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Someone said it already. Buy her more stuff if she still hasn't said yes, buy her even more until you go broke. Thank me later

Can't she walk out of the marriage? i detest abusive marriage

We've hit rock bottom with this current government of mediocrity.

Grow a pair and leave her phone alone

It might be a medical condition but the simple thing you can do is, to set an alarm to always wake you up to pee, or have someone do it at a specific time every night and try not to drink too much fluid at night

Third world country. When is Nigeria going to make laws that forbid this sort of things?

Abhor beating. Cheating? Hmm show her the exit

Jadekitana:
Now there are somethings that are no longer considered normal however how normal people may want us to see them. I don't really care if she sees this but I need her to know people are beginning to read inbetween the lines.

I have this childhood friend,we grew up together and university separated us. We would go to their house as kids then to play and most times she and her bro would make houses with wrappers and hide underneath it giggling. They would restrict other kids from coming into the "wrapper" house. She sits on her brothers laps, on one occasion I caught them kissing but didn't understand why. We do go on camping trips christmas period and both of them just disappear from other kids, most times show up hours later laughing. Well everyone would always say "it's just the 2 of them their parents have" hence the bond.

As teenagers she always frowned at her bro getting close to other girls,likewise the dude. I remember how he beat a guy mercilessly that tried having something with his sister. She inturn went to warn a senior buying gifts for him then to stop it.

She failed jamb twice, he passed but waited for her so they could go to same university, same time. They lived together for 4years before he left while she spent her last year! That last year she had 3 failed relationships and was always travelling to lagos to see him during his service year. Still we all believed it's sibling closeness!

Now we all live in lagos, she's not dating anyone! He has a girlfriend. She visits him every weekend,she doesn't like his girlfriend,she hates her passionately. What made me speechleSs and decided to paste this was when I was going through her phone some days ago and saw a picture of her wearing only bra and resting on her brothers chest who was also topless. I asked her what was going on she said "no light now,i was hot" decided to take off my shirt what's the big deal in that? And i'm like so u decided to take a half nakeed selfie with your brother? She snatched the phone from me and started getting defensive.

I have heard of this kinda stories but i'm forced to believe that these 2 started as kids and it's seriously affecting them and yes it's my business cos they are my friends, this isn't just sibling likeness, something is definately going on and it's crazy to see them so comfortable and happy about it.

If u reading this, or u'v got a friend who visits nairaland often and must have been suspecting u as well to pass the info snap out of it. You can't marry your brother, he can't marry you,you 2 should get your brains examined before you destroy yourselves completely.

You let them be and stop snooping on them. They're adults

pweetylivia:
So stuffs like this truly happens. I refuse to believe then and I still don't want to believe it now. Although there is nothing impossible again in this life so incest truly happens. I remember one of my friend back then that was always flaunting her elder brother. Their closeness was really questionable but was hidden under the disguise of brother/sister relationship. In fact, I was so jealous back then and really wished I had an elder brother too. But guess what, I'm even so glad that I don't have an elder bro cuz dey cause serious headaches while growing up

Do you have one now?...

Meanwhile, this thing really does happen, it's terrible but what can we say

iamDaisy:
The guy is fine and very smart but i am too shy to approach him
Pls dont insult me advice me instead on what i shld do?

Use the woman in you. Y'all ladies know how to show the signals. Be smart whilst at it

Masturbation is murder But using condoms is not?

rokiatu:
I pray your union last. But love is a funny thing.

One minute you want to die for that person the next minute that same person betray your love......and the next minute you find yourself wondering "was he/she really in love with me?"


I truly believe all human relationships are conditional and only God's love is unconditional. The only thing that comes close to unconditional love on this planet is the love between child and parent. And not all some are conditional as well.........you hear some parents saying, "you are a disappointment" you did this or that am disowning you."


All I am saying Madam Idibia is don't drown in the sea of love so deep that when the storm comes you ain't able to get out alive.

very intelligently written!
Love is a beautiful thing, especially when it's still sparkling, but life occurrences have made me question the genuineness of the term 'true love', as you said, it only comes close to being 'true' between family members. One minute someone is deeply in love, the next minute they can't stand the mere sight of each other. I wish 2face and his wife the very best.

the next 15 to to 20 years, you'd be a grumpy old man with no progeny.

It's easy, get someone else

Gayder alert!!!

...Let's go a bit Cloudy

I'm afraid, it's a no

Untrained bitch_. Instead of her to shut her pie hole from what she doesn't understand...

These girls ain't loyal

slap1:
Some of the things he says are becoming embarassing and cringeworthy. What has hypocrisy got to do with it? When your three year old daughter starts repeating those things he says, you would understand better.

You have failed as a parent then. Your three year old shouldn't be watching Mr Agu. There are programs designed for people that age

And how is this definition any different from what Agu said in his write up? This guy is worse than i earlier thought

slap1:
It's OK to be a diehard fan of Chinwetalu Agu, but we have to understand that the young man, Gideon Okeke, aired his views, which he is entitled to. Some of Chinwetalu Agu's coinages are actually becoming cringeworthy and embarrassing.

Look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you don't listen to music, you don't dance to all the profanities in music, you don't watch music videos with all the Sexually charged contents. Hypocrisy!

What in the blue hell did i just read?

That boy is stupiid though, you talking about someone whose presence commands audience for films. Has it ever occurred to him that, this man's success in the film industry is as a result of his delivery style?

Gideon Okeke? Is that the name of a person, animal, place or thing?... We don't know him over here too

Destined2win:
Says who? Who buys electrical appliances without testing

Stop displaying your ignorance in public. People buy Electrical devices online. FYI, i have. Everywhere is not as lawless as Nigeria

Of what use is Nigeria citizenship?

Zero employment opportunities

Epileptic power supply

170 million people all using dilapidated roads.
Transportation is below zero.

Education is riddled with bribery and corruption. Unqualified teachers.

No water, infrastructural decay, pollution.

Security is a scam! The only time you see a police van causing mayhem on the heavy traffic roads is when they've been paid by one money bag to escort them.

Health care is non existence. No money, no treatment.

Basic confortability by all standard is dysfunctional in Nigeria.

Smardt gyal. She was double dating

jordinsparkles:
Abeg Jare! To hell with their opinions. Agbani darego fine? But yet she win miss world, this girl might not please everybody but atleast she's got something upstairs for her to win the crown. So Finland haters go and hug a transformer.

10 of that girl together will not reach half the beauty Agbani is. This girl has absolutely nothing to put her in to the top 10

While I like to see this man rot in jail, I'm afraid to say that he's too dirty and will come out and finish this buhari house boy

AjiereTuwo:
Lol, maybe oh, who nose

God nose, me i don't know how she managed

Benita27:
She didn't bribe.
She must have done exceptionally in terms of intellectual capabilities.

Nonsense, nonsense! is it a university quiz challenge?

Wow! Shocking to say the least. her looks couldn't have won her the contest i have to say. She's not exactly there, looks-wise