Oluwa afun yin she oo

Cute....
Does she have some Asian blood ?

Better Power Supply lest you have forgotten how bad it used to be ...

Erm when are you graduating sef ? Abi you are now a professional student ?

You kissed her pal in error shey?
Avoid alcohol and weed you won't hear

Don't mind the hypocrites ,because Linda is a cyberlord she's given a pass
All these indomie bred children.

Nansense

chccho:
So I have been following this Dasuki Dokpesis saga and I have been wondering here cos I was reading on another thread how people are ranting and defending Linda ikeji saying she she got paid for the service she offered which was to advertise on her blog (Even though we don't know whether or not she got money).
So the mind bugging question for me is how come Dokpesi's case is different? After all he was also paid for a service which he rendered via his media outfit which was to campaign for the PDP.. So am baffled as to y Dokpesi's case is now called money laundering but the reverse is the case in Linda ikeji's case.
Mind u I don't know Dokpesi from anywhere but I would like wise comments..

Who will be happier ? His workers whom he doesn't pay regularly or the toes he stepped on,or Jonathan who gave him money and yet he had the effontery to say PDP's greatest mistake was fielding him ?

For better for worse!
However remember for a woman to cheat the man must have touched her sensitive spots(not her body but her mind)

Except you married an Olosho in which case you have only yourself to blame .

If the first is the case you may want to call take some days off work and try to get to the depth of what happened .

Betterstill use the spyware to find out how he is making love to her mind ,trust me its not about how endowed the man is that you aren't....

The vjay is elastic if it isn't slack then size shouldn't be such a big deal

Nice one

Every professor planning to exploit female students on or off campus die die die

Every illegal mark bought or acquired by crook or nook die die fire fire

Every plan for the school to be too expensive for the common man to afford die by fire ...

Every plan to make the students join any cult/or occult practices under the cloak of the name of Christ scatter by fire

Every Boju Boju Pastor/Lecturer by day Babalawo by night be exposed by fire

All the best to the new students,please remember of all God's commandments the greatest is to love,love dissolves every jazz or generational jargons,fear only makes us susceptible to the machinations of the darkness


Don't quote this Post saying nansense...

His lips,his life..
His internal organs too
Seriously though they look natural not everyone was born with pink lips

Available...
We'll do it.
It will be up and in 2weeks or less depending on your personal preferences

Oni woranworan
They've turned to meat in the stew pot.
Isn't it better to give your address so they'll come and line up for bedroom audition

I just have one question for Mourinho.
Why did you release Drogba and choose to end his career like that ?
Small causes ,great effects..

Let's give God our gratitude.
I'll expect her mail.
My username @gmail

fratermathy:


Thank you for your post. You are correct in your analysis and seem experienced. I'll tell her to send you a mail asap. Thanks once more.

Issokay...

Linda ma ti ru igi oyin ke

Ha! If this is true then there is fire on the mountain ooh

No one is ugly...they just need the right amount of cash to clean up PHYNO Fine oo

Hope no lives were lost.
Is it that these trucks are never serviced,that they keep having so many accidents endangering lives and properties
Or Are the drivers just drunk ? Wicked ? Or Evil ?

The vehicle looks really cool...
Made in Ghana not assembled in Ghana...
Will the pricing attract the masses ? Considering its not imported and no import duties will be incurred

Maybe not ugly(she's got nice features)

but unhappy...
Joy radiates
Haven't you seen people who may be ugly physically speaking but their persona and Aura is so beautiful you'd swear they are the Most beautiful people you ever met

obinnashady:
This babe ugly shaa

She was finer in one teen pic of I saw somewhere online

Performing in an Agbada and still looking dapper !
Its Don Jazzy again....

You know what ?
There's an ancient hawaii teaching that helps to heal trauma

Its about 4 sentences and saying it over and over again has been proven to heal trauma

You don't have to say it out ,just say it in your mind or out when you feel like...


I AM SORRY
PLEASE FORGIVE ME
I LOVE YOU
THANK YOU

Say it as often you can
You will be healing your soul

Free101:

Maybe you're right.
You know that saying "wounds heal but scars remains"?
It means even if am still bleeding I shouldn't let it get my head. With time, all wounds heals if given the chance to.
If we keep on blaming ourselves for our actions and inactions, we won't know when we'll get caught in the webs of our doings and lose our self altogether.
Its okay to grief, but if we over do it, then the deaths of our love ones would be in vain.
I do shed some tears when I do some reminiscing but I do tell myself, "you're alive for a reason".

Your friend is simply going through a healing process,seeing even someone we don't know going through something that traumatic is bound to leave a deep scar.
Now this is someone she knows possibly in her subconscious a back-up for if her man messes up. (Scar 1)

(In her opinion) If he didn't pick her up he may not have been attacked (Scar 2)

Now he didn't die a normal death,he was tortured to his death (Scar 3)

He lost his brother too (Scar 4)

And so many other scars going on in her mind!

I would have recommended just counseling but from experience I know depression can be so evil no matter how hard you try to get out of it you can't ,so I'll advise for starts she should get some antidepressants to at least get her out of that hell hole of the thoughts revolving around her head....

She will still need counseling that's like an injury to the soul and meds can't heal that

However no matter how hard you counsel a patient with diarrhea unless you give some medications(could be as simple as home remedies or as complex as drugs)

They won't be fine ,so let's start with that ,if its fine by you let her send me a mail

fratermathy:
Hello Romancelanders,

I hardly enter this session of Nairaland, to be honest, but I just stumbled upon it and went through some threads and noticed how helpful some Romancelanders have been to other people. A female friend of mine who is here on Nairaland but too shy and troubled to post this is facing a big problem in her relationship and life due to something that happened to her recently. She said that a particular guy has been asking her out and promising to marry her for more than 5 years now and she has been putting him off the whole time. She kept him as a friend though and they had a very good rapport. However, whenever the guys brings up dating/marriage, she shuns him and tells him to go and look for money before thinking about marriage. The lady, however, has a serious boyfriend whom the other guy that's proposing knows about.

About three months ago, the lady went to Port-Harcourt to visit her aunt. The guy who has been proposing to her was aware and decided to pick her up (he had a car) from the park to her aunt's place. On their way, the car was hijacked by hoodlums who were masked and drove to an abandoned building. At the building, they tortured the guy, his brother (who was with him) and this said girl. The guy and his brother DIED there, right before the girl. The girl claimed to have been beaten, pierced with an iron solder and thrown around until she passed out. She was later seen few hours later by passersby with her head submerged in a toilet as if she was being drowned. Her properties, including her phone were all intact. The attackers had only the mission to kill and nothing more.

She was rushed to a hospital for treatment! She suffered severe fractures, nerve damage and body swelling. She was traumatised and in pain, coupled with the fact that she just saw her "5 years toaster" die. She recuperated for more than two months and her current boyfriend never knew what happened (She didn't tell him the truth until later). However, her boyfriend was surprisingly encouraging all through.

Now, to the main issue! This girl has fully recuperated and is back with her boyfriend. The problem is that she is having a "guilt-complex" which is threatening her relationship. She feels the "toaster's death" is her fault and that if she had agreed to marry him earlier, he wouldn't have died. She feels that she was wicked to him because she refused his advances and treated him like a mediocre. She is always moody, sad and wishes to go back and date the dead guy. Her boyfriend couldn't understand why and it has ravaged their relationship. Still, she can't let the issue go. I have done my best to tell her that it wasn't her fault and that the dead guy would have died whether she married him or not. She keeps blaming herself for the guy's death to the point that she stalks the dead guy's profile on Facebook and other social media. She keeps thinking about him and gets moody always.She cant do anything productive and she is considering quitting her Masters programme because she believes "it is not right to continue her programme" because the guy died. She is threatening her own happiness and life all for someone who has gone for more than 3 months. I just don't understand how some people, especially women, deal with pain. She has pushed everyone away from her life. As a friend, I can't even break through to her again. I had to do this and hope she reads this and learn from others.

Please, my dear Romancelanders, I am going to mention this girl in my many mentions after this post, kindly give her a proper advise on how to live her life if you can. If you have had experiences with this, kindly state them so that she can read them and deal with this issue. If you are a specialist in issues such as these, please inform me. I would refer her to you and I am sure she'd be willing to mentally treat herself because at the rate she's going, she's going to lose it soonest and give up her life and future all for a dead guy.



Thank you all as you give your pieces of advice.

Even you are still bleeding.
You are trying to bold face it but you aren't healed yet !
Remember my dear friend th

Free101:
Like seriously, if she was my sister or friend, I would tell her to sit the fvck down and get her sh!t straight.
Lemme give you a story, should in case you decide to visit this thread created for you.
At the age of 8, I start thinking I was responsible for my sister's death. She's the last born and third of we kids. I was playing with her in the living room and she accidentally fell hitting the ground with a hard thud (headlong and still in her "months", I can still hear her piecing cry ). She died when she was about nine months. I did blame myself
My dad died about a month later, I was never on his good books, (and with just cause), my younger brother was his favourite and I was the black sheep. It even got to the point he told my mom that my brother would be the one to wipe her tears. He's dead and I blame myself for not being a better son, who knows if it was my wayward ways that sent him to his early grave But life still continues.
While growing up, I became very wayward to the point I always get my mom into trouble and do muddle her name with every chance I got, as a matter of fact, I was a total disgrace to be a called a son (a first son at that) my mother do sheds uncontrollable tears and did many unmentionables just to get me back on track (both spiritually and physically, heck, I even got two facial marks to prove it). Now she's sick and even lost the use of one of her eyes. Do I need a priest to tell me am I catalyst to this cause? I'll leave that to you to judge.
Fast forward to 12 years later, my grandad was diagnosed with prostrate cancer. My mom, (his favourite) is the only one closest to him, he was hospitalized and she couldn't be with him because of her job, and I was still waiting for admission then without a job so I became his caretaker.
He was in the hospital for about two weeks in a different state and I was the one with him there, sleeping on the floor, bathing him, cleaning him, feeding him and in charge of expulsion of his urine bag. He underwent an operation to remove his balls, got discharged, we came back home, he was getting better ( I was the one staying with him at his house which was somehow close to my mom's house), I was still taking care of his needs.
On that faithful day or should I say, that cursed day, he woke up in the wee morning (around 3 to 4), soiled his bed. I did cleaned him and changed his bedsheets and put him back in bed without any ill feelings, heck, I even got prayers from him. Only for me to decided going to get my charger quickly from my mom's house only to come back to meet him on the floor gasping for breath. (He ended up dying in my arms).
I blamed myself a lot, if only I didn't go for that stvpid charger, I won't have left him and who knows he might not have been dead, maybe he called my name and when I wasn't answering, he struggled (because I came and saw him soiled) to get down and in the process hit his head on the ground. Who knows, maybe he even thought I abandoned him and left him for death because he was being a burden on me (which he was not!) and decided to give in to death.
I blamed myself over and over again to the point that I never wanted stepping into his compound again because I couldn't stop the bad memory coming back.
But after a while, I thought, I can't kill myself or destroy my life for the dead, I'll live my life to the fullest and make amends when I have the opportunity. I moved on and believed it was their time to die, and if any of the dead have an ish to settle with me, we'll do that in the other world when am dead!
Sorry for the long epistle,

Educative !
I wonder where that Apple guy is now...

Totally concur with this

thanks for concurring

GentleSmiles:


I Concord bro.

Thanks

krattoss:
ah..my bad..



AM IN LOVE WITH A CHURCH GIRL.

Movie title please

krattoss:
yeah.. as an agnostic, I was moved after watching the movie... yeah I know it's a product of facts and fictions...

according to the movie, it's a true life story of American rapper JARULE....

I bet u won't regret it.....


although it didn't change any fact..

Please add graphic photo

OGBETABLOG:
Believe me, Some Men are just a Typical example of the Word “Animal“…

I don’t even need to know the story behind this Photo, I don’t think any sane man would ever do this to his own wife. Why would you use a Knife on your wife...This is so crazy, am so angry and in shock.

The husband of this lady where ever he is should be chained immediately and taken to the Zoo, that is where men like him are kept. http://www.ogbeta.org/2015/12/omg-see-what-animal-in-human-flesh.html

Add I am a Man of God to the list...
So this Area gist had it that One chic who got married to a mog,employed 2 helps to care for the kids (she's a bank big girl)

Neighbors were saying stuff she didn't believe them till one convinced her to take a break during work and head home.

She got home to meet Porn on the tv and the mog having a 3some with the helps ,who later confessed that whenever she leaves for work with the Kids ,"daddy" will slot in porn and ask them to do to him what is being done in the porn scenes.....