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Sharingiscaring:
Please, can you tell me how I'll be hurt by continuing to share this story? Plus, you said I should seek advice, and I've received many helpful pieces of advice here already. If I go to someone offline to seek this same advice, the rumor might spread and become more harmful. So, I'll appreciate it if you let me know how sharing this on a faceless forum can hurt me as you said. I'm open to advice. Thanks 🙏

The continuation of sharing this story means that:

1. You are not only keep the thought of sleeping with her alive, you are also giving more power to such thought. If you are familiar with how thoughts works, you should understand that it ( the thought ) will eventually seek expression and you will sleep with her.

2. The consequences. You can never tell how it will end.

Any advice? Yeah, I got some practical advice for you. If you genuinely don't want to sleep with her and you are serious about it; here is what you should do?

1. Start avoiding her. Avoid any close proximity with her.

2. Stop staying at home with her. Find somewhere you can be staying to do your work snce you work from home. A friend place is better.

3. Stop sharing this story so you don't find reason to be with her to keep updating the thread.

4. Relocate if possible. Yes, leave that environment. This option is the hardest but it's the best to remedy your situation.

4. Reverse your thoughts towards her. How?
End the romantic thinking about her. Activate brotherly thought and see her as your sister. The problem with this option is that she might not think the same way. But it will help you

5. DANGER!! Imagine that you are caught in the act and your life is shattered and destroyed. The consequences can be very severe if caught. You could end up in jail got poisoned by the husband. It can ultimately lead to untimely death!

Sharingiscaring:
This is about the 6th time I'm facing such a temptation. Yet, I've never fallen. I hate olosho, but instead of me to Bleep a married woman, I'll move into town and look for pay as you go. So, don't worry, I'm never going to give in.

You're saying she has not started liking me. But, you'll see as I continue this story, how she has been checking me out. Most of these Gen Z girls no get conscience at all.

Your decision to keep sharing this story may eventually hurt you. Instead of you to seek for advice on how to escape if you really don't want to do it, you decided to be sharing the story. How do you think it will end?

Imredeemed:
I get that my reaction might have come off as overly controlling or petty, but that’s not how I see it. It's not about seeking my permission for every single thing—it’s about maintaining a level of communication and respect in the home. I never said they needed a proposal to leave, but as someone responsible for the household, being kept in the loop on important decisions should be a given.

As for my wife calling my mom, it's not that I'm unreachable, but when decisions affect me or my household, I believe I deserve to be involved directly. That’s not about being controlling—it's about having a voice in what happens in my own home. I understand this situation could have been handled better, and I’ll take responsibility for my part. But this is not about being a "petty ass"—it’s about fostering respect and communication in the family.

I’ll reflect on your advice, though, and work on better managing situations like this.

Is still your fault. Why do the transfer the aggression on the poor girl? Is she the cause?
Why didn't you address this issue of disrespect when it started?
I can assure you that you will struggle to fix it now because you failed to address it earlier. It's not too late though.

I think you should apologize to that girl with promise

symbianDON:
see finish don enter this matter from your wife and mother-in-law.

The man is falling to show understanding. Even after they explained to him why the sister in-law has to leave immediately.
@Op, I'm suspecting you

Godjone:


Who did we offend pls?

GEJ

correctguy101:
True, but that's just saying things the way they are.

The reality on ground does not mind our thoughts, whether they be negative or positive...

SMH

Thoughts are things. And powerful things at that. It is our thoughts that manifest to become our reality.

When you say things the way they are in a negative way, it affect your inner man negatively and ultimately weaken your drive to succeed.

I will give you one example:

An empty bottle is filled with water half way.
The half filled bottle is now given to two boys in the same environment under the same condition.
Then something interesting happened.

Boy A make a remark that the bottle is half full.
While Boy B make a remark that the bottle is half empty.

Observe carefully the thought patterns of these two boys and you will discover why some people succeed in life while others fail.

matrix199:
This war seems not to have a near end in sight.

Sure. I feel sorry for Ukrainian people.

That war is actually between US and Russia. That's why it will not be ending anytime soon.
But it is Ukraine that is suffering it.

emmaodet:
Oneal, I agree with you.
It is not funny at all.
Many men are dying silently insults and embarrassments their gfs or wives are giving them.
Unfortunately, most things a man needs to be called a man are external and not internal.
So many external factors have align with his own internal factors (brilliance, up and doing, hardworking, handsome etc) for him to perform at his best.
Even if you study hard and come out as the best in your department or school, it is still not a guarantee that you will be financially stable or live a decent life to raise a good family.
The jobs may not just come after submitting many cvs, going to prayer mountains and fasting with night vigils.
Even if you get the job, most are underpaid that will only keep you afloat enough for the next paycheck. You can be the best footballer in your street and school yet nature didn't just align for you to get a good agent to pick and connect you to clubs abroad.
You may have good voice and musics to produce but things won't just fall in place.
To make it worse, the decision of others far off like president far off in Abuja will have ripple effect on your life and decision making.
They may devalue the money in your hand right from Abuja without consulting you thereby making the bread you bought yesterday for #1,000 to become #1,300, transport to work from 300 to 450 thereby making you poorer and struggling more for things you don't know about.

You may be right. But I think this pattern of thought is negative and will produce negative results.

Meedon:
Why do karma not applicable to politicians? You see. They do all kinds of evil against mankind and still go scot-free.

When talking about karma, it's important to know that there is a good karma and a bad karma. T

Now to your question, karma is applicable to politicians. You think they go scot-free for all the evill they do? No. They will not and cannot go scot-free. They have their pains and regrets.

Most of them are so bitter because in their quest for money and power, they got themselves involved in some unthinkable acts that later took away their peace of mind.

You may think that they are going Scot free because you are not in their shoes.

Not all politicians are bad though.

It's important to note that nature doesn't care whether you are a politician or not. But it does reward everyone accordingly.

Fiscus105:
You know this, yet you are arguing with guy that you a mile apart when it comes to rational & unbiased reasoning.

You are right. I thought I could point him to the right direction. But I've stopped with my last reply to him.

Faber:
Oga zoom off. Relationship with modern day women , the millennials, the Gen Zers and the Gen Alphas doesn't have any set files... Na the game of who smart pass. You are still rigmarolling on the Universe this, the universe that ... forgetting that these people tell you that "they want to be free", " the future is female" how can you confront this? By being fragile, merciful, nice , kind etc to these modern women, you will end up a doormat

Show me only 5 women in modern history that have raised a broke man and turned him to a multimillionaire in dollars. You think there's a reward for good and nice guys anywhere in the world...
Just dey play

Is either you fail to understand or you deliberately refused to accept the truth that you cannot sow wickedness and reap kindness.

You are free to live the way you want. But I'm 100% sure that the laws of nature will not and cannot fail to act on you like the law of gravity.


There were generations before this one, and there will generations after this one

The only thing that remains and apply to all generations are the laws of nature.

Faber:
Total bull crap. All those good men that got cheated on and dumped by ladies, where was the cosmic law of attraction when bad bitches dealt with them...

The world is a jungle and dealing with women is not for weak and nice men. Learn or perish. I no fit talk pass this one.

Do really think that you can plant Coconut and harvest Orange?
It is only a foolish person that will jump down from a story building and expect his/her legs to remain the same
These are unbreakable universal laws and they apply to relationship in mental form.
You can't plant wickedness and expect to reap kindness.
The universe is built on justice. Forget the stories you hear. They're not telling you everything, and you don't really know what happened.

Faber:
The bolded is totally false assumption. How can u call a fickle, nagging, ever changing and cunning chameleons of a gender easy to control

Just dey play. To deal with that gender you have to appear very gentle and easy ...but ruthlessly cunning, selfish and wicked

Did I mention that women can be the most dangerous creature?


One must be ruthlessly cunning selfish and wicked to deal with women? You will definitely hurt yourself instead.

Are you aware of Cosmic Current?
Do you know anything about the Law Of Attraction?

When you begin to meet/come across cunning wicked and selfish ladies don't be surprised or think that all women are like that.

Thoughts are things! And powerful things at that. The thoughts you sent out into the universe meet similar thoughts and has a way of returning back to you.

This is why I always advise people who are looking to meet a good woman to first be a good person then the law of attraction will come to there aid.

When you come to the realization that universe is well ordered, and that nothing just happen without a cause, You appreciate the fact that you can create your experience including women experiences using the power thought.

lacasera14:
The best answer so far. I owe you a wine.

Just send me 14 bottles of Lacasera.
I prefer Lacasera to wine.


I don't really have time to talk on this topic.

But for my fellas who are having difficulties or finding it challenging to handle the opposite gender?

Here's an unbreakable law that works on women all the time without fail.

Greenlight!

Another name for this greenlight is likeness!

1. Make sure she shows some greenlight before going for her.

2. If you like her but she's not showing any greenlight, then look for the greenlight first. If you didn't find any greenlight. Leave her!
Check the next door for there are too many women/girls that are waiting for your arrival.

Don't stress yourself over women. Stressing yourself over a girl/woman will only achieve more stress in the relationship if you eventually get her. And it is the sure way to entering the simp kingdom!

lacasera14:
They don't. Women are mystery creatures.

Calm down and don't over think it. Women are the most simple creatures. Very tender and easy to control. At the same time, they can be the most dangerous creatures. It all depends on how you handle them.

lacasera14:
Most of these red pill advise do not work in real life and I wish I could create a thread to fault all of them.

Human beings are not robots. So do not expect or think that things will just fall in place for you because you've got some red pill knowledge.

1. There is no general rule
2. There are exceptions to every rule.

So observe your situation, apply the right red pill and you will be fine.

HayesQadir3:
•INFORMATION•
The nature of life as he vibrate now: ñote this is the time where people will want to reach the most important or exciting part of life or either trying to be good to someone not until Friday 23th any stake picks or activity now are spiritual from August 25th any activity or bet are good before 12noon

•••••••••SPIRITUAL PICKS I VALUE FOR TODAY•••••••••
UZBEKISTAN: Super League
Olympic vs Nasaf Qarshi
Value: Home win @4.30 Or 1X@1.80
Time:17:00
DON'T FORGET NOTHING IS 💯

Which one be spiritual pick again?
As in how? Do you embark on prayer and fasting ?

Zonefree:
A lady must be living in an apartment with a running water before she PREFERS a man with such amenities.

If she's coming from a hut where they draw water from a well, she has no moral obligation to PREFER what her parents couldn't afford.

A broke girl from a broke home shouldn't have preference. Rather she must see those amenities as a BONUS and Upgrade from her suitor and be thankful not to PREFER.

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suebebe:
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phatnpretty:
She is just being petty. Let her cry me a river. Why would a couple worship at different churches? Didnt you discuss it before marriage. Man up and stand your ground. Na so see finish dey take start o. Know when to say " yes " and when to say no " no". I am a woman too, I don't support nonsense.

The brother is weak and the wife knows it.
Have you heard of a blind Angel before?
That's the name @Op choose to answer.

WinMagnate:
Damn! So, James you're still on this project. Had thought you abandoned it since we never heard from you for long.

You'll win. Fight! Fight!! Fight!!!

The project is too time consuming. Even my sleep is taking from me. That's why am silent. But definitely, am working on the project. It will done. But honestly, I must confess. The project is actually an impossibility and only by chance or miracle can one achieve it.

Am actually attempting to track the Past, Present and the Future!

Let me explain.
I have to find a CONSTANCE in the system.
I.e, something or a pattern that happened in the past when a match was played. The same pattern will happen if the match is played today. And will continue to happen each time the match is played in the future!

This is beyond ordinary. And is the actual reason why the project have taken so long to accomplish.

Thanks for the encouragement. That's a major boost from you.
I hope you are a member of my FB group to be updated when the project will be ready

Smartgeek:
Yuou're right. That is why bookies encourage you to accumulate more games by giving you more bonuses per game accumulation. They know your chances of landing those different matches get slimmer with each game added.

Yes. The bookies know what they are doing. Sometimes I wonder how a 1.10 odd can become 5.00 odd due to multiple selections.

Select like 30 games and add a game with 1.10 or even 1.05 and see how much adds that will be added to your slip due to the multiple selections. Remove that same game and see how your total odds will drops.

Well, I don't don't blame them because even they (bookies) are in this business to make money

Reloadedisraelp:
yeah I remember.... 98% luck no,I disagree... betting is a random stuff almost all the time.... If u check most teams results for over2.5 you will see the random movement, while 1x2 is more random due to it 3outcome...so what am saying is dat.... If u're accumulating plenty games just bear in mind one or two of ur selection didn't happen....best way to track this random stuff is to reduce the numbers of ur games... atleast 2games is ok....then luck is just 30%

You may be right. I know that you have developed multiple strategies over time.

But if you understand that you have no control and that there is nothing one can do over the outcome of the games, then you will know that even a single selection depends entirely on 100% luck to happen in one's favor.

The reason is because we select games based on what we think. And what we think has nothing to do with what will happen. What will happen will still happen irrespective of what we thinks. This is why this business is very difficult.

Reloadedisraelp:
And I wanted to play the cs 1-1 @5 odd...

This business is mostly about good luck with small calculation and observation.
After spending over five good years on a project that aims to develop a tracking system for betting, I discovered that winning a bet is 98% pure luck.

My research is still ongoing as I will never give up until it is accomplished.


If you can remember, some yrs back I posted the screenshot of my research samples on the other thread that is now closed.

Elzazzi:
Even the innocent kids that are being bombed on a daily by the Israeli forces?

It is very unfortunate, But if your brother is a cultist your life will be in danger even though you are not a cultist

ChizzyBuna:
Im no longer a supporter of Israel.

I just found out that Jewish people STILL HATE JESUS CHRIST AFTER 2000. YRS AGO

FVCK RIGHTEOUSNESS FOR MISLEADING ME

Well, you don't need to Bleep RIGHTEOUSNESS. All you need is to study the Bible to know what God said in His word so no one can decieve you. There is a reason why the Israelites are not believing in Jesus Christ yet. But the time will come that they will believe and accept him.
That shouldn't be your problem.


On supporting Israel? I don't think you should stop if you really want to support them.
Why? They are still the children of Abraham and God Himself is with them because of His (God) covenant with Abraham their father.

What you are seeing today is a manifestation of God's covenant with Abraham

kingsways:
ICC has officially gone mad

Very mad

pansophist:
Both are not easy, either finding a wife or finding a husband.

I have always said before that good marriageable people are scarce. Until you have made money as a man, or are ready to settle down as a woman, you won't know how hard that thing is.

Then, you begin to think back on the good people you have pushed away due to your ignorance, vanity, or lack of tolerance. You were caught up in the lie that there is someone special and angelic waiting for you. And that there are many fishes in the sea.

True, there might be many fishes in the sea but do you know what's also in the sea? Trash, yes, lots of trash and plastic. Also shit, stones, sands, shells, and inedible stuff. All the rubbish you find on land is also in the sea.

Also, many of the reasons people push off good partners are because of their lack of self-consciousness. You are so imperfect, totally blind to your imperfection, but somehow, expect others to be.

When Jesus approached the men who wanted to stone the prostitute to death, he said a simple sentence to them, ''he who is without sin, throw the first stone''. They all vanish after he says that.

This sentence made them conscious of their imperfection, and that they should be easy on the prostitute. Don't kill her because she sins differently than you.

So if you are conscious of your shortcomings, you won't be out there looking for perfection in people. By tolerating imperfection, it is not character-based, but mostly physical such as what young people call ''spec''.

If someone lies, manipulates, wants to tame/conquer, is deceitful, vengeful, wicked, and just a shitty human, then dump him/her. Don't tolerate that because it's character-based. It's free to develop your character.

But if they aren't having a fat ass, not over six feet tall, a bit chubby, broke but not poor (poverty is a mindset), then these can be overlooked.

So yes, stop pushing off good people, them no plenty at all. If you are young and reading this, thinking you will just push good people off, you might not meet them again. I don't believe in karma, but only a few people escape this.

If you meet a good person that your heart accepts, who loves you and treats you right, then work with that. Otherwise, accept that you might not meet them again. Then go ahead and break up.

Your post explained why many people are finding it hard to find a good wife/husband.

I can challenge the @Op that he has previously pushed away a good girl before. And if he doesn't have a second chance, he will get a bad girl in return. I'm not trying to wish him bad. But that's the way it is.

There are good people everywhere as well as bad people. The problem is how do you meet these people? The answer to this question is beyond to scope of this thread.

However, I will advise those who are interested in finding a good partner to first be a good person, then have the abundance mentality and the "Law of Attraction" will come to your aid.

pol23:
What does Hamas represent to the Palestinians?
You’ve demilitarized the country…
Hamas is a resistance group.
If many of us are born in Palestine, we won’t only cheer Hamas.. but joined them.
How long will Palestinian looks on the face of suffering….
Everyone saying Isreal have the right to defend themselves…. Agreed.
But does Palestinian also have the same right ?
Even if they do what do they have to fight with?
I don’t like Palestinian either, but call a spade a spade.
This is the highest form of genocide and it’s dehumaning that most so called liberal state support this nonsense.

Calm down and answer this question:
Who started the nonsense?
What do you expect Israel to do?

If it was your mother, father, brother or sister that was murdered barbarically without any provocation by Hamas, what would you have done?

BItt:
Oh well, it's part of life.
So what other stuff are you onto now sir that I can learn from you?
I searched for the moniker mk88 you mentioned but didn't see it

Ok. What I'm into right now is not what you can learn. I can't also make recommendations for what you should learn at this time.

Just so you don't think or feel that I don't wanna help; I abandoned the above project for another research project. I've been on that research since 2018 till date. But hopefully, it will be successfully completed before December this year. It's a multi billon dollar project.

I will advise you follow me instead

Take care

BItt:
6 years later. How did it go bro

The project was abandoned

Ibrahimlagosian:
Yes,it must be physical

Your definition of sin make arm robbery a good business