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Politics / Re: Akanu Ibiam's 109th Posthumous Birthday Is Today! by Confessng: 9:42am On Nov 29, 2015
Igbo kwenu!

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Celebrities / Re: Timaya Celebrates His 38th Birthday Today! by Confessng: 9:35am On Nov 29, 2015
Happy Birthday Timaya
One of Nigeria's most talented/gifted but











Most Arrogant Artist
Last Bullet
Don't quote me ! Am talking from experience

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Agriculture / Re: Pualtry Farm Trainers Should Alert Me by Confessng: 6:06am On Nov 29, 2015
Most if not all hatcheries have a vaccination plan for the birds such that as you are buying they hand it over to you , it's a chart that contains the days for drugs and vaccines to be administered per time and it sometimes varies from hatchery to hatchery be sure to ask for it when you purchase your birds from whoever
Crime / Re: Even Oby Ezekwesili’s Sons Know I Am Not A Rapist, Mustapha Audu Tells His Story by Confessng: 3:11pm On Nov 28, 2015
Well for one we all should be less quick to judge am glad I saw this from the beginning for what it was a political trump card to hurt the Audu family and for a blogger to claim 3seconds of fame

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Education / Re: Hm by Confessng: 10:19am On Nov 28, 2015
elijah2u:
Nairalanders with #endtimetrend. Well, the lecturer is not good sha
it will pass,there were the garri days and so many others

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Education / Re: Hm by Confessng: 10:17am On Nov 28, 2015
For so many of his students to fail it shows he is a bad lecturer who doesn't know how to impart knowledge.
Nigerian lecturers with their playing God in people's lives because of the craze for sabuke(certificate)

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Romance / Re: Girl Finds Out Disgusting Job Boyfriend Does For A Living After She Got Pregnant by Confessng: 9:42am On Nov 28, 2015
Have the baby give him/her up for adoption

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Celebrities / Re: Tuface Idibia Reveals His Five Secrets Of Success - Must Read by Confessng: 8:36am On Nov 28, 2015
MKO4ever:

He equally knows how to bless the women too grin
he has reined it in ,he was young at that time
Fame ,money and being young are a bad combo for an unprepared youth.
If you were in his shoes you'd probably do worse asides the person whose moniker you bear was a Baba in that field ...

Woo let he he has no sin cast the first stone jare

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Phones / Re: App That Lets You See The Cell Towers, Wifi Signals And Satellites Around You by Confessng: 8:30am On Nov 28, 2015
Quite innovative, unfortunately more people are interested in the visible and may not be interested in this app
Celebrities / Re: Pictured: Fuji Maestro KWAM1 Steps Out With His Ex-wife & Daughter by Confessng: 8:27am On Nov 28, 2015
Musicians always get beautiful women sha
Celebrities / Re: Tuface Idibia Reveals His Five Secrets Of Success - Must Read by Confessng: 8:22am On Nov 28, 2015
Tuface is a wise man and yes he does have a deep respect for people

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Romance / Re: Email Exchange Between Sugabelly And Mustapha Audu by Confessng: 8:10pm On Nov 27, 2015
Woooow and the 5 seconds of fame all gone down the drain,i wonder how much she was paid to try to run him down

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Celebrities / Re: 7 Single Nigerian Female Celebrities Over 40 by Confessng: 7:07pm On Nov 27, 2015
Marriage is not the ultimate,the wrong man or woman will destroy even the greatest person.
Modified
Some people are quoting me saying stuff, saying marriage isn't the ultimate isn't saying marriage is bad

What am simply saying is the greatest decision a person can make is in the choice of a partner and if you haven't found the right person you are better off single ,does this mean Mr right must be Mr Perfect ? No
Many of us have seen two people come together and their world changes for good or 2 people come together and one person starts to go down.....
Can you imagine what could have happened to Bill Gates if he married the wrong woman ? He won't be Bill Gates or if Oprah Winfrey was with the wrong Partner....

The deep will understand what I have said and haven't said as for the shallow ,am sorry my words are not directed at you

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Celebrities / Re: Nollywood Actor,alexx Ekubo Hangs Out With Kanu Nwankwo’s Wife In London by Confessng: 5:54pm On Nov 27, 2015
Unless they are related ,me i dont like the way she put her head on his own ooh ,
Papillo where are you ooh
Did you give permission for this ?
Crime / Re: Sugabelly's Response To Those Calling Her Names And Saying It Was Consensual by Confessng: 5:52pm On Nov 27, 2015
From this its difficult no to think in a way it was consensual .
Some girls submit to such treatment because of their low self esteem,does it make it right absolutely not
Crime / Re: Sugabelly Speaks Out: 'Surviving Mustapha Audu & His Rape Brigade' by Confessng: 5:48pm On Nov 27, 2015
NO Comment
Career / Re: My Worst Day On Earth And Some Thoughts On Suicide. by Confessng: 5:41pm On Nov 27, 2015
gbam gbam gbam you have hit the nail on the head.

milychocs:



I am a Christian
...but honestly do you know why we are not spiritual in these parts, but only very religious and fanatical?
Because we have imported religions, stripped of their souls as they trickle down to us
It is extremely difficult to be spiritual when our religions are alien.....

If we were practicing our real traditional religions, our spirituality would be off the hook....and the tragic thing is that we may have missed out on having our real link with God forever with the religions we practice like zombies.....in Igbo land, the kolanut and palm wine are ways to communicate with God, and the philosophy of live and let live is very deep...but we have thrown them away, some people even reject palm wine during their weddings because it is "ungodly" shocked....kola nuts belong in museums now, and etc....very very tragic
The way the Asians are with their religions
...but Africans?

No no no
cry
My point is that we have lost the chart to true spirituality in Africa with our almost total uptake of foreign religiosity, and this is truly tragic
No one (read, the world) would respect a people who do not even have their own philosophies and religions, or ever take them seriously
True story

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Celebrities / Re: See What Don Jazzy Calls His Little Airport (screenshot) by Confessng: 4:55pm On Nov 27, 2015
Nice one !
Being hardworking isnt a function of being a graduate or not as you know Don Jazzy isnt a graduate ,But as you can see his work is his life ,his passion ,he breathes his work .
Passion about what you do is what defines how successful you are or will be at it .

That said please visit @ my signature

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Romance / Re: An Adult In A Teenager's Body. Way To Go? by Confessng: 4:48pm On Nov 27, 2015
Lets just say i choose my battles .

I do not necessarily react to every thing

like you i am on the small side but when people talk me down i ask myself first is it worth proving anything to such a person .

Like the case of the policeman,i'll just calmly,firmly and politely say Sir ,The lady sitted there is my wife to be and i wont permit your disrespecting her.

What am simply trying to say is get over the fact that you are small and so people disrespect you,disrespectful people disrespect people
whether small or big they simply haven't been brought up well ,the question to ask yourself is ,

Should i come down to your level to prove to you am not small?

Are you worth my time ? Do you deserve an explanation ?
If you cant answer no to all these concerning that person ,then be polite firm and keep it moving

The people who look up to me know me ,they know my worth ,they know who i am ,that is why they are with me ,i need not prove anything to them beyond continuing to be myself

mayim:

Tnx for d smart comment, however does that mean you just say and do nothing when someone puts u down? Especially in front of ppl that look up to u and respect you?

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Career / Re: My Worst Day On Earth And Some Thoughts On Suicide. by Confessng: 4:38pm On Nov 27, 2015
Unfortunately so
dearpreye:


That's the sad tale, dear.

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Romance / Re: An Adult In A Teenager's Body. Way To Go? by Confessng: 10:31am On Nov 27, 2015
When you stop trying to prove to the world that you are not a small boy then you will truly be regarded as a man
What others think don't matter , you are you , can you change it no!
Do you have to prove you aren't a small boy no!
Steve Hawking is one of the most intelligent people the world ever produced

Can he talk ? No!
Can he walk ? No!
Does that limit his intelligence ?
Absolutely not
Career / Re: My Worst Day On Earth And Some Thoughts On Suicide. by Confessng: 10:28am On Nov 27, 2015
The issue is people who think of suicide don't want to think it, it just happens on them they just can't seem to think of anything else
Etizz:
Make I beg u well well....


No matter how frustrating u may be,.....

The last thing u should not think of is suicide......

Thank you......

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Career / Re: My Worst Day On Earth And Some Thoughts On Suicide. by Confessng: 10:27am On Nov 27, 2015
Well said !
It is unfortunate that we live in a society with more religion less spirituality more churches less live ,more mosques less love
Yv
dearpreye:
I'm sharing this message due to a thread I read last night where it was reported a Nigerian higher Institution student committed suicide after being allegedly told to repeat a year by the school authorities. As the manner is with most Nigerians, the victim was lampooned and mocked by most commenters on the thread, even when they didn't travel in the victim's shoes. Only a few could even type the now-redundant RIP. I pray his soul rest in peace.

I've got a somewhat similar experience though I didn't go the extra mile the Nigerian student went. I was withdrawn from my normal shift duty to cover a new project that will require my being on permanent duty for over 3 weeks. I was mandated to draw the HSE plan for the project, conduct safety talks at appropriate intervals and give situation report to my department on a daily basis. On this terrible day, I had gone to the job site even before the contractors had shown up. It was a Tuesday- a black one for that matter.

When I arrived the site and saw no workers around, I elected to seat with some other workers in a stormshleter- a little building operators seek little comfort whenever there are running the plant. While waiting for my colleagues to show up at the job site, some talks started. It was around money, the Rat Race, Women, etc.....but financial management or the lack of it, was the MAIN ISSUE. After listening for some time my consent was sought on the matter. Believe me, I spoke passionately. An I spoke for over 10 minutes, narrating my financial struggle from the day I was employed to the present day, and my beliefs about financial discipline, the role of women in our lives, etc.

I had this Motorola radio in my hand. It's a means of communication within the department. A lot of top guys are also linked to it. Some managers, senior colleagues, junior ones, even casual workers by proxy are tuned into this departmental channel. Now the radio on me was kinda a little defective and I've improvised on it by tapering it with a tiny binding wire. Somehow the wired rested on the SPEAK knob, and all along, while I thought I was having a discreet convo with some persons, ALL my communications were heard by EVERYONE who was on the HSE channel. Some of the details I had revealed were regrettable mistakes I wouldnt want anyone beyond that group to hear. So far as the binding wire depressed the speak knob, and I didn't know, I was on channel air- interrupting every other call in the channel, in an emergency channel. I didn't know. I later realised mobile calls were made by my superiors to my mobile phone but I hadn't seen them as the phone was on SILENT mode, hidden away in my coverall. All attempts to have me stop was of no effect.

All this while the contractors had not arrived for work. I've found another work. LOL! Firemen and other HSE professionals were dispatched to physically stop my programme. SMH. I knew there was some troubles when I saw a team of firemen running towards me in a manner similar to their response to a fire emergency. I looked around and didn't spot any fire in the operational area. One of them was even laughing. They motioned for my radio and removed the binding wire, stopping my programme. SMH. When they told me what happened, I almost dropped dead. My blood pressure rose; my heart tripled it's rate, my feet quaked, my mood dropped and I wished the Earth would open up and had me swallowed.

My God! What have I done to myself? I've shared on radio issues I'll consider too personal. The shame. The embarrassment. Will my colleagues even stop mocking me? Why? I wished I hadn't come to work that day. I had never felt such pressure. The pressure almost choked me. How do I go to face my colleagues? My superiors? God. How do I erase these details from the minds of my colleagues? How do I go back to the control room? No one could describe the pressure I felt.

When the pressure became too much, I had to distract myself and play some Enya music like Caribbean blue,Orinoco Flow, etc, to relax me. The more I tried,the more my mind wondered back to the issue. Immediately, I felt what most suicide victims felt before committing suicide. Once in my lifetime, I had found myself in their shoes and it wasn't palatable in the least.

Ours is a society that has failed to try to understand depression and people. We suddenly become experts at advice whenever people commit acts that we feel were improper. We don't mind abusing and denigrating them even when we've not understood their struggles, depression,anxiety and deep worries. We simply condemn; we simply attack.

If I had done the worst, the extreme, God forbid, the same attacks would have landed on me. SMH. Now, I'm NOT in any way supporting or encouraging suicide; I'm simply saying we should endeavour to show sympathy and empathy to people whenever they can't seem to handle the pressures of life and quit.

Whatever you're passing through at the moment, don't give up. There's still hope and life ahead. There's still light at the end of the tunnel. When pressures seem too tough, seek a true friend and confide in, OR seek some other means of relieving the pressure. It could be some serene sort of music. Don't just give up. Suicide is a temporal solution to a permanent problem. Think about your loved ones and the pains and gloom they'll experience.

Man that's born of a woman is of few days and full of trouble. Job 14.1. But with determination and patience,all worries and sadness will give way to peace, serenity and joy. And when you observe a person to be in deep depression, don't judge them.Simply help them. A word could save a soul. Call and encourage that friend passing through unemployment, marital crisis, temporal barrenness, admission delay, etc. Give someone a hug. Send an email. A text message could also suffice.

God bless you all. And have a great day.

Lalasticlala, good morning. Please, let's share; it could save a soul.

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Health / Re: Every Person Has Cancer Cells In The Body by Confessng: 10:17am On Nov 27, 2015
This is true it's is when the body cannot fight them they become issues.
When we include more spices in our diet they can do wonders

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Career / Re: Farewell To KPMG (My Final Temp Experience) by Confessng: 10:15am On Nov 27, 2015
You should write a book , you've got the gift of garb(writing in this case)
Politics / Re: Photo: Lagos State Government Gives N5M To Man Who Lost 4 Kids In Mudslide by Confessng: 10:07am On Nov 27, 2015
The govt tried but Mehn 3 kids at the age they died?at the same time only the Most High can truly compensate him
Religion / Re: Learn How To Explore The Power Of Your Subconscious by Confessng: 10:00am On Nov 27, 2015
Well start by telling us who you are, what form of spirituality you practice and in what way you intend to achieve this
Romance / Re: My Unborn Daughter's Marriage List by Confessng: 9:57am On Nov 27, 2015
Philtim:
dats y boys only will not come...atleast two girls will settle it...nd for d boys i will jst be lenient wif their brides
it's people like you that keep looking for girls and end up with 7 boys tongue
Romance / Re: My Unborn Daughter's Marriage List by Confessng: 8:57am On Nov 27, 2015
Hehehehe I think you really have done well with this list.....
But what if you are blessed with only boys ? Will you offer same to their brides ?
Crime / Re: Herbalist Kidnaps Girls In Calabar, Turns Them To Sex Slaves (pictured) by Confessng: 7:08am On Nov 27, 2015
Hmmmm may these world be healed of wickedness and evil

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Celebrities / Re: Uche Jombo And Hubby Cuddle Up In New Photos by Confessng: 6:50am On Nov 27, 2015
Ermmm does he use eyebrow liner ? Just asking
Agriculture / Re: Pualtry Farm Trainers Should Alert Me by Confessng: 6:49am On Nov 27, 2015
The easiest and cheapest way to learn with poultry is to start small and fail forward,follow your vaccination charts.
Observe the birds and their poo
Avoid pouring water on the liter and if it so happens pack it immediately

Do a test run with 50 birds preferably cockrels(cos they are really cheap and will be even cheaper now cos those buying for christmas rush are done buying)

Use them as your learning curve expect nothing but give everything....
If you have any questions you can ask moi

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