Please who else is been sex starved at home. I can count how many times we've had sex since dis year. Always money money money all the time which is beginning to bother a lot more on greed. We're very comfortable. Solid investments, own the house we live in.

He don't cheat at least none that I know of and he's very free with his phone.

I'm tired of living this way... Any help guys? He's the last person you can seduce. It just don't work with him.

To think it's this same man loves sex like crazy even after our kids before this money talks, makes me wonder how people change so fast

Kobojunkie:
Then you both will likely have to continue with his depression ruling over your lives and enjoyment.

Maybe you could take up exercising, regularly, as a way of expending some of the sexual energy you carry with you. Discipline yourself so you are no longer tired on by your husband until he decides to overcome the depression whenever he gets around to it.

I signed up for a class 4 months ago because of my mummy pooch and the coach was kind of hitting on me and he's very attractive too. I won't lie. I had to stop going because of fear of the unknown. Till date my husband don't know the reason I stopped going.

If only he passed this one, my marriage would've been 100%. I guess you can't have it all.

Greatzeus:
If the only problem your husband has is low libido,then you are not only lucky, you're blessed, because there 1001 simple lasting solutions to it.
I will recommend Jalin herbal mannex,it is pure natural and herbal,it is a mixture of pure natural honey with some other Chinese roots, highly effective.

I'll make research on this. Thanks

SerikiFulani:


Please order

There's one that can suck your clitoris

There's one that can pound you like the real thing

There's also one to to stimulate your asshole

Let me stop here

Just do as you say

I'm strongly thinking towards this direction. I can't come and kill myself. I miss what a good sex feels like

tee59:
He is your husband, have an extensive discussion with him. He is a good man, so sex shouldn't be issue here. If he request for it much without any achievement you mentioned above, will you be given him? This your sex drive will have died since. But you have enjoyment without good sex, and that's your problem now. Create a good home atmosphere for your man and see to his relaxation. His sex drive will come back. Stop nagging him for this.

We have a very good relationship/communication. There was a time I tried not talking about sex for a period of 5 weeks, he didn't bulge. Always money money money talks all the time. He's getting me worked up unnecessary. What many women are denying their husbands and I'm here giving him on a platter, still ..

SerikiFulani:
He needs therapy

You can try using intimacy gadgets if you want...Don't kill that man

Stress alone is a libido killer not to talk of forcing him for sex which can frustrate him more

I would have suggested you get a young sexy man that can pound you very well but you said you don't wanna cheat on him and that's okay

I almost ordered one the other day but my faith stopped me. I might end up doing that if he doesn't change.

Like I said, cheating is not an option for me.

Kobojunkie:
Since the problem is psychological, why not suggest he seek professional mental health counseling for what seems to be depression?

He won't agree to it. I don't think he will

I'm 27, my husband is 39 and we have 3 kids together. My husband is a very good man and has made this marriage journey very easy for me. It's true what they say that no marriage is perfect. My only problem with him is low libido resulting from putting unnecessary pressure on himself. Every other thing about him is 100%.

He looks at his friends that has hotels, hostels and so on and start comparing them with him. This actually started 3 years ago when our last born was 1. We are doing great financially but he wants more.

Last night, I tried initiating sex again and he began about how he's not in the mood because of money matter again. I just tire. We live in our own house, have a house with tenants, investments here and there, still my husband is not taking things easy.

I doubt he's cheating. I have access to his phone whenever I want. He don't hide it and has no sneaky character. I might be wrong though but I highly doubt that.

Just ordinary gisting with him, I'll be soooo Hot and wet. Even as I'm typing this I'm so in the mood. I think about sex with him all day long. It's crazy.

He's not like this before. Though he's not the sex type but it has gotten so bad. I'm so frustrated with him. I don tire.

I need mature suggestions on how to go about this minus cheating. He's too good to be cheated on.

uwasam:
Good Evening all. Been awhile. So i did go for another round of IVF both for me and a surrogate this time. Is sad to say that i had a BFN. i started bleeding on the 8th day when i wiped and i was given injections, it stopped only for me to start bleeding on the 13th again but this time a lot heavier than the 8th day. I was also given another injection. i stayed in the hospital all tru and i did all i was supposed to do as i learnt from here. As for the surrogate, it was also a negative. She did not bleed at all. I used my eggs as i had 6 grade AA eggs that made it to day 5 before the implant. Four were implanted for me while two went to the surrogate. Am just wondering what could have gone wrong as all the prognosis were right this time or so i thought. Before the transfer i did Anti- Mullerian Hormone test and i was 2.44 hence my going ahead to use my eggs. I know my write up is lengthy but please sabi Mamas help me touch light this as hubby is insisting we try just surrogate rather than myself and a surrogate again. i have done 3IVFs and 1IUI. I had surgery to remove fibroids last year September. i will be 40yrs this year.
Sorry for any typo.

God will wipe away your tears and bless you with kids soonest. That's all I want to say.

Nyascobar1414:


You will have another story to tell..

I don't understand

Having read from page 1 - 8, all I can say is thank God for my marriage. 5years+ and counting.
Marry for the right reasons and you'll enjoy it. Any character or habit you know you can't condone in courtship, don't expect it to miraculously change in marriage.
Marriage is not a scam if you get it right.

Mamabella:
current weight is 6.4kg at 6 month plus.
My question was which of the formula I sent a baby add weight more . SMAGOLD OR APTAMIL.

I suggest enfamil. It makes babies really robust