dapo456:
there's difference between the confidence to making money and confidence to approaching ladies, or taking their shits. For the confidence money, alot of things can drive you, family, friends, mentor etc, for woman, when you don't have money you might not even remember where your cucumber is, you have to be excited and except you are naturally a happy person who doesn't care about his present situation. even davido said it, "pepe rest o, when money come man get the liver!!!" in his song assurance.

i've been cutting business deals, doing presentations for companies, having round table meeting for business discussion with managers of companies since i was 19 years old, money didn't come at that early stage and i never asked any woman out, i rely on having good looks so that women can give me good attention or green light then i can have the liver to do the rest. meanwhile, these set of women were not my type of women, But as soon as i started making real money, i would approach any ladies of my choice, big girls i mean, then i realised even the simple girls are the greatest .... you get the gist. Don't get me wrong i don't flirt.

in summary , make money, moderate income or atleast be happy with yourself first, all other women things will fall in place.

You just confirmed what I said earlier.

"Without confidence, one can't attract money or women"

Confidence is the same. There's nothing like confidence for money making and confidence for getting women.

What exist is approach.

Making money and getting women demands for different approaches but with the same confidence.

A close look at confidence should tell you that without confidence, you will most likely fail at anything you want to achieve and not just women alone

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dapo456:
You can't have all these qualities without money, without money you can't have confidence or be romantic etc

Sorry, but reverse is the case.
Without confidence, you can't have money.
Confidence comes first before money.
I understand that it is hard to be confident if one doesn't have money.

And that's why you must develop yourself to have confidence.

This confidence we are talking about is a state of mind. A belief system of in your life that help boost your morals.
When you have it in abundance, even money itself will be attracted to you.

kecee99:
Nice write up op but pls shed more light on the confidence part

I'm not the Op. But permit me to explain it more to you.

Being confident is a state of mind that you must possess if you want to succeed at anything that is important to you including women. It is the belief and trust that you have in yourself that you will succeed, and that you will not fall in life.

In summary, Op is saying that you should be confident in yourself, and women will be attracted to you. And you will not be chasing after women.

This rule is very correct. But there is more to it than than this thread can handle.

Now let me explain what confidence will do for you if you have it in full possession.

1. It takes away your fear of losing a girl.

Do you know that it is the fear of losing a girl that make men to do what they are not suppose to do and went through hell just because they don't want to loose a girl?

When you are confident in yourself, you will not be afraid of losing her because you know that you can always get another hot chick easily. So you will be yourself. The girl will also notice that confidence in you. Then she will do everything to stay with you and not you doing everything to keep her.

2. It will make you set goals for myself and make practical plans to achieving it.

Confident people are not lazy people! You can't afford to be lazy when you have confidence in yourself that you will succeed because you can't afford to fall.
Everytime you will be very busy, making plans upon plans and taken good actions that can help you succeed.
You don't even have much time to think about women. It is part of what attracts them to a man. Girls are not attracted to a man for nothing. Especially a man that is not counting in millions yet.

Like I said earlier, there is more to this rule that this thread can handle. So I will just stop here

czarr:
I understand your analogy, and I agree it's safer, but it's not enough reason to have poor bedroom performance just because you think she can't tell the difference...tokunbo isn't better, but if you don't maintain your tear rubber,....it's going to turn into something else real fast.

Virgins with good characters are GOLD!
Very rare to come by. You must be extremely lucky to find one.
The only down side is that they are somehow boring! You will have to teach them everything sex. They are however happy, ready to learn and explore.
So they give without any reservation.

They have no ex to compare you with. You become their teacher, lover and friend at the same time. And they go to their grave with you in their mind. AKA they will never forget you.

If you stick to him/her, you will be safe and free from STDs.

In fact, it is the best experience ever as far as relationship is concerned.

Witchersunited:
Maybe it's me or somtin

Do people bother to check things

The crisis affects the north more, they kill their own people more than Christians


I'm not a Muslim but Christians over do things


False alarm and panic everywhere, see south west that nothing happens to talking about regional Police, how many people died in South West? Look at the case well and u will see that the vigilante group is a tribal affair, benue that has suffered alot aren't even talking about policing, it's Lagos with only 5 deaths

So they should start Amotekun when over 10,000 people have died?
You must be a terrorist!!

Miracle7998:
Should men always beg a lady to date them

Don't try it!
You kill your personality and spoil everything the moment you beg a lady to date you. Even her interest to date you will die!

RealLordZeus:

Thanks so much!


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It is going to be hard but I will make the repetitions a mantra, with time I hope to be fine

You sound very weak! Don't say and I quote "I hope to be fine" Say: I will be fine!
Let me inform you that mere repetition of words without will power and a strong desire to do away with the thought of Lady B will be rejected by your subconscious mind. And you will be unable to stop thinking of her!

There is a reason why I said you should speak loud to yourself so your subconscious mind can hear you.

All the memories of Lady B are stored in your subconscious mind. Occasionally, your subconscious mind flash those memories in the form of thought to your conscious mind and you start thinking of her.
Your subconscious mind is not yet aware that you no longer need those thoughts.
You have to inform your subconscious mind that you no longer need those thoughts. And you can only achieve that by saying exactly what you want to yourself.

You have to give your subconscious mind some command regarding what you want to achieve.

Haven't you say to yourself that you like lady B before?

You have even told your friends that you liked lady B. All that time, you were giving your subconscious mind orders to accept lady B. Although it was unknown to you.

But now you know. And you have to consciously undo what you have done.
You also need persistence.
Don't expect to undo what you did in over 15+yrs in One week. Give it some time, believe that you can you will

RealLordZeus:

Thanks much for this! I will follow every advice to the letter

Although the below may not work, coz they are bearing the same name, the name is part of what attracted me to lady D in the first place, but I'm trying all my best to make her happy as you suggested

Now in the same manner, say to yourself that you love lady D (Mention her name). That you want to be thinking about her, and to make her happy

In that case, use Lady D pet name. I mean the romantic name you use to call her. I be you no get a romantic name for your girl?

It is important you avoid anything that will make you remember lady B until you completely eliminate her thought.
Any interference at this time will waste your efforts.

My ex coincidentally bears the same name with my current girl. And I love that my ex like crazy!
But you see, I have no biz thinking about my ex because she is now in the past. All that's on my mind now is my current girl.
I gave her a new name. A romantic name that reminds me of my love for her. That's a deliberate effort to focus on the new girl and forgetting about the former one.

Love is a very strong emotion. If you don't control or know how to control and direct it well, can turn you into something else.

I see you have some real love residing inside of you! Direct all that love to the Angel that was imported from heaven just for you!! You will be happy you did.

RealLordZeus:

Thanks for the contribution! I m settling down soon but I just want to sort this emotions once and for all. Sometimes I do compared Lady D with Lady B which is not fair on her part, like expecting her to think this way or act that way. It's messed up but I'm trying.

Stop the comparism! They are two different human beings. Your thought images is the problem you are having! You have thought about Lady B all your life and nothing! Worst still, you are still thinking about her!! Just stop it.
You can stop it. It is not a medical condition, no. It is just your thought. And because thought are things, it has power to hurt or help you. Depending on how you channel it.

What you are doing is allowing Lady B to control you from a distance! That's very bad. If you don't get rid of that thought, it will create more problems for you than you are thinking.

Do you think lady D will continue to tolerate that condition after marriage?

You must perish the thought of lady B now.
How?
Delete her contact first. Erase anything that can help you get in contact with her.

Secondly, speak to yourself so your subconscious mind can hear you.
Tell yourself that you longer have feelings for lady B. (Mention her name). And that you don't want her or want to think about her again. Say it loud so you can hear yourself.

You will have to replace the thought of Lady B with Lady D for this method to work.

Now in the same manner, say to yourself that you love lady D (Mention her name). That you want to be thinking about her, and to make her happy.

Thirdly, you have to do a conscious switching. Any time the thought of Lady B enteres your mind, make a conscious effort to forget about her by switching immediately to thinking of Lady D.

Remember that the more energy you give to a thought, the more life you give to that thought. And by thinking more about lady D and not spending a second thinking about lady B again, Lady B thought will gradually leave you. After a little while of practice, Lady B thought will first lost it intensity and will finally die a natural death.

Remember that you created this condition through thought processes, and only you you can uncreate it through the same thought processes. Medicals can even help in this case.

Let me just stop here. I be na me send you?

zionmde:
how on earth can people who are capable of buying such a property look as wretched as this. So when d chief saw them he couldn't sense that these guys don't have capacity for such a business

anyway waot do I know sef

Packaging. They definitely didn't met him in that state.

Tpave:
Hmmm!!! Still wondering why the northerners are so scared of this Amotekun.

I wonder what they will do when other regions will follow suit?
But I think the country is gradually getting set to disintegrate

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Zeal0000007:
thanks but I don't buy into that school of thought, I can't imagine her with someone else then after getting messed up, I now accept her back, she's not the only girl in the world, just that I love her so much and 5years no be play, I have really gotten used to her, but if she ever hurt me again, I will just let her go,

You are making a serious mistake brother.
Stop forcing yourself on her! That's the mistake you are making.
You're not allowing her to choose you.
What you have been doing all the while and still doing is forcing her to choose you.

All your good intentions and plans will mean nothing to her if she didn't choose to be with you. And you might be stressing yourself for nothing! I mean she might not really care!

Why are you even stressing yourself in this matter?
Did you spend the 5yrs alone? If she is not concerned or care about the fact that you've both spent 5 good yrs together, why should you?

See, you are making it look as if she's doing you a favour by staying with you. It doesn't work that way.
You must allow her to put in some effort for the relationship to work.
And that can only happen if she choosed you!

When a girl/women choose, she will do everything within her power to be with you.
You won't need to be policing her left and right. She will police herself without your intervention just to be with you!
But if otherwise, you will stress yourself for nothing and at the end, she will still leave you and will not even care.

Don't make the relationship look like a burden to her. Yes, free her! Let her do her things and have her way. But make it clear. Let her know that if she messes up, then you will have no business taking her as a serious date.

That's how I position my love life and is working!

I equally date like you do - one girl at a time. But I always made it clear to my girl that our relationship can last forever or end at anytime. It all depends on her behaviour

Gina2019:
No you didn't. He was only playing along all this while to try to get the cookie.

If you give him the cookie, he will dump your ass.

Sex or no sex, who will dump his or her lover will still do so.
I don't blame the girl though.
Is the guys fault.
Why on earth will I agree to a relationship without sex?
I don't know how to pretend o.
I gotta have that sex.
I beg park well if you no gree for sex.
No time

psychologist:
Let's for our own good collectively pray to whatever we believe in, tht whatever it is that is brewing between the US and Russia should be abated ASAP..

because those two can single handedly bring an end to this world

You can pray that there should be no war.

But Russia and USA does not own this world. Therefore, they can not end it except the time for this world to end is now. Which I doubt.

Everything about this world is timed.
If the time for this present world to end is not now, there is nothing anybody anywhere can do to end it.

If they like, let them start WW3, the world will still continue thereafter.

Marvyx:
There are prayers God won't even answer because He expects you to use your head.....

Oil dey your head!
This is what so many people fail to know.
They end up disturbing God for something in their capacity to handle.

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You're welcome

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Mtakahela:
Hello guys
How do i go with this challenge! They are saying Amazon does not support payment to my country.

Cc CosmicJames

Do as Ambitiouschap said and you will be fine

TheLaughter:
Some are saying there isn't, others say there is...

I have prayed on my own but I am not getting any revelation...

Now I am scared, I have asked myself what if spirituality is true and all they are saying is true?

I don't want to make any mistakes, but when it comes to compatibility, we are really compatible...

Don't be afraid. Don't allow anybody to destroy your life and happiness via prophecies and visions you didn't ask for?

Do the right thing and you will be fine.
The innocent girl in question have not offended you in any way.

What will be your reason for not marrying her? Oh, just because someone said she's not the one? That's a very terrible mistake!
And you will live the rest of your life in regrets, sorrow and pains.

When it comes to marriage, there is only one advice to follow -- Marry who someone that have the fear of God.

If is only when you fail to follow the above advice that you will land yourself in some big trouble.

If your girl have the fear of God, then you are in the right direction. Don't be afraid. Wife her she will do you good forever.

If she doesn't have the fear of God, don't marry her. She will hurt you later.

This is the Biblical principles for marriage.

Forget anything else.

Blabbermouth:
Cosmicjames, I uploaded two designs on my teepublic store recently. I tried using their search box to search for my design, I couldn't find it. Any solution please?

That's same way others will find it hard to see your T-shirt.
Go back to your listing/designs and edit it. Then add some KEYWORDS that are relevant to your designs.

When you're designing, don't just design what you like. Design what people want.
Try do some research on what people are looking for to have an idea of the kind of design you should come up with.

I'm currently hooked up in betting right now. And I pulsed in these areas. So you can't get much from me at the moment

All4real2:
does it work on dropshiping abroad because i created one last time after i instilling oberlo app next tin i saw was dat your bill is $58 total oberlo $29 Shopify $29

Yeah, it work for international dropshiping.
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Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue, I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future, my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the for the past 6 months... we have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust... the journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other....

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then..
The guys is into business and has quite established himself... last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him...

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes.... I confronted her about it and she started crying was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her....... asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.... she told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much.... I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.... say what ever you want to but just be brutal honest with me....

Is all your fault. What were you thinking before you permitted her to go on a date with another man? Next time use your head.

YungMillionaire:


My guy I am still confused. Is it that Nigeria is now breeding weak men or this has always been the case?

Na brother wey no get sense. Brother wey mumu.
How can you carry ur girl give another man?

Chidexter:


Intermilan odd increased from 1.30 to 1.50 yet they won. Two weeks ago, odd increase doesn't mean shit

Sure. Odds doesn't anything. What will happen will still happen!
Those odds are just numbers.
If you know what will definitely happen in a match, you will even wish that the odd for the option you want to play for that match to be increased.

For me, now that I'm beginning to understand the system, the more the in odd increase for the option I want to play, the better. Because it must play!
If Alabi like he should increase the odd to Jericho. It will still show green

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einsteine:


This is just stupid.

If I know it's my unborn generations that may suffer for my evil deeds, I would commit evil ad libitum. You really think someone suffering for the ills of some ancestor is justice?

Karma, like many spriritual concepts, were invented for comnfort of the poor and downtrodden. The world would be a much more disorderly place if people had to seek justice for themselves, so they are told to leave things for karma. There is no Karma today. Look at the country of Belgium, they endorsed and commited murder, slavery and injustice in Congo, Burundi, and Rwanda. Guess what, today, Belgium is a beacon of prosperity while the same countries they looted and oppressed are still the ones suffering.

Don't be decieved. There is no karma.

You karma was invented.
I will like to know who invented it?
There is more to life than you are seeing.
The universe you live in is a principle.
Karma is not an invention.
Karma is a principle, a law. Karma does exist.
Whether you believe it or not doesn't matter. Karma will still work for or against you depending on your actions.

You don't need to believe that there is a law of gravity before it starts working on you.
Whether you believe it or not, it will still act on you.

The same way the law of motion act on you. The universe is established on principles. You may choose to believe, or choose not believe. Whatever way you choose, they must work on you for good or for bad. How they work on you depend on you.

Don't look too far, look closely. Look at yourself

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maddman:


Abeg make we hear word. There's no such a thing as Karma. Many good people live in penury and suffer a lot before their death while many evil blood suckers enjoy wealth, good health and even longevity. You should read up about Karma, just another shit to make the masses not to contemplate the injustice in this world, think religion.

No body hold you at gun point not to contemplate whatsoever. You have a free will to go in any direction you want.
Forget about Karma. Live your life anyhow you want even if it means hurting others.
But I guarantee you that just before you arrive, you will meet half way with the unbreakable laws of the universe one of which is reaping what you sow. Which is referred to as Karma.

I think you will also argue that there is no law of gravity?
That what goes up must not come down?

DrProf:


I found the bolded so funny that I tried to upload the local man can not can meme but I decided to sarcastically illustrate how close you are to understanding the mystery of football by saying:



Keep pushing you are so close to understanding it

I like the way you sarcastically encourage me to keep pushing. That's what is important. I think you're too concerned about impossibilities that you forgot possibilities