donestk:
1. Overseas relationship: Separated by 000s of miles and time zone, your girl may be getting some cassava without you detecting. The 'helper' perhaps is aware of this huge distance and may be giving her even while on phone with you.

2. Long distance relationships: Lagos-Abuja, Owerri-Enugu or Jos-Kaduna also leaves a vacuum for her to be laid undetected.

3. Inter-LGA relationships: Same state but different LGA eg Lagos Mainland vs Island gulf validates cheating too.

4. NYSC girlfriend: Female corpers on national assignment are likely to have a coded helper in a far away land across Nigeria.

5. Postgraduate studies: Also seemingly responsible, female PG students sometimes get fond of course mates during lectures and tutorials and in rare occasion gets laid.

6. Office: A busy work environment also leaves females getting a bestie in the office. Slowly emotions trigger and boom shes laid.

7. Sales persons: A lot of our ladies now sell virtually, especially on the Whatsapp status. During delivery she may offer beyond the product advsertised.

8. Birthdays, bridal showers: When she attends a bridal shower, it may perhaps be an opportunity to be laid elsewhere undetected.

9. Trainings, conferences and workshops: This involves travels and accommodation in a far away state.

10. Social media: Your girl may be on Badoo, Inmessage, Tinder etc especially when your not a tech savvy guy.

Add yours

Cheating has to do with decision.
Close or far away, a woman who wants to cheat or decided to cheat will cheat without being detected.

Same way a woman who doesn't want to cheat or decided not to cheat will not cheat even if she's far away in another country.

iLegendd:


Please, I want to beg you in the name to God — we are not the same.

This young man has been on my case for years. Why? Envy. I was charging people 2k on certain a WhatsApp group, but he abused me that no one will pay. The more he sees my success stories and people paying, the more frustrated he got.

At a point, he realized how profitable relationship books were, so he started writing his. He sent me a message on WhatsApp to help him promote his books and take some share, but I declined. Later, he started spamming my WhatsApp with some Chinese links, so I blocked him.

He got angrier and worse in abusing me. At times, he will praise me, other times, he will abuse me. He was on and off.

I wondered the kind of depression he is battling with. He got even more frustrated and started creating threads under his old moniker called Chenzen. He started drafting and formating his posts to look like mine and at the end of his post, he will type "typing..." just as I used to.

He improved his article formatting, punctuation, and spelling just to look like mine. After months of frustratingly parading Nairaland impersonating me, he failed and started chasing a certain teenage girl. One day, she deactivated and he got heartbroken and deactivated too.

After some months, he missed Nairaland and its drama, so he ran back and created different accounts and MadeINChenzen is on of them.

No matter how he tries to type like me, you can easily spot the difference. He uses abbreviation a lot like ur for your. He starts lots of his sentences with lowercase letter, but I don't do that. At times, he punctuates poorly, but other times, he tries.

In fact, he is a fan of me who wanted to be close to me, but the way he approached it made me to restrain him and till today, he has been haunting me for not letting him into my heart.

So, please, don't mix it. If he abuses you tomorrow, you may come back and attack me thinking I was the one.

I'm begging you in the name of God, we are not the same. Some people have abused me of things I don't know of.

See his main deactivated moniker below. That guy needs some psychological help.

He will first of all tell you you're not intelligent and talk down on you.

The next is to envy you when he sees you're progressing.

The third one will be to imitate you to try to have your kind of success and fanbase, but if it doesn't work, he will finally come and crumble you with negativity and more abuse, then use his alternate monikers to attack you from all angles.

Who does that?

Fine then. I believe you brother man.
I checked with @MadeInChenzen2 and the account less than one month old.
Now, let me tell you, you make this whole thing looks suspicious that you are the same out of your responses.

You have been around here a little while, so you should be matured enough.

Now act maturedly by ignoring him entirely and watch his attacks die naturally.

Don't think that you will benefit from his attacks by keeping it alive because on the long run, it will affect you image negatively.

If I'm not mistaken, I have had my share of attacks from the original @ Chenzen before. He's actually a very proud fellow. But he's also smart and intelligent as well.

In my early days here when I was coming up, I use to apply the counter attack method until I found that silent treatment is the best weapon against attackers.

I know you are one of my true fan here, that's why I wasn't happy seeing you in this kind of situation.

I believe you are a real Legend. And there is more to being a real Legend than responding to everybody and anybody.

I'm Cosmic, I therefore send some positive energy to master situations to you.

southniyikaye:
what discord? The op and ilegend abi legend stout is the same person just looking for attention.. The op writes the same way legend stout writes his nonsense

The discord is staged.
But I think is not a good way to run things because it made innocent people to support one, and curse another ignorantly.
Look at how some people are now begging for nothing. And they are begging the same person.
It's bad. Very bad.
I know ilegend to be a hard working person. But I don't expect him to be doing this.

Badboibipo:
You see I'm sited here and I'm just reminiscing on my life in perspective. I am looking at the whole rollercoaster of my reality, trying to figure out how or when I got it all WRONG!
You see when people see potential in you, I mean a quality that makes you stand out from the crowd..a quality that's so glaring that anyone who lays eyes on you gets easily drawn to you. That to me is a very scary thing! I mean it could also be a very beautiful thing but in my case it became scary and now sour. I have two friends, two very attractive Male friends who have very identical realities as mine. They often get complimented about their looks, people gaze at them unerringly in the midst of a crowd, and everyone easily wants to start a conversation with them because at first glance they look like that one person you would love to hang out with daily. Now that is exactly my experience and perhaps why we are all friends because we all see that quality in each other when around each other. But here is the thing, that same quality to me is why we have all become delusional, lazy and very narcissistic in nature. We feel the world revolves around our feats and lack any real desire to become better. We often dream of a life of wealth, fame and adventure while doing almost nothing relevant about it. We all have no skills, talent or dregree. We just dream and because we look like what we dream about naturally we almost get lost in the idea that we are living our dreams each passing day..and yes society do their part in fuelling our delusions of grandeur. I am a fucking loser, a dreamer, a very intelligent and passionate Male who has got his whole life all wrong because he couldn't harness his potential for good.
Now what the Bleep is "potential", I wont bore you with the definition but u can look it up yourself. People often said I have potential, everyone saw something in me..everyone wanted to be around me or have a conversation with me. I got lost in all the attention and did nothing productive with my life, rather I dreamt of a life where I was king! Now look at me, sweating like a goat in my bed and wondering where the hell I got it all wrong at 30 years old. And the funny thing is people still treat me the same but these days I feel too old and wretched to even raise my stupid shoulders high. Bleep me, Bleep my stupid life.

You got it wrong at AMBITION.
That's why you fail to develop your potentials. Fix Ambition and you will find yourself acquiring skills, making plans and taking actions that will help you achieve your set goals.

It is not too late to start all over again.
Get some personal development books to help you awaken the giant in you.

Here are some recommendations from my personal library:

1. Think And Grow Rich -- Napoleon Hill

2. As A Man Thinketh -- James Allen

3. Goals -- Brain Tracy

4. The Science Of Getting Rich -- Wallace D Wattles

5. Laws Of Success -- Napoleon Hill

These books have the potentials to change your life forever.

You can download the PDF via Google

All the best brother

healthserve:
This is a deep thread only deep people can understand

The only people that will understand a thing on this thread are people with same or similar experiences.
This is the story of people who thought they will be somewhere at 30. Only to discover that they are nowhere at 31
So they wondered why they are still in such a state with all their visions potentials?

It is a deep thread no doubt.
But I think the problem is not the potentials.

For me, the real problem is one's level of AMBITION!
Being too ambitious can be very dangerous!

BuddhaPalm:
No.

Not because of karma or morals though.

A humiliated husband can be dangerous.

He could do things he would live to regret. And in that passion driven moment, his senses leave him.

Why wouldn't you do it then?

Hmm, football. I can't believe my eyes

idoms:
Don't have anyone yet. My colleagues are all male. Don't have any female friends. I mostly keep to myself

You need some big project that will occupy your mind so much that you won't even have time to think about sex.

viruz2020:

Yea that if nothing goes wrong

Something can go wrong of course.
Use your head o.
Don't compound all the money everytime.
Keep your profit and always recycle what you can afford to loose

viruz2020:

That good I did a statistics of betting on just 1.20 odd everyday using the balance from previous day you won't believe how much on can make after 30 days I have that running now for a while and have over 50k there starting with just 1k the problem with our people is that they are too greedy they want to invest small and make big which is very risky

I've equally did such calculations before. If you keep to it, within 3 months, you will become a millionaire faster

viruz2020:

I have tried different approach before including based on individual players and pressures on the coach but they still manage to disappoint me trust I have built a lot of AI to help predict and still am still having issues predicting there was a time wrote on to predict over 1.5 it brought 21 games I bet the game and one game lost then I decided to split the games into 2 and bet still I ran into same problem with two this time I went on with 3 so I just abounded the project

I understand exactly how it to fail after spending sleepless nights developing a strategy and failed at the first attempt of using the strategy.

If you were me, you shouldn't have given up on it. For me, after I decided that a result is worth achieving, I usually stick to whatever it is that I want to achieve no matter how long and hard it takes until I achieved it.

Note that I said I have been studying the football system for over a year. During the period, I have tried all the imaginable strategy that one can think of.
Yet I was falling. But I refuse to quit. I was somehow convinced that I will find a way around it. But I don't know how? So I kept on pressing.

Then one day, a breakthrough idea flashed into my mind and that was how come about my Code Strategy.

Honestly, I cried the day I got the breakthrough.

Right now I understand why it is extremely difficult to predict games correctly.
Each game comes in it own nature.
And some game are extremely unpredictable based on their nature.

Now if you don't know the nature of a game, how will you know the option to play for that game that will show green?

You see, that's why the bet companies are making all the money.

Another problem is that people are very greedy. They want to use N100 to win 20M

It is possible though. But someone can play game all his life without winning for a day trying to use N100 to win 20M

I will advise you not to give up if you really want it. But as you can see, it is not an easy task.

I will start playing online using my strategy.
I'm taking it as a serious business. I will not be greedy. With 1.5 - 2 odd, good to go.
Even if it is 1 odd, as long as I confirm that it will enter, I will bet.

viruz2020:

Everything have it own story am a sentimental person who put his country first before anything even my own religion and yes am a Muslim virus is not necessarily a bad thing they have been use to cure or even solve problem there even research where they are used to generate electricity we don't have to see them as a bad thing rather how they are used
and i discovered that you can never be able to predict an accurate game no prediction is 100% even so call fixed matches sometimes meets a set back so why not look for a means where you don't have to loose ever again.
Am just always on a lookout for how I can help my fellow Nigerians.
At first what I did was create a platform and offer people 70% of their investment weekly but then I discovered that no one will trust a stranger with their money that how far all this scammers have eaten deep into our people and to be honest you can't released the full method plus code either even if you are paid for it
It will stop working very fast so why not drop the concept and let those who can build do theirs and we can have a lot of different systems out there each failing at different point rather than the only one failing

I did some more calculations and found that the profit margins is too tiny. It can't really help anybody.
So I will drop the idea instead.

But I have been researching and studying the entire football system for over a year now. Spending money, time and energy in a bid to track down the entire system so that I can predict any game with 100% accuracy.


That's why I earlier told you that I have some knowledge in betting.
After developing strategy upon strategies, I finally stumbled on a method that is able to spy any game and return near accurate result of the game before they actually play it.

Right now I can predict games with near accuracy. But I haven't started playing yet because I'm still on the research.

The stage I'm now is to check with my strategy to confirm its accuracy and reliability. It could take another 2-6 months to confirm everything before I fully go public. I will launch a subscription base prediction site then.

There is a possibility of 100% accurate prediction brother.
I've seen that possibility with my developed strategy.

Let me tell you a little about the strategy I developed.
I discovered it after many months of endless struggle. It didn't come easily

It is a digital code like 1, 2, 3.

It doesn't consider the table position of a club, their past results or head to head comparison.


All it does consider and put into use is a club's strength. And that strength has to do with their momentary strength. I. E, club strength for the match they are about to play.

What that means is that the strategy is able to detect if a particular club has same issues that caused them to reserve some players, or if a key player is on injury and won't be playing the match.

Another incredible thing about the strategy is it's ability to know similar games.
For example, if a game ended in a 1-1 result today, the strategy is able to know when that exact kind of game appear in the future.

It also possess the ability to know if club has equal strength.
And more. But let me just stop here

In summary, what I discovered is that the system is rotatory. The result of this week is what what happened last week and will still happen next week. One just have to know which match will still end 1-1 this week.
And I have developed a strategy that is able to track them accordingly. I'm still on it, I'm not done yet

viruz2020:

Am never about fancy packages am always about good result

Why are you using Virus as Username?
You must be a great guy!
Such username doesn't portray the real you.

I got an unfailing winning strategy from that your strategy explanation.

I never knew you were a blessing to me in disguise.

Please note: the idea is not that your strategy. But it is that your strategy that inspired the idea.

May God bless your hustle!

Thank very much!!

viruz2020:

If you don't understand something ask and stop hiding acting as if you are an angel trying to save Nigeria and the if you understand anything about arbitrage betting you will understand that it all about windows which means you need to wait for what is like a glitch for you to bet your game in two different site it like if one site offers under 1.5 goals at 3.10 odd and another site offers over 1.5 goals at around 1.30 odd and you want to trade 10k so you have to divide the money such that which ever happens you still have profit

Sorry if I crossed your path. But I don't mean to act as an Angel. All I wanted was an explanation. But you failed to do so early on. If you have explained like you did here since, there wouldn't been any need to prolong the talk to this extent.

Anyway, good strategy. But using such strategy, you don't have to wait for any window and the windows are many and always open.. I'm now using your terminology -- WINDOWS

I think I will check out this your Windows strategy. But in another way so I won't have to wait and many people can use it without any problem

OnpointDesign:
The Sex part is the one that caught my attention.

I deflowered a girl once and after that experience, I stay away from virgins.

I see you're a very emotional person. This girl go really show you shege. LOL.

.

Why? What happened?
Someone needs more details to lean one or two.
I have a virgin to handle o

viruz2020:

Packaging is for scammers I don't need to know how to package anything since what am doing is real I will rather have people testify on what they experience than have false testimony full every where with fake screen shots filling every where because that what we all believe now

Packaging got nothing to do with scamming people. A good product also demand to be well packaged.
Learn to present what you want to offer well. It is part of the testimony.

viruz2020:

It not about the number of sites it about which one have the open window and if they discover they have the right to cancel your booking imaging you have no idea it was cancelled and the other one lost then you discover that the one that is suppose to bring the profit has been cancelled now that is loss and they are able to do this because you agreed to the terms and conditions and they will catch on if too many people are booking the same single game at the same ratio trust me this happened in the last world cup many tickets where cancelled and the money returned

You are trying to get away with your excuse by sighting World Cup as an example.
A World Cup that billions of people can play at once. Is that what you're comparing your strategy with? How many people can you even communicate your strategy to?

Which open window?
Is there a particular betting site that give free winning out there that if too many people know about it they will close shop?

Don't try to confuse people here twisting words.

Explain the open window. Let's know exactly what's that?

RisenPhoenix:


Yes. But we never try to dupe women into raising children that are not their own under false pretences. If a woman gets a child from another man, it's a free world, but the moment she tries to get me to raise it by pretending it's mine, it's fraud. There is no hypocrisy there.

Plus, women don't pay bride price.
So there can't be a competition in this regard

silaxx:
the guy is confused

No. He's not confuse. He wants to collect money from the public. But he lacks packaging or have nothing to offer

MrVeyron:
I don't even understand the guy. He's just beating around the bush...not really saying what he wants. If you require money before you teach people your trick, say it! Which one is partnership bla bla bla

He's a virus. Check his moniker.
He posted this same topic in the investment section asking for phone numbers.
He joined NL just 17 January 2020.

I have some knowledge in betting.
So I know he's lying when he said the system will stop working.
But he can continue. Maybe some people will fall for him

viruz2020:
the system because bet sites will start to cancel bets

How many bet sites are around?
Home and abroad?
Bet sites that is unlimited and adding up?
How much can you even take from them compared to what they are making?

Bro, this your excuse looks somehow

I think you are not serious

viruz2020:

I have no intention of giving out my secret but only to allow few people make good amount of money weekly because if it becomes obvious then the system will stop working and I don't want that right now got bills to pay

Not sure if I understand you.
Which system will stop working?
Is it the betting industry or your strategy that will stop working?

Fordzzy:
What happens if there are is more boko haram to fight? what will be the job of the agency?

Look beyond the surface.
They have a secret agenda.
They want to establish BH ministry.
But they are fighting BH.
Imagine such nonsense

Biafrareform:


Okay, she doesn't send me money . I do the sending . She just sent that 6k after she received her allawee to help sort some stuff.

Well I get your point . I want to move past this, bit also want to make it right if is possible for her . Cos to me , everyone deserve a second chance

Give her second chance. She will surely change.
That's what you want to hear.
Sorry brother man. Right now your eyes are closed and your ear blocked. No amount of talk can scale through to your thinking faculty until you brought calamity on yourself.

How do you understand English?
Your girl, a girl you want to marry is cheating in the present, but you keep saying is the past?

She even asked you to go look for another girl because you are asking her to stop rubbish. What an insult!
You've gone beyond what you should know. Another insult. Is she not a woman you want to marry? Is there something you are not supposed to know?

Are you this weak? What kind of person are you?

Don't only give her second chance.
Worship her join.

Nonsense

cococandy:
As long the excuse is acceptable to him when his wife wants a side dude , then all’s good.

The condition must be the same then.

chatinent:
He's an infidel! That is no justification. That's sexuality immorality, which is forbidden in all religions.

But denying her husband sex is unforbiden? I hear you

DanTunde:
we might have a hot quarrel and I beat her out of anger. This things happen

The idea of beating an adult, your wife for that matter is a no, no for me. Don't even try it. If you thinking that way, it means you are not wise. Wise men don't engage their wives in a physical combat.
Use emotional and attitudinal beating instead. It is more painful, and it reset their brains than physical beating.

Next time, learn to ask questions upside down. You will get a fair answer.

For example, jokingly ask her what if you didn't beat her if she does something really bad, will she think you really love her?

thesicilian:
You and your husband need to change your mentality about your children. Whether boy or girl, are they not human beings? As long as they are healthy.
This silly concept of "I want someone to bear my name", what good has his name done for him? There are female children who are making their parents and countries proud, and same goes for the males.

That "Who will bear my name" mentality is a big problem in Africa.
I wonder when people in this part of the world will understand that a child is a child. Male or female. And that what matters is that one have a child.
What fucking name are they being concerned about? Who the fucking name help?
When people die, do they go to heaven or hell with male child?

healthserve:
CosmicJames

I hope you can relate this scenario with statements made earlier on llekokonit thread



We have a simp and a feminist combination scenario here Ubunja Martinez39 ericsmith jonnyspute

Chill, brother chill.
Is all the man fault.
That's what you get when as a man you ignored danger signs earlier in the name of love. Or thinks she will change after marriage.

Did you read this part,

"Colleagues and eye witness also confirmed that this woman 'Omalicha Genycoffee' had shown violent traits in the past. Either by fighting her husband who is a doctor at FMC Owerri in public, or leaving him stranded by taking his car home"

What does it tells you?

Like I said before, there is no good human being on earth. Is all about compatibility.

See, this same woman that is like beast to her husband will be crying and begging another man for love. She will be extremely good n nice to the later.

I had the opportunity to experience both sides of women. I'm speaking from experience.

biGDhAp:
... maybe she's not dumb or not. who knows but she's definitely not smart either.. sorry man but why keep writing dump instead of dumb.. feels somehow

Thanks brother man. Noted
Smartphone completing words challenge.

biGDhAp:
she sounds dumb writing that.. she knows she herself is one hell of a dumbfvck. it's not new to her

No. She's not dumb. She's actually smart. Very vibrant and active. But she seems to hold a wrong mentality towards men. So she keep attracting the kind of men that will validate her believe (men are dumb) towards men.

I think that's the problem
Once she change that mentality, then start thinking and accept that there are smart niggas out there, she will start to attract them the same way she's attracting dumb niggas now

Riele:


If I'm dumb , it also takes a dumb you to identify me .

Chill.. you are not dumb. Maybe a little adjustment (mental adjustment) will do.

You possess some mental powers that help create your reality.
If you are smart, but think that Nigerian men are dumb, by default, you send the dumb men thought into the universe.
That your thought will meet similar thoughts and will return to you in the form of dumb men.
Although you will be unaware of this. But it is one of the unbreakable laws of the universe.

Haven't you feel attracted to someone male or female? Or feel repelled to be with someone male or female before?

In each case, you can't really explain why and how? You just have the feeling.

It is due to the functioning of some universal laws base on your mental conditions.

Are you a Christian?
Have you seen where the Holy Book said and I quote
"Be it unto you according to your faith?" That is referring to your mentality.

How about "As a man thinketh so is he"
Have you heard that?

Don't look at the physical appearance.
We are a finished product of what we think.

Let me just stop here jare. Na romance section we dey