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constancefriday:
Who really are your Brothers, Sisters and Mothers?

Apostle Constance C. Friday describes whom you should call your Brothers, Sisters and Mothers in the journey of life.

All these and more in this exclusive Facebook Video Lecture.
- https://m.facebook.com/reallifegospelorg/videos/who-are-your-brothers-sisters-and-mothers-an-exceptional-video-lecture-by-apostl/1401209613661482/?_rdr

constancefriday:
As a true Child of God, I'll advise you,
(if you're a true Christian indeed) not to judge.
- says Apostle Constance C. Friday Ani

Yes! Judgement is not actually a godly behavior and I will tell you why.

When I was younger, let's say between 5-10 years of being born again, I used to judge people a lot!

Things like:

*Why is he doing that kind of business if he's a dope guy?

*Look at how she's looking at another Man, she's a slut.

*Why does he want a pay rise? he is greedy?

*And so on and so on...
etc, etc

I stopped doing these when I realized that no one is perfect. Including me.
We are all liable to make mistakes.
Even mistakes we never believed we could make.

There is an important part of the Lord's Prayer in Matthew Chapter 6:13
That says: "Lord lead us not into temptations but deliver us from all evil"

Some born again guys/girls ended up landing in a mess because they were led into temptations and situations that overwhelmed them.

It's important to be prayerful.
Even Jesus Christ had to pray for the grace to allow himself get arrested and crucified. Jesus had the choice of avoiding the cross but he chose to get crucified.

I learned to stop judging People because, I'm just as Human and Natural as they are and without God's Grace, I can find myself committing the exact same sin I judged them for committing.

MATTHEW 7:1

Never say: "I can never do that."
If you're human you can. Simply say;
"I pray to God for the grace to never make this kind of mistake"

Remain Blessed!

illicit:
Yes now

He was well schooled and groomed

BeeBeeOoh:
https://dailytrust.com/bayelsa-community-beat-2-cable-thieves-anfter-serving-them-food

constancefriday:
I want to use this medium to appreciate the Leadership of TREM, it's league of Pastors, Big Daddy & Big Mummy Bishops Dr Mike and Peace Okonkwo plus every other Persons within the Ministerial circle of influence of TREM for the roles they played in kick starting and activating my journey as a Minister of the Gospel of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.
May GOD continue to Bless each and every TREM members, Leaders, Pastors, Bishops etc Worldwide in Jesus name.
I say this on the occassion of KLWC 2019.
Which marks 30 years of Kingdom Life World Conference.
Congratulations, more Grace to your Elbows Sir and Ma.
I love and celebrate y'all on this laudable occassion. God Bless You.

Apostle. Constance Friday is the Most Supreme Shepherd of Real Life Gospel Church an administrative extension of Real Life Missions International.
Africa's first successful globally operative online Church.
Truth and Life Series
Season 3 continues.
Full Speed Activated!

sisisioge:
Sensible comments is expected to be hard for you to give or comprehend. It's a Sunday, I refuse to join issues with greedy edits. Cheers.

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sisisioge:


How can you refer to a legit daughter of your brother as a bastard and hybrid? I'm guessing her father left wealth she controls and you are not happy with it. Better move on with your life and stop trying to interfere or control her holdings. I can imagine the way you would have arm twisted her off her inheritance if she were born and bred here in Nigeria. It is well o.


Well done Ifeyinwa, you are your father's daughter!

Greyworld:
Instead of man to Fight if He must he comes to nairaland not to seek advice but scream. The girl from all indications doesn't read nairaland post.

I dont need a soot sayer to tell me this guy is one of those that put eyes in their brothers property, labeling their brother's widow a witch n murderer.

Apologies if im wrong tho.

NoToPile:
No wonder she doesn't like you guys. You people still carried this ' I wonder what killed my brother' mentality to a white woman. Men no longer die of natural causes in Naija, it's the wife that must kill him

She's a bastard and yet she's your brothers son.

You guys should go sort yourselves out jare.

Mindlog:
Why should he have been buried in Israel, why not even your village in Igboland?

So the Caucasian wife has no right to be alive because her husband (your brother) has passed on?

Bastard No be your brother pikin or is his name not on her birth certificate?

Your brother left Nigeria for greener pastures in Europe and started a family there and that secured him his residency, so who are you to decide who stays/visits Africa?

I guess your having no power over her as one of her paternal uncles is frustrating you and probably when she will be getting married (if she chooses) you won't be getting even a Kobo as bride price.

For her to be bold enough to even be in Nigeria shows she is not scared of you, you think say na intimidation your likes are used to as brothers of the deceased to perpetrate injustice on the Nigeria wife and children their late brothers left behind.

And you deceive yourself by addressing yourself as an Apostle, a Motivational Speaker, Gospel Podcast Host, Writer, Counselor, Adviser and asking people to call you for occasions & for counsel on important life issues.

I pity who would call a twisted mind like yours for counseling! Same you that creates threads to interview yourself?

constancefriday:
A brief Interview:

Interviewer
Q: Many of your fans say they think you're funny. If you become a stand up comedian, you would make it big.
Do you agree?

Apostle Constance C. Friday
A: Well, Yes. I'm a typical Omega male, being jovial and entertaining flows freely. I think its the selfless side of me that loves to see others happy, successful, free and safe that inspires that. I have a clownish mien or demeanor, it makes me look funny to a lot of People, when I noticed it's my nature, I decided to accept who I am and love myself while I love others.

Interviewer
Q: Can you say officially as a Clown that being funny has some disadvantages?

Apostle Constance C. Friday
A: I'm the optimistic type of person, i focus or zero in on the advantages of a matter while I play down on the disadvantages.
If being funny has a disadvantage, I'd say that being funny tends to make People not to quickly notice when an issue you're pointing at or drawing their attention to is quite serious.
I guess that's why veteran comedian Mr Ali Baba named his comedy program on National TV "Seriously Speaking"
That's one, the second one is "disrespect of boundaries"... Some folks laugh and laugh and laugh till they start making references to stuff that could lead to the Will Smith and Chris Rock slapping incident during the Oscar Awards recently.
Remember, that the Clown who is making you happy is only wearing a mask.
Show some little "respect" to his/her boundaries.

Interviewer
Q: What would you say is an advantage of being funny?

Apostle Constance C. Friday
A: I'd say, being funny makes quite a number of People to like you and it attracts a couple of Good Friends and good fortunes to you.

Don't stop being funny.
As for me, I'm funny for life!

Thanks!

Hisbah21:
u will most of the time take for granted

constancefriday:
News - Sis. Osinachi Nwachukwu's song "Ekwueme" was constantly used to mock and berate me for not marrying my Ex- Girlfriend.
- says Apostle Constance C. Friday.

Apostle Constance Friday mourns the death of Sister Osinachi Nwachukwu, singer of the popular Igbo Gospel Song "Ekwueme"

I saw the sad news on Gospel Hotspot this morning. Chei Sister Osinachi Nwachukwu is dead! that's so sad.
I don't wish such upon a young and beautiful gospel singer like her.
She died on Friday! Jesus!
Her hit song " Ekwueme" (which means Promise Keeper in English) was used by some folks to constantly berate and mock me for failing to marry my ex- girlfriend (whom I truly loved indeed) after all my promises to marry her.
I really loved that ex GF of mine and wanted to put a ring on her finger, but unpredictable events stopped that from taking place.
They kept playing this song over and over and over (deliberately to mock me).
A point came when each time I heard the song playing on my mp3 devices, I'd either skip to the next track, stop the song or just delete it. Inspite of how wonderful, melodious and lovely the song was.

A beautiful thing can be misused and abused, just as many modern Christians misuse and abuse the Bible and the Gospel.

Do not berate a Man for not keeping a promise they made. You don't know what reality hit so hard and paralyzed him or her.
Only God makes promises that he never fails to keep and receiving the fulfilments of God's promises are conditional. Only God's love is unconditional.

May beloved Sister Osinachi's soul rest in peace.

Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Ani Constance C. Friday.

Rest in Peace!

AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.

immortalcrown:
True. In as much as God is interested in our marriage standard, we should not make our spouses rank us higher than God.

constancefriday:
News - Ministry has to go on, even if I'm not yet properly settled matrimonially.
- says Apostle Constance C. Friday.

Any Woman that wants me to prove my love for her by shutting down ministry to get married to her is asking for something i would not do even if i love her more than myself.
Marriage isn't more important to me than Ministry, although marriage itself is a Ministry.
  In my list of priorities, Ministry occupies the top spot after having a top notch quality relationship with God (Our Father in Heaven).
Many young born again* single ladies I approach for friendship often think I place too much value in marriage, or getting married. I don't.
  I seek God first, other things will fall in place, no matter the challenge or controversy or messed up mess.
  Every mess ends up becoming a message from God that will draw men to him in holiness, righteousness and reverence.

I'm married to the Gospel, When I find a female friend who loves God, fears God and is passionate about Gospel Ministry as much as I am, we will match perfectly like bread and butter.
(or bread and mayonnaise lol).

No matter where she comes from. I don't discriminate or judge people by where they come from.
- Titus 2:11, John 9:4

I've got work to do my dear, can you excuse me please? Thanks!

Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Ani Constance C. Friday

constancefriday:
News - Apostle Constance C. Friday calls on politicians involved in the systematic deconstruction of Nigeria in various key sectors and government agencies to stop and be more patriotic.
- Democracy is more important than revenge. He says

Is it wise to burn down your house just to get back at a Cat (proverbial statement).
I'm aware that those paralyzing and deconstructing Nigeria right now are doing it for political reasons.
If your method of getting back at your political opposition is leaving a lot of lifeless innocent bodies on your trail, can you smile at the Man you see in the mirror and say, I'm a true democrat?
The People and their welfare should come first before political interests.
I wonder why for decades political interests matter more than public welfare. The Youths are angry because they feel the government doesn't care about them, based on political statements, some parts of the country feel excluded from administrative actions and political inclusion based on political statements.
Political statements are designed to be like what God inspired Prophet Isaiah to write in the book of Isaiah 40:1 which says "Comfort, Comfort my People...tell Israel her sins are forgiven"
All we see since 1999 is Political Party X doing everything feasible or imaginable to sabotage Political Party Y and Political Party Y bending or compressing the atmosphere that even contains the air that the People breath to get back at Political Party X.
The claps and clapbacks go on and on and on until the a whole nation is actually getting deconstructed!

Can you refrain from striking back when you're struck to ensure you're the better person in the long run?

I hope our political gladiators realize that democracy is more important than revenge. Of what use is a full capacity Olympic stadium when you all you have to show the spectators is a goaless draw!
It's making no democratic sense!
Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Constance C. Friday Ani
(Retired Senior Advocate for the Masses)