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afrodoc:
abeggi! u r back to ur 2008 yarns! I hav bin tellin u to stop dis torres climbed kilmanjaro 1n 2008 n torres outscored julio iglesias in 2008 mantra! sWE DON HEAR O! now wt concerns abramovic,chelsea fans n footie fans in general is wt did he do in 2011 n wt is he doin in2012. if we r to use past glory to judge present quality then chelsea shud bring back peter osgood n jimmy greaves,afterall they ONCE were prolific!
torres was once one of d best,agreed but he has obviously lost IT n myt never find IT again.

mukina2:
'ary popeye  

afrodoc:
just like u to select d portion of my post in "agreement" with u nd disregard d rest!
well we both know dt an rvp miss nd a torres miss wont generate d same reactions,d same way an almunia howler nd a buffon howler wont b viewed d same

anonymus11:
u no dey one believe sey d guy na abiku.                    i suspect u dnt believe spiritual thins? so its ok.          as he is now he has message to his leaders once i am here he is uncomfortable no blood to drink.babe's head is too strong to turn her to anorexia and he needs her brain to add to his own. he didnt make it to school on time mind u! as at when he joined nl, he was still in special center doin commonentrance.                                     i knw his own landmark n not history alone. dey r known from truancy in their lineage.

afrodoc:
[b]van persie missed an easier chance,[/b]maybe, but since he is scoring almost every week it wont b logical or reasonable to question his PRESENT quality.
torres on d other hand has also missed his fair share of sitters but he is averaging a goal a semester! in his case since he mostly does is NOT SCORE in contrast to rvp(he mostly SCORES) it is not out of place to start doubting d man

dyabman:
against manutd really show me that Torres has become crippled in his heart and mind

If torres is to face empty net and he saw ramirez , or any chelsea player coming through he would pass the ball for an Assist lol . . believe me he is so satisfied with that

anonymus11:
you are a bastar d albino. u said u wont reply again but u did how do u knw her state? u no dey find out about men, if u no see punny for 20 yrs na babes fault for here. amebo keep findin pple history cos i will erase ur own soon. na me sabi ur medicine cos i see thru ur occult

anonymus11:
na who wake me up from my slumber.                na jeje I dey sleep wey chained sisters dey wail for help na in dey send me to came and destroy the atutu devil with horn. i don show

BlueDiva:
The United misses are good examples.

Maybe Torres is world class as an assist provider but as a striker he is gone.
What we paid 50 mil for was a striker.

ileobatojo:
Lol, indeed. The men on the other hand are priceless, virgin gems.  

dyabman:
should i start mentioning cases where torres should have nailed for chelsea ? i bet you know yourself. .

Against Manutd both home and away is a clear vision for a 3months old baby to know that Torres is gone for real

BlueDiva:
Sometimes it's difficult to argue that Torres will do well if he gets the right passes.
This season he has managed to waste a couple of clear one-on-one chances.

His finishing is very rusty.
Torres needs a lot of psychological tuning.

ileobatojo:
Is this marriage or slavery? Is she his property? Can you buy love? Respect?

Of course it’s possible that she is just an inately terrible and dubious person, however, an educated man that wll leave all the girls on his level to go and look for an uneducated village girl probably has some serious control issues.

dyabman:
people should stop saying IF torres should be in either barca or arsenal he will flourish have you forgotten to add Swansea , please Torres is gone he needs watch his clips when at liverpool together with AVB , he has lost his finishing sense in football

Chicharito to chelsea --- Torres the other way please!!

ThiefOfHearts:
you are right now by calling me akata

whatever doctore means, what is your tongue sef

ThiefOfHearts:
isnt onila female? else you wouldnt be insulting her.

ThiefOfHearts:
are you done harassing onila abi wetin?

ThiefOfHearts:
and you think threatening to divorce and emotional/physical abuse is the same.
Good to know. abeg there's a match going on. Go and watch it.

ileobatojo:
My point (which you completely failed or are pretending not to understand) is that the fact that he murdered his wife for threatening divorce speaks to the character/mental status of the man. Something which probably played a role in how the divorce drama came about in the first place.

But to answer your question, if a partner cheats and don’t want to be in the marriage anymore, that’s as good a reason as any to divorce IMO.

ThiefOfHearts:
dude. you are just yarning. There's nothing to twist. anyone with eyes can see you think it's normal. understand, condone. same bloody difference.

although I agree 25 years to life is better than the chair, everyone in the US knows that in regards to US jails and not the pampering bullshyt they have in Europe, the former is the better punishment  

nateevs:
He is a top player whose mental strength has disappeared.
The ability is clearly there as he's shown in the past.
He remains a Chelsea player, still 27.
And for as long as he still remains a Chelsea player, some of us will continue to believe he will come good.

claremont:
^^
She even finds this despicable attitude very funny as well!

debosky:
I see the point Sagamite and others are trying to make - if the odds of being successful are 50%, is it really worth getting into?

People talk about ‘societal norms’ and all that - all well and good if you feel a strong desire to comply with these, but there shouldn’t necessarily be ostracising of those who choose not to.

Women’s intrinsic value in society is often closely linked with whether they are married/have kids. Men’s intrinsic value is less linked to marriage than women’s so you’re likely to have more women angling to get married regardless of the failure rate than men.

Secondly, even with all the values/benefits of marriage, if 50% are getting broken, you’re clearly not getting that value all the time so is it worth the hassle for 10 years of bliss?

The reality we all have to face is even if one partner does 100% of what is required, if this is not matched by the other partner (regardless of ‘due diligence’ before choosing) then you can end up frustrated and feeling it’s a waste.

The solution for me is to look at things more in-depth to find out reasons why marriages fail and endeavour to do the best you can in yours, if you choose to go into one. Avoiding the pitfalls others have made and making extra effort to make things work.

Not everyone will or even should get married - some folk are just too messed up to be in marriages without wreaking havoc on their partners.  

I don’t believe in marriage for the sake of bearing Mr & Mrs (as a lot of Nigerian women sadly do) so it is a valid exercise trying to nail down the specific benefits and identifying whether the marriage will be of value to you or not.

In an ideal world everyone should aspire to get married, but we aren’t living in an ideal world.

claremont:
Uncultured and uncouth.

ThiefOfHearts:
Since you do think psychotic behavior is normal, there's no point in arguing that issue with you. Have a nice day.  

onila:
lol like I said before I am always nice 2 my chasers since I became pretty but I must admit I have fuc-ked up sometimes

a guy who my friend introduced me 2 weeks ago tried 2 say hi 2 me. .I just looked at him up 2 down and removed my face as if I didnt know him lol chei i pitied the boy

ileobatojo:
Wow, Nice way to contradict yourself. If the wife is the nurse making the dough, she will not be getting his possessions in the divorce, not so? I thought your concerns were that the women would take all the man’s money in the divorce.

ThiefOfHearts:
You are making excuses for Igbo psychopaths.

Who told them to go and get wife from the village? You think I dont know about how they kill their wives here in the states? Bring her here, force her into nuirsig, she becomes a RN and makes good money, the husband becomes jealous and turns the wife to pepper soup and you expect me to have pity? You must be out of your COTTON PICKING MIND.

Why are you lying and adding jara to the story, seeing other men, where does a RN have time to see other men? They work 12 hours in the day and MORE. Other men ko. Other dudes ni. These village bastids kill them cos they are jealous of the money. FULL STOP. Instead of making money for themselves they work their wives like mule and kill them off. It's well known in Texas and Atlanta. Keep making excuses for MAD MEN.

You think it's normal that threatening to divorce should be met with a mac-hete to the throat? I FEAR YOU.

ileobatojo:
Which tells me that the wife probably had excellent cause to divorce them in the first place. She should have just watched her back more in going through with it.

ThiefOfHearts:
You wouldnt tell a woman to RUN from a man who is willing to KILL because of threats?

These are the examples you have? LOL

If a Nigerian woman is threatening divorce, the matter is usually SERIOUS so no I dont have pity for the MURDERERS you know. Perhaps they threatened divorce cos he tried to kill her before.

You people are not helping your argument whatsoever.

queensmith:
Finally! A woman that sees through thier kwasia nonsense!

In addition to this,  i dont no any divorced nigerian man. What i do know is several women who are offiicially still married but their husbands have left them. With this is mind, one should forever be afraid of marrying a nigerian man home and abroad.
Yet the women do not bounce up and down claiming all nigerian men are dangerous because they are more likely to abandon their wives.

ThiefOfHearts:
The irony is other than celebs, NONE of you know anyone who ended up poor after a divorce. Infact I doubt you know many divorced Nigerian couples period (in Naija AND aboard) so spare us the boo-hooing.
If oyibos can do it despite being divorced many times, I dont know why Nigerians would even entertain such thoughts. Stop fooling yourselves abeg. Yall aint kobe, MJ,. Speilberg or McCartney. Yall will attract regular women who luckily for you have been brainwashed into thinking divorce is never option.

so make we hear word