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Ready. For thanksgiving at church.

We are grateful today.

Meat pie, buns and puff puff coming up for a friend.

Of course you leave a cheating wife. That’s all the information we need.

You’re just pained a woman is the one being told to do the same. Because y’all’s mantra is to give men good advice but tell women to stay suffer and smile. In typical shameless hypocritical fashion.

I don’t care for the rest of your post because I’m sure it’s filled with nonsense. I only appropriately addressed your hypocrisy. Now off you go

omooba969:
Personally I would,

but I wouldn't be quick to ride on emotions and advise my neighbour to chuck out their cheating spouse. I'm an advocate for independence of the mind, therefore, it's their decision to make.

I have personally witnessed some funny cases where families and friends have jumped on the bandwagon, advising these lovely ladies to separate or divorce from their spouses but then the ladies never recovered from the separation. They started to blame their relatives for destroying their young families.

My take is this, shut your restless lips and keep whatever advice to yourself. Leave it to the couple to independently make that decision, without any coercion or persuasion.

#simple

omooba969:
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I'm against taking a brash decision of chucking your partner because they cheated. She mentioned 'kicking the man to the kerb'... that's what I don't agree with.

So then you wouldn’t leave a cheating wife.

Yes or no?

flashing fake teeth and avoiding the simple yes or no question isn’t doing anything to mask your hypocrisy now

omooba969:
Hey, this is not about hypocrisy but preference. The woman arrested here probably thought it best or rather chose to fight off an intruder, one who threatens her marriage. She made a choice, however unreasonable, to face the lady who threatened her marriage.

So as a special adviser that you are, kicking her darling husband (father of her kids) to the kerb is the wisest thing to do...lol

Inukwa!

1) Will you embrace your wife if she cheats?

2) would you be upset if a man was telling another man to leave a cheating wife?

3) why does it irk you when a woman gives the same advice you would give if the situation were reversed?

Smelling Disgusting hypocrisy.

It’s the very very xtupid women who give y’all the power to behave like this that I blame.

omooba969:
The kind of advice that flies out of you people's mouths sef!

Hehehehe 🤣😂 I laugh in Chinese! You can type this because you still have your husband and your marriage is not threatened.

It's always very easy to advise...lol 😂

Pls shut up

Felaincarnated:
It's called kurukere waka. Wat u see is wat u get

Ebigwei007:
Oh Lord! Please guide our female children, they are always going to where they are nt always wellcomed. Please guide there path of ways and also make them see reasons with their elders

Duru009:
Greed is what is happening to this girls.....

You don’t even know what happened. Can y’all stop this silly habit of victim blaming pls. So irritating

can a woman also be victim of verbal abuse?

Is a woman’s respect negotiable?

No long story o. Just a straight yes or no answer. Because some of you find the longest ways to say the most unnecessary things when you truly mean to tell us you don’t think women deserve respect and men are excused from being physically abusive. Even though they manage not to attack everyone in public who speaks sideways at them

ChukwuEmeka00:
Stop saying delusional things.

Domestic abuse goes 2 ways: either the man is a victim of verbal abuse or the woman is a victim of physical abuse or both forms of abuse apply to one party.

Men should not beat their women.

Women should not provoke their men to high anger.

If a man is tired he should divorce the woman.

Separation only makes women more entitled (most will sleep around during separation and blame you for pushing them into it).

If she disrespects you, don't beat her; simply end the marriage.

A man's respect is not negotiable.

We should stop deceiving men into tolerating abuse from women while men are crucified for abusing women.

Beverlyjean:
Then she should stop disturbing us ... no be by force to live in Ikoyi

She didn’t disturb anyone

Your Davido brought it to the internet

This is your typical 40+ Nigerian man

If you’re going to criticize the women for our looks, keep it a buck.

And the women are usually post baby and breastfeeding which can affect the women’s bodies.
What’s the men’s excuse?

ShogunNoName:
Truth is don't blame them for drooling because most forty plus women in Nigeria look fucking old. They look sixty plus . With hairy faces and really really old overweight shapeless bodies.

They look like they have given birth to a 100 kids while overworking building the pyramids of Egypt and jogging at the same time.

They really look wornout and unattractive. Then they tend to over use makeup and have a hair line that has recessed to half of their heads.

It is rare to see a good looking Nigerian woman in her forties that isn't overweight with a permanent 6 month pregnancy belly.

99% of them look like Lizzo. (See pic below)

My God Tiwa is gorgeous

Lord can I be like this in 10 years time



A girl can dream 🙈

No that’s different

In your house and your bed can be understood as a crime of passion.

But driving to their house is considered as premeditated. Big difference

Kobicove:
This idiot thinks she's still in Nigeria where you can go and attack another person in his/her house based on suspicion of having an amorous relationship with your spouse and nothing will happen.

Over there even if you catch your husband on top of another woman on your matrimonial bed and you start any violent drama you will lad in jail.

Potential Japarians should bear this in mind

They need to do this to all the women who don’t know how to hold their men accountable. Fighting side piece when you should be kicking the man to the curb.
How many girls do you want to fight? Instead of leaving him for your own peace of mind and health safety

officialwdhtvv:
Nigerian Woman arrested for allegedly assaulting her husband’s side-chick in the UK

A yet-to-be identified married Nigerian woman has been arrested for assaulting her compatriot over her husband.

According to a viral clip, the suspect had gone to the house of the victim to fight her for allegedly sleeping with her husband. The victim’s friends were present as eyewitnesses. In the clip, the suspect can be seen dragging the shirt of the side-chick while accusing her of snatching her husband.

The victim dials 911 and the metropolitan police officer showed up at the scene. The side-chick laid on the ground to show the policeman that she was deeply distressed by the assault while the suspect was handcuffed and whisked away.

#wetindeyhappentv

descarado:
I want my reward here on earth o.

Amen

Not possible to be my scenario

I don’t deal with used evening newspaper men. After-ones with baby mamas. I can’t relate.

But if I were chioma, I’d have no choice but to agree. First of all she’s always with him on his trips. If she’s not there and David is not there, who’s she trusting to care for the kid?
Whether the staff have learned their lessons or not, it’s not my child they’ll use to prove it. I’m with the girl’s mom on that aspect.

masseratti:
two scenero here ...oh so if God forbid tho your husband has a kid outside and the kid want to come over to spend the weekend with her Dad,you will agree that the staff of the other woman should step foot in your house right? Accident happens am sure the same staffs are not the one there and they av learnt their mistakes..this is a 9 years old for heavens sake ..even whites or some Uber rich down get any type of nanny for a 9 years old Basic 4 atleast.. highest a house keeper, butler etc ..but not Nanny when she does not have any health condition, always view things from both angles and get a better perspectives.

How can they properly study medicine without electricity to power the labs? The rot starts from the root unfortunately

I wonder if David even considered chioma at all.

He doesn’t seem to care

Tightpussy2024:
You and I know that the best place for her to remain is with the mom, and he has visiting rights and from time to time she visits. For the peace and sanctity of his own marriage . even consider chioma. You think it’s easy having a step child live with you?the drama and arguments from this arrangement will not be here.
. only heavens know the motive behind his sudden spite of her.
Whenever a naija man fights for custody its to spite the woman, most of them will still drop the child with their mothers

Well she’s living in one now and he’s not paying for it so I don’t know what your point is.

Beverlyjean:
Nonsense point... I don't blame her , I blame davido that was giving her luxury.... he is giving out 5m annually for rent and she rejected.... if she never met Davido, would she be living in 23m a year apartment ....

masseratti:
i don't lack any kind of comprehension,it's only a person with ulterior motives that will insist a daughter must be with a Nanny to be with his father no matter how busy he is a 9 years old is just 3 years away from a teenager heck that time you will say her bodyguard must be there if her father want to spend time with her right ?
Dramatic people up and down Nanny of a 9 years old how ridiculous.

He’s not a regular dad

He’s Davido.
He’s busy. He always has industry people around him. He’s always jetting around. There are no ulterior motives to insisting the nanny be around 24/7. But it doesn’t mean the nanny is always hovering in his presence watching his moves. She’s just going to be in the house ready to be beckoned at any time given the high energy unpredictable nature of the dad’s lifestyle.

I wouldn’t trust my kid with his own house staff since they’ve proven once that they can be irresponsible. I’m with her on that.

emmyN:
How does contributing 5 million imply his wanting to "downgrade" her?

Because obviously she’s used to better?

descarado:
I wonder where these ladies get the energy from.
They end up breeding masochists instead of men.
When you see your dad and mum doing things together, it's something to cherish and look forward to do with your spouse and kids.
These days are better. It will continue to get better.

They no get energy. They’re exhausted but they believe their reward is in heaven so they persevere. lol

Orlu13:
u don go use ur second moniker report me
olosho of d highest order

You really have no functioning brain if you think that’s me. Wow but also not surprising.

Tell your mom her fellow olosho said hello.

Has your dad done a DNA test on you yet?

Tightpussy2024:
Lets pretend you are not aware of the stigma attached to divorcees and the children

They know.


They switch mouths as it suits them.

As him what he thinks of the Jarus situation and you’ll see him blaming the wife for speaking up. Now he’s claiming he doesn’t know why women stay with abusive men.

Bunch of confused hypocritical people

onadana:
Nanny for a.nine year old...."teach a child the way they should go,when they grow they will not depart".What nonsense is that...nanny.

Sorry you people think a 9 year old is an adult that doesn’t need sitting.

No wonder your kids are open targets to rapists and pedophiles. You can’t legally leave a kid by themselves until a certain age. But y’all not at the place mentally to under this.

tivta:
So her denying David access to his daughter is the best option? Please keep gender aside and see that she really has issues.
Well at the end imade won't be a child anymore and will decide for herself.

But she’s not denying him access.

She wants the kids nanny present from what I gathered.

Y’all don’t read before ranting and that’s your major problem

You know what? I actually agree with this @bold

MT:
I don’t get involved in yeyebrities cases but having read Dele’s piece, I would just air my own takeaways:

1. Dele is using her niece to chase clout while pretending to wanting to resolve it for them. He’s using his niece to build connection with the Adelekes . Singing their praises in one part and tactically throwing her niece under the bus.

As an elderly person, why would Dele ask his niece to stay at one of residences of the Adelekes when she wasn’t married to them. It took Sophia herself to
point this aberration to her uncle.

Why did Dele choose to write a piece to the public? Why washing dirty linen outside? Why not try to resolve this internally?

If I was Sophia, I would respectfully ask Dele to hands off in my matter.

2. How much does Sophia worth that she is living in a 23 million apartment? What does she do? These yeyebrities always want to impress the public. So, Davido should be paying half of that amount annually just because he has a child with her.

She will lose eventually . Davido should stop contesting the child custody , when his daughter is grown, she will come to her daddy. During that period, Sophia will get nothing and no one will tell her before she vacated banana island for Ketu Alapere.

Why paying a premium on a player which is nearing the end of his contract when I can get him free at the end of the season?

3. Davido deserves all he got. His choice of ladies has always been pathetic. He is paying the prize for philandering too. Sophia will fight him dirty and he has everything to lose as per his image. His dad did well by clearing outstanding bills and if Sophia is a serious babe, she would use that start a solid business and live within her means.

For now, let’s sit and watch the house of commotions, with sugary pop corn clasped in our hands.

tivta:
She's sounding like sophia was a made woman before David which we all know is a lie. She became known after getting pregnant for David.
Meanwhile David has other baby Mama's right?
Then why is she the only one denying him access to his child?
She's just a bitter angry lazy lady pissed that David doesn't love her.

If she didn’t have anything before meeting David. And David clearly hasn’t been paying for her lifestyle, how exactly do you think she’s been getting by?

Y’all need to reason before you speak. And admit when you don’t know certain things.

Orlu13:
as long as say na man nd woman matter, u will always be bias...na ppl wey dey reason with u I dey pity

look in the mirror and stop projecting

tivta:
Carry your entitlement mentality away from here, ewu

What has entitlement got to do with that? Did you even understand the post you responded to?

masseratti:
watch a 9 years old?wow .. incredible...you guys and excuses ehn .

Do you leave a 9 year old by themselves?

Are you for real? You don’t know someone can be sexually exploiting her if her father is not there and it’s only unfamiliar domestic staff responsible for her.
She needs someone her mom trusts to be there with her.

Davido is ultra busy. I won’t leave my kid for him to watch when I don’t know what his schedule is even going to be like
You guys lack of comprehension ehn