as timely and possible to correct me if i am wrong.
I have not been to church for 3 months now and reason is what i come across everyday that some men of God do.It worries me that i will sit and be educated unknowingly by some of these sort and still read their stories of rape and extortion here on nairaland the next day.
I still have some examples in my setting where some are not living up to expectations as i see it to be.
I look at it that naturally i do not habour any bad against anyone or think of taking advantage of people in any scenario.
I am not judging but men, the standards i see are appaling and this has affected me a great deal.
I have a gift of the spirit and its been of great help but i still.need to be convinced.
I need help please as i am not finding it funny being at home every Sunday.
Someone please talk to me.

By the time the seize your original certificates and possibly kidnap you, your eyes go clear.

Shine your eye oooooooooo.

idupaul:
Jonathan is a failure ...Till now he can fix the airports

Fool.Is Jonathan still ruling you?

Gay alert.

Many are mad but few are roaming.

@ Toks 2008,

Your write-up is a highly contradictory and your responses far from polite and I plead with you to have a re-think of your journey to heaven.A holy spirit filled ,heaven bound believer ought to be peaceful in his/her responses.

You seem to justify masturbation.

What if you get to heaven on the last day to discover that masturbation is a sin and that nothing impure enters there?

What will you do my brother/sister?

Why not burn with a little passion now (according to your write-up) than that of hell because the truth is certain.

Toks2008:
Ogbeni sit your ass down and get this straight.

I am a holy spirit filled,heaven bound believer in Christ and I have led many people to Christ not by preaching heresy but the truth from the bible so sit your ass down and learn right now.

Our body is the temple of God so smoking and "drunkenness" is a sin cos they destroy your body.

Nicotine and alcohol are substances that damage your organs.

Self servicing is a different ball game but the mistake you keep making is mixing up addiction with the subject matter.

Is eating food a sin? hell no but gluttony is a sin and its even in the bible.Any act whether good or bad if done in excess can be detrimental to us so stop mixing things up.

People like you make it difficult for people to make heaven by enslaving yourself in man made philosophy'.People like you go about condemning trouser wearing, weaveons and so on making people to see salvation as bondage.

Please read this thread of mine to have your inner mind open.

https://www.nairaland.com/2579060/8-false-teachings-churches-biblical

I have been a believer since 1987 and I know my stands.

Watching porn is fornication,self servicing while watching porn is fornication but when you are so filled with sexual passion and you are not married you are free to ease off with your imagination if you can but if you have the grace to control yourself good for you.

But if your heart condemns you if you do it then stop it..PERIOD

[quote author=Alexdon200089 post=48401056][/quote]How can she be looking for a 1995 result online and expect to get it?

Quite worrisome to me.

Let her get to WAEC & the school as advised ASAP.

Wasted destiny.
What is he coming back to do?
Become a burden which they never had before?
Where's the joy?

Your biological family means much to me so i feel for them that as at now you don't know what to do.
We are tired of stories of women that lost their lives from domestic violence and your case is even worse.
If you die in this marriage, you will bite your fingers in deep regret even in the spirit world.
Few months later, people will make your husband realise he is lonely and pronto another woman comes in while (God forbid) you rot in the grave.

I am not an advocate of divorce, not in the least.
I am not a female as my response have portrayed.
But i will be very sad if you hang on here and swell the cases of women who have lost their lives because they want to stay or answer married.
What beats my imagination is that there's nothing to hang on to.Not that wealth matters in making marriages succesful but it goes a long way not to make some living hells that they are.
please move on but atva time he is not aware. Get ur things (certificates most importantly) handy as this will help you.
discuss in detail with your biological family (father,mother, siblings) on this and bet me, you will be suprised the immense support you will get from them.
The truth is that when the chips are down, they will be the ones to cry and mourn you and you know grief takes ages to go away if at all it does.
i don't know you and i wish i can get your email so i can discuss in detail with you and possibly relate some real life experiences that started this way, got more than this and eventually led to death because the woman wanted to stay married.
Take a look at your parents and the family that got you to the level you are today.Do they really deserve to lose you?
Do you want to see them cry?
What more can i say my sister?
What more can i tell you?
Please this man may turn violent in future.
Please live for us all.

viviangist:
Senator David A B Mark On July 17th 2016 , presented one car each to three priest in otukpo. Rev father akpala , father Moses and father Emma. Presenting the cars on behalf of the formal senate president were David Mark junior, the member representing otukpo/akpa in the benue state house of assembly (hon Egli Johnson Ahubi) and Rev father Onmoke - By Johnson Ahubi

David Mark is Working

Published On http://www.viviangist.com/3-suvs-given-to-newly-ordained-priests-in-otukpo-benue-by-david-mark-pictures

Formal Senate President

Checking the name of your alma mater.

if you stay in the next compound and have nothing to do, you can stroll to the venue.

i will be less angry with you for just wasting of time than when you spend your useful money on transportation or flight to go and listen to rubbish speeches by charlatans who are still battling with past and present tenses.

Pure GLND trip!

Her brand is heading southwards drastically hence her reason to suffocate us with unnecessary pictures everytime.

getting jobs have been war since the Johnson and Egbegbe saga.

let her snap with her undies next time and ensure her fat legs show well well.

Nothing adorable about the photo.

Nothing adorable about an old man with wrinkles.

Yoruba Yoruba ayang ooooooooo.

The bird meat for no even reach the N1k wey dem chop.

This guy is not telling us the truth.

Clueless Minister of Information with zero confidence level.
I'm sure she is star-struck.
Had it been Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala,Desmond Eliot and the rest would have fallen under the annointing.
I feel for Nigeria.

Please! Please !! Please !!!.
Please try get your husband to America.
Have the kids there and when a bit older, you can get them to Nigeria with some close family members and visit at least once or twice a year ( since your pay is good).
Your kids will still know you as well as get some bit of Nigerian training as you desire which is good.
Let coming down to Nigeria be your very last option.
The economy is fast heading south and your husband will not forgive you in the long run for such a decision.
Love in Nigeria these days cannot be separated from finance and i plead with you to avoid this temptation.
Please my sister.
You will have enough of him when he gets there.
Biko kakwarala (begging in Owerri language).

Please! Please !! Please !!!.
Please try get your husband to America.
Have the kids there and when a bit older, you can get them to Nigeria with some close family members and visit at least once or twice a year ( since your pay is good).
Your kids will still know you as well as get some bit of Nigerian training as you desire which is good.
Let coming down to Nigeria be your very last option.
The economy is fast heading south and your husband will not forgive you in the long run for such a decision.
Love in Nigeria these days cannot be separated from finance and i plead with you to avoid this temptation.
Please my sister.
You will have enough of him when he gets there.
Biko kakwarala (begging in Owerri language).

You are happy to dash the hopes of 4 families.
Congratssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss.

[quote author=chachanga post=42689313][size=14pt]Blog Reader Feels Molested by Male Doctor Who Squeezed Her Breasts[/size]

Hello Princess,
I dont know if I should tell my husband about this or just swallow it so as to avoid causing problems or a confrontation. I went to ****** hospital close at Alausa to check for chest lumps. A very young doctor came strolling in to the office where I was asked to wait. He looked so young that I was even tempted to ask him if he was really a doctor or was a student on houseman-ship but I decided to keep cool as he was wearing their white gown as was actually assigned to me by the admin at the general waiting area.
The hospital was actually recommended by my sister in-law who had her mammogram there. It was my first time and I was very uncomfortable when he asked me to remove my top and bra and then he started touching my breasts. I decided to close my eyes and wait for him to finish the examination. The touching soon turned to caressing and at a point he seen to concentrate on my nipple and to be honest, I have a very sensitive nipple and the always harden and jut out when touched (even breast feeding my babies felt that way)

This went on and on until I was almost shivering. I was embarrassed beyond words and wanted to ask if lumps form in the nipple area but i felt so violated to speak. I opened my eyes to tell him to stop only to discover that he was looking at me smiling sheepishly! All the while he’s been handling my breasts!


I felt so awful. I felt used and molested. He didn’t say a word, I removed his hands and dressed up while he continued smiling and then started saying some medical trash that didnt make no sense to me cos I wasnt listening anymore. When I finished dressing up, he even asked me to come back in 7 days time for another round of checks as I left his office.
This happened on Monday and up till now I have this heavy feeling of being violated by a kid. I still cannot calm down, as if I was defiled. I have been moody and unable to tell my husband. Please what should I do?



Your Thoughts?

http://fashionbuzz.tv/blog-reader-feels-molested-by-male-doctor-who-squeezed-her-breasts/#comment-4763

NB
Yeah, I know this was from an agony column on a 'blog' for Pete's sake but one can't be too careful these days as the #Endtimes chanters would wanna have you believe besides I'm yet to forget numerous tales of these pathetic souls who throw all caution to the winds

I am still waiting for someone to discover say madam enjoy the thing small.
" I decided to close my eye" = sign of enjoyment 1
" I have a sensitive nipple"= hmmmmmmm
" This went on and on till i started shivering"=fire don catch be dat.
" too violated to speak"= shuoooo

Return after 7 days time or else ..........