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I try as much as possible to live a easy and simple life. I can stay with both a cheating girlfriend and a faithful girlfriend.
Depending on what I want from the relationship.

For the cheating girlfriend, no future for the relationship. She can do as she likes. No problem. I won't even bother what she is doing. Let her not also bother what I do.

For the faithful girlfriend, the relationship has a future. But if she do pim, I will remove the future from the relationship and continue with her as well. No time to worry about anything

I like using my head well.

MrBrownJay1:
whats the difference....? whatever you did twice a month before, should also be done twice a month after marriage... unless we are talking of eating/sleeping together.

I give up.

MrBrownJay1:
if you entertained a babe twice a month, why do you think that when married they should go for entertainment everyday? just because you guys are married does NOT mean you should change your dating habits (unless you have kids)... so you guys would still go on dates twice a month, and the rest of the time watch Netflix at home while curling in the sofa, et voila!

btw: if/when these guys live together, then they will now have more money for entertainment anyway...

I get your point. But I think the choice of words in my previous comment is making you talk or reason like this?
Now, consider the word; "Cater" for her twice a month. Instead of entertain her twice a month

Villagemeat:
What will you do if you get to fine out that your girlfriend of 3 years had sex with a man to get you a job.

Forget the story,just drop your best advice,and she did not denied it. Is a well paid job,with good conditions. Is been six months in that job,but got to find out yesterday. I will take the advice here seriously.

Boys,your insult is not needed. Thanks

There is no right way to do the wrong thing.
Did you asked her to do such thing?
She acted on her own accord.
Not good for you.
What to do?
It depends.
If you intend to marry her, then I will advise you not to go ahead with the marriage.
For me, if I can't trust you, I can't marry you.
But if it is just a relationship with no direction, then who cares? Continue with her. But remember to inform her that you won't marry her.

MrBrownJay1:
pls, by all means, tell us all what are the responsibilities that you are talking about? better yet, why dont you tell us all what changes (in dating lovers life) the minute they get married?!

In dating, a lady can visit once in two weeks. Meaning that her guy can entertain her twice in a month.
But in marriage?

A Stable and reliable source of income is the perfect condition for getting married.
Without it, the young couple will quickly run out of cash and start to suffer even though there was N10m in the account before the wedding

MrBrownJay1:
are you saying that... if two broke people are happily dating and loving each other's broke self, if they suddenly get married (while still being broke) their happiness will suddenly vanish, because of lack of funds?!?!?!!?

feeding yourself and paying bills has absolutely NOTHING to do with marriage, and all to do with LIFE. if someone cant feed themselves and/or pay their bills then they shouldnt try to date (let alone marry) anyone, and they should instead get their priorities straight AND sort their lives out . there are many people out there who are broke after feeding and/paying their bills, that certainly does not mean they cant date

sadly, we all know that many women out there indeed see dating/marriage as a poverty alleviation tool.

Dating and marriage conditions are different. The former comes with less responsibility. While the later comes with more and full responsibility.

Fafesot:
You guys should help me...
Apart from the physical factors which are to be considered before taking partners...
How do I find the good women
Igbo women are not options ,abeg
Yoruba and Hausa only..

You are setting yourself up for failure already. One of the principle of success is flexibility. Rigidity will hurt your chances of getting a good woman.
There are good and bad women everywhere. You just have to find the right one for you.

I have two brothers. One of them marry an Igbo woman. While the other marry from our tribe. We are from the south. But trust me, the Igbo woman outshines the woman of my tribe in character and everything

Vyolet:
They were married for 39years? Sad it turned out this way after such a long time.
I can take either excuses such as abuse and disrespect but sex wouldn't be a reason for him to divorce her at their advance age when he can get it outside and everyone remains happy.

Get it outside from who?
How can everyone remain happy under such condition?
Don't support evil! So if you were the judge you would have asked the man to get it from outside while he has a wife in the house? You are also telling the wife to continue to deny her husband sex. That's bad. Very bad!! Pray it shouldn't happen to you

Jahkye:
you're 1000% right
only those that has never been through such will bash the guy
depression kills hundreds of teenagers in US yearly
a very bad situation and it takes a strong selfless mind to scale through

but one good thing about it is that if you manage to get through you'll become emotionally stronger and nothing will shake you or suprise you emotionally again

Looks like you have been there before?
I have been there before, and I know exactly how it feels. But I'm now stronger and nothing shakes me anymore

africanman85:
Can I open it without a referee ?

Two referees.
Just walk into any GTB branch and request for a Dom account form. You will get all that is required there

africanman85:
Since I don't have domiciliary account, how do I list in dollars ?

You can't list in Dollars then.
Consider opening a Dom account with GTB

Bluezy13:
Sometimes people are just plainly stupid.

Yes. In fact very stupid all in the name of love. I have been stupid like that before for one bade like that. But then I was inexperience in the game.

Let any babe try any nonsense with me now

AIT1:
Hi, I can set up a Shopify Droshipping store. But my problem is the 14 days trial and again I don't and I also need to sell to the international market.

The 14 days free trial is no longer a problem. You can now get unlimited free trial for your Shopify Store. Although the free trial will expire after you successfully make 45-50 sales.

You can now sell in Dollars using Paystack

All you need to do is to place your order and it will be done.

Blackmiserable:
I like your sarcasm. Chai!

You don't need to do shit for money. If you know and believe that you will make enough or excess money in course of your lifetime, you won't subscribe to such rubbish.
Ask Mark Zuckerberg or Dangote same question

What is money? I will not even do it for $100,000

Jodha:
Very big loss.... I'm sure he ditched her for a hoe that doesn't gives a faqk about him...


Guys always do this to the good ones

Same way girls do it to good guys?

comshots:
If you have been fvcking another woman's husband,a beautiful and hot chick will fvck your husband.And when he get home he will put his unwashed diick inside your mouth for you to svck.But if you don't fvck another woman's husband no lady will go near your husband.He will be faithful to only you.

And the circle continues.
Tomorrow the side chick in question will get married and get angry when her husband keeps side chick. Forgetting that she was a problem in someone's marriage.

Karma is real

KrazzyAndy:
Yeah bro i play online cash of instant payment so I'll be able to play my next game we can talk on Whatsapp tho i can give you many other strategies and ideas that works for me

OK. Fine then. I also play online. Bro, I need all the winning strategy in this world to succeed in this game.
I gotta win

Interestingly, you where looking for help here. I tried helping, but I couldn't due to my schedule at the moment. As a result, you are now trying to help me.

Isn't it amazing?
Overall, it is good to be good.

I beg hala me here
+2347036741556

qualityovenbake:
Fear woman.

All you guys asking people to fear women, I wonder if women are God that you are asking people fear?

Ordinary human being. A woman for that matter.

KrazzyAndy:
It's easy bro i just pick 2 teams to score a goal usually at 1.10 then i stake 20k win 2k
Do it 3x a day and I'm seeing 6k every day worked for a week straight but then i got greedy and learnt a very bitter lesson so I'm only go try that when I'm ready for it again

Wow! That's a good strategy. I suspect you play online?
When you are ready again, don't make such mistake the second time.
Always think what if the game failed?
That way, you will stake what you can afford to loose.

From my research, I have developed a method (I'm still working on it) that can detect the outcome of each match. Which now give me the ability to know if a goal will come out of a match or not.

So I will most likely use this your winning method.

KrazzyAndy:
I'll be 19 by may

Young blood! You will succeed. Just get ready to learn and be determine to succeed. Good luck brother

KrazzyAndy:
Bro football betting ain't easy if not for God helping me i almost killed my self...but i have deviced a new means but that will when I'm financially buoyant enough to lose huge amounts of money

Sure. The system ain't easy o. That's why I said I'm studying it. I want to master the system first before I start playing.

But I'm curious. Which method did you develop?

On another note, it appears you are preparing to go into betting to loose huge amount of money!
You need to change that mindset immediately.

Gwagone:
WTF
All because of LIKES and COMMENTS
Naso devil dey take enter some people life

No be lie. Maybe she foresaw her death.
I think people should be careful what they say

KrazzyAndy:
Please I'm a student i schoot at edo state and right now I'm trying to complete my school fees whuch was cut short cause of personal problems at home...i have a a laptop but i don't have any idea on how to make money over the internet tho I've made researchs but none of them are available to nigerians so please I'm begging you if you make money online and you can tutor me on how to do it..I'll be grateful to share my first income from it 50/50

Your story is very genuine.
But you need time to study and understand how online biz works, especially the model you find interesting or choose to go with.
At the moment I'm studying the business side of football ( Betting). I see a lot of money can be made genuinely from there.

As such, I'm currently not available for mentorship. Sorry

Fountainofyouth:
You should leave nairaland since you are a 90 year old innit?

Op, threaten your wife by telling her its either you leave the house for them or the friend leaves,

As for the sex thing, you are stupid for fvcking her, when you know you're getting hard on and whatnot with the friend, why didn't you move out and live with a friend or hotel till your wife gets back? You clearly have no tangible reason to have fvcked her mister, tell your wife and free yourself of the guilt.

The man is a beta and the wife knows it.
He is helpless! He has made two big mistakes already.
He can't even threaten his wife at this stage.

The best he can do is to continue from where he stops.

Omar09:
Honestly I've had my fair share of being both. I've been a beta and then an Alpha and I can say being an Alpha is the best one can ever discover in route to self discovery.

You just have to put yourself first, and yes it's called being selfish and it's OK.

I'm suspecting there is an untold category of men with the ability to combine both Alpha and Beta.

Pelon:
I don't know where people get this from but it doesn't really work like that in the real world. With teenagers? Maybe,but what I know is that if you want something you go after it,if it's yours fine,if it isn't back off nicely. People I see that get things are those who go after them and not those who live life as a game of chance. Shalom!

Relax. No one ask you to look away from what you want that by so doing you will get what you want?
No. Of course, you must go after what you want to get it.

What I explain is one of the method through which women are attracted to men. Note the keyword "ATTRACTION"
It is not the same as something that you want.

For example, a woman may be attracted to you base on how you behave and keep yourself even though you don't want her.

biGDhAp:
. I don't know about you .. but I don't see myself as lucky. I see the females as lucky to have.. from your story, i can relate.. in sec school, I have a friend that goes about shouting how he hates girls, though he was one brilliant chap .. damn it felt as if girls love hearing that someone hates them cause the guy had girls always trying to get his attention calling my boyfriend, my husband. as for my own case, I don't if it's some kind of natural attraction or it's something I possess which I don't know of abi na jazz sef , I just know girls always trying to be around me.. I can boldly say I've turned down three girls at point of time. I just wasn't digging them.. but I also play with females alot

It is a natural attraction. Not jazz.
The thing is; girls are like shadow.
The more you run after them, the more they run away. But if you run away from them, they will run after you.

The thing is that girls expect guys to come after them because that's the normal and usual thing in this part of the world.

So when a particular guy stay back in an environment or neighborhood while other guys are coming after them, they (girls) usually get curious as to why he's staying back.
The curiosity is their attraction. In the process of knowing why and how, they will do anything within their power to be with you. In other words, they will woo you!

But it is important to know that as a guy, for girls to be curious about you and to woo you, you must be alive, active, calm and intelligent.

funmisticqueen2:
uncle, tell that to Bill gates, dangote, or Donald trump.

Some laws of the universe are unwritten.
To be rich or poor, a whole lot of things are involved. Hard work is not enough.