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Family / Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by CosmicJames(m): 2:52pm On Feb 14, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth: The man is a beta and the wife knows it. He is helpless! He has made two big mistakes already. He can't even threaten his wife at this stage. The best he can do is to continue from where he stops. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Alpha Fvcks, Beta Bucks by CosmicJames(m): 1:26pm On Feb 14, 2020 |
Omar09:I'm suspecting there is an untold category of men with the ability to combine both Alpha and Beta. |
Romance / Re: My First Experience In Wooing A Lady, An Edo Girl by CosmicJames(m): 5:02pm On Feb 13, 2020 |
Pelon:Relax. No one ask you to look away from what you want that by so doing you will get what you want? No. Of course, you must go after what you want to get it. What I explain is one of the method through which women are attracted to men. Note the keyword "ATTRACTION" It is not the same as something that you want. For example, a woman may be attracted to you base on how you behave and keep yourself even though you don't want her. 6 Likes |
Romance / Re: My First Experience In Wooing A Lady, An Edo Girl by CosmicJames(m): 4:32am On Feb 13, 2020 |
biGDhAp:It is a natural attraction. Not jazz. The thing is; girls are like shadow. The more you run after them, the more they run away. But if you run away from them, they will run after you. The thing is that girls expect guys to come after them because that's the normal and usual thing in this part of the world. So when a particular guy stay back in an environment or neighborhood while other guys are coming after them, they (girls) usually get curious as to why he's staying back. The curiosity is their attraction. In the process of knowing why and how, they will do anything within their power to be with you. In other words, they will woo you! But it is important to know that as a guy, for girls to be curious about you and to woo you, you must be alive, active, calm and intelligent. 29 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: Ladies... How Do You Define A Hard Working Guy. by CosmicJames(m): 5:02pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:Some laws of the universe are unwritten. To be rich or poor, a whole lot of things are involved. Hard work is not enough. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: After Engagement, How Long Is Reasonable Before Marriage by CosmicJames(m): 10:53pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Sammy07:But these temptations are always with us even after marriage. They don't show up at marriage preparations like you said. |
Romance / Re: After Engagement, How Long Is Reasonable Before Marriage by CosmicJames(m): 9:22pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
subtlemee:Many temptations? How? |
Romance / Re: Introverts: Why Most People Don't Understand Them. by CosmicJames(m): 9:16pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
Joystark:Same here |
Religion / Re: Why Did God Send Evil Spirit To Torment King Saul? by CosmicJames(m): 12:56pm On Feb 09, 2020 |
MamaFryo:The questions you are asking are questions you can figure out yourself. But it appears you are operating from a low level of consciousness or knowledge about God and the universe. |
Romance / Re: Can We Now Say Virgins Are Good Girls And Wife Materials? by CosmicJames(m): 6:49am On Feb 09, 2020 |
midnighter:Let's assume that OP is looking to marry a virgin and wants to validate his decision or choice of marrying a virgin from this thread. Now if everybody start praising virgins without starting the truth of the matter, OP will validate his decision and may end up making some serious mistakes in this regard. So allow the negative side of view about virgins that looks like attracts on virgins because it help balance the equation. So that people who look to get advice on virgins from here won't make mistake. I hope you understand that not all virgins are made out of decision. A vast majority of virgins are made out of lack of opportunity. But most lack of opportunity virgins are mostly below 20 |
Romance / Re: Can We Now Say Virgins Are Good Girls And Wife Materials? by CosmicJames(m): 12:12am On Feb 09, 2020 |
Akinbahm: I don't think anyone is attacking virgins. People are just trying to state the obvious fact. That fact that being a virgin doesn't automatically make anyone a good person or good wife material. |
Romance / Re: Can We Now Say Virgins Are Good Girls And Wife Materials? by CosmicJames(m): 11:34pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
akaahs:Have you heard of foolish virgins before? Not all virgins are virgins out of self discipline. Some virgins are virgins out of lack of opportunity. Aside lack of opportunity, and self discipline, some people can be very proud, disrespectful unforgiving heart with no fear of God. The fact that they haven't had sex before doesn't change anything. So watch out for the characters of a virgin before you regret for the rest of your dear life. |
Romance / Re: Lady Cries Out Due To Scarcity Of Men by CosmicJames(m): 7:10pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
AshiraWealthy:NL men are Audio men. One real life male can be 20+ NL male. |
Romance / Re: Wife Runs Away With A Man She Claimed Raped Her Five Years Ago by CosmicJames(m): 6:56pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
Tallesty1:Relax brother. Women are human beings. You are not advised to be afraid of your fellow human beings. Fear is a vice with a tormenting power! Why on earth will you be afraid of women, and also be afraid of men who doesn't women? When you hear a story that touch like that, you only hear it in part. There is always more to each and every story you hear. Is not everything that you can know. But understand that nothing just happen in this life. The law of cause and effect will explain more to you. What if the man previously saw the negative signs but decide or choose to ignore it? In the man's post, he did mention that they were trying to track the man that his wife claimed to have raped her. Why was he trying to track the man? That should tell you another side of the story. Btw, you can start fearing me because I don't fear women and will never fear them. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Can We Now Say Virgins Are Good Girls And Wife Materials? by CosmicJames(m): 6:34pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
BadRadio: There are good virgins as well as bad virgins. Good virgins are the ones with good characters. While bad virgins are the ones with bad characters Don't marry her just because she's a virgin. Check her character. If she possess good characters along with her virginity, then wife her. |
Romance / Re: How Soon Do You See Yourself Getting Married? by CosmicJames(m): 9:47pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
Godpikin4real:Are you miss right? |
Adverts / Re: Guide to Create a Fully Functional PayPal Personal Account by CosmicJames(m): 12:07pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
emmdam:Okay. I really don't have time to face PayPal right now. So if you can put in more effort to fix business account as well, it will be better. |
Business / Re: Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 14 by CosmicJames(m): 12:01pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
IkpuNneGi:Easy bro. You need positive thoughts and calmness to win the games 1 Like |
Adverts / Re: Guide to Create a Fully Functional PayPal Personal Account by CosmicJames(m): 10:51am On Feb 07, 2020 |
emmdam post=86446h936:Business account? |
Romance / Re: She Said This To Her Boyfriend And He Couldn't Stop Weeping Until Now by CosmicJames(m): 10:09am On Feb 07, 2020 |
Marakajaakkli:Sorry, but you just committed the sin of deception. What happens to honesty? I doubt your christian status for being deliberately dishonest! Brother, repent first before you preach! |
Family / Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by CosmicJames(m): 9:02am On Feb 07, 2020 |
dominique: This is the case of evil relatives. I don't subscribe to giving access to bad people in my home. |
Family / Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by CosmicJames(m): 8:46am On Feb 07, 2020 |
WritePal:You get the idea. Women are like children when they come into the life of a man. They learn and adapt very fast. They are very smart too. They have their own characters and behaviors. But they usually put their behaviors on hold to study their husbands behaviors including how their husbands relate to their people. After they have successfully captured their husbands behavior and understands how they relate with their parents and relations, they (wives) release their own characters and behaviors base on that of their husbands. And they will release the behaviors that will suit their husbands behaviors. If you observe carefully, you will see that there is no magic anywhere. Women don't come out from no where to stop their in-laws access to their son house. Those women are only doing their husbands bidding. The men are just hiding behind their wives. The men are manifesting their desires to keep their families away through their wives so that their families will not know that they are the real culprit! Many people will argue or deny this fact. But that is exactly how it happened and is happening today. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by CosmicJames(m): 6:31am On Feb 07, 2020 |
Ryan03:Thank you! Most of the women are this, women are that are caused by the men. Men are the ones creating most of the problems and putting the blame on the women. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by CosmicJames(m): 6:24am On Feb 07, 2020 |
bigcee: Very bad mentality! Imagine that kind of mindset? How can she be so possessive again her future in-laws? But she will only succeed if she get married to a like minded fellow. A husband who also doesn't want his people around. Otherwise she will have to drop the idea or remain single for ever |
Family / Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by CosmicJames(m): 6:15am On Feb 07, 2020 |
Ilekokonit:The truth is that 100% of women want to control their husbands and be in charge. It is the duty of the man to tame his women. Women are very smart and intelligent beings. They start gently and softly watching your reactions. You must stop her at the very start. But if you say you are in love and you don't want to lose her by ignoring her early negative signs, she will become ungovernable later. I insist that no woman wake up from no where to manipulate any man without the man cooperation 1 Like |
Family / Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by CosmicJames(m): 5:48am On Feb 07, 2020 |
Evercurious:If you're consistently told a lie for a long time, after some time, you will accept that lie to be the truth. But it doesn't change the fact that you are believing a lie. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by CosmicJames(m): 11:57pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
engrchykae:The question is; when your wife left you, did you die? Don't give your power away to women. If you try it, they will rubbish later and faster! Sorry, but it is your uncle that doesn't want his brother around. It wasn't his wife. Your uncle just pretend so you guys will think that it is his wife. You will agree with me that your uncle has all the power in this world to stop his wife from trying rubbish. But he failed to use that power. Why did he fail to use that power? At the end, didn't his wife left him? You must understand how to handle women early on before they turned to something else I think I will create a thread on how to follow or handle women so many people will know that women are very simple. But they can be very frustrating if you don't know their codes 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by CosmicJames(m): 11:31pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
Youngzedd: Sorry, but something is wrong with your thought patterns. And because your persistent thoughts will always find a way to manifest itself, women will always manipulate you! Then you will complain about women not knowing that you created the condition you experience or experiencing. This is what so many people fail to know. So they end up creating problems for themselves. The same way you accept and concluded that women are created manipulators, is the same way many people said women are evil. But they want an evil thing to be good to them. I know how women behaves. So I don't need to study any thing about them. Women are like children in their parents hand. Children grow up and becomes obedient to their parents, or rebellious against their parents depending on HOW they are brought up. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Don't Marry Me If You Won't Allow My Relations To Stay Or Visit Me. by CosmicJames(m): 3:39pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
Papasmal: Do you know the truth of this matter? No lady can successfully separate her in-laws from her home without the help of her husband. No women can separate you from your own people except you want it to be so. I don't blame women that stop their in-laws from visiting or staying with her in her husband's house because I know that it is what their husbands want. But their husbands are smart pretenders who put their wives at the front, and putting the blame on their wives to escape the wrath of their families. Free the women! They are not the problem. Their husbands is!! 44 Likes 8 Shares |
Family / Re: My Brother-In-Law Dips His Hands Inside My Pot Of Soup by CosmicJames(m): 11:54am On Feb 06, 2020 |
Iwantpeace:You seem to be a good woman. But I don't like the fact that you let your husband to beg you for the stay of his immediate brother. Looks like your husband is weak! Apart from that, you look good! Now here is what you should do. For once in your life, decide to be a Super Women! How? Take life very simple. Consider what your husband bro is doing as nothing. Over look and tolerate it the same way you did before marriage and you will be fine. You must see that guy as a temptation in your home. A temptation you must overcome to maintain your good wife status. Otherwise, the very thing you tried really hard to avoid before the marriage will still happen now |
Romance / Re: Pls Ladies How True Is This by CosmicJames(m): 7:30am On Feb 02, 2020 |
Youngkingjaey1: Women love with their hearts. Before a normal girl can give you sex, she must first give you her heart! The reason is because women consider sex as the highest thing they can give in relation to their body. Forget about the physical action. When it comes to sex, for women, the whole thing have to do with their hearts. That's why before you can have sex with any normal lady, you must first win her heart. So before a girl cheat, there must be a major shift in her heart of love from her current love. But for men, it is not so. Man's love is entirely different from that of women. Man cheat just for the pleasure. 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Help! My Sister Is Overbossing Her Husband by CosmicJames(m): 6:23pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
SwagPower:Your sister is taking an unfair advantage of her husband. You really wish you could help, but unfortunately there is nothing you can do to help him. Being a good nice guy is not a problem. But if a guy doesn't know how to be assertive while being good and nice, then he will suffer hell in the hand of a lady be it wife or girlfriend. Do you think your sister's husband doesn't know about his wife behaviour? Of course he knows. The problem is that he was aware of those characters earlier but he decided to ignore and allowed it. Trying to stop it now will be disastrous. So he have to endure it. Before you try to advise or stop your sister, note that what you are seeing now doesn't start today. It started a long time ago and have come to stay. That's how that marriage will continue to be. Did you know that your sister successfully tested her husband assertive nature several times and found that her husband is very weak and that nothing will happen if she act the way she is acting? 2 Likes |
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