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Romance / Re: Ladies: Date A Guy That Is Less Smarter Than You Or Go For The Dumb Ones ! by CosmicJames(m): 9:33pm On Feb 19, 2020
Riele:


It's YIM not IYM
My bad.
YIM -- Yahoo Instant Messenger
Romance / Re: Don't Promise A Woman Marriage Until You Know Her TRUE Character.... by CosmicJames(m): 9:27pm On Feb 19, 2020
healthserve:



Their development forges them to become " unfeminine " " disaffectionate ". It steals their soul and robs them of their humanity reducing them to mere walking things not humans. In their inner core is tensile steel unruly,wild and uncontrollable and unyielded souls. This is their fate. This is what their worl environmebt instils in them, the ability to be wicked , ruthless, deadly, unloving, suggesting to them that emaptjyhy, care,loyalty, morals makes them weak and useless. That disaffectionism should replace subject to rational reasoning, good will and being able to " yield ". Hence by default they have many internal resistance wlals built up even before issues arises. They have become reduced to " thinhs " and have parts of their souls stripped by elssons they picked during theeir formative periods/phases in rhe quest to rise to the top of the ladder either in the corpate world or thru life.


The summary is these kinds are narcissitic and are been sharpened and prepared to be their soouses enemies in future, ruin them and in some cases take their lives


Lets pray many men listen to these clarion calls. Like you said these lessons for some of us were learnt after papssing through some burning fires.
Easy bro. Don't blame them women.
Learn to take responsibility for your decision and actions.
There is no single good human being on earth.

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Romance / Re: Ladies: Date A Guy That Is Less Smarter Than You Or Go For The Dumb Ones ! by CosmicJames(m): 9:12pm On Feb 19, 2020
Riele:


undecided

So you're saying I'm attracted to dumb one's cuz I'm the smart one ?
No. You don't understand the law yet.

If you are smart, you should be attracted to smart men.

By the way, IYM in your profile means:
Instant Yahoo Messenger

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Romance / Re: Ladies: Date A Guy That Is Less Smarter Than You Or Go For The Dumb Ones ! by CosmicJames(m): 8:43pm On Feb 19, 2020
Riele:


I keep meeting dumb men because they're everywhere .

Smart men are also everywhere. But you keep meeting the dumb ones.
There is a law of attraction that states that:

"Like Charges Attract, Unlike Charges Repel"

That's why I said you should check yourself

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Romance / Re: Ladies: Date A Guy That Is Less Smarter Than You Or Go For The Dumb Ones ! by CosmicJames(m): 8:32pm On Feb 19, 2020
Riele:


Exactly ! . The one's I've met makes up "The Nigerian men"
Makes up Nigerian dumb men instead.
You seriously need to check yourself why you keep meeting dump men though

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Romance / Re: Who Would You Choose?!! by CosmicJames(m): 9:22am On Feb 18, 2020
I try as much as possible to live a easy and simple life. I can stay with both a cheating girlfriend and a faithful girlfriend.
Depending on what I want from the relationship.

For the cheating girlfriend, no future for the relationship. She can do as she likes. No problem. I won't even bother what she is doing. Let her not also bother what I do.

For the faithful girlfriend, the relationship has a future. But if she do pim, I will remove the future from the relationship and continue with her as well. No time to worry about anything

I like using my head well.

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Romance / Re: How Much Would You Have In Your Account Before Thinking Of Marriage? by CosmicJames(m): 6:56am On Feb 18, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


whats the difference....? whatever you did twice a month before, should also be done twice a month after marriage... unless we are talking of eating/sleeping together.
I give up.

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Romance / Re: How Much Would You Have In Your Account Before Thinking Of Marriage? by CosmicJames(m): 12:12am On Feb 18, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


if you entertained a babe twice a month, why do you think that when married they should go for entertainment everyday? just because you guys are married does NOT mean you should change your dating habits (unless you have kids)... so you guys would still go on dates twice a month, and the rest of the time watch Netflix at home while curling in the sofa, et voila!

btw: if/when these guys live together, then they will now have more money for entertainment anyway...
I get your point. But I think the choice of words in my previous comment is making you talk or reason like this?
Now, consider the word; "Cater" for her twice a month. Instead of entertain her twice a month
Romance / Re: Your Advice Needed: Matured Guys Only by CosmicJames(m): 12:02am On Feb 18, 2020
Villagemeat:
What will you do if you get to fine out that your girlfriend of 3 years had sex with a man to get you a job.

Forget the story,just drop your best advice,and she did not denied it. Is a well paid job,with good conditions. Is been six months in that job,but got to find out yesterday. I will take the advice here seriously.

Boys,your insult is not needed. Thanks
There is no right way to do the wrong thing.
Did you asked her to do such thing?
She acted on her own accord.
Not good for you.
What to do?
It depends.
If you intend to marry her, then I will advise you not to go ahead with the marriage.
For me, if I can't trust you, I can't marry you.
But if it is just a relationship with no direction, then who cares? Continue with her. But remember to inform her that you won't marry her.
Romance / Re: How Much Would You Have In Your Account Before Thinking Of Marriage? by CosmicJames(m): 11:33pm On Feb 17, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


pls, by all means, tell us all what are the responsibilities that you are talking about? better yet, why dont you tell us all what changes (in dating lovers life) the minute they get married?!

In dating, a lady can visit once in two weeks. Meaning that her guy can entertain her twice in a month.
But in marriage?

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Romance / Re: How Much Would You Have In Your Account Before Thinking Of Marriage? by CosmicJames(m): 11:25pm On Feb 17, 2020
A Stable and reliable source of income is the perfect condition for getting married.
Without it, the young couple will quickly run out of cash and start to suffer even though there was N10m in the account before the wedding

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Romance / Re: How Much Would You Have In Your Account Before Thinking Of Marriage? by CosmicJames(m): 11:20pm On Feb 17, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


are you saying that... if two broke people are happily dating and loving each other's broke self, if they suddenly get married (while still being broke) their happiness will suddenly vanish, because of lack of funds?!?!?!!?

feeding yourself and paying bills has absolutely NOTHING to do with marriage, and all to do with LIFE. if someone cant feed themselves and/or pay their bills then they shouldnt try to date (let alone marry) anyone, and they should instead get their priorities straight AND sort their lives out . there are many people out there who are broke after feeding and/paying their bills, that certainly does not mean they cant date

sadly, we all know that many women out there indeed see dating/marriage as a poverty alleviation tool.
Dating and marriage conditions are different. The former comes with less responsibility. While the later comes with more and full responsibility.

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Romance / Re: Tell Me From Your Experience.. by CosmicJames(m): 10:23pm On Feb 17, 2020
Fafesot:
You guys should help me...
Apart from the physical factors which are to be considered before taking partners...
How do I find the good women
Igbo women are not options ,abeg
Yoruba and Hausa only..
You are setting yourself up for failure already. One of the principle of success is flexibility. Rigidity will hurt your chances of getting a good woman.
There are good and bad women everywhere. You just have to find the right one for you.

I have two brothers. One of them marry an Igbo woman. While the other marry from our tribe. We are from the south. But trust me, the Igbo woman outshines the woman of my tribe in character and everything

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Family / Re: Woman Loses 39-year-old Marriage For Denying Husband Sexual Rights by CosmicJames(m): 5:55pm On Feb 17, 2020
Vyolet:
They were married for 39years? Sad it turned out this way after such a long time.
I can take either excuses such as abuse and disrespect but sex wouldn't be a reason for him to divorce her at their advance age when he can get it outside and everyone remains happy.
Get it outside from who?
How can everyone remain happy under such condition?
Don't support evil! So if you were the judge you would have asked the man to get it from outside while he has a wife in the house? You are also telling the wife to continue to deny her husband sex. That's bad. Very bad!! Pray it shouldn't happen to you
Crime / Re: Man Commits Suicide By Hanging As Girlfriend He Trained In School Dumps Him by CosmicJames(m): 8:19pm On Feb 16, 2020
Jahkye:
you're 1000% right
only those that has never been through such will bash the guy
depression kills hundreds of teenagers in US yearly
a very bad situation and it takes a strong selfless mind to scale through

but one good thing about it is that if you manage to get through you'll become emotionally stronger and nothing will shake you or suprise you emotionally again
Looks like you have been there before?
I have been there before, and I know exactly how it feels. But I'm now stronger and nothing shakes me anymore

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Business / Re: Get A Shopify Store Without Subscription Fee Until 50 Sales Guaranteed by CosmicJames(m): 12:20pm On Feb 16, 2020
africanman85:
Can I open it without a referee ?
Two referees.
Just walk into any GTB branch and request for a Dom account form. You will get all that is required there
Business / Re: Get A Shopify Store Without Subscription Fee Until 50 Sales Guaranteed by CosmicJames(m): 9:23am On Feb 16, 2020
africanman85:
Since I don't have domiciliary account, how do I list in dollars ?
You can't list in Dollars then.
Consider opening a Dom account with GTB
Romance / Re: When She Say You Are Her Only BF, But She Insults And Disrespects You! by CosmicJames(m): 7:45am On Feb 16, 2020
Bluezy13:
Sometimes people are just plainly stupid.



Yes. In fact very stupid all in the name of love. I have been stupid like that before for one bade like that. But then I was inexperience in the game.

Let any babe try any nonsense with me now

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Business / Re: Get A Shopify Store Without Subscription Fee Until 50 Sales Guaranteed by CosmicJames(m): 7:12am On Feb 16, 2020
AIT1:


Hi, I can set up a Shopify Droshipping store. But my problem is the 14 days trial and again I don't and I also need to sell to the international market.
The 14 days free trial is no longer a problem. You can now get unlimited free trial for your Shopify Store. Although the free trial will expire after you successfully make 45-50 sales.

You can now sell in Dollars using Paystack

All you need to do is to place your order and it will be done.
Romance / Re: If You Get Paid $10 Million On The Condition That Your Dad Stands Besides..... by CosmicJames(m): 5:45pm On Feb 15, 2020
Blackmiserable:


I like your sarcasm. Chai!
You don't need to do shit for money. If you know and believe that you will make enough or excess money in course of your lifetime, you won't subscribe to such rubbish.
Ask Mark Zuckerberg or Dangote same question
Romance / Re: If You Get Paid $10 Million On The Condition That Your Dad Stands Besides..... by CosmicJames(m): 4:22pm On Feb 15, 2020
What is money? I will not even do it for $100,000
Romance / Re: Boyfriend Ditches Lady On Valentine's Day by CosmicJames(m): 4:11pm On Feb 15, 2020
Jodha:


Very big loss.... I'm sure he ditched her for a hoe that doesn't gives a faqk about him...


Guys always do this to the good ones
Same way girls do it to good guys?
Crime / Re: Wife Pours Hot Water On Husband For Buying Phone For Side Chick In Imo (Graphic) by CosmicJames(m): 1:35pm On Feb 15, 2020
comshots:
If you have been fvcking another woman's husband,a beautiful and hot chick will fvck your husband.And when he get home he will put his unwashed diick inside your mouth for you to svck.But if you don't fvck another woman's husband no lady will go near your husband.He will be faithful to only you.
And the circle continues.
Tomorrow the side chick in question will get married and get angry when her husband keeps side chick. Forgetting that she was a problem in someone's marriage.

Karma is real

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Business / Re: Please Help Me by CosmicJames(m): 11:43am On Feb 15, 2020
KrazzyAndy:

Yeah bro i play online cash of instant payment so I'll be able to play my next game we can talk on Whatsapp tho i can give you many other strategies and ideas that works for me
OK. Fine then. I also play online. Bro, I need all the winning strategy in this world to succeed in this game.
I gotta win

Interestingly, you where looking for help here. I tried helping, but I couldn't due to my schedule at the moment. As a result, you are now trying to help me.

Isn't it amazing?
Overall, it is good to be good.

I beg hala me here
+2347036741556
Celebrities / Re: Cossy Ojiakor: I Supplied Ladies To Pastor. I’m Born Again, I’m Not A Sex Addict by CosmicJames(m): 11:08am On Feb 15, 2020
qualityovenbake:
Fear woman.
All you guys asking people to fear women, I wonder if women are God that you are asking people fear?

Ordinary human being. A woman for that matter.
Business / Re: Please Help Me by CosmicJames(m): 6:47am On Feb 15, 2020
KrazzyAndy:

It's easy bro i just pick 2 teams to score a goal usually at 1.10 then i stake 20k win 2k
Do it 3x a day and I'm seeing 6k every day worked for a week straight but then i got greedy and learnt a very bitter lesson so I'm only go try that when I'm ready for it again
Wow! That's a good strategy. I suspect you play online?
When you are ready again, don't make such mistake the second time.
Always think what if the game failed?
That way, you will stake what you can afford to loose.

From my research, I have developed a method (I'm still working on it) that can detect the outcome of each match. Which now give me the ability to know if a goal will come out of a match or not.

So I will most likely use this your winning method.
Business / Re: Please Help Me by CosmicJames(m): 7:06pm On Feb 14, 2020
KrazzyAndy:

I'll be 19 by may
Young blood! You will succeed. Just get ready to learn and be determine to succeed. Good luck brother
Business / Re: Please Help Me by CosmicJames(m): 7:03pm On Feb 14, 2020
KrazzyAndy:

Bro football betting ain't easy if not for God helping me i almost killed my self...but i have deviced a new means but that will when I'm financially buoyant enough to lose huge amounts of money
Sure. The system ain't easy o. That's why I said I'm studying it. I want to master the system first before I start playing.

But I'm curious. Which method did you develop?

On another note, it appears you are preparing to go into betting to loose huge amount of money!
You need to change that mindset immediately.
Romance / Re: Read The Facebook Posts By Killed AAU Girl To Her Guy That Got People Talking by CosmicJames(m): 5:46pm On Feb 14, 2020
Gwagone:
WTF
All because of LIKES and COMMENTS
Naso devil dey take enter some people life
No be lie. Maybe she foresaw her death.
I think people should be careful what they say

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Business / Re: Please Help Me by CosmicJames(m): 5:40pm On Feb 14, 2020
KrazzyAndy:
Please I'm a student i schoot at edo state and right now I'm trying to complete my school fees whuch was cut short cause of personal problems at home...i have a a laptop but i don't have any idea on how to make money over the internet tho I've made researchs but none of them are available to nigerians so please I'm begging you if you make money online and you can tutor me on how to do it..I'll be grateful to share my first income from it 50/50
Your story is very genuine.
But you need time to study and understand how online biz works, especially the model you find interesting or choose to go with.
At the moment I'm studying the business side of football ( Betting). I see a lot of money can be made genuinely from there.

As such, I'm currently not available for mentorship. Sorry

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