₦airaland Forum

moremi2008:
That doesn't make sense! Nigerian women have always had domestic maids. Why would they be insecure about a cleaning lady that speaks little English?

what has english gotta do with poking. . . . .the only time naija women have peace with domestic maids is when the maid is more than 60 yrs old.
but those young hispanics? you are asking for trouble!

armyofone:
nothing wrong doing all that common. husband and wife should help each other, afterall it is their home.

ok!

moremi2008:
My dear Ronkis, you can't eat your cake and have it too. You can't expect a man to kill himself outside the home to provide for the family and then return home to help with the housework and babies. If both spouses are working, then they should seriously consider hiring help. I am a single guy and I have a cleaning lady come in every week. Married couples should also do the same (they aren't that expensive in the US). I have married Nigerian friends that employ full-time nannies for about $1k-$2k per month. It saves them a LOT of hassle and their marriages are better for it.

naija women are too insecure to cope with having a cleaning lady come in every week.

naijababe:
I can only assume the bolded is a rhetorical question

lmao!

naijababe:
@ Coogar, you missed the point in my post. Fact is a what you are accusing women of is basically human nature. How is your analogy different from a woman that sacrificed her career for hubby's being replaced with a younger opeke any different.

haha - elaborate please.
a wife sacrificed her career for her hubby and the hubby got a 2nd wife? are there still men in this our generation marrying 2 wives?

ronkebp:
Coogar i will be right back to give you your reply in regards to the work here and the work back home.

i know how it works in america/uk/netherlands or everywhere else in the world.

so because you work as a surgeon, you would gladly sit back and watch your husband do your dishes, clean the house, wash your undies?
over my rotten corpse! i would easily spend the rest of my life in jail rather than allow such!

ronkebp:
Coogar, when men (Nigerian men -some though) start to appreciate the wives they have and not treat them as secondclass citizens in their own houses, they will be having good marraiges, as long as they want to remain with the '' i am the man and what i say and do is law'', then their arses will always be dumped.

I have an uncle, he used to leave in the States and he is back to Nigeria now (and that is one in a million), i can not explain the type of respect he accords his wife and children, the woman is the breadwinner, the man works too but the wife makes more than him, but you can never know, the woman adores her husband, loves her husband and does double shift for her husband to be able to build his house back home, i am so serious, if you see the mansion that was built for the husband back home, many people call her a fool even her family memebers, but she was willing to do that for her hubby because she felt her husband deserved it.

You don't expect to treat a woman like poo and expect her to revere you or hold you in high-esteem in return, respect begats respect.

you are just citing a case of an ideal woman here. . . . .if every woman has her attitude the world would be a better place.
more often than not,  the bad eggs clearly outnumber the good ones.

respect begets respect - i agree with that.
i will not watch a palm-kernel cracking woman lord herself over me because she's now a registered nurse - something she could not have achieved without me.
that said, i would not enslave her too - she's the woman in the house and her role in the home would not be altered just because she's been upgraded.

ThiefOfHearts:
Cant say I care about what some random on the internet thinks of my "attitude".

you wouldn't have replied if you didn't care - tell me another tale!

and you are sounding mad ridiculous right now. How naive are you about "village girls", like are you being serious or is this tongue in cheek? No one can possibly be this clueless. when these insecure sniffling twits cant control a woman they resort to calling them things like "damaged goods", what does that even mean?   If this is about sex which apparently scares you people, you think sex isnt happening in villages?

damaged goods are the breed of women who have lost touch with their roots and their african heritage. they want to be whiter than the white folks themselves.
nigerian women abroad can be nauseating with their attitude.

sex is happening in the village but not in the same obscene frequency it happens abroad. . . .but who wants to make a wh[i]o[/i]re a housewife?

This is the most reetarded discussion ever. Im just gonna assume you're being facetious.

maybe because you are a r[i]e[/i]tard!
integral calculus would look r[i]e[/i]tarded to a mad man.

ronkebp:
my dear if it was just 40hrs work e for better, imagine working and doing overtime, caring for the children and family at large, some will see it as big deal!!!! but they really do not have an idea, no one can do it all, we all need help at one point in time, all these wahala tells on the body.

this same excuse has been overused - women complaining about long hours at work. . . .
there are women in nigeria who work long hours too - they still come home and perform their duties as the wife. they don't make excuses!

why are the same nigerian women different abroad? a nigerian man is a nigerian man in naija or in any part of the world.
a nigerian woman is normal in nigeria but the moment she steps abroad, she wants to be like kim kardashian.

ThiefOfHearts:
or you could stop being a woman and not respond every damn thing.
who else have I called a homoseckual other than moremi. Gbegborun.

you need to lose this attitude. you sound like almondjoy's twin sister.

as for your gibberish on "upgrading", then stop phucking upgrading them abi? Bloody control freaks. They know they cant control the ones outside Naija, they go to tyhe village hoping they can "mold" and control siome naive girl, she wises up and then they get upset. Fools afraid of their own level. Now they are in prison like the manic dogs that they are.

so men are control freaks for leaving the city girls who are already damaged goods and going to the village to find well-grounded women?
you need blood tonic!

montelik:
Disagree. As sad as it makes me, Evra is that player very easily.

evra contributes to our attack and this is why he gets caught up-field most times. . .
he won the first penalty @ stamford bridge. . .evra has 2 assists and 22 key passes already this season.

i know his primary role is to defend but i would still have him in the team ahead of ryan giggs.
giggs damage our game play far too much. he can no longer pass the ball.

mbulela:
how necessary was that?

don't edit my comments to suit your wet dreams!

ThiefOfHearts:
are you moremi? all these paranoid psychos on  this board sef

then use your brain and put the name of who you're addressing!
it's not my fault you are afraid to use the quote button.
when you post directly below me, i am inclined to think you are addressing me. . . .

naijababe:
Is she a dog or a horse?

Sagamu, whether and co. whether y'all choose to accept it or not, fact is some men are selfish to the core of their beings and woman now know they have options. Abeg!!!

what has dog/horse gotta do with? were we dogs/horses when our parents trained us in school?
some men are selfish of course, i would be the first to admit that but when a man goes to his village to train a woman up to a standard then the least the woman could do to repay him back is to stand by her man - not use her wealth to bite the finger that fed her.
you forget something important, without these men in their lives, they would be in their villages cracking palm kernels.

ronkebp:
Oh!!!!! BUT IT IS GOOD FOR THE MEN, TO MALTREAT THE WOMEN BECAUSE THEY WERE BROUGHT FROM THEIR VILLAGES? THIS IS NOT ABOUT EDUCATING ONE, WHICH MONEY DID THEY USE IN PAYING FOR THE SCHOOL IN THE FIRST PL;ACE?? NO BE STUDENT LOAN? THEY CAN'T EAT THEIR CAKES AND STILL WANT TO HAVE IT, I SAID IT BEFORE AND WILL KEEP SAYING IT, EYE DON OPEN, WE NEED TO BE MUCH MORE RESPONSIBLE IN ALL OUR DEALINGS ESPECIALLY MARITALLY, WHO IS A SLAVE OR A MONEY MAKING MACHINE, SO THAT SOME GUYS CAN ENJOY THEIR LIVES, EVERYBODY BOTH MAN AND WOMAN NEED AN UPGRADE. IF YOU RESPECT YOURSELF YOU WILL DEFINITELY BE RESPECTED.

yes, that same student loan paid for her ticket, processed her visa and housed her before she entered school, isn't it?
the modern day woman is ungrateful - if it's that easy, why didn't her own parents put her on the plane to study abroad?

i am not in support of men maltreating women - but let's call a spade a spade.
most nigerian women tend to misbehave whenever there's a little upgrade in their lives.

ThiefOfHearts:
Rofl. This dude is unstable. Most Nigerian homosckuals are though

it takes one to know one!

mbulela:
gbam!!

it seems centipedes crawled up your arse. . . .

ronkebp:
they caused it themselves, overflowing testosterone.

how so?
a man went to naija to marry - brought a wife to the states - trained her to the point of her making 6-figures and then she starts misbehaving cos her levels don change? that's cheating!

ronkebp:
Sagalulu!!! that article is so true!!!!! Naija men, when u are in America behave like the americans, or else you will be dumped by your wife. behave yourselves and stop chasing everything in skirts or abusing your wives, infact upgrade yourselves too not only your wives( educationally).

nigerians in america don suffer o. . . . .jeeeeeez.
this is what naija men in america go through? part of me wants to relocate to houston!

montelik:
New one year contract for Giggs till 2013. Giggs no go retire till he forced to. I can't blame him cos when Scholes can come off his couch after months and still command and control our midfield easily, how will he feel like quitting while he still has more assists than our other midfielders. While it is testament to his longevity and productivity, it is also an indictment of d other players. Signings or not, if Carrick had stepped up and been a consistent midfield general not just a reliable player, if d likes of Ando, Fletcher, Gibson e.t.c showed consistency and quality Giggs would have quit realizing he would be playing reserve footy to keep match fit and Scholes would have comeback if at all, to mostly to fill a squad position.

carrick has been the most consistent midfielder in that team this season. . . .it's not even debatable.
ryan giggs plays shyte for 90 mins and then delivers an assist and we forget about his dozens of misplaced passes. . . .ryan giggs has been a good ambassador throughout the years but his general play puts us in trouble more than any other player in the team.

MRbrownJAY:
as i always said, someone who doesnt value you when you are down/poor, doesnt deserve you when you suddenly are up/rich.

word!

[quote author=d_surrogat link=topic=866299.msg10152366#msg10152366 date=1328725372]I sent an sms to my happily married ex, all i wrote was "hello Hny" (happy nu yr) d husband freak out and slapped her that Hny means honey, she cald me n was crying, i waz dumbfounded, she told me to kal her man n explain to him, she is 24 n he his 25 yrs old[/quote]where did this happen?
planet of the simpletons?

ronkebp:
And who is that

he is about 120 yrs old.

pendo89:
ok like we always say, Karibu kenya hakuna matata.

hakuna matata? makes me remember the lion king.

pendo89:
Good choice. though exp.

don't worry about the prices. . . .i am used to my glamour life.

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=862327.msg10121972#msg10121972 date=1328383016]well, the good thing is at least there is hope for me.

if this lady can get a nigerian man then anybody can get the same, not so?

or is there a comma somewhere eg you must not be nigerian.

coogar and co, oya, I'm available, come and date me.

i can bleach if skin colour is a problem.

wigs, weave ons, etc can fix the hair issue.

and i dont have to be nigerian if that's a disqualification?[/quote]tpia@, are you asking me out?

how much are you worth?
how pretty are you?
how many swiss accounts do you own?

pendo89:
1. Windsor Country and golf club
2. Intercontinental
3. The Tribe

i will work with these ones!

chaircover:
oi saga leave my analytical alone

I was going to give you my beautiful sister but since you dont want to get married good luck to you. Just pray that you dont end up marrying a cretin who is the result of a failed educational system

Seriously analytical has some good points and yes I do understand the fear that some bachelors entertain and for some people being married will be one of the worst things that will happen to them and they would have been better off remaining single. It is a jungle out there and one never knows if Miss/Mr Right is indeed right until the ring goes on the finger. So yes I understand your fears.

. . . . but on the other hand some people are having a better life as part of a marriage partnership than if they were single. Yes they are a minority but its achievable

chaircover, i want to get married.

https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2012/02/09/article-2098655-11A66698000005DC-513_636x421.jpg

fergie now a rap gangstar?

denzel2009:
duh, how many minutes will it take you to nyansh a girl?

5 days!

pendo89:
5 star/3-4 star?

1.Intercontinental
2.Hilton
3.Fairmont
4.Nairobi Serena
5.Windsor
6.Grand regency
7.Holiday Inn
8.The Stanley
9.Safari Park
10.The Tribe
11.Ole sereni
12.Boulevard
13.Sankara
14.Mayfair
15.Silversprings
16.Fairview

etc etc etc

Ok am tired now! cz the list goes on and on. Those are only concentrated in the city and are suitable for biz travellers on short visits.
Quite expensive too.

If you want a perfect holiday go out of the city and enjoy the more than 100 classy hotels in all sorts of places.Some in the wilderness.

5-star hotels only, pendo.
can you trim down your list to the best 3?

ThiefOfHearts:
*claps* cap28 is back. yay!  

thread is back on track.  

Will Smith is a BS actor actually but I know you fanboys wont agree.

Denzel has pretty good range, Samuel is half and half. Both are talented however.

but that is not the point.
cockcap28 said black actors get only stereotypical roles in hollywood and i flashed will smith as one black actor who has done men in black, wild wild west, enemy of the state, etc.

mbulela:
going a step further,if i was Evra i will sue Kenny Dalglish for saying 'He has done this before,hasn't he?'

he should slap king kenny in the tunnel!

Ibime:
What I came here to ask is why DD is outpacing players in African Nations Cup. I thought dude had lost his pace.

Is he on drugs?

the service has been top drawer.
yaya toure, tiote and zikora have all done well in that midfield.
the through passes have been off the chain!

manmustwac:
Harry Rednapp better run a mile from the England job. You are still under contract for tottenham. You are a good club manager who I don't think will make a good international manager. Leave the job for someone else. No spurs fans want you to go.

if he takes spurs to the 4th position, it's better for him to leave. . . .
daniel levy can then sign jose mourinho or felipe scolari.