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PoliticsProvide 100,000 Thugs and I'll Transform them to Nation Builders by constancefriday(op):
Provide 100,000 Thugs and I'll transform them to Nation Builders

An Exclusive Article about pseudo Democracy in Nigeria and how it points us to an even bleaker future if it's not arrested now!

News - Apostle Constance C. Friday asks Governors of the 36 States of Nigeria including the Federal Capital Territory, Abuja to provide 100,000 Thugs each and he'll transform them into Nation Builders!

He said this and more in this article . Scroll down to read it yourself.

There are a thousand things we can point at to say are the problems of politics in African Countries, such as Ghana, Nigeria, etc
  Some Folks say it's the aftermath of colonial rule or neocolonial influence, but any nation can be the best on earth if the right things are done.
  In the book From Third world country to first world country; the author tried to let us know that what transforms a country are the establishment of strong systems and strong institutions that keep individuals in check.

Late Ghanian ex President, General Jerry Rawlings once said that if strong systems are built; even if the Devil becomes President, such systems will keep him in check.
   In a situation where the system is weak, even a Saint will get corrupted by the amount of laxity. Who wouldn't lose it when he or she can do whatever and no one can confront him or her about the matter.
  In countries like South Africa where the system is quite as strong as it should be, We'll have all political Jacob Zumas refrigerate in jail for touching funds they shouldn't use for personal luxuries and gratifications.
  Why don't we have that kind of system here and yet in Nigeria, and many more African countries?
  Some African countries are beginning to revert to Military rulership because the level of corruption availed to democratic leadership is enough to drive the likes of Pythagoras, Socrates, Sophocles etc "Crazy!"

Here are some of the problems with African politics that we need to address to improve and fast track the development of Africa.

1. Too much privileges and benefits of being a Politician:
   Let me start with my own career as an example. I'm a Teacher, and in the year 2023 by God's Grace i'll be celebrating 20 years of being a Teacher.
  I'm still a Teacher, I will continue to teach till my last breathe because it's what I'm naturally called or wired to do. No matter the pay package, large or small, quitting isn't an option because teaching is what I love to do.
  The same case should come to play in Politics.
  I know a lot of my colleagues who've dropped the chalk and diverted to other careers because teaching wasn't just their thing!
  I've come to several stops in my career when dropping the chalk was what I'd have done if I didn't have a passion for the work.
(That doesn't mean that if you wish to employ me and would gladly not pay me, I would lie down and allow you use me as your bureaucratic door mat, nah...I won't do that. Thanks).

We need to have Politicians who want to be in politics for the love of it, not for the money.

If teaching was an occupation that was over rewarded or over funded, lots of thugs, rapscallions and psychopaths will pick up chalks and teach our children "utter garbage"
Just as politics in Africa is full of thugs, rapscallions and psychopaths!

2. Immunity or no punishment of lawless actions:  In criminology or criminal psychology it is said that a criminal or offender that does receive a QUALITATIVE CLAPBACK for a crime he or she commits becomes bolder and commits more crimes that are worse than the previous ones they've commited.
  In American Serial Killer trials, investigations and arrests, you'll notice that the more the serial killer got away with one murder, the worse the next murder he/she commits becomes.
  Why? Because not getting a quality and I repeat "quality clapback" makes a criminal become more bold and more confident with their crime.
  That's why God gives us his Sons sufficient strokes of the cane each time we try disobedience for once. That's why when politicians or political rulers loot and plunder their own people dry and absolutely nothing happens it not only encourages them to plunder more next time, the effect is spiral. It is a way of telling young people that the only way to be successful is to steal. That's why internet fraud appeals to African youths, that's why ritual murder now appeals to African youths, Kidnapping, all kinds of vices that even destroy the bright future of those who engage in them become appealing and attractive because older folks do the same and absolutely nothing happens.
  If Youths live in a Country where Jacob Zumas are sent to refrigerate in jail for stealing public funds, they'll learn from what happened to Jacob Zuma that stealing isn't the right way to a bright future.
  That way we can have less pension funds that should reward hardworking senior citizens who have served the nation since their youth vanish into an individual account, or get swallowed by a snake or that third example my beloved African brothers and sisters hate to hear.
   I remember the story of a boy who got excited at the sight of a brand new sharp cutlass his father bought. He took the cutlass and went about beheading every animal he saw.
His parents did absolutely nothing, hoping that he'll get tired of beheading every animal he set sight upon. However the more he beheaded each animal, the more excited he became until all animals in the village lost their heads. When he noticed that there were no more animal to behead, he turned to the Humans and started beheading them, starting with his parents first!
  So the solution lies in having that Child flogged properly when he beheads the first animal before he sees beheading humans as an appealing hobby!
I hope you understand and don't misunderstand that.

3. Political monopoly:
It is unhealthy for a forest to have only two trees. If a forest only has two trees, is it still fit to be called a forest?
It's better to call it a two trees taungya farm instead of a forest.
What's the use of having multiple political parties when only two or three political parties really has the clout. In fact one of the three political parties has a chicken as it's logo. Okay, it's not a chicken, it's a Rooster aka "Cock"

Guys, ensure that no one adds "Roach" to our Cock! Lols

4. Youth incapacitation for nefarious utility:
He should've become a civil engineer, but he's a weed bibing thug for a corrupr politician, she should be a Pharmacy professor like Late Professor Dora Akunyili, but she's the side chick of a political parasite. Plus plenty more and more who are pink eyed ballot box snatching miscreants instead of nation builders in their various business places and careers! One Guy cannot build a nation. It would take a million more of youths who'd become like him to change, transform and develop Africa. He can't do it alone.

So on this note I wish to start by respectfully making a request to all Governors in Nigeria to do me a favour:

" Provide 100,000 Thugs from each state in Nigeria (male and female) including the Capital Territory and I will transform them into Nation Builders."

By the Grace of God.


5. Square pegs in round holes, round pegs in square holes:
A Medical Doctor should be an expert in Health matters not Labour issues, in as much as I like Ex. US President; Donald J. Trump for his sound business and wealth creation advises and suggestions, I think he didn't do one thing right by making Ben Carson M.D Minister of Labour instead of Minister of Health.
Sacking Comey, may also have been a fatal error but those who sit in the hot seat of First City Monument Bank need our prayers.

6. Stomach politics:
This time, I will have to turn from the leaders to You the readers of this article. Your Future is more important than a bag of rice.
If let a psychopath enter into the government house because he threw nyloned rice at you like a hungry dog during their political campaigns, your complaining and suffering will continue.
I you don't want that, try the alternative. Na right hand I dey use dey point.

7. Mass Nihilism/Cynicism:
You can't effect the outcomes of an election by either sitting at home watching tv on the election day or playing felele ball on the empty express way.
What do they call that type of ball playing by the way?
You can't change your country by playing felele ball on the empty expressway on election day.
Go and vote, then play the felele ball after the right leaders are in the right offices in your country and in your states.

8. Spiritual Drainage:
Last but not the least, let us ensure that we pray for our countries.
In Nigeria, I'm recommending that a Gospel Deliverance Festival be held in National Theatre to reverse the demonic spell released into the nation during FESTAC 77 in the same location.

Just as Jesus appeared to a Woman first freshly after his resurrection. The Woman had the first sip of God's fresh palm wine before all the Men who just saw him 7-10 days after yet keep shouting "Shut Up and tie a scarf and Sit down" even saw him.
Thomas "a doubtful man" touched him yet he still blessed the one he first showed himself to. If it were a Man that first saw Jesus, what would have happened?

Let's stop killing our Kudirat Abiolas and taking our Dora Akunyilis for granted.

That may be the hidden secret why the west seems to be miles ahead of us in terms of development. A few years ago, they were going through exactly what we're going through right now.

Shooting ourselves in the leg while hoping to catch up. Does that work?

Stop the silencing our Women Folks.

Women are powerful. Nations that silence women become weak nations.

Stop giving her the cut throat sign.
She has some maleness inside her!

SportsRe: “life Is Just Unfair, I’m Tired Of Trying” – Asisat Oshoala (photo) by constancefriday(m): 12:57am On Feb 19, 2022
[quote author=Aonkuuse post=110339576][/quote]Our private tears behind the colorful scenes and off the camera. Don't let my fans see me like this. Stay strong my dear Sister. You got my support! Up Nigeria!

CrimeRe: Mentally-Challenged Man Jumps To His Death After Being Set Ablaze By Angry Mob by constancefriday(m): 11:17am On Feb 16, 2022
DonCrack:
Mentally-Challenged Man Jumps To His Death After Being Set Ablaze By Angry Mob In Ibadan (Graphic Photos)



https://hgsmediaplus.com/2022/02/16/mentally-challenged-man-jumps-to-his-death-after-being-set-ablaze-by-angry-mob/
Simply have the suspect apprehended and sent to the Police. Or his blood will be on the hands of all who contributed to his death. We are civilized people not savages!
Nairaland GeneralNNPC'S Methanol Claims Most Likely Untrue by constancefriday(op): 11:10am On Feb 16, 2022
News - NNPC'S claims about bad fuel that contains methanol most likely false. The fuel scarcity currently ongoing is a deliberate attempt to oppress Nigerians and increase the fuel pump price.


"I think NNPC is lying to Nigerians about the real cause of the fuel scarcity that's currently ongoing. I'm above 50% certain that the present ongoing fuel scarcity is very deliberate.

NNPC repent for the Kingdom of God is near.

Are there ways to bridge the naira dollar gap without punishing everyone at home?
CelebritiesRe: When Life gets tough, don't assume this by constancefriday(op):
Whenever life gets hard, never assume or think that God is dealing with you squarely for a past sin or mistake.
Sometimes life gets pretty hard for no particular reason.
The science of cause hunting for hardships and sufferings in life are unbiblical and don't reflect God's true nature of absolute love for his own.
Cheers!
Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Constance C. Friday.

You are no longer your past!
You're a new creature in
Christ Jesus!

2 Corinthians 5:17
CelebritiesWhen Life gets tough, don't assume this by constancefriday(op):
Whenever life gets tough, don't assume or think that God is dealing with you squarely for a past sin or for your mistakes.
Sometimes life gets pretty hard for no particular reason.
The science of cause hunting for hardships and sufferings in life are quite unbiblical and don't reflect God's true nature of pure love for his own.
As it's written in Isaiah 43:1
It says
"Fear not, I have redeemed you. I have called you by my name, my Child"
In some translations or versions it says "you're mine"
Isaiah 43:1
Cheers!
Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Constance C. Friday.

You are no longer your past!
You're a new creature in
Christ Jesus!

2 Corinthians 5:17

CelebritiesTiwa Savage vs Oxlade: The Battle Of Sex Tapes by constancefriday(op): 2:14pm On Feb 10, 2022
Tiwa Savage vs Oxlade: the Battle of Sex Tapes
Yesterday, comments were all over the net about the leakage of yet another sex tape; the sex tape of Oxlade.

While sex tapes from my own opinion are meant to a private confidential information, you'll clearly notice that, Oxlade's sex tape didn't cause so much noise or ruckus like our sweet diva Tiwa's sex tape did.

This goes to show a lot of things.
First indeed;
The Nigerian society is very religious and prudish about sex matters yet still has a pretty high rate of sexually immoral activities going on in the dark.
If the hyper-religious or prudish behavior of most Nigerians don't balance up with the pretty high rate of sexual immorality what have we dealing with, especially us Pastors and Preachers?
Are we really casting demons out of People or are we just chilling in the comfort of the ac in our Church offices?
Let me lead by example on that one.

Next Tiwa is female while Oxlade is male. From my own point of view, speaking as a humanitarian, she has all the right to have sex with whomever she wishes (based on freewill) provided the cash is hers.

Feminism and Feminist Extremism are two totally different terms.

Finally; I think Tiwa is notorious while Oxlade is famous. Oxlade just kicked off his full time music career recently. and Oxlade is more of the cool and gentle type that doesn't allow fame or success make his head swell up!

You can see the clear difference between when you are popular, and when you're notorious.

By the way; Tiwa I wonder what you did to Sheyi Shey...that chick no like you at all. Lols.

Cheers!

That was just the secret showbiz expert side of me manifesting itself.

Back to my Church Pastor mode.

Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Constance C. Friday

Gospel Rap Album project in progress!
Nairaland GeneralRe: NNPC's lame explanations of the cause of current Fuel Scarcity! by constancefriday(op): 8:19am On Feb 10, 2022
constancefriday:
Who is fooling who?
is the question here.
Telling all Nigerians that "dirty petrol" that contains methanol is the cause of fuel scarcity sounds like utter jargon in the ears of a sensible person.
Wasn't there dirty petrol during Abacha's time all over the country?
1994 specifically?
Who let that dirty fuel in?
The same NNPC.

Guys this story is not good enough to fool everyone. Stop hoarding fuel for greedy gains...wet in concern methanol wey dey on his own inside Chemistry lab with fuel scarcity motivated by GREED?!
Nairaland GeneralNNPC's lame explanations of the cause of current Fuel Scarcity! by constancefriday(op):
Who is fooling who?
is the question here.
Telling all Nigerians that "dirty petrol" that contains methanol is the cause of fuel scarcity sounds like utter jargon in the ears of a sensible person.
Wasn't there dirty petrol during Abacha's time all over the country?
1994 specifically?
Who let that dirty fuel in?
The same NNPC.

Guys this Cock and Bull story is not good enough to fool everyone.
Stop hoarding fuel for greedy gains...wet in concern methanol wey dey on his own inside Chemistry lab with fuel scarcity motivated by GREED?!

CelebritiesRe: Romanus Amuta Is Dead! (Natty Of 'New Masquerade Fame' Dies At 79) by constancefriday(m): 7:47am On Feb 10, 2022
CelebritiesRe: Elon Musk, Kim Kardashian Endorse Kanye West's Presidential Ambition by constancefriday(m): 12:42pm On Feb 02, 2022
OLAADEGBU:
Kanye West Announces That He's Running For President On Twitter... And Elon Musk Says The Rapper Has His Vote
Kanye West announced his 2020 presidential bid in a tweet on Saturday
The rapper is entering the race just four months before the election
It is unclear if he has filed any official paperwork to get on the ballot, however the deadline to add independent candidates has not yet passed
West was immediately endorsed by Elon Musk who replied https://twitter.com/elonmusk/status/1279577069005897728?s=19 sparking rumors the Tesla founder could be his running mate
Wife Kim Kardashian showed her support for her husband by tweeting an American flag

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-8490847/Kanye-West-announces-hes-running-president-Elon-Musk-says-rapper-vote.html
I'll be the first American to vote for you!
CelebritiesRe: I'm not trying to endorse or promote "Rebellion" in The Churches by constancefriday(op): 12:01am On Feb 02, 2022
constancefriday:
News - "I'm not trying to promote or endorse rebellion in Churches across the Country or the World"
- says Apostle Constance C. Friday

In a special Bible Study earlier today, Apostle Constance C. Friday said "my primary focus is to train up strong and self reliant Children of God, who are responsible members of society and are not rebels against authorized leadership"

The authorization of a leader is the "anointing" any other thing that validates a Minister is secondary.
Remain loyal and faithful to God and continue to respect your General Overseers, Church Leaders etc

I don't endorse or promote rebellion of any sort in the Churches.

Thanks.

You can click here to watch the podcast.
Message Title/Topic:
God's Love ❤️ Series #1
Special Bible Study �
- https://www.facebook.com/realconstancefriday/videos/524352582158047/
CelebritiesI'm not trying to endorse or promote "Rebellion" in The Churches by constancefriday(op):
News - "I'm not trying to promote or endorse rebellion in Churches across the Country or the World"
- says Apostle Constance C. Friday

In a special Bible Study earlier today, Apostle Constance C. Friday said "my primary focus is to train up strong and self reliant Children of God, who are responsible members of society and are not rebels against authorized leadership"

The authorization of a leader is the "anointing" any other thing that validates a Minister is secondary.
Remain loyal and faithful to God and continue to respect your General Overseers, Church Leaders etc

I don't endorse or promote rebellion of any sort in the Churches.

Thanks.

You can click here to watch the podcast.
Message Title/Topic:
God's Love ❤️ Series #1
Special Bible Study �
- https://www.facebook.com/realconstancefriday/videos/524352582158047/

CelebritiesRe: Former TREMITE now A REAL LIFER by constancefriday(m): 1:18am On Jan 25, 2022
reallifegospel:
Former TREMITE now A REAL LIFER.
(The Ministerial Journey of Apostle Constance C. Friday):
In a pretty emotional farewell video, Apostle Constance C. Friday talks about his youthful days in TREM and how the religious institution contributed to his foundational progress as a Gospel Minister.

He let's go of his TREMITE identity and declares himself A REAL LIFER

CLICK here to watch:
(Former TREMITE, now a REAL LIFER)
-

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aTaFI6KcQbY
CrimeRe: Sylvester Oromoni's Death is A CRIMINAL CASE by constancefriday(op): 12:11am On Jan 25, 2022
constancefriday:
News - Apostle Constance C. Friday finally comments on Sylvester Oromoni's death and Dowen College's role in his death.

Circumstances surrounding Oromoni's death are criminal in nature. Dowen college played a major role in allowing Sylvester to get killed. Arrests should be made. Culprits should be detained. It could have been prevented by School authorities. Dowen College should be censored or shut if sensible explanations are not given by the school administration.
It's really sad he didn't survive what many Folks have survived in a Society that tolerates bullying and calls it a norm or sign of strength.
- Says Apostle Constance C. Friday.

I just want to take a few moments to talk about Bullying:

Here are a few facts about Bullying which you need to know.

1. It is wrong in every way but if society tolerates it, it thrives. Anything Society frowns at ceases to thrive over time.

2. Bullies are weak persons who thrive by being mean, scary or violent to a seemingly soft target.
Yes, take note of the term "Soft Target". This means a bully will avoid you if they know they won't get away with messing with you.
Looking soft and easy to take advantage of encourages a bully to try a pick on the soft target.

3. Keeping silent when you're being bullied encourages the bully to take the act of bullying one notch higher. Silence never makes a bully stop, it encourages a bully to increase the bullying antics.

4. Bullies deserve to be called out named and shamed. Naming and shaming is a very effective way to tame them.

5. Acts of bullying shouldn't be tolerated. They should be severely punished. If bullies get away with an act of bullying, it encourages them to go on and on.

Now onto the Oromoni case:
All the blame falls on the School Authorities for being very tolerant of bullying.
Being a private school, it's most likely the financial effects of dismissal of bullying students or pupils was more important than the safety and healthy social environment of the school.

I wonder why those involved are cool and calm while the students involved are flown abroad by their families while the Parents and family of the late Student are bearing the pain.
What do we have the Police for? it's a criminal case that should be thoroughly investigated.
The students involved should be arrested and detained!

Beating a person till death is not a light case that should be swept aside without criminal prosecution.

Oromoni's parents should bend the atmosphere even to ensure that justice is served so other potential bullies should take precautions.

And for such kind of cult to exist in a private school without any questions, the school's license should be revoked by the government.

This is not a joke.

We shouldn't take this issue lightly,especially if you're a Parent who sends Children to school regularly.

It's not "one of those things" like we too often say here in Nigeria.

The incidents that led to the death of Sylvester Oromoni are CRIMINAL IN NATURE
The Family should press charges, seek for Justice and prosecution of the culprits.

The Nigerian Police should take the matter up it's an SCID Case that has drawn national attention!

The School should be thoroughly scrutinized and the culprits detained!

In fact Jailed!

Bad Parenting is absolutely far from the issue here; the School administration clearly is involved in this and arrests and detentions should be made!
EventsRe: Apostle Constance C. Friday sends condolences to Victims of Stampede in Liberia by constancefriday(op): 12:02am On Jan 25, 2022
constancefriday:
News - Apostle Constance C. Friday sends condolences to victims of Crusade stampede in Liberia. Prays for them on live camera.

"The sad news of a stampede that left about 29 People dead and scores injured reached Stance Foundation's office last week immediately after an exclusive Bible Study.
According to news reports, the injured and dead were attending a crusade at a Stadium in Liberia when Thugs broke in and while trying to escape the Thugs throngs of People tried to rush out of the single entrance to the stadium like vomit through the mouth.
It was indeed sad, especially based on the fact that they gathered for a Gospel Event.
Apostle Constance C. Friday commended the President of Liberia; President George Weah for his caring gestures and recommends that all Presidents should act in a similar manner during events as such.
He went ahead to say some words of prayer for the victims of the tragedy.
Liberians in general and he sent some shout out to his Liberian Fans.
Yes I have a couple of fans from Liberia and I really love and appreciate them.
Watch the Facebook Video on this link for more
-https://m.facebook.com/realconstancefriday/videos/-a-pretty-sad-news-just-reached-us-here-in-our-administrative-office-from-liberi/755693898725176/

yours Sincerely;
Apostle Constance C. Friday
EventsApostle Constance C. Friday sends condolences to Victims of Stampede in Liberia by constancefriday(op): 11:56pm On Jan 24, 2022
News - Apostle Constance C. Friday sends condolences to victims of Crusade stampede in Liberia. Prays for them on live camera.

"The sad news of a stampede that left about 29 People dead and scores injured reached Stance Foundation's office last week immediately after an exclusive Bible Study.
According to news reports, the injured and dead were attending a crusade at a Stadium in Liberia when Thugs broke in and while trying to escape the Thugs throngs of People tried to rush out of the single entrance to the stadium like vomit through the mouth.
It was indeed sad, especially based on the fact that they gathered for a Gospel Event.
Apostle Constance C. Friday commended the President of Liberia; President George Weah for his caring gestures and recommends that all Presidents should act in a similar manner during events as such.
He went ahead to say some words of prayer for the victims of the tragedy.
Liberians in general and he sent some shout out to his Liberian Fans.
Yes I have a couple of fans from Liberia and I really love and appreciate them.
Watch the Facebook Video on this link for more
-https://m.facebook.com/realconstancefriday/videos/-a-pretty-sad-news-just-reached-us-here-in-our-administrative-office-from-liberi/755693898725176/

yours Sincerely;
Apostle Constance C. Friday

RomanceRe: 95% of Heartbreaks, Break ups, Relationship issues are caused by this by constancefriday(op): 12:50am On Jan 24, 2022
constancefriday:
95% of Relationship Issues and Break Ups are caused by this:

The cause of the high rate of break ups, heart breaks, quarrels, divorce and in worst case scenarios crimes of passion is simply "The Mindset" of the persons involved in the love relationship.
So many factors combine together to produce mental and psychological strongholds that subconsciously cause these issues.
  They include: Culture, Religion, Gender Definitions and Intercultural barriers.

  For example when someone says my name is "Sadiq" and I come from North Africa, the first thought to hit the mind of 95% of non North Africans is that all North Africans are Muslims.
  That's a typical example of a Mental Stronghold caused by the Cultural barrier built by People who aren't North Africans but I have a long list of Arabs, Egyptians and North Africans who are actually real, authentic and genuine Christians.

Another thing is the ego-centric bias caused by the Cultural beliefs of where you come from.
For example: In my Culture when a Man let's a Woman drive, his fellow Men tend to perceive him as weak, a passive mail, a Man who still has his Mother's milk in his mouth and all that stuff that can drive you wild but speaking from a very crystal clear point of view; if a Woman can drive, very well by the way, let her drive (simple maths) ,it doesn't take a drop of dna away from your masculine bones to let her drive.

  I've seen women who can drive better than men but their husbands could feel like their testicles will vanish if they let them drive.

The issue of cheating is another one, Men tend to always feel a whole lot like Women dare not cheat on them, while they do just what they wish with as many Females as they can. Let me shock you a little with some scientific facts;

  Do you know that women produce "testosterone" too?

  Yes, amidst all the progesterone, oestrogen and feminine secretions, testosterone from her Dad's dna is there, so sometimes, the maleness appears in her behavior.
  
From my own point of view, if a Woman cheats on you but still respects you completely without a jot of respect missing, don't break up with her.
   The only time the handwriting is on the wall is when she cheats on you and starts to disrespect you.
(Point of no return my brother, she's gone, accept the loss) if you were proactive enough with how you loved her and treated her maybe it wouldn't have happened.

Being too insecure, paranoid, distrustful and suspicious is a pretty big turn off for a lot of guys. (and some girls).

  I remember one of my homies who came crying to my counseling desk.
He told me how his half-cast gf kept accusing him of cheating everyday he went to work and came back (he wasn't cheating at all) only for him to later discover that not only was she cheating, she was doing it like he didn't exist. He left the new apartment he rented for them both and traveled to a far away location to eventually resettle with a lovely and beautiful Indian Chick who has gladly left India to settle with her Male African Wife (According to Indian Culture).

  Men cheat with their penis but love with their heart. A wise Woman won't sack him just because he went to use a restroom outside the house.

The remaining 5% are caused by unforseen circumstances.
Maybe God doesn't want Jacob and Leah to be together, or this and that...

But I can categorically assure you that if the 95% is taken care of, the 5% won't cause you too much pain.

Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Constance C. Friday

(Part Time Relationship Expert)


Disclaimer: "My realist view about cheating and infedelity in love relationships is not an endorsement of infidelity.
Staying faithful and loyal to your spouse or lover reduces the chances of a break up by a little percentage % "

Remain Blessed!
  
A bad mindset is a cap that makes you look silly, remove it and throw it away!
Romance95% of Heartbreaks, Break ups, Relationship issues are caused by this by constancefriday(op): 12:45am On Jan 24, 2022
95% of Relationship Issues and Break Ups are caused by this:

The cause of the high rate of break ups, heart breaks, quarrels, divorce and in worst case scenarios crimes of passion is simply "The Mindset" of the persons involved in the love relationship.
So many factors combine together to produce mental and psychological strongholds that subconsciously cause these issues.
  They include: Culture, Religion, Gender Definitions and Intercultural barriers.

  For example when someone says my name is "Sadiq" and I come from North Africa, the first thought to hit the mind of 95% of non North Africans is that all North Africans are Muslims.
  That's a typical example of a Mental Stronghold caused by the Cultural barrier built by People who aren't North Africans but I have a long list of Arabs, Egyptians and North Africans who are actually real, authentic and genuine Christians.

Another thing is the ego-centric bias caused by the Cultural beliefs of where you come from.
For example: In my Culture when a Man let's a Woman drive, his fellow Men tend to perceive him as weak, a passive mail, a Man who still has his Mother's milk in his mouth and all that stuff that can drive you wild but speaking from a very crystal clear point of view; if a Woman can drive, very well by the way, let her drive (simple maths) ,it doesn't take a drop of dna away from your masculine bones to let her drive.

  I've seen women who can drive better than men but their husbands could feel like their testicles will vanish if they let them drive.

The issue of cheating is another one, Men tend to always feel a whole lot like Women dare not cheat on them, while they do just what they wish with as many Females as they can. Let me shock you a little with some scientific facts;

  Do you know that women produce "testosterone" too?

  Yes, amidst all the progesterone, oestrogen and feminine secretions, testosterone from her Dad's dna is there, so sometimes, the maleness appears in her behavior.
  
From my own point of view, if a Woman cheats on you but still respects you completely without a jot of respect missing, don't break up with her.
   The only time the handwriting is on the wall is when she cheats on you and starts to disrespect you.
(Point of no return my brother, she's gone, accept the loss) if you were proactive enough with how you loved her and treated her maybe it wouldn't have happened.

Being too insecure, paranoid, distrustful and suspicious is a pretty big turn off for a lot of guys. (and some girls).

  I remember one of my homies who came crying to my counseling desk.
He told me how his half-cast gf kept accusing him of cheating everyday he went to work and came back (he wasn't cheating at all) only for him to later discover that not only was she cheating, she was doing it like he didn't exist. He left the new apartment he rented for them both and traveled to a far away location to eventually resettle with a lovely and beautiful Indian Chick who has gladly left India to settle with her Male African Wife (According to Indian Culture).

  Men cheat with their penis but love with their heart. A wise Woman won't sack him just because he went to use a restroom outside the house.

The remaining 5% are caused by unforseen circumstances.
Maybe God doesn't want Jacob and Leah to be together, or this and that...

But I can categorically assure you that if the 95% is taken care of, the 5% won't cause you too much pain.

Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Constance C. Friday

(Part Time Relationship Expert)


For Professional Counseling on Relationship matters call/chat/WhatsApp
+2348133848834
Your Issues will be kept confidential.

Disclaimer: "My realist views/opinions about cheating and infedelity in love relationships is not an endorsement of infidelity.
Staying faithful and loyal to your spouse or lover reduces the chances of a break up by a little percentage % "

Remain Blessed!
  
A bad mindset is a cap that makes you look silly, remove it and throw it away!

CelebritiesRe: Apostle Constance C. Friday has let go of his TREMITE Identity by constancefriday(op): 7:46pm On Jan 23, 2022
constancefriday:
News - Apostle Constance C. Friday let's go of his TREMITE identity.
"I'm now a REAL LIFER"
- He Says


Being a TREMITE was fun. Now I've become a REAL-LIFER, Children grow up, leave their parents house and become established Men and Women.

TREM was indeed one big and happy family as they claimed to be, they treated me like a Son and a brother. I felt indeed at home. I've lived in Bishop Mike Okonkwo's house in Enugu, wined and dined with his Family, and made friends with the Children of some of the biggest names in TREM such as Bishop Walter Mbamara's Son, Rev. Sam Chika (who is my personal friend), Sister Amarachi his Daughter etc plus many more big names in TREM, whom i indeed have a lot of genuine love for, and i will always do.

Now I have started a new family called
"The Real Life Gospel Family"
I.e Real Life Gospel Church.


Everyone is welcome to be a part of the Rich, Powerful, Impactful and Influential
Real Life Gospel Family!

We will be opening a terrestrial worship centre pretty soon.

Many thanks for your support.
God Bless you.

I will always have good memories of my days in TREM. And all the friends I made while I was in TREM remain my friends for life.

www.TREM.org is their website.

Note: TREM was the Church where yours sincerely Apostle Constance C. Friday was first ordained a Gospel Minister or Pastor.

Continue to be loyal to Big Daddy and Big Mummy (he says to all branch and regional pastors, plus TREM members as he checks out).

He also talks about this in a Sunday Facebook Video ministration posted earlier today.
Click here to watch
-https://www.facebook.com/realconstancefriday/videos/508544187247760/?sfnsn=scwspmo

A Big "Thanks" is all I have to say!
CelebritiesApostle Constance C. Friday has let go of his TREMITE Identity by constancefriday(op):
News - Apostle Constance C. Friday lets go of his TREMITE identity.
"I'm now a REAL LIFER"
- He Says


Being a TREMITE was fun. Now I've become a REAL-LIFER, Children grow up, leave their parents house and become established Men and Women.

TREM was indeed one big and happy family as they claimed to be, they treated me like a Son and a brother. I felt indeed at home. I've lived in Bishop Mike Okonkwo's house in Enugu, wined and dined with his Family, and made friends with the Children of some of the biggest names in TREM such as Bishop Walter Mbamara's Son, Rev. Sam Chika (who is my personal friend), Sister Amarachi his Daughter etc plus many more big names in TREM, whom i indeed have a lot of genuine love for, and i will always do.

Now I have started a new family called
"The Real Life Gospel Family"
I.e Real Life Gospel Church.


Everyone is welcome to be a part of the Rich, Powerful, Impactful and Influential
Real Life Gospel Family!

We will be opening a terrestrial worship centre pretty soon.

Many thanks for your support.
God Bless you.

I will always have good memories of my days in TREM. And all the friends I made while I was in TREM remain my friends for life.

www.TREM.org is their website.

Note: TREM was the Church where yours sincerely Apostle Constance C. Friday was first ordained a Gospel Minister or Pastor.

Continue to be loyal to Big Daddy and Big Mummy (he says to all branch and regional pastors, plus TREM members as he checks out).

He also talks about this in a Sunday Facebook Video ministration posted earlier today.
Click here to watch
-https://www.facebook.com/realconstancefriday/videos/508544187247760/?sfnsn=scwspmo

A Big "Thanks" is all I have to say!

CelebritiesRe: I'm here to Serve You by constancefriday(op): 5:04pm On Jan 23, 2022
constancefriday:
News - If I have to kneel down or lie down to Preach the Gospel to you and win you to Jesus Christ i'll gladly do it.
- says Apostle Constance C. Friday

Ministry work is not a party of pleasures or worldly/carnal expressions, Gospel Ministry work is a life of SACRIFICE and servitude.

Many Worldly Folks tend to pay so much attention or emphasis to the worldly or carnal aspect of it.

Which and which Pastor or Ministry has cash to throw around? Who has the largest terrestrial gathering per week? Who has the largest church buildings? etc so much to the extent of forgetting God totally.

This has gone ahead to encourage more fakes to join the bandwagon and give the good ointment a bad smell.

Let it stick to your long term memory; We are servants not idols you should worship. If you celebrate us, fine no problem but we hand it all over to our Chief CEO... Jehovah (God Almighty).

Who will then reward us according to our works.

These and more he said during a Sunday Facebook video:
- click here to watch
https://www.facebook.com/realconstancefriday/videos/508544187247760/?sfnsn=scwspmo
CelebritiesI'm here to Serve You by constancefriday(op): 4:55pm On Jan 23, 2022
News - If I have to kneel down or lie down to Preach the Gospel to you and win you to Jesus Christ i'll gladly do it.
- says Apostle Constance C. Friday

Ministry work is not a party of pleasures or worldly/carnal expressions, Gospel Ministry work is a life of SACRIFICE and servitude.

Many Worldly Folks tend to pay so much attention or emphasis to the worldly or carnal aspect of it.

Which and which Pastor or Ministry has cash to throw around? Who has the largest terrestrial gathering per week? Who has the largest church buildings? etc so much to the extent of forgetting God totally.

This has gone ahead to encourage more fakes to join the bandwagon and give the good ointment a bad smell.

Let it stick to your long term memory; We are servants not idols you should worship. If you celebrate us, fine no problem but we hand it all over to our Chief CEO... Jehovah (God Almighty).

Who will then reward us according to our works.

These and more he said during a Sunday Facebook video:
- click here to watch
https://www.facebook.com/realconstancefriday/videos/508544187247760/?sfnsn=scwspmo

CelebritiesI've Become CEO Of SoundCity...lols by constancefriday(op): 12:27am On Jan 21, 2022
Dem don turn me to Sound City Boss for here: says Apostle Constance C. Friday

i've been transformed into Sound City Boss for this side of Naija sha...

Some times I check my chest to see if .... Sometimes I check out my abdomen to see if my navel is still there, life in the West is quite different from life at home.

It's no big deal, we gotta deal with it.

My stay in Lagos has been fun, thanks for the hospitality and friendliness.
No matter where I travel to, i'll always have a special place for Lagos in my heart.

Thanks!

Some Folks thought this was a nagging or complaint compository write up. No it's not.

Much Thanks, Lagos.

Staying here has been fun so far!

Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Constance C. Friday.

CelebritiesAll i got from HOTR was a Rap to my Head! by constancefriday(op):
News - I'm aware that HOTR has labelled me a hater publicly since i left. They're making full use of Home Advantage. It's okay. Home is home.
(Like it's all my fault and stuff.)

I will only show FULL RESPECT to the Gospel Ministers and Ministries that made significant contributions to my becoming a Minister today.

To the rest I will show agape love including the ones who treated me bad.
- Apostle Constance C. Friday

When asked earlier today about his Ministerial Journey and asked about how he deals with the long standing issues he's had with a church somewhere In Lekki (which he prefers to call that place) Apostle Constance C. Friday says:

"I thought we've put this matter behind us? Who is bringing it up again? It amazes me how some Gospel Ministers seem to have a huge Sense of Entitlement to everyone's respect when they've contributed nothing to your progress! I look at my Ministerial Journey and when I check: " What did the so called biggest Lekki Church and metropolitan Ministers contribute to your Ministerial journey to deserve your FULL RESPECT? nothing.

Except a punch in the head.

(It's a long forgotten incident that I don't wanna keep talking about) yet they keep saying that I don't respect them. See me see palaver!

I don't like the needless gaslighting that betrays their huge sense of entitlement.

I'm aware that Pastor P.A and I.A have a good relationship with Bishop Mike and Peace Okonkwo of TREM.

That has nothing to do with me.
I relate with Folks based on how they relate with me.

Q: Do I disrespect Bishop Dr Mike & Peace Okonkwo and TREM?

A: No I don't, they're my Big Daddy and Big Mummy as we fondly call them in TREMITE language.

Q: Do I disrespect Dr W.F Kumuyi and Deeper Christian Life Ministry?

A: No I don't, He's my Papa in the Lord as Deeper Life Folks call him,

Plus a long list of Ministers and Ministries...I have a lot of respect for.

Q: What is wrong with asking a question when you're not clear with what is being taught by a Teacher? Na wa, this is history class in my life encyclopedia.

Pls guys (I don't want to mention the name of your Church) stop feeling over entitled to my respect.

All I got from your Church and Ministry was a blow to my head in your garage.

I can only show you Agape Love.

If you want me to Minister in your Conference/Church, invite me officially.
I will show up with my entourage.



and Kindly tell your "Flying Monkeys" to get out of my ears sha!

I don't hate.

I forgive those that offend me.

Let the past be where it is.
Thanks!


God Advantage is bigger than Home Advantage!

I'm living a Real Life in Christ Jesus!

Christianity EtcRe: Try to change your Perspective of my Style of Ministry by constancefriday(op): 5:38pm On Jan 17, 2022
constancefriday:
#News - Try to Change your perspective (or point of view) of my style of Ministry.
- Apostle Constance C. Friday tells general audience during live Gospel Broadcast.

"I'm not apologizing for teaching the truth but I do know that having the perspective of a minister and his style of ministry wrong can be a brick wall or stonewall that obstructs the reception of redemption that comes along with each ministration.
I remember in the book of 1 Kings 22 how King Ahab (Jezebel's Husband) went with his whole body complete to destruction simply because he had the wrong perspective of Prophet Micaiah's Prophecy.
The person whom God may use to deliver you from hell may not necessarily be someone you like or someone who says what you like to hear.
Remain Blessed!
Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Constance C. Friday.

N:B -
These and more were said during a special gospel podcast titled " Fire and Smoke " very interesting and exciting, it includes a brief gospel music session too.

Click here to watch
- https://www.facebook.com/CFMgospel/videos/1154179795118690/
Christianity EtcTry to change your Perspective of my Style of Ministry by constancefriday(op): 5:32pm On Jan 17, 2022
#News - Try to Change your perspective (or point of view) of my style of Ministry.
- Apostle Constance C. Friday tells general audience during live Gospel Broadcast.

"I'm not apologizing for teaching the truth but I do know that having the perspective of a minister and his style of ministry wrong can be a brick wall or stonewall that obstructs the reception of redemption that comes along with each ministration.
I remember in the book of 1 Kings 22 how King Ahab (Jezebel's Husband) went with his whole body complete to destruction simply because he had the wrong perspective of Prophet Micaiah's Prophecy.
The person whom God may use to deliver you from hell may not necessarily be someone you like or someone who says what you like to hear.
Remain Blessed!
Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Constance C. Friday.

N:B -
These and more were said during a special gospel podcast titled " Fire and Smoke " very interesting and exciting, it includes a brief gospel music session too.

Click here to watch
- https://www.facebook.com/CFMgospel/videos/1154179795118690/

CelebritiesTimaya has become a Motivational Speaker by constancefriday(op): 2:26am On Jan 12, 2022
News - "Timaya's latest songs are purely Motivational"
- says Apostle Constance C. Friday.

I'm quite impressed with the contents of the lyrics of the latest songs by Timaya. (He says),
One of the lyrics that caught my attention was ..."I don't wanna go to the club in one night and blow it"...

I don't hope to put all club owners like my big chick out of business but i think that song talks about not being profligate with resources.

In another new music video by Timaya I saw these words boldly written on a white board
"Don't shrink to fit into a place that you've outgrown"

Wow! Where went all the "Ukwus" and "She say I'm handsome, she say I'm cute"

I won't be surprised if Timaya opens a new church.

Praise the Lord.

Babalawo Power nko?

Well done Egberi Papa 1 of Bayelsa...I'm a big fan.

Cheers!

N:B - Timaya is one of the richest Musicians in the world from Nigeria according to Forbes Magazine FYI...

CelebritiesApostle Constance C.Friday reacts to Davido's harsh Tweet to his Cousin online by constancefriday(op):
News - "Apostle Constance C. Friday reacts to Davido's harsh Tweet to his Cousin earlier today"
- I do it too sometimes (he says)

"Whether you think you're popular or not, there's always someone paying attention to your words of deep wisdom"

Click here to read the full article
- https://www.nairaland.com/6934823/davido-insults-cousin-dele-adeleke

"Harsh words disfigure the one who speaks them, while kind words beautify"

CelebritiesRe: Davido Insults Cousin, Dele Adeleke On Twitter, Deletes The Tweet Afterwards by constancefriday(m): 1:50am On Jan 12, 2022
HonorableG:
Shortly after PDP gubernatorial aspirant and Nephew to Senator Ademola Adeleke, Dele Adeleke, posted on his Twitter page and wrote "Intelligence & Understanding can not be falsified, stolen or handed to anyone on a silver platter. It takes dedication, patience and discipline to attain such feat." "It is up to the party members to identify and support an intelligent aspirant among the lot. We can do better in Osun state! #IgbaOtunTiDe"

Davido responded by saying "Yo cuz STFU & your talking to yourself #MOLEDE"



Watch the interview Dele Adeleke had on Channels Television

https://youtu.be/R5ea8L7nYLw
Lols...i do this too sometimes
(Sibling rivalry and stuff)
Family comes first anyways...Lols

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