₦airaland Forum

masseratti:
why must the nanny be present at all times when am with my child,I don't understand.

Because he’s Davido. He’s too busy to physically watch that kid himself. He will leave her for his domestic staff to care for while he’s jetting around.

I understand the mom’s worry

Evolutionism:
🤣🤣🤣

I wasn’t actually trying to be funny o.

I truly love 50-50 arrangements. The real ones. Not the ones where the men are exploiting their wives for income but feel to emasculated to help the women

Augustine2244:
Why women remain stuck in abusive marriages and relationships should be a compulsory course of study in Nigerian higher educational institutions.
Seriously!
The whole thing baffles me beyond imagination.
An antelope would spot a lion walking lazily not in its direction and still it would scamper for safety at once without hesitation.
Even the sight of well fed lions lazing in the sun or coolness of the tree shade would set an antelope or zebra in discomfort and nervousness, and the readiness to flee at the slightest movement.
But women would see blatant red flags in a man showing signs of an abusive behaviour, and yet remain either out of indecision, unnecessary fear,or outright blatant stupidity.

But yall were calling Jarus’s wife wise woman for defending and staying with him. Called her all manner of names when she first came forward. yet you can’t understand why women stay?

Any woman who had anything to say against him was a bitter feminist who wants to wreck their home.

You don’t see the direct correlation between that social pressure and the women’s decisions to stay in abusive marriages?

Y’all scare me with your inability to connect dots.

No thoughts just vibes

iyatrustee:
The thing is, if you want to keep a child to yourself, then do it completely. Face every child raising responsibility squarely without seeking out the other party.

She didn’t say she wanted the kid to herself. She just said her nanny had to be present at all times. Which is reasonable IMO.

The 5million is reasonable in my opinion. Except if it is a 2bed house that she lives in alone with the
child, then her 50:50 request is valid

5 million is also reasonable to me but I’m not mega wealthy and I don’t live in their social circle. So I can’t tell her what should be reasonable for her. He knew her lifestyle before he got with her

iyatrustee:
Quick question

Why does she have to stay in a 23million per annum accommodation and expect him to pay half?

But she’s been paying for it since then.

So it means that’s what she’s used to. He just wants to downgrade her

After Sophia clarified from me, she politely declined the offer, and her reason was tenable in my view, because, since she's not married to David, she can't be comfortable living in a place swarming with David's family members.

Good point

The people that want traditional wives but don’t have traditional husband money to pay for every single thing and keep her on a very generous allowance too.🤭

Better enter kitchen and scrub the floor while your wife is cooking jollof. That’s the real 50-50.

Not sitting on your ass expecting money from her because you don’t want liability but can’t lift a darn finger to unburden her from the extra load that you think is too feminine for you. If it’s feminine for you to help her at home, best believe it’s too masculine for her to contribute financially too. Can’t eat your cake and have it

ednut1:
😋😋

I know the kind of people that love this type of meal.

radautoworks:
YES.

💋

LilMissFavvy:
It is really heart breaking. It doesn't seem normal at all. I cannot understand what would cause humansMEN to totally lose morals and conscience to such extents.

ITS MISOGYNY. The world’s biggest oldest prejudice. They don’t even know when they do it. It’s so deeply ingrained

that’s why I think they more often than not deserve whatever they get in these relationships .

LilMissFavvy:
Apart from Kobo's comment, all the men who commented on the post are in support of the ev!l broke womanizer friend, they don't care if he will finally infect his desperate 9yrs girlfriend with ailments, they don't see anything bad about his doings. Majority of the$e men are badly rai$ed, heartless and don't have con$cience. Imagine that none of them see's anything wrong with a guy who has a girlfriend, plus 3 side chicks and with records of his girlfriend's committing uncountable ab0rtions. Hopefully, karma and the wrath of G0d decends on y0u all.

Carot:
This is good

Thank you

You’re a parent? I’m serious I didn’t say the parent thing as an insult. You really sound like a child and I wasn’t wanting to go back and forth with an underage person that’s why I said I’d rather talk to your mom or dad instead.

If you’re really grown enough to be married and have kids and you’re reasoning like this? There’s serious issues at stake here

Severe intellectual deficiency at play

Pecoleee345:
Once again dumbo first of all you need to the under the meaning of " context "

Anyway it always emotion above logic for morons like you so am not surprised.

How many women have been punished for physical abuse in marriage??
How many women have been punished for assault??
Even if a man report such a case is chicken head like you that would call him a weak man.

Once again we want women to get punished for emotional abuse because they are the major perpetrators of this act just like physical abuse is done most by men.......you can act all dumb as you like or try to twist whatever am saying I don't GAF

There is thread of 2 female American teachers sleeping with minors being released on bail.......we aint gonna see your comment there for them to be jailed but if the reverse was the case your bitter soul will be all over it.

Once again am not surprised you ain't still married at your age.......I don't do parent insults(I am one myself) is for lowlife gutter bitch like you....


Cococandy.......what a nice dirty bitchy name.

Pecoleee345:
Dumbo first off am not surprised you ain't married at your age......the hate and bitterness of aging without a man has so much eating into your bitter soul that you just want to stand for anything against men.

Since you are so dumb to understand the complex in which I was talking is in the confine of marriage maybe you should go back to school......Does physical abuse only happen in marriage?? Is it called physical abuse when done to other people??

Anyways you ain't married so you can't relate.......the marriage women ain't this stupid and they understand perfectly well what I wrote about.

So we make a law against emotional abuse but only if it happens within the confines of marriage? Otherwise it’s not emotional abuse anymore?

You do realize physical abuse/assaults gets punished regardless of whether it’s committed by a married or single person. Because the law against physical abuse is non gendered. Men just get arrested more because statistically y’all are the worst offenders. But anyone can get the books thrown at them for physically harming another. You want a law against emotional abuse but only if a married woman is the culprit? 🫢

I’m being nice because you sound like you’re 18 years old. Can you go get your mom or your dad for me? I want to speak with them instead

Congregation of low IQ people.

If a law is made against emotional abuse , will it only be applied to married women or are you guys okay to go to jail for verbally abusing other people too?