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Idungjay:
Nigerian girls aren't as materialistic as 9ja guys thinks. Show a gal hw much u care even with nothing nd she will go extra miles for u. Most of 9ja guys seems to have this notion dat 9ja gals are materialistic bc of the way d try to b smart. Love u say u love ur partner u prove it aftral actn is louder dan words. So we 9ja gals xpects our 9ja guys to do more of the actions than the words!

you need help!

[quote author=dipo+ link=topic=827763.msg10188691#msg10188691 date=1329153237]Accept my sympathy, y'all . Isn't it torturous to be behind MY ARSE on the table after 25 games?
Plus Napoli is looking likely to knock chelsea out[/quote]still, deborah has refused to sponsor dupe's adult education classes.

all4naija:
I still think the characters thing is blown out of proportion.

i want to see quality acting. . . . . .i don't give a f@ck if they give lady gaga the lead role in this movie - as long as she can perform the role excellently.

Ibime:
The Russian transfer window is still open. Still enough time to send the Spanish cancer on loan to any Russian team looking for a striker for the playoffs. Maybe we get lucky and he shines in the playoff and we can offload him for £20m at season end. A one-legged Lukaku is preferrable to the shekpe keeper.

ibime, stop taking your frustrations on torres.
captain amangala has dropped out of the top four - seems that is the major reason you're spewing bile.

afrodoc:
haba! i am not talking abt today,like i said earlier i didnt watch d whole match. i am just speaking generally dt over d last 1 or 2 season's evra's form has declined.
and i hav seen wat endless minutes can do to a career later on.i feel his form has dipped a little generally n i know he plays way to many minutes! fergie rotates every position include GK but leaves evra to labour week in week out

that is because evra is as fit as nails. . . . . .but it takes him like 4 yrs to get back into position or isn't just bothered about defending again.
one moment you see united under attack with evra jogging back instead of sprinting and you think he's tired, the next moment united are counter-attacking and you see evra running at full pelt trying to score. . . . .the truth is evra wants to be a winger - he does not consider himself a full-back any longer.

play fabio @ left back, evra as a winger and we are sorted!

afrodoc:
i rily want to see more of fryers cos i tink evra needs d relief n also a bit of competition.fryers is physically mature from d little i hav seen powerful n pacy.
i wonder if there r some technical deficiencies in his game dt necessitates d delay by fergie in fully blooding him.and if fergie believes he is not ready then fabio shud get some minutes.i dont hav d stats but i am sure evra has played more minutes than any other united player over d last 3 or 4 seasons.almost always starts n rarely gets subbed,starting to tell on d guy

evra did not put a foot wrong today - it was grandpa giggs that kept exposing him.

afrodoc:
of course everybody knows dt rio's days r numbered,d guy is a sick old man wit back issues dt will never go away(at least on d football pitch).
having said dt d guy is still needed FOR NOW not just cos vidic is out but cos of his on field n off field leadership n his xperience n calmness.cos if there is any single reason united is still in dis title race its cos of our edge in EXPERIENCE right from d manager down to d players.its not talent,its not luck and its not(despite wt our detractors say) bribery.
I pray vidic recovers fully from his injury and from next season mayb we will see a smalling n vidic partnership with rio used only for relief

rio defended very well today.
that suarez tackle in the first half was world class. i was glad it wasn't johnny evans that had to make that tackle as i am sure he would have fouled suarez(red card). . . . . .apart from the goal, rio was superb. . . .he made some good tackles and intercepted well.

afrodoc:
only watched 1st half, hd to attend my friend's wedding.evans' performances hv improved of late but i suspect he would always need a"senior" partner like rio or vida to bring d best out of him,place him beside smalling n he once again becomes journeyman evans.

evans and smalling should be the pairing. . . .smalling would attack the ball like vidic and evans would clean up.
with rio/evans, they leave the ball for each other. the two of them are often reluctant to own the ball floated into the box.
if vidic was on that pitch today, that goal wouldn't have been conceded. . .

although rio made a world class tackle on suarez in the first half. . . . .vidic(in that situation) would have probably fouled suarez with his mobile police approach and get sent off.

ritchboy:
^^ Sharrap Sharon. . . I lost count of the number of Baines' crosses Saha failed to convert in the 5-7 weeks i had him in my fantasy team alone. Despite being a fullback Baines delivers more crosses than any other player in the league. And one cross from Baines is generally of better quality than 3 crosses from 99% of the wingers in the league combined. Not to mention Drenthe, Coleman, Bilyaletdinov etc.

you are a disgraceful troglodyte!
crosses from baines in comparison to crosses from bale, lennon, walker, assou-ekotto(the best left back in the league this season)?

You seem to enjoy making moronic excuses for abject mediocrity like Torres(Chelsea midfield), Saha("Bye-line", lol), Anderson(Cleverley, lmao) etc, so i probably shouldn't bother

it is because you are a bumbling oaf. . . . .unlike you, i know what fits where. everton are a less quality side than tottenham. it's only natural for saha to step it up in a team that relies on pace and a team that uses width. it's a no-brainer but it seems you don't have a brain after all.

If i remember correctly, my gripe was with some flaming idi[color=Black]o[/color]t here calling Saha a "top, top player", when i could bet my bottom dollar that very same idi[color=Black]o[/color]t woulda been crying wolf if Arsenal had signed him(33, injury prone, hopelessly off form, rival-reject etc).

saha was a no-risk signing. how much did he cost spurs?
whether he scores 20 goals or 2 goals wouldn't have mattered. . . . it's not like y'all would have signed him for £60m.
someone needs to take the load off van persie - champions league is back. an injury to van persie effectively rules arsenal out of the 4th position race. stop being idiotic.

I never said he wont score at Tottenham, cos any half-decent striker should score goals in a good team unless his name is Torres.

chelsea are not superb this season. they have failed to use width.
it explains why lampard is their highest goal scorer. their system does not favour any striker as the strikers get crap delivery.

ogbeche77:
Did anyone observe Fergie not making any sub today

i did, way before liverpool scored.
he should have removed one of scholes/giggs for js-park. . . . .giggs left evra too exposed today, it's damning liverpool's manager didn't take advantage of that route.

we really didn't play well tonight.
giggs was a liability. . . danny welbeck needs a football brain. . .
and fergie needs to sort out the defence. evans and ferdinand are passive defenders. they only clean up, they don't attack the ball.

ritchboy:
So players are now signed for what they might do and not what they have done? This is the dumbest sh[color=Black]i[/color]t I've ever heard. . . Maybe we should sign Torres then despite the fact my left nut has a better goal ratio. But wait, Torres actually had a better goal-ratio than Saha(the worst in the whole division) when he was signed so he probably doesn't meet your prerequisite level of crappiness.

Blimey, Spurs' new transfer policy should be to sign all the worst performing players in the league. As in!!!

ritchboy, you are tremendously dumb.

if arsenal sign torres, he might catch van persie on the scorer's chart.
certain teams fit certain players. any striker with intelligence would score @ tottenham, arsenal and man utd. these teams use the width to their advantage. you would always see walcott, oxdale, sagna etc trying to get the bye-line and supply a tasteful cross.

saha wasn't getting enough of that @ everton. leighton baines is the only outlet they have got there and when baines is burdened by having to defend not to concede goals, everton have no genuine winger to feed the strikers. saha didn't do anything extra-ordinary today. he scored a couple of goals by just waiting in the box for a team-mate to lay it on the plate.

the idea that a certain player failed somewhere and he would not work anywhere else is what makes you a bumbling oaf.
if torres joins arsenal, man utd, tottenham, he would have scored close to 20 goals by now.
ritchboy, you need "blood tonic"

barcelona getting sodomized here. . . . .

mourinho has won the league this term should the result stay like this. . . .
what a boost this result would be for jose mourinho.

[quote author=dipo+ link=topic=716327.msg10175353#msg10175353 date=1328989273]By your logic, any other black that shook hands with Suarez is not joining the fight against racism. Coogar, you are Suarezdumb.  Waste of my time [/quote]of course, yes. . . . . .look at this obdurate w@nker!

danny welbeck refused to shake hands with suarez as well - he's a black man!
had suarez shaken evra's hand, the matter would have ended there and then and the players would have moved on.

refusing to shake the hand signifies suarez doesn't think he's wrong by calling evra a negro, suarez doesn't think he's wrong by saying he doesn't talk to negroes. if you are not a disgrace to all the black people in the world, that should be easily understood by you.

Ibime:
If you throw in 1000 crosses, Torres might score 2 so shut it.
Its not like Chelsea is bottom of the table.

i would be embarrased to be in the 5th position with 25 games played already. . .that's 2/3 of the season gone. . . .

Torres should be outscoring Grant Holt, Danny Graham and Steve Morison at least even if Chelsea is not on top of their game.
Torres = Manager killer!

i could have said the same thing about luis suarez. . . . .demba ba has scored more league goals than all liverpool strikers put together.
when you play in a team where the wingers are useless, the strikers starve to death.
unless you are messi, it is difficult for any striker to score goals without a good supporting cast. . .

chelsea's width is non-existent.
jose mourinho must be shaking his head. this is not the team he once handled with excellent wingers like robben, joe cole, damien duff and kalou!

[quote author=dipo+ link=topic=716327.msg10175179#msg10175179 date=1328987490]At that point Suarez refused to shake hands, I really thought he was dumb and just some european trash. Then guys like Rio who you expect to know how to act publicly like progressive thinking humans do also resort to the same level as Suarez, showing that they are just as dumb and don't have intelligence any better than Suarez.[/quote]you are probably too daft to understand a racial abuse on evra is a racial abuse on rio.

Sane people care that racism is fought.

exactly.
rio refusing to shake a racist is his own way of fighting racism.
get over it and stop whining like a pathetic pubic louse.

i can direct you to adolf hitler's grave. . .dig it up and handshake his skeleton.

Ibime:
I cant believe Im saying this but I absolutely cannot wait for Kalou to return. This team is absolutely widthless. By the time we wait for our fullbacks to run forward to provide the width, the opposition have already packed the box.
I reiterate what I said 3 months ago. . . . the decision to sell Anelka was the single worst decision ever made this season. Sturridge is no wide player.

DD and Kalou cannot return quick enough for me.
If AVB gets the sack, he will be the third manager that Torres has got the sack in the last year. First Hodgson, then Ancelotti, maybe AVB next.
Managerial lesson: If you wanna survive in management, never place faith in Torres.

You have to wonder how demoralised Lukaku and Sturridge must feel that a dud called shekpe keeper is keeping them out their positions simply because of his status. You must wonder how demoralised the rest of the team is when they look up and see Torres offering no options yet their teammates who have a lot more to offer are either benched or shunted on the wing. Under AVB, morale is at an all-time low at Chelsea.

A 37 year old DD would trump Torres handsdown. I cant believe some peops were still discussing Torres vs DD just 3 months ago.

you are a disgrace, ibime!
on one side of your mouth, chelsea lack width and the strikers are not getting enough service and on the other side of your mouth. torres is the reason villas-boas would get sacked. in other words, torres is a winger?

the best cross chelsea have provided this season was from torres. . . .it says a lot about your wide men or supposed wide men.
if villas-boas gets sacked, he would have deserved it. his intransigence to build the team around torres is the reason chelsea are where they are at the moment. if torres get 5 crosses like the one he provided for mata against united, how many goals would he score?

i saw valencia today running rings over enrique and giving rooney the simple task of tapping in and i felt wow. . . . .i have never seen such at chelsea
malouda has lost his football brain. daniel sturridge would have shot at goal in the same circumstance and yet you indolent twits continue to blame torres.

[quote author=dipo+ link=topic=716327.msg10175021#msg10175021 date=1328985519]Suarez was wrong for shoving Evra's hands off, but one would expect more from a leader like Rio who should be setting good precedents and not committing the same offense we are hanging Suarez for on this occasion.
You can't expect credit for committing the same offense in retaliation as I believe there are more noble ways of expressing dissatisfaction.
Rio is a disgrace cos his actions have not done anything to ease the tension, but to worsen the bad blood.
You are welcome to disagree[/quote]suarez worsened the bad blood for refusing to shake evra's hand.
liverpool have had plenty of opportunities to put this matter behind them by apologizing to evra or by asking suarez to apologize - they have not done that. they keep insisting suarez has done no wrong and they have supported him.

then came today, before the match - kenny dalglish said suarez would definitely shake hands cos they have put the matter behind them.
when it came to the shaking of hands, suarez refused to shake. . . .what would you have rio do? shake the hands of a racist man? a man who said he doesn't talk to negroes? rio is a black man for feck sake. a racial abuse on evra is a racial abuse on all the black players in the planet

this is why eboue(now playing in turkey) was going mental on his twitter. . . . .

So declining handshakes will make racists change?
If you think declining handshakes will be of more benefit to the fight against racism them you are not half as smart as Suarez

if you decide to shake a man that abused you racially, then good luck to you. . .
i would not do the same and full credits to rio/welbeck for not shaking suarez - at the end, football won, racism lost.
roy keane tweeted: if he was on the pitch with paul ince and mark hughes that suarez would have regretted not shaking the hands of evra.

who cares whether racism is fought or not. . . . .evra was offended, he reported the offence and the offender got punished.
shaking hands or not. . . .does it remove money from rio's wages?
you are a disgrace to all black people in the world, you homoerotic Arrow!

[quote author=c.fours link=topic=859170.msg10170148#msg10170148 date=1328917012]you are just too messed up.
how is this different from human trafficking?[/quote]it seems a centipede crawled up your rectum.
human trafficking is training a woman to be earning 6-figures?

the standard of education has truly gone to the pits.

adebayor - 4 assists. . . .that's the same as scoring a hatrick.

[quote author=dipo+ link=topic=716327.msg10174686#msg10174686 date=1328981837]Rio Ferdinand is dumbest of the lot.  Deciding not to shake Suarez shows Rio himself is not worthy of being called an advocate of peace. Just has Rio said he lost all respect for Suarez because he didnt want to shake Evra's hand, I have lost all respect for Rio.
A eediot he is[/quote]you are a complete nitwit!
ferdinand waited to see if suarez would shake evra, suarez did not and ferdinand also declined to shake the racist, same as danny welbeck.
in fact, all the united players that shook hands with suarez are complete half-wits like yourself. . . . .

why should rio shake a racist?
his brother was involved in another racism incident, his team-mate as well and rio is also a black man.
full marks to rio for not shaking suarez.

Mobinga:
Did you even see the incident?

you are a bumbling oaf.
i would not even reduce myself in engaging you when football matters are concerned. . . .

StarBoard:
If the FA can punish someone for celebrating in front of the away fans over a goal scored on his home turf,I see no reason for them to surprise me and ignore the matter.
Especially when Evra came close to Suarez.Since they punish folks for the slightest things, I'll be surprised if it wasn't mentioned.
I'm not saying they should.Far from it.
I'm saying the FA have a history of nit-picking and punishing players for every little incident they judge as unacceptable.

yes, gary neville celebrating before the away fans can incite riots in the stadium - it's an unsporting behaviour.
evra celebrating a victory before his own fans on the home turf isn't illegal. . . . .it's in his own rights to celebrate as he pleases.
everything that happened today was suarez's fault - if he had shaken evra, the matter would have ended there. . . .

StarBoard:
Evra might get into trouble for his post-match celebrations. . .

there's no rule that says a player cannot celebrate  his team's victory!
we have watched over the years arsenal celebrating their victory after the match with gallas and the african troops dancing makossa.
evra was celebrating in front of his own fans - liverpool players got involved in something that has nothing to do with them.

but the man of the match today is emmanuel eboue. . . .some of his tweets have been world class.

Celebrate!!! celebrate!!! It is ur right to celebrate evra
You won the battle against racism.
You on top of the table.
celebrate Evra

Luiz Suarez contribution on the game so far was not shaking hands. . . .racist fool . . . .he can shake my arse next time he sees me. . .

ronkebp:
Husbandry? funny, i won't tell you where i attend i don't trust you.

i never said i was pretty, people tell me that (rolls eyes) don't even think to type what you are thinking.

send you my pics? you are not serious, so you are trying to encourage me to cheat on my hubby.

pics sharing is not cheating na. . . . .
it is what happens after then that matters.

slimyem:
of course,he is!
But she has only two options-forgive him or not!
I just suggested one.she can either take it or leave it.
However,resultant of any of the options would be hers to bear alone!

if every woman keeps leaving her marriage, no one else would be married.
i was actually being sarcastic when i posted that - she should persevere. . . .most of y'all women don't know what it takes to be a man.
it's burdensome!

mamalola19:
nl added me on yahoo.
After so much discussion,we decided to meet for a drink.
well to summarize he wanted to play smart with me but I caught him red handed.
If I was not smart, my sex video or photograph would probably be all over the place.
i was told members have had some similar ordeals in the past where they were blackmailed for their sex video or their real picture in their house was pasted here.


i have seen two Unclad pictures of 2 members which i was opportuned to delete.
my advice to all the women here who go about adding strangers online keep your emotions intact.
most of you are easily carried away and fooled by what members write that you get fu cked up.
i have also advised against groupings and association on nland
what members don't know can not be used against you.


in recent times members have been threatened and their private lives has been exposed because of ungodly and unnecessary pairing on this platform.
if you do not make friends here, you wont die find friends on your area.
as for the foolish ones that think their husband is here i laugh in japanese you better wise up.
any matured serious man would not be online 24/7 so it only shows the type of men we have here.


we have some responsiblemembers here who are very private, if you can mingle with them fine but i advice you to wise up.
most of the ladies here send their Unclad pictures to member i laughagain in togolese,
you are spoiling your future andbeing silly.
wise up because you don't know who is who.
the other time i opened a thread on a pastors daughter that leaked her nakes pictures through her boyfriend.
let us behave ourselves,


i know it can be boring and lonely being single but that is not good enough reason to fu ck yourselves up.
i know very little minded women would come and insult me as usual,
wetin concern me na here we go dey till dem go show una pee pee for here its a matter of time with all the fights and revealing of secret in recent time.
afterall i saw 2 pictures today so it could be any of you so continue. i have advise you
its so sad what technology and internet is aiding.
ok whats up members, u know me one minte i go vex, another i play again
i am just trying to protect. trust no one na online we dey

pathetic, pitiful, idiotic comment. . . . .

when you arranged this rendezvous with this guy of yours, did you tell nairaland?
shyte went sour and now you have decided to open your mouth and queer the pitch for the responsible members of the forum.
it won't work. . . . . . . .in actual fact, you should be the one taking your own advice and stop syncing with scumbags and vagrants of the society.

arrant nonsense!

armyofone:
give mommy cogar work to do jor. that obe you missed, it's time to eat it.
will make a timetable for mama: monday ikokore, tuesday, obe ila alasepo, wednesday, iyan ati obe apon, thursday, efo riro, friday, iresi pelu obe atarodo. sat and sunday, i will help mama  

shaking my head!
of course, i know for sure you're on a wind-up!

ronkebp:
Coogar you are so funny, my hubby's best man is his brother ooo, and that guy fine die!!!! ( no go area).

How will i sit back and watch my hubby washing undies God forbid, if he sees some chores that needs to be done and he is helping out, infact i will be loving him more because he has just reduced my burden.

I have a friend here whose hubby does the cleaning, she does not know how to vacuum, can you believe that her hubby cleans, washes the bathrooms, (he just loves cleaning the house) but he will never ever ever !! enter the kitchen, so if the woman is cooking and sleeping on the stove she knows that is her duty and would be doing with all the strength she has left. So it all boils down to understanding.

army girl thinks differently!
i pray i get a chic like her as a wife - i would teach her the lessons she refused to take @ quantico!

ritchboy:
Trick question:

Does anyone actually read through Debo/Duduspace epistles?

i do. . . . . . .
ritchboy, how did you pass your waec exams if reading that is tedious to you?

slimyem:
forgive him to save your marriage but chances are he'll do it again albeit with someone else!

forgive him?
she has been forgiving him. . . . .her husband is a billy-goat!

ronkebp:
Ok Coogar, i am back, say what?? what were you saying?? comparing nigerian women work and the people in diaspora, you still cannot compare oooo, Nigerians get a lot of cheap helps and even help from family members, imagine how a woman who has just put to bed in Nigeria is being cared for, peppersoup for one side, another person caring for the baby on the other side, another woman bathing for the mother on another end, the woman's own is to sleep and feed the baby whenever she can gan sef ni.

But in America, infact i started bathing my baby the second day after i left the hodpital, thank God for small change, we were able to get a cleaning lady, who wants to be spending and wasting money ontop cleaning lady,( by the time you add how much you are payiong her every two weeks, one will rethink it) i had a baby sitter when i resumed back at work, my mum was not happy at all because of the stress here when she came to visit, it looked like the country has been set up that way to stress people out, even my dad gan sef, was like i was stressing my self too much,  Despite say i still get hubby that helped, imgine not getting a helping hand atall and then you have a hubby that bosses you around at every little thing, common now, we are all human beings abegiii

if you work and your husband works, i see no reason why you cannot afford au pair.
i know rearing kids is a career on it's own in the west but then should naija women then degrade their men with these despicable chores?
when your mother-in-law is around, is she comfortable with seeing your husband do the dishes and other feminine chores in the house?
men should help out but only with chores that are known to men - not washing undies!

ThiefOfHearts:
coogar must be Igbo. His sense of humor is dead. tsk tsk.

abeg ronke and them, why are yall still on this? If they dont wnat to get it, who cares?  

i am from enugu!

ronkebp:
Citing a case of an ideal woman,!!!!!! do you know how many women that could be ideal too, but has been turned to who they because of circumstances, now i dey form good girl and good wife, do you think i will continue forming if he starts to maltreat me for where?

so you have been "forming" good wife?

i really don't understand why you women think men are rabid dogs. is it even humanly possible for a man to wake up and start beating up his wife or maltreating her without any reason? majority of the stories we get to hear are half-truths. for a man to wake up and beat up his wife, trust me - that woman has done something very wrong! your husband will never maltreat you unless you sleep with his best man.

Daresh:
My husband cheated on me with this lady that works for him. I first noticed in 2009 that he was making , receiving calls that he was clearly hiding from me. I confronted him and after much denials, he admitted that he was in an emotional relationship with some girl he met somewhere. I later found out that it was this girl in the office. I confronted both of them and they both apologized and begged for forgiveness.I decided to take the high road and forgive. Later in 2010, I noticed that the lady in question was giving me attitude when I tried to talk to her and I told him about it. I suspected something was going on but because I had no proof, I kept quiet. I was out of the country for 4 months in 2011 and when I got back, I was scrolling through his old phone and I came across some intimate text messages sent from someone clearly indicating they had been intimate. I confronted him this time really mad and he apologized and gave me some story about it being some girl he met somewhere. I was really really mad but after a while I decided to put it behind me and move on after all Christ forgives. A few months later, I find more messages on his phone to the same number (I'm really good with numbers) about meeting and all that. He kept denying and denying until I did some digging and found out he was sleeping with this same girl from his office! I have been so angry with both of them especially him for doing nothing when I asked him to fire her. I told him she insulted me and he did nothing. They both kept lying and lying and lying to me. He couldn't even break it off when I asked him to. Now he says he has come clean and is asking me to forgive again. How can I believe what? How can I believe that he isn't lying to me again? The worst part, the lady in question quit, and got married. She was engaged all the while and he just let her go without even firing her or letting me get really mad. I am really really mad and I hope I dont do anything I will regret. Everyone is saying forgive and move on but how can I move on with someone I don't trust? He says he would do whatever it takes but I dont even know what it takes. I am so mad at him and her for lying and fooling me for years.

your husband is a serial cheat!
same chic all the time and the chic in question was also engaged all the while?
the moral decadence these days is perplexing!

ThiefOfHearts:
Bruce remarried and Ice T married a indecency star

so much for "you cant turn a ho into a housewife", he's been married to that "ho" for a while now.

yes, ice-t is a very good example of a man!
when you are taking a husband home, take an ice-t wannabe. . . . .i am sure your folks would be proud of you!