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There is a place called church where girls like dat are usually found

if none at your church, then go to other churches.

you definately won't find one on nairaland anyway

Ayemokhia:
one of my girl friend like one african from negerian . they have stayed together for five month . they are happy to each other. but when she go back her hometown during spring fetival , her family disagree very much , her parents shouted and blame her :" how can u find a foreign boyfriend ? u can make friends with them ,but cannot regard them as your future husband ?. it's hard for us to accept him ,u must stop your interaction with him , " she is very upset ,and always think how to make her partents accept her african boyfriend . but who knows , the worse is the boss she work for is also very surprised and persuade her to give up ,said " is there something wrong with mind , are u crazy ? " after her friends and collegues knowing that they never comunicate with the girl like before and always discuss something back of her , it seems that she is a crime who had done something very bad , seems that she should be ashame and feel guilty for herself . she don't know what happend , why everthing change . she told me she cannot breath even , there is no space for her to stay relaxly except for the god's house . ask me what should she do .
i said :" maybe u can get some help from the chinese women who have married african , maybe they can give u some advice ."
after interviewed many chinese woman , she said most of them suggest that it's far more better not to choose a african husband . one of the woman said :" u must be very brave to bear the public voice , and also should get used to the way of african's lifestyle , in negerian , women doesn't enjoy the same right as men . women stay in a lower position than men . some african husband like to have intimacy with others , can u accept that ? they are machismo . once u decide to marry an african , u must be prepared to meet the harsh chanllenge .some african marry chinese just for business,intimacy,visa and so forth . u must be very careful.  of course ,not all african will be so bad , there are very good ones . but the chance to enjoy a successful marriage is very low . u don't need to take that rist , "
i don't understand , love is no boundary , why is there someone always talking something wants them to break up ?each one have the right to choose the live they want , each one must find their own detiny . hope she can find her own one and make the right decision ! i even don't know how to help her , now she is very upset , every day just thinking , her weight is loosing heavily . as her best friend ,i really want to do something for her  , so ladies and gentlemen , [b]is it really a risk to choose an african ? is it really more better to choose a chinese husband for her ? [/b]hopefully u guys can tell us the truth and give some advice ! thanks in advance !

I was once told that it is a taboo for an asian(not only chinese) to marry an african. Now this thread justifies it. chai!!!!, , the problem is asians don't see anything good in black. I have some asian friends, chinese,japenese. They often have this prejudice that we africans are dumb(i mean stupid) and we are all criminals, , i have to prove myself different everytime, ,Only God can help us

In relation to your qs, i think there is no risk in marrying an african man.(providing they are not in nigeria). All those prejudice are just rubbish and can not be generalise.
The girl must be ready to take judgements, questions and raised-eyebrows from people though cos dis is big, especially on her side

Other alternative is to try and spend more time with each other, as you said they have stayed together for "five month". five months is too short to determine your future patner. This is marriage we talking about. A 5-20 years commitment. Spending more time with each other will help justify this guy's intention against the prejudice

Aloy+Emeka:
What if he doesn't have money to pursue the masters degree?. Are you going to finance the masters?

good point, but i will advice finding some way to make money to finance it.

hustle, learn computer trade, get into d music/entertainment industry or any other handy job to make money

you know overall all they want is a prove of a reponsible man. if you have a job now they won't be asking for a master degree

if you are making money somehow, then you can show that you are trying to make that master degree but no money. That one i'm sure they will understand

you never know, along the way, you might find your breakthrough in that handy job. i certainly did.

o boy!!, stop what you are doing. I have similar experience before. Usually it's just hormones or she's just pure naive

in other words, she does know what she's doing ot its impact on you

My advice
close your door.

walk away from her wen she comes.

Don't be nice

Do anything, believe me, you will be named a paedo .

Also what happens when she grow up and realise what you have done (you should ask the catholic priest of their experience)

older women have their own scoin scoin too but because of experience, they r better equipped at disguisin them.

This is true. Beware o

This is sought of a reasonable requirement especially from a parent's angle since you don't have a job
I think if you get a job, that should overcome the need for masters.

but while you are looking for a job, while not do your masters as well. In dat way, you won't look ,

I'll tell u d reason y i vowed 2 always mind my own business,  1day
i was walkin past a mental institute, i then started hearin d patients
shoutin '14' repeatedly & continuosly, out of curiosity i tried lukin
over d fence bt it was 2 high, i then saw a hole thru d fence, i
decided 2 peep bt all i saw was a mad man wit a stick, he then poked me on d eye then suddenly all d patients started shoutin 15,

A wife was in bed with her lover (cheating) when she heard her husband's key in the door. "Stay where you are," she said to the lover. "He's so drunk he won't even notice you're in bed with me. Sure enough, the husband lurched into bed & slept off, but a few minutes later, through a drunken haze, he saw six feet sticki, ng out at , the end of the bed. He turned to his wife: "Hey, there are six feet on this bed. There should only be four. What's going on?" "Nonsense," said the wife. "You're so drunk you miscounted. Get out of bed and try again. You can see better from over there". The husband climbed out of bed and counted. "One, two, three, four. Damn, you're right"

Egypt coach Hassan Shehata claims he has been approached by Nigeria to lead them at the World Cup in June.

More details here http://news.bbc.co.uk/sport2/hi/football/africa/8492166.stm

Even though i don't see how hiring him would solve the problem.

He's just going to be met by the politics of NFA football like others

No matter who call that number, they get the same reply.

Call barring is going to block all incoming calls which i don't want or are they
their special phones out there that can block a call from a particular number?

how do you find out who owns a mobile number? I am getting texts from someone and its getting annoying. How do I find out who owns the phone? I have tried notifying my operator but to no avail,I have tried putting in a password but it doesnt work, I have tried ringing it but a girl answers and then hangs up.
Is there a way to find out who it is?

pls help this has been going on 4 a month now and this number is my major number

I Laughed.

Wat a very dull match. How many attempt on goals did we have. ordinary zambia chei!!!
Ghana will show us.

The default username is root
and the password is blank according to this info for mysql ver 5.0. YOU WILL HAVE TO READ THE MANUAL FOR YOUR SPECIFIC VERSION

which beautiful men??

smart woman ,

:d

i'm rolling on the floor from just reading the title

Tell me poster, ur "dump" no smell?

truly a foolish servant, stupid as well

one story they told about some major game where Nigeria lost because the goalie saw 500 balls coming at him from different directions anytime the opposing team shot the ball into the net.

i remember that story

Oh Amodu what's wrong with you for God sake.

See frustration ohh

i must confess, i LMAO

good one

These days i can't put my faith in the Super Eagles. let just hope and pray

to tell the truth dis puzzles every time i go 2 a funeral but i tink it's the culture. Not until i travel out of Nigeria till see that it's a mad thing
But what can you do though? for me, i wuld never break a bank for any funeral

kai,ppl jump to conclusion to quick. i'm guessing ur next girlfriend wuld be ugly then haha

Happy birthday, mama-gee ha ha

as my girl would say "dat english bad menh"