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Foreign Affairs › Re: Why Another Donald Trump’s Presidency Is Bad For Africa By Julius Ogunro by cococandy(f): 7:26pm On Oct 24, 2024
Nothing more to say.

Or there’s another class of African Trump supporters . The ones that got to USA and started marking $100-200k dollars a year and they think they’re going to be the next Elon musk. Big LOL

They hate democrats because the democratic party supports socialist programs that help under privileged people (which other developed countries have too BTW). They equate this to mean they’re working and their money is being used to help lazy people. Meanwhile the truth is that their money is being funneled to expensive unnecessary wars, lining the pockets of military contractors and giving tax cuts to Elon and Jeff.

Namaster:
Black people, especially Africans, who support Trump suggest that there may be some elements of TRUTH to the pseudo-stats that black people are the DUMBEST race in the world.

White pepple have an excuse for supporting Trump: RACISM.

But the ONLY reasons a black person would support Trump is STUPIDITY and SELF-HATRED.

Trump LOATHES black people. And he doesn't even bother to hide it.

Plus, the fact that a RAPIST, pedophile and serial ADULTERER like Donald Trump is being adopted by CHRISTIANS as their champion is perhaps the GREATEST argument for why religion is a SCAM.

ALSO, people who Trump is strong because he's LOUD and CANTANKEROUS are IDIOTS.

A strong man would NOT eagerly clutch at a FAKE Taylor Swift endorsement then turn around to say he HATES Taylor Swift after she REJECTED him for Harris.

Kamala Harris played their "strong man" like Talking Drum in the debate. grin

A strong man that is ONLY a strong man when people PANDER to him is NOT a strong man.

Finally, Nigerians who harbour a HATRED for the Democratic Party because they think Obama interfered with Nigerian elections are MORONS.

I remember the RUMOUR.

They claimed Obama and the US worked against Goodluck Jonathan because he REFUSED to legalise GAY marriage in Nigeria. That instead Obama supported Buhari, the ISLAMIC FANATIC.

FOOLS!
Foreign Affairs › Re: Donald Trump Trolls Kamala Harris By Working At McDonald's by cococandy(f): 3:13pm On Oct 24, 2024
She’s living rent free in his head
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:12pm On Oct 24, 2024
Sometimes I don’t feel like cooking

Family › Re: I Want To Sue My Ex Wife And My Inlaw by cococandy(f): 2:26pm On Oct 24, 2024
Love your aunt cheesy

I just want more women to keep doing this. Especially if the kids aren’t toddlers anymore. If they can verbally articulate how they’re being treated by those around them, by all means let the dads be the primary parents.
This whole child support is designed against men narrative will quickly die down. Quickly
Onegai:
Every time a woman hands the kids over to the man and moves on, wailing always commences.

My aunt did it, moved on without a backward glance and her ex proceeded to wail publicly that she abandoned the children (even though he was the one screaming "don't you dare leave this house with my children!"wink.

And everyone told him "Oga shut up, you're just looking for a way to control her".

Even abroad, once the woman hands the kids over to the man and pays child support, they start posting online and crying and looking for who will take care of the kids and asking people to tell the mother to show up.
Health › Re: 14-Year-Old Boy Commits Suicide After Falling In Love With AI Chatbot by cococandy(f): 2:22pm On Oct 24, 2024
We call those jobs and most women have them. Try again
MightySparrow:
Na sọ your hatred for women reach?

He should also try to build robotsbands also so that women will not depend on men.

gringrin
Family › Re: I Want To Sue My Ex Wife And My Inlaw by cococandy(f): 12:50pm On Oct 24, 2024
The smaller half of a seed. Just as long as we’re being numerically accurate.
Procashtips:
The seed is as important as the ground a tree grows out from.
Family › Re: I Want To Sue My Ex Wife And My Inlaw by cococandy(f): 12:48pm On Oct 24, 2024
Procashtips:
Since she can't take care of them without having to abandon them at her parents, then they should be returned to the father who is willing to cater for them.

She's not in any right to decide where the children are to stay, only the court or tradition (both families) would decide that.

She can't cater for them both in attention and in finance, so what role is she playing as a mother then?
I’m not arguing with you

I’m team leave the kids for their dads.
Family › Re: I Want To Sue My Ex Wife And My Inlaw by cococandy(f): 12:45pm On Oct 24, 2024
Ibechris2:
Dirty talks.

Giving birth to girls alone makes him weak...this is why I hate this platform.

Small but brainless children all over.
He should’ve asserted his masculine dominance by not giving birth to girls 🤣
Family › Re: I Want To Sue My Ex Wife And My Inlaw by cococandy(f): 12:44pm On Oct 24, 2024
I’m team “leave the kids for him” too but this comment here, what does that actually mean?

The man didn’t come into the marriage with the kids either. If we want to actually measure in quantity who contributed more to making the kids, it’s obviously the woman since all he brought was microscopic genetic material. She literally grew them from her bones, blood and flesh. Just saying
Procashtips:
Whatever the woman didn't bring to the marriage is not for her to possess (This include the children she abandoned at her father's place)..
Family › Re: I Want To Sue My Ex Wife And My Inlaw by cococandy(f): 12:40pm On Oct 24, 2024
masseratti:
lolzzz they will ,they always will and how do you know the OP is not rich or going to be rich .
I don’t know what he’s going to be or not be. I don’t know the future.

But right now, based on his posts he’s not rich. So if that’s what’s he’s banking on for his kids to come back to him in the future, he’s got another think coming.

Also if he’s presently rich and refused to care for them, how will that endear him to them? Common sense tells me it should be the opposite
Family › Re: I Want To Sue My Ex Wife And My Inlaw by cococandy(f): 12:38pm On Oct 24, 2024
Jevica:
Am indeed surprised at all the responses regarding this issue. No one even deem it fit to condemned an act of infidelity on the part of the ex wife? It is very shameful.

My advise to the man is to first and foremost conduct a DNA test on those children to confirm their paternity status because women these days doesn’t respect their marriages. An Edo will not condole this nonsense.
DNA is not a bad idea actually. If he can afford it, he should go for it. At least he won’t pay for kids that aren’t his.
Family › Re: I Want To Sue My Ex Wife And My Inlaw by cococandy(f): 12:36pm On Oct 24, 2024
How does condemning the ex-wife’s infidelity provide for the kids? The infidelity has already been condemned in the very fact that they got divorced. There’s no other outcomes to be expected than them getting divorced.

Now that they went their separate ways, him not caring for his children (who didn’t cheat on him) is entirely his doing and has no bearing on the mom’s actions. I personally can’t justify not doing my best for my kids because their father wronged me. That’s why I stated CORRECTLY that you guys’ love for your children is directly related to how much love you have for their moms. And you’re proving me right.

I agree child support should go both ways. Let him take the kids and she’ll pay for their financial support. In fact I think more women should go this route. Is that what you call a free pass?
RealTrump:
He is now a deadbeat, accepted. but d wife who turned her pucci to community property n didn't think about d implications on her marriage n children shd b given a free pass. Did you not check d stats that children raised solely by their moms turn out worse in life? When I taught at a university, even if they r grown, I can still tell a student who has a father from the ones who don't. She condemned those children herself d day she started taking other prickks.

Child support goes both ways. How many of you have asked a man in talking stage to wear cloth that you will buy him a cone of ice cream over a hangout? If we talk now you will say you earn 100x of minimum wage, n you could have afforded the entire ice cream company. Is it the same you that can't buy a man a bowl of ice cream that will now pay child support to a man??

If you know men this much then why r you not married?
If you r so critical of everything a man does, n that men have it easy in life, then why not kuku marry your own gender?

Spend another 10 years to decipher everything about a man, I am sure you will will finally understand men in your 40s.
Family › Re: I Want To Sue My Ex Wife And My Inlaw by cococandy(f): 12:30pm On Oct 24, 2024
masseratti:
oh sorry they will... especially girls or if the father is rich .
Not especially if they’re girls

And OP isn’t rich
Health › Re: 14-Year-Old Boy Commits Suicide After Falling In Love With AI Chatbot by cococandy(f): 12:01pm On Oct 24, 2024
MightySparrow:
Elon Musk is testing a robot to carry pregnancy.

I hope he has plans to build robots that can bury people killed by robots.
He should make sure the bots can produce their own eggs too so the men can fertilize it directly. And breastfeed too.

Then men will truly not need women. That would be amazing. grin
Foreign Affairs › Re: US Justice Department Has Received Complaints About Musk's $1 Million Payment by cococandy(f): 10:26am On Oct 24, 2024
He is big on Freedom of expression except if they are facts. The only expression he wants to see is bigotry and hate.

Niorte:
This is not entirely vote buying.

Elon is putting his money where is heart is.

If you follow Elon Musk on X, you will agree with me that he is big on Freedom of Xpression. Reason he changed Twitter to X. Not everyone knows that X means Xpression.


Many governments of the world have come for him because of what people said on X as it relates to their govt so, he is doing this to protect himself against Draconic government.


If you're on X, you should gladly sign the petition, it is not all about election of Trump but it came at a time when election is happening.

Whether Trump wins or not, Elon Musk is very much interested in X. Even when you criticize him on X, he won't bring down your post.

Those DEMON-CRATS are now afraid such would impact their chances
Foreign Affairs › Re: US Justice Department Has Received Complaints About Musk's $1 Million Payment by cococandy(f): 10:26am On Oct 24, 2024
travelzcruix:
Any means to boot these Democrats out of the White House before they run America aground is allowed.
Republicans are notorious for creating more poverty and social divide. If anyone is running America aground it’s them.
Family › Re: I Want To Sue My Ex Wife And My Inlaw by cococandy(f): 10:06am On Oct 24, 2024
That’s all we’ve been telling him albeit in a not-so-nice way. He already said no. Maybe it’ll mean more coming from you. Let’s hope he respects and listens to you
GloriousGbola:
your focus should be providing the best you can for your children by being there physically and financially
Family › Re: I Want To Sue My Ex Wife And My Inlaw by cococandy(f): 9:13am On Oct 24, 2024
pocohantas:
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
These new generation kids are not playing around.
If they find out he gave them up solely because of 6 months financial reimbursement that he refused to pay, they’ll see that’s how much they’re worth to him. Who wants to reconcile with that?

Afodot0022:
. I don't have issues with child support, but kids I can't talk to or have access to, I will never pay any child support for such.. I am not foolish and not a simp.
I can quite literally give up my life so my kids can be okay. And I know most parents would. Refusing to get your kids because you don’t want to reimburse 6 months worth of expenses that you can afford tells them all they need to know about how much you value them. It’s only the money that’s keeping you away. Pay the man and take your kids.
Family › Re: I Want To Sue My Ex Wife And My Inlaw by cococandy(f): 9:04am On Oct 24, 2024
Afodot0022:
They have already done that and as it is now, I don't fuc.king care no more. Whatsoever they want to do, let them do it. We wait for the future and she herself will regret everything she is doing now. I have records and evidence of everything and they have all been archived. When the kids grow and look for their father, I will be their to give my own explanation to the. She thinks she is doing me, she is doing herself
They’re not going to look for you.
Family › Re: I Want To Sue My Ex Wife And My Inlaw by cococandy(f): 8:23am On Oct 24, 2024
Afodot0022:
I will never settle any bill or payment. I never approved her taking those kids there and will never give him a dime. If he wants to keep them ,let him keep them and keep feeding them, when the right time comes, na him go beg me to come and carry my kids. They are just been foolish and stupid. A dime will not come from my pocket even though I can afford to give him but I won't do that.
Honey I’m not surprised. I wasn’t expecting you to say otherwise.
In 5 years you’ll come and tell us how they turned your kid against you. Na today.🙄
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: 2026 Midterm Elections Live! by cococandy(f): 7:53am On Oct 24, 2024
Maeve7:
I know dear but I am trying to keep the conversation simple when talking to Trump supporters. You get why.
🤣🤣
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Politics Thread: 2026 Midterm Elections Live! by cococandy(f): 7:46am On Oct 24, 2024
Maeve7:
You will vote for the American Hitler because of taxes, right?
Even lower the taxes they still won’t see.
Unless they’re secret billionaires that we don’t know about. Trump’s tax plan is to milk them dry to feed people like Elon. But these ones are in the class of temporarily embarrassed billionaires too stuck up their own wazoo to see it yet.
Family › Re: I Want To Sue My Ex Wife And My Inlaw by cococandy(f): 7:31am On Oct 24, 2024
@bold, 💯
I know him. At least I remember him now that I went through his other threads. Single man wey be say his few clothes and dishes are piling up in a house he’s living in alone na that one wan take care of small children?

If not for moms’ hearts and fear of seeing your children go through difficulty at the hands of relatives, I really think all divorced moms should be leaving their kids for the dads. That way we’ll stop listening to them complaining about financially providing for the kids.
pocohantas:
Gbam! No matter how you explain CHILD SUPPORT to them, they INTENTIONALLY refuse to get it. All because they have no access to the mum. Even primary custody, when they fight for the kids, it is to PUNISH the mum . This OP intended fighting for custody - go check his threads. He clearly stated he would handover the upbringing to his mum and sister. It is right there in his past thread! It is always one woman or the other. He can't do it alone either. Yet they open mouth waaa to claim ask what women bring to the table.
Family › Re: I Want To Sue My Ex Wife And My Inlaw by cococandy(f): 7:22am On Oct 24, 2024
BigYash:
Them the so called grandpa should not complain of the money he spent on the kids,since the kids doesn't belong to him alone. The so called grandpa telling him to pay for taking care of his grandkids show the kind of greedy and stupid home or family op married from. Make una dey run deep check before una marry ,una go say no. See the home of devils you married from now.. I pray your kids doesn't end up with the kind of mind their grandpa and mother possess.
The dad is going to repay the granddad financially. However, the physical, mental and emotional expenses he paid in keeping those kids safe, fed, housed and healthy can’t be monetarily quantified. Nor am I sure he will even ask for money for his effort. They’re his grandchildren and he understands that. But dad has to reimburse him the financial expenses.
Family › Re: I Want To Sue My Ex Wife And My Inlaw by cococandy(f): 7:19am On Oct 24, 2024
This. Your kids are your kids. Don’t bank on any man doing his part when the going goes sour.

That’s why BM in America cry about child support they’re made to pay. They hate the idea of financially supporting their kids if they are no longer sleeping with the mom. The level of love they have for their kids is often directly tied to how much they love the mom. Everything is transactional for them. If they can’t get anything from the mom why should they support the kids?

God forbid they see her moving on. Then the school fees they paid for their children is what you must be using to shine. SMH
pocohantas:
They only love the kids for as much as they love the mother. That is why a man can abandon his biological kids, fall in love with another woman with kids and take care of them.

When women understand this, they will know to have as much as they can handle if push comes to shove.
Family › Re: I Want To Sue My Ex Wife And My Inlaw by cococandy(f): 12:38am On Oct 24, 2024
Are you interested in being the primary parent? That’s an option you can explore. She can leave the kids with you (as soon as you settle what the old man spent) and take the kids since they are now too much for her to handle full time.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Barack Obama Raps Eminem’s ‘Lose Yourself’ At Kamala Harris' Detroit Rally [vid] by cococandy(f): 10:34pm On Oct 23, 2024
Coolest man ever
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:57pm On Oct 23, 2024
descarado:
Crazy, right?
Don't know when it got to this and there are more.
Just that these are handy ones.
I need deliverance grin
tiri gbosa for you!
As an Asian food lover I like this your collection
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 9:56pm On Oct 23, 2024
Crestaria:
See delicious food. Should I come visit you?
Next time. I already finished this one 🫢
Foreign Affairs › Re: Dozens Of Israelis To Cross Border & Settle In Gaza - Sky News by cococandy(f): 8:06pm On Oct 23, 2024
I’m fully aware of Islamic extremism and they’re not different from Israeli zionists

franchasofficia:
You are an American feminist not an Igbo Christian, please correct that undecided



If you want peace, prepare for war.

Arabs and most Moslems all over the world hate peace, if you follow them with peace and calmness, they will kill you and take over whatever you left. Islam is a religion of terror that have nothing like forgiveness or peace in it.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Dozens Of Israelis To Cross Border & Settle In Gaza - Sky News by cococandy(f): 6:49pm On Oct 23, 2024
Nomercie:
Every Igbo Christian and Jewish terrorist are in full support of our terrorist brother from isrealhell because our story book ask us to stop using our brain;S
I’m an igbo Christian and I don’t support Israel’s blood thirsty land grabbing scheme.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:13pm On Oct 23, 2024
Maeve7:
They don’t know what they are missing but more for you. grin Enjoy! It looks very delicious.
same thing I told them

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