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Romance / Re: Finding A Wife Is Really Not Easy O by CosmicJames(m): 8:11am On Feb 07
pansophist:
Both are not easy, either finding a wife or finding a husband.

I have always said before that good marriageable people are scarce. Until you have made money as a man, or are ready to settle down as a woman, you won't know how hard that thing is.

Then, you begin to think back on the good people you have pushed away due to your ignorance, vanity, or lack of tolerance. You were caught up in the lie that there is someone special and angelic waiting for you. And that there are many fishes in the sea.

True, there might be many fishes in the sea but do you know what's also in the sea? Trash, yes, lots of trash and plastic. Also shit, stones, sands, shells, and inedible stuff. All the rubbish you find on land is also in the sea.

Also, many of the reasons people push off good partners are because of their lack of self-consciousness. You are so imperfect, totally blind to your imperfection, but somehow, expect others to be.

When Jesus approached the men who wanted to stone the prostitute to death, he said a simple sentence to them, ''he who is without sin, throw the first stone''. They all vanish after he says that.

This sentence made them conscious of their imperfection, and that they should be easy on the prostitute. Don't kill her because she sins differently than you.

So if you are conscious of your shortcomings, you won't be out there looking for perfection in people. By tolerating imperfection, it is not character-based, but mostly physical such as what young people call ''spec''.

If someone lies, manipulates, wants to tame/conquer, is deceitful, vengeful, wicked, and just a shitty human, then dump him/her. Don't tolerate that because it's character-based. It's free to develop your character.

But if they aren't having a fat ass, not over six feet tall, a bit chubby, broke but not poor (poverty is a mindset), then these can be overlooked.

So yes, stop pushing off good people, them no plenty at all. If you are young and reading this, thinking you will just push good people off, you might not meet them again. I don't believe in karma, but only a few people escape this.

If you meet a good person that your heart accepts, who loves you and treats you right, then work with that. Otherwise, accept that you might not meet them again. Then go ahead and break up.

Your post explained why many people are finding it hard to find a good wife/husband.

I can challenge the @Op that he has previously pushed away a good girl before. And if he doesn't have a second chance, he will get a bad girl in return. I'm not trying to wish him bad. But that's the way it is.

There are good people everywhere as well as bad people. The problem is how do you meet these people? The answer to this question is beyond to scope of this thread.

However, I will advise those who are interested in finding a good partner to first be a good person, then have the abundance mentality and the "Law of Attraction" will come to your aid.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: IDF Blows Up Hamas Parliament Building (Photos) by CosmicJames(m): 6:11pm On Nov 15, 2023
pol23:
What does Hamas represent to the Palestinians?
You’ve demilitarized the country…
Hamas is a resistance group.
If many of us are born in Palestine, we won’t only cheer Hamas.. but joined them.
How long will Palestinian looks on the face of suffering….
Everyone saying Isreal have the right to defend themselves…. Agreed.
But does Palestinian also have the same right ?
Even if they do what do they have to fight with?
I don’t like Palestinian either, but call a spade a spade.
This is the highest form of genocide and it’s dehumaning that most so called liberal state support this nonsense.

Calm down and answer this question:
Who started the nonsense?
What do you expect Israel to do?

If it was your mother, father, brother or sister that was murdered barbarically without any provocation by Hamas, what would you have done?
Business / Re: Modified - Make Money Online Publishing Ebooks On Kindle And Other Places by CosmicJames(m): 8:58am On Sep 13, 2023
BItt:



Oh well, it's part of life.
So what other stuff are you onto now sir that I can learn from you?
I searched for the moniker mk88 you mentioned but didn't see it

Ok. What I'm into right now is not what you can learn. I can't also make recommendations for what you should learn at this time.

Just so you don't think or feel that I don't wanna help; I abandoned the above project for another research project. I've been on that research since 2018 till date. But hopefully, it will be successfully completed before December this year. It's a multi billon dollar project.

I will advise you follow me instead

Take care
Business / Re: Modified - Make Money Online Publishing Ebooks On Kindle And Other Places by CosmicJames(m): 3:26am On Sep 13, 2023
BItt:


6 years later. How did it go bro

The project was abandoned
Business / Re: Forex Trade Alerts: Season 23 by CosmicJames(m): 11:05am On Jul 22, 2023
Ibrahimlagosian:
Yes,it must be physical

Your definition of sin make arm robbery a good business

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Nairaland / General / Re: Man Wins $1.08 Billion Jackpot by CosmicJames(m): 4:09pm On Jul 21, 2023
chatinent:


It's actually about different mindsets.

You may be right. But a restricted mindset is not favorable for breakthrough

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Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by CosmicJames(m): 4:02am On Jul 20, 2023
symbuul:
Omoh the banters here sef. Unnecessary talks that add no money or value to anyone. Wake up the next day, rinse and repeat.


I think is because the new season has not started. So they have some free time
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by CosmicJames(m): 9:32am On Jul 19, 2023
terrezo2002:
Take betting out of your life, you will experience a better life.
In betting, you experience more negative energies than positive ones which means you are losing.
It is better to give the money for betting to the needy than gambling with it.
The money rewards of bets always have little value no matter how much you win.
No amount money you win is big enough to make you satisfied. You will desire more.
The more you win, the more greedy you become.
Whatever controls your mind controls your life.
Where your treasure is, your heart and life revolves around. When you keep betting, you are sinking your life into gambling.
You don't have to be an addict before your life is dictated by the spirit of betting. That is why you quit many times and still return to betting.

Knowledge is power. Accepting the truth is the first step of deliverance.

Be wise. Live right.

The word for you today
I liked your post not because I agree with you, but because you point out some vital truth.
From my observation, the problem with betting is that people when into it without proper knowledge of the system while depending on luck.

It's like going into forest trading without the knowledge of how the forest market works. One will just loose all of his/her money in the market. The problem is not the forest market but the individual without the knowledge of the forest market.

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Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by CosmicJames(m): 6:00pm On Jul 17, 2023
grafixlord:
so u have seen someone that achieved it?
Nope. I have not.
But I will do myself.
Earlier I posted a data screen of my research of which I intend to use to track matches. Once I perfect my tracking system, I will conquer the system and defeat Alabi.

Just so you know, is now 5 good years into the research and I'm still on it. There is no going back.

I'm building two set of Codes.
One is for live match, the other is for zoom.

Almost everybody all over the world have agreed that there is no sure odds. But I'm seeing the possibility of sure odds already
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by CosmicJames(m): 4:25pm On Jul 17, 2023
grafixlord:
I have ask this severally here
Did anyone here complete a rollover for 30 days
Is it possible ??

It is possible. But I'm not sure if any one have achieved it here yet.
You can try to be the first o
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by CosmicJames(m): 8:41am On Jul 15, 2023
wiseone28:
When the league is on going? 🙄
They relaxed some key players sometimes. Injury problem is there. They can also collect Red Card.
The Referee can decide to blow against them in favor of the other team. All these things can affect the performance of a team.

You see. That's why this business is extremely difficult. A lot of forces can just activate against somebody's ticket...
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by CosmicJames(m): 4:40am On Jul 15, 2023
stacyadams:
..any perfect plan to win urgent one million this weekend chief?
No. But there's a plan for a sustainable guaranteed income weekly. However, you can't get this plan or strategy and make that money now.
The plan is not yet perfect
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by CosmicJames(m): 9:46pm On Jul 14, 2023
Reloadedisraelp:
no perfection in predicting except u are God himself ....not even gods can predict perfectly


If e cut ...we move to the next one
By attaining perfection, I do not mean that you will know exactly what will happen. No, that's not possible. But you can have a perfect plan or strategy to guarantee your winnings.
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by CosmicJames(m): 9:22pm On Jul 14, 2023
wiseone28:
What is this curse with betting..

A team will win 7 games home and away in a row without losing but the moment you put them in your ticket they will lose?

You will see a team that have never lost to the other team before home and away, but the moment you put them in your ticket away will beat them silly..

This is madness

Sorry. But it is not madness; it is a mystery. We sometimes try to predict the future using the past. But the future is never in the past.

I would have suggest you use thier odds in making your decisions. But you will complain that the odds are not stable

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Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by CosmicJames(m): 8:53pm On Jul 14, 2023
jimmynauty:


The future is gods who are allowed
I'm trying to understand your idea of the future? The future is gods as in how?
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by CosmicJames(m): 3:05pm On Jul 14, 2023
Reloadedisraelp:
finally somebody saw what I was thinking... grin .... Wen games go wrong they blame alabi n all sort of evil spirit but never realised nature can never b cheated grin. The best u can ever do in betting is reduce ur game n follow a constant pattern....just a tip.... Gudluck guys✌️🤗

Congrats brother on your discovery of a constant pattern! That's all you needed to make a fortune from betting or prediction.

I will advise you to look carefully and take note of those games that are breaking the pattern. And then try to find out the cause.
You can attain perfection

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Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by CosmicJames(m): 2:53pm On Jul 14, 2023
Ab0bii:

Zoom? Are you for real?

God abeg, my hand no dey for zoom

Yes, zoom is more difficult. If you don't know what's up, don't go there
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by CosmicJames(m): 1:59pm On Jul 14, 2023
Ab0bii:

Lol wetin man go play again?

Have you checked zoom? I think there's something to play there.
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by CosmicJames(m): 1:54pm On Jul 14, 2023
Ab0bii:
This place don die, Alabi is wicked
I'm not sure if Alabi is wicked. The problem is that future is very unpredictable and that's what you are trying to do.

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Career / Re: Chicken Republic Female Security Officer Dances On Duty by CosmicJames(m): 4:38pm On Jun 25, 2023
Likoya:
I just dey for auto and property section, dey look cars and houses wey I no fit buy..This life, money good abeg
You are using your powers wrongly! Why not think and say that you can buy those cars and properties?
Just so you know; riches and wealth are within your reach. You are well built, fully equipped to achieve or conquer anything. But it must start from within.

You shouldn't be thinking and saying that you can't. That will negatively affect the full manifestation of your destiny.

Think that you can. Say you can do it. See possibilities. That way, you will activate the universe for your ultimate good
Religion / Re: What The Bible Says About Marriage by CosmicJames(m): 11:41am On Jun 25, 2023
jogsman01:
mad people fool this platform cheesy
Yes. Because the platform is free. Anybody can join and be talking rubbish
Family / Re: Guys, Please What Do You Think Of This Lady? Picture by CosmicJames(m): 9:54pm On Jun 18, 2023
Kobojunkie:
What do you mean? undecided

Human aura? undecided

The physical action may not be a problem. But the thought behind it can be. Snake is a poisonous and dangerous being. Hence the choice of it for a tattoo may speak volumes
in negativity for the person in question.

She might not mean to the harmful.
But "thought" has a way of manifesting itself. Therefore, the snake thought in her may manifest by default over time. Resultantly
she might actually become a dangerous person.

The energy (Aura) sorounding her is looking good.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Rivers State Civil Service Employment Test (UPDATE) by CosmicJames(m): 8:10am On Jun 18, 2023
PussyKing:
These people are not serious at all. This is morning hours yet the site is still down

I think it's just for formality. I regret why I wasted my money and time applying for that job.

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Family / Re: Guys, Please What Do You Think Of This Lady? Picture by CosmicJames(m): 7:43am On Jun 18, 2023
Kobojunkie:
So in your mind, a yakuza -- or plain tattoo enthusiast--- covered from head to toe. --- particularly those of them who have snakes as pets--- with snake tattoos invites spiritual things by it? undecided

Nigeria needs to seriously develop its mental health industry if it is to ever prosper. lipsrsealed

Thoughts are things and powerful things at that. Plus, there is human Aura
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by CosmicJames(m): 7:26pm On Jun 11, 2023
recieve:

This comment touched my soul... But you're wrong about the user name, I still give to others here and privately
Good then. I'm trying to see a better you. Don't let people look down on you. Take care
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by CosmicJames(m): 2:38pm On Jun 11, 2023
Bergavis:


10k daily is what I do. For the miserable ones,note that bergavis can do 10k daily for 360 days. Thanks man.

Good strategy. As long as your gains is more than your losses, you will be fine.

Betting is not a good venture for poor people
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by CosmicJames(m): 2:31pm On Jun 11, 2023
recieve:

Boss make I drop id?
Congratulations

Bro, I think you can do better. Imagine being the one winning games and giving to others. I mean you can actually be the one.
Try changing your username to "GIVER" and then start giving to others no matter how small it be.
Miracle is happening to people; it happen to you
Business / Re: ➜ ➜ ➜ Football (+/Other Sports) Betting Season 17 ➜ ➜ ➜ by CosmicJames(m): 2:14pm On Jun 11, 2023
Lhimeet:


This level of greediness and selfishness dey another grade... shocked shocked shocked

Dem give you 5k still you wan collect from person 5k because your name na receive, omo.

I think the problem of the guy in question is mental obstacle. He doesn't think of helping others.
Out of the 5k gift that he received, did he ever thought of giving out just N500 to someone? I guess the answer is no.
Politics / Re: Buhari: My Cows Easier To Control Than Nigerians by CosmicJames(m): 12:29pm On May 29, 2023
Samunique:
This old man will never cease to insult Nigerians.

So your cow are better than Nigerians

Don't worry your own woes will begin very soon, you deliberately oppressed Nigerians for good 8yrs, and now you're going, after all your so called last minutes apologies, you're wrapping it up with your cows are better than Nigerians.

God will judge you !!! undecided

I know many nervous Nigerians will understand and see this erekere ( Jokes ) as direct insults on Nigerians.
Calm down brother man. It was Nigerians that brought Buhari upon themselves by rejecting Jonathan.
In case you don't know, it was Nigerians desire that brought all those calamities on us.
I don't think God will punish him ( Buhari) because he didn't force himself on Nigerians.
Religion / Re: Is Gambling A Sin? by CosmicJames(m): 12:25pm On Mar 12, 2023
Dtruthspeaker:


Company shares Ke? Pz, guiness, Coca-Cola, Wapco, Savannah Bank, Standard trust, ETB, Lever brothers etc I bet you were not born when these companies were reigning and how many Nigerians got anything from it? Only 2% of the population got their monies bsck I want to be liberal with the figure, the remaining 80% lost it all.

You did not answer the question
Family / Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by CosmicJames(m): 9:48am On Feb 10, 2023
KeyEndurance:
I have this friend of mine who likes visiting my house every blessed day. Before that things were moving well, whenever he visited, he must demand for food and I usually make him happy by given him his needs.

But now, everybody knows how Nigeria is. Since last week, this my friend never stopped coming to my house and I am the kind of guy that's struggling to survive and he Is Coming To my House to add His Problem To My Own Again.

The Things Is Disturbing my Mind But I Don't know What To Tell Him to Stop coming For Now.

Thank God you have to give.
Pray to have more so you can continue to give.

Know that it is possible that it would have been the other way round.

According to your usename, endure. This time will pass and you will be fine.
Romance / Re: 9 Ways To Tell She Is In Love But Afraid To Show It by CosmicJames(m): 3:37am On Dec 29, 2022
Olusloveblog:
Women are usually difficult to figure out especially for men who have little or no experience when it comes to relationships. There are some cases where a woman falls in love with a man but will be afraid to show it. It takes an experienced man to be able to tell when a woman is in love but afraid to show it.

Love requires time, love requires patience. Real love don’t just happen after a few dates. That is why a lot of girls find it terrifying to say “I love you” to a man.

There is a probability a girl loves you if most of the points mentioned here applies to her. Also note that you should never conclude that a girl doesn’t love you just because she is yet to say it.

Here are 9 ways to tell she is in love but afraid to show it.

1) She replies your text quickly.
When a girl replies your text as soon as she can. You don’t have to wait for hours or days before you get a reply from her and she is not the type that stresses you before you talk to her. She is probably in love with you.

2) She is always available to hang out.
She has private issues to attend to, she is a busy woman, she needs to run some errands but she makes time for you when you want to hang out. It’s a sign she loves you.

3) She likes spending more time with you.
When she enjoys having prolonged conversations with you, she makes an effort to make the time you spend with each other a quality time, then she might be in love with you.

4) She makes fun of you a lot.
She makes fun of you but it’s not because she doesn’t like you. She makes fun of you not because she wants you to feel bad but because she wants to build a friendliness relationship with you.

5) She goes extra mile to meet your needs and expectations.
When a woman is willing to stress herself just to meet your needs and expectations, she is in love with you.

6) She responds positively to your sense of humor.
When your jokes make her laugh and she feels cosy around you, it is probably a sign she is in love with you.

7) She starts imitating your habits.
Did you notice or realize she is actually imitating some of your habits? It is believed that when you are attracted to someone, you start copying some of their habits. If you realize she is copying some of your habits, then she loves you.

cool She compliments you a lot.
She showers you with many compliments, she let’s you know she likes you. Although she might be uncomfortable telling you she loves you but the signs that she wants to be with you are glaring.

9) She displays playful behavior when she is around you.
Flirting is one of the ways to show someone you are interested in them. If she flirts with you a lot and she is not scared about it, then she is probably interested in you.


Source: https://www.olusloveblog.com/2022/08/9-ways-to-tell-she-is-in-love-but.html?m=1

There is a problem, and what you wrote doesn't apply here. Poverty and hardship are starving LOVE in this part of the world. How can you expect a girl that perhaps have not eating since yesterday because there is no food and no money to give you attention in the name of LOVE? How? Give her money to buy food to eat first before you talk about any love.

You see, is not that there is no love in Nigeria. No. There is so much love here. But like I said, poverty and hardship have practically killed the love of many

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